Love is dangerous

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Pride of 0ctober on Saturday, January 22, 2011 and has 12 replies.
for me. I lose all sense of reality. I always fall so hard for girls and i accepted that i will never half step with my heart, ever. its so black and whiteim either hot or cold
but that can be dangerous, to plunge so deeply into a womens soul that you see what she cant, and she can see what you cant.

Its scary to look in someone's eyes and feel this world crumble as if reality was the illusion and love was the real truth. The nall of a sudden things go foward so fast, neither one of us can stop it nor do we try and things just keep spiralign to a worl we botha aint ready for-mergence

And that reality that once grounded you before you met her is now fire and something that can destroy you if you step away so you cling tighter as if its a form of survival, you let these intense reactions speak for you now all you know is love. But its YOUR love, you cling b/c YOU love her and its so intense b/c you focus so hard and the obsession seems so hard. The farther you step away the more you feel burned.

now anyting wrong thing she says can hurt you and make you hold so much tighter. And thats when things take a turn for the worse. That fire just blazes brighter and the more you grip her the more she fights and squirms to get loose and keeps fighting and you keep hurting yourself b/c you lost reality when you dove deep into this relationship.

And then it happens, the pain, the sudden shift of reality and you get a hard check, and you have to loosen the grip or hold on till its nothing left to grip, you force yourself to return back to that fire that was once reality and deal with the pain of not havingher and the fear that she instilled in you when she turned that passion off and distance on, you ground yourself so hard that no one can shift your feelings toward the relationship

then, its over. It felt like a dream and yu know its the past and what was will never b again, so, you make the chane, and walk away to birhgter days. thats my love life lol sorry if its over dramatic
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Love isn't dangerous; rather, an impure love is dangerous, even somewhat like an IED or RPG detonating/exploding immediately on contact....
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Posted by Pride of 0ctober
for me. I lose all sense of reality. I always fall so hard for girls and i accepted that i will never half step with my heart, ever. its so black and whiteim either hot or cold
but that can be dangerous, to plunge so deeply into a womens soul that you see what she cant, and she can see what you cant.

Its scary to look in someone's eyes and feel this world crumble as if reality was the illusion and love was the real truth. The nall of a sudden things go foward so fast, neither one of us can stop it nor do we try and things just keep spiralign to a worl we botha aint ready for-mergence

And that reality that once grounded you before you met her is now fire and something that can destroy you if you step away so you cling tighter as if its a form of survival, you let these intense reactions speak for you now all you know is love. But its YOUR love, you cling b/c YOU love her and its so intense b/c you focus so hard and the obsession seems so hard. The farther you step away the more you feel burned.

now anyting wrong thing she says can hurt you and make you hold so much tighter. And thats when things take a turn for the worse. That fire just blazes brighter and the more you grip her the more she fights and squirms to get loose and keeps fighting and you keep hurting yourself b/c you lost reality when you dove deep into this relationship.

And then it happens, the pain, the sudden shift of reality and you get a hard check, and you have to loosen the grip or hold on till its nothing left to grip, you force yourself to return back to that fire that was once reality and deal with the pain of not havingher and the fear that she instilled in you when she turned that passion off and distance on, you ground yourself so hard that no one can shift your feelings toward the relationship

then, its over. It felt like a dream and yu know its the past and what was will never b again, so, you make the chane, and walk away to birhgter days. thats my love life lol sorry if its over dramatic



I feel ya
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im just fuccin stressed, ive never felt so stressed and i want to open up badly. Relationships are issues for me and i want to work on this b/c i want a REAL relationship, my mind is poisned
i went thru so muchi 2010 ALL of it slf inflicting, almot like suicide. I havenever been more frightened bymy own image but i see myself so clearly

I allwed so much in my relationship and it caused me to hate and hold on b/c i want to correct the problem, truth is you cant correct the past. I lost alot behind this relationship an i have to rebuild my courage, i was tryna find a way to open up subtley but its time to be real

Thank god for my saggitarrius sister who helps me realzie to live life and understand the meaning of the "moment"

my virgo mother who kept me grounded as hell and my capricorn aunt who kept drillign me with the lesson of time

im sorry but i love astrlogy lol

im just so stressed out and i have made a tough decision to end a unhealthy relationshp and fea that at 22 i will never be loved again, i fear that it will be a while before i rise from these ashes, but i must push i must fight to be something in life. I felt insecure inthe whole relatioship b/c she hid things from me and tld other men she loved them and gave a number out and nver ntroduced me as her boyfriend. It hurts and i cant figure out why i love her but i reality when i remove the rose colored glasses, she isnt for me. I havent taken the lead and my only home is 4 hours away. I came to tyler with a goal, lost focus and cant return to that school so i feel lost but i know what i must do

i come to this website cuz i like it, i liek light hearted astrology where its blended with astrology and reality, i feel so stressed my blood pressue went up, i went broke and was used up by her family and today i made my decision b/c shit hit the fn, i had to and im steady going down
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i feel so bad for her, b/c i know in my heart she will go back to doin what she did before she met me, ad i dont want her to but in relaity i cant save her
Iam from a family of fighters, survivors, warriors. We never quit no matter what. HEr parents quit their jobs, had a drug habit and constanly used me for money and i neve put my foot down. se always talked to other boys and hid thigs for me and kept in contact with men i told her not too, b/c of what she said to them. I freed myself today and i feel so much pain for her b/c her parents quit their jobs, lost jobs b/c of dirty piss and use their family for money. There is no food here and one car which i rarely can use. my girlfriend quit her job b/c she didnt like it while i worked 2 and went school. Im so shocked by how things went and ended and its so sad to wrap up this college experience like this. I moved uner their roof and they quit working and kept asking me for money

enough is enough, im done and i pray to GOd that she turns her life around b/c her family supports quitting and everyone is cutting ties with them, and her own family said i should go home ad regroup where help is

i hate it so much for her, i hate falling for troubled women. The leo moon in me makes me very passionate and i am very good to my girlfriends but i have rights too, i allowed so muc out of love i cant believe im walking away but i cat take anymore i love her dealy but cantlet pity control me. I hope i find love again i do want a strog woman who is feircly faithful who i can build with and have afamily with. I thought it was her, hope she pulls together the immaturity in me has sufaced and now i am destined to change and use the force of my soul to make he most of my life
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Jebus shit you are one whiny guy. At 26 I should be freaking at that I don't have a stable relationship or a family, but am I? Negative, K. I don't give a fuck anymore. Reason with me here - its all very zen. "Sooner or later in life the things you love you lose." So you would just be setting yourself up for a disappointment if you try to look for love or a woman to cuddle with or whatever floats your boat.
By spending a lot of my time alone I've come to like myself a great deal. I'd say no woman may take that away from me, and you should get to know yourself as well. I'd recommend a good lotion but that's an extra.
Also, you don't live forever. What do you want to go on and waste that time chasing some tail? Does sex really bring you that much pleasure that you just must have it? Think of the better things in life - you can find a great career, study things that ignite your imagination and fill the empty void in your life, you can make money and spend it on buying a sailboat or save enough to just quit your work for a year and study to become a pilot. You can literally accomplish so much if you don't waste your time chasing young 20-something year old sluts.



you pissed me off wit htha post but imma tak reponsibility for opening up on the internet i just enting if you dot like that fine
imma also see the pointin your post im moving on i just feel bad for the lfie he making for herself bc she is setting herself up for failure i just hope she change it b/c se following her moma and daddys footsteps and its fuccing her off badly

i dont need a relationship i spent plenty of time by myself and do just fine BY MYSELF dont tak the context ofthis post wrong and percieve m as weak, i had a weak moment and thats that so i complained big deal im gonna vent bu dont take me for someone who is wek i am veryindependent and i WILL pull myself up from this shit yea i fucced off some time but im delaing with it how i want to we lived our lives different so your direct path is not gonna be mine

but i see your point i know what u sayin u was just hella harsh with it i just did this shit today, so its gonn take a healing process i start school in feb. a 12 week course so i dont HAVE the time to stress about it

you said some good shit tho i lik it but damn u came off strong as fucc
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but anyway i jus hope she wakes up and see that she has o push and be diferent from her folks and see that she is going towards self destructio. Im done with her and have moved 4 hours back home and will never retreat back to her but i jus thope she learns to be more porductive

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Talking is a good way to clear your mind. I had a shitty 2010 as well with relationship drama. When it happened I questioned everything and still am in a lot of ways. Don't apologize for being stressed and don't let people get to you. Try not to worry about what's coming too far down the road. Take care of yourself. It may be a while before "you rise from the ashes" but you'll be better off for doing it.
Don't let this make you bitter and jaded either. Focus on you. You have to be careful how much you want her to wake up, it can lead you into heartache. When you let go, let go. She's not your problem anymore. People come and go. Worry about growing yourself.
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Hate me, don't hate yourself. You didn't make a mistake, you've only played the cards you were dealt by the quantum dynamical chaos we call life. I'll give you the benefit of being 22 for your frustrations, but really we all go through this shit in our lives, be you 20, 26, or 36. Drama is all around us, its by getting deeper and deeper cuts that we can heal and grow tougher skin for the next time around.



no i like what u said usaid some good things in your post its a reality check
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Posted by LibraSid
Talking is a good way to clear your mind. I had a shitty 2010 as well with relationship drama. When it happened I questioned everything and still am in a lot of ways. Don't apologize for being stressed and don't let people get to you. Try not to worry about what's coming too far down the road. Take care of yourself. It may be a while before "you rise from the ashes" but you'll be better off for doing it.
Don't let this make you bitter and jaded either. Focus on you. You have to be careful how much you want her to wake up, it can lead you into heartache. When you let go, let go. She's not your problem anymore. People come and go. Worry about growing yourself.


i hear ya librasid and i appreciate the wise words i think i am looking too fa down the rod and not being practical gotta take it one day at a time
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Ah, dang it. You're young. 22. Feel like shit if you will, take as long as you like to be in this state. But don't do it forever. One day, you'll ask yourself 'why the fuck was I in that state??!'
The thing is most Libra are givers, goddamit. Always trying to please, to help, to make things better.
Time to think about your life. You will love again, believe me. But you're going to be careful next time. You'll know how to see the red flags before it gets serious.
You've also got to work on your insecurities. Might take a while but eh, once you reach that mature stage that most Libra get too, once you know how to know yourself, you will never and ever let someone hurts you. I just fear that a girl might truly love you and you may never trust her...
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You've also got to work on your insecurities. Might take a while but eh, once you reach that mature stage that most Libra get too, once you know how to know yourself, you will never and ever let someone hurts you. I just fear that a girl might truly love you and you may never trust her...

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Posted by Rayzed
Ah, dang it. You're young. 22. Feel like shit if you will, take as long as you like to be in this state. But don't do it forever. One day, you'll ask yourself 'why the fuck was I in that state??!'
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even more important.

Take your time, learn from it. I laugh at how I felt just a few months ago.
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