libras really aren't all that complicated you know

this is an aries saying this.

my two cents to anyone confused by a libra
1) accept that you are confused. but don't just maintain the confusion. accept it so you can turn your antenaes on and OBSERVE. if the libra is worth the confusion...trust they will give you something to watch and observe!

one thing about these folks is they are consistently inconsistent. you can note patterns easily by watching. trust me just sit back and watch!

2) if you can't sit back and do that...spare the poor libra some mercy and bounce...be gone. spare yourself the insanity. there are 100 reasons why i say this...

i guess for a lack of better words what i'm saying is be patient enough for this poor pondering creature (aka libra) to do whatever the hell it is they do when they disappear. don't fluster yourself with "why this...why that" ...observation will answer that question really easily if you let it.

this thread is "to be continued" by others who'd like to chime in.....

poor pondering creature (aka libra) WHAT DA F U C K !!!!!

this is is an example of a bad aries...The reason y were inconsistent is that we have many different ideas colliding in our heads that you won't understand and we try to organize it for the best results.. We always turn out good somehow 🙂

We are opposites on the chart. This is why we have such trouble understanding each other. But, in certain pairings I think we can really complement each other. I strive for my Libra's best and she in turn strives for my best.

The pros:

You complete me: One of the biggest reasons for the almost instant attraction these two feel is that they each hold what the other lacks. Aries enjoys Libra??s charming explanations of why we should consider other people's feelings, and Libra learns the importance of independence.
The Archetypes: You can call it cosmic or mythic, but when certain archetypes meet, something magical happens. Here it's the god of war and the goddess of beauty. These two, mostly because they are so true to their archetypes, quickly become enamored and consumed by one another.
Fun: Another reason why Aries and Libra are compatible is due to the sheer fun these two have together! Aries is daring and bold; always ready for excitement. Libra is the perfect compliment, and audience, to Aries antics.

The cons:

Too many differences: Libra hates it when people are brash and blunt, and unfortunately, Aries is both! While Libra prefers things to be said delicately (to spare the other??s feelings of course), Aries cuts to the chase and says it directly. Libra may find it charming at first, but after being wounded one too many times, he or she might decide it's better to walk away.
What about me? : Aries wants all of the focus to be on, well, Aries. Libra wants to focus on —us??. This can cause a major problem because to Aries, —us?? really means —me??.
Flirting: It's no secret that both of these signs like attention from the opposite sex, and while they each believe they —deserve?? that attention, they simply can't stand to see their partner receiving it. Libras also love to make their partners jealous, and Aries, with that fiery temper, might find him or herself in fisticuffs, at least from time to time, because of it!

"libras really aren't all that complicated you know"


who says they are. lol : p

1. you have realized life is full of dilemmas and tough choices: ice tea peach or ice tea lemon ? do this now and that later or vice versa ?

Okay - this is just silly. I know what kind of iced tea I like! Libras are really not as fickle as not knowing what they like and dislike. Somedays dilemmas are rampant...more on the level of what to wear to work. But doesn't everybody have that issue at one time or another? True libran indecision is not on such a shallow level, we decipher bigger issues...

2. you have f'd up and you know it's time to turn on the charm

YES.

(3. you are the first to laugh when ur friends are making fun of you)

YES

4. he/she was so desirable when he/she was unattainable

No. No. Not always.
5. the mirror is one of ur best friends .. who could resist that charming creature in front of you ?

Not really, but I do learn a lot from her 😉

6. the best way to make a decision is not to make one.

Not even close to true. Librans actually like making a decision, once we have, we don't usually change our mind, confident we've weighed all possible sides of the issue. Just takes a long time, sometimes, in the meantime, the decision is made for us.

I agree with Muse...you are right about the indecisiveness being larger more important issues. But, I've ran into Libras who have the hardest time picking place to eat, where to go out and even with picking out their own wedding ring!
I think that's where a good assertive Aries comes in.

Well for me it takes me a while to decide on large things. BUT ICE T - ICE T !!!! ...... wait let me think about that....... LMAO

poor.. but sexy creatures ;P

here are a few things that lead me to start this thread...topics like the following:

- Libra disappeared. HELP!!
- Does he like me—
- What is he thinking!


bla bla. i know i am 100% guilty! just had to learn a few things. i wish i could help the world see that it doesn't have to be so complex. hell...it really isn't when you DON'T think about it.

i don't mind the indecisiveness of libras. it stimulates my thinking cells. i've become an intelligent woman through my libra friends :-)

Basically... Just don't worry about us having a bad side and just have fun 😉. You know let the good times roll. And everything will be alright.

ok, i was with a libra for 7 years and there was nothing delicate about this guy. this is a guy with libra in sun, moon, venus, mars, and mercury too. he was very blunt. he was not complicated to figure out. he was kind of a brick wall in the beginning (meaning he didn't open up that easily) but if u had something intelligent to contribute his walls came down fast. he also pursued the hell outta me. he was always calling me and we hung out constantly. he was very consistent. the only thing i agree with is the indecisiveness about other things. he used to drive me nuts with it. he would often agree to do something with me (i.e. go to a concert), then the moment would arrive to buy the tix and he'd change his mind.

u have to factor in other things than just going by the sign... or even the entire natal chart. take their upbringing for example. he was raised on the east coast of the U.S. think new york. ppl there are very blunt and straight forward. they don't sugar coat and spare ppl's feelings usually. i think this shaped him more than his sign. his sign only has some influence.