Luring in a Libra...how do I do it?

I'm a Scorpio, and I'm very interested in a Libra man. I can tell he's just as interested in me, but like most Libras, he is sooo indecisive. The problem is that I it). How do I push the matter without being TOO domineering? I'm used to getting any man I want, so this is really frustrating to me. I just want to know what I should do. Any suggestions?

dear myonlyappeal,

its easy, just take the initiative, if hes your age he ll be grateful to you to take off him the burden of the necessity to decide, and everything will be as you wish. Not mentioning that hes probably unsure about what exactly you feel towards him, so your initiative will be a nice prove. If you don't he might be walking around you for so long, giving compliments etc. Remember when seducing a girl we do it in way that "doors open before we actually knock on them." And you Scorpio are so "action" sign (no prelude etc:-) so its probably nothing for you. Last advice, remember there is nothing so easy as to seduce Libra man, just keep complimenting, nice dinner, atmosphere etc....:-)

Thanks! I guess I'll try giving him a call and suggesting we hang out. I guess I was just worried about coming on too strong...I'll try taking the initiative, hopefully it works out. :]

Myonlappeal, if you do call and he can't or declines, don't push it and don't take it personal. Sometimes it takes awhile for them to come around, a long while I hear when they aren't 100% sure. However in my experience (yes I have quite a bit of experience with the Libra male) when they are sure they want you they come right at you. It is only when they aren't sure they drag their feet in contemplation.

Never push issues, we scorps are intense. However, nothing attract a Libra more than aloofness and them knowing a person has a life outide of them. Once he is aware you are interested, let him persue you for awhile first. Don't initially straight out tell him how you fee, just drop subtle hints. When you have them completely there is nothing better.

BTW, Scorp women can get to a Libras emotional sign like no other sign can. Lay off of the intensity though. I know that is hard for us to do.

Flirt with him, be suggestive but only that. Be playful, don't ask him out on a date, trick him into bringing up a date, or if he is interrested he will do the same to you. We really enjoy the subtle and the double meaning. I know that is hard for you guys becuase you like direct and to the point but if you have trouble being a tap dancer with words, just use that eye contact and the come hither face you guys have down so well.

If you have picked up that he is attracted to you then he is really attracted to you. Were the sign of balance, and we like the girls to initiate things, but once you do, we turn the ropes and take over. Especially sexually, which Scorp women really seem to like. If your used to being dominant in the bedroom, your about to get a nice and surprising change.

I called once, but it went straight to voicemail, so I decided to lay off of the calls and contact for awhile, taking all of your advice. He came right to me, and even called...which is something he hates to do! I was shocked. He even suggested a date for today.

In fact, me saying I probably couldn't make it just spurred him on. It is very difficult for me to lay off the intensity, but I've been trying it as much as I can, and it seems like it's working...He said he'd call me again later!

He's always calling me a gypsy lately because of my dark eyes. I'm guessing that may be a good sign too? ...And if it's true about the bedroom, I am really looking forward to that. :]

Thank you guys so much! This advice is much more helpful than the ones my friends gave. I hate how people don't really take astrology as seriously. It really does have truth in it.

thinktank, what is your sign again?

I made charts:

I handmade his chart the other day, and I found he has:

Sun Sign: Libra
Rising Sign: Sagittarius
Moon: Aries
Mercury: Virgo
Venus: Leo
Mars: Leo
Jupiter: Sagittarius
Saturn: Scorpio


My chart is:

Sun Sign: Scorpio
Rising Sign: Libra
Moon: Scorpio
Mercury: Scorpio
Venus: Libra
Mars: Aries
Jupiter: Gemini
Saturn: Sagittarius


He's very fickle, I feel. And indecisive. I'm not so sure our charts get along.

yeah, that seems to be true. it's so weird. but i guess that "hard to get" was invented to catch libras, haha.

Warning: once you got 'em you got 'em. Are you SURE that's what you want—

It can be a mentally exhausting chase trying to figure out how to get these libra men.

Don't chase, that is how you get them.

Now that I think of it. This might be a couple of things that keep Libra men into me. I have a history of being a Libran magenant. Not by choice per se, mostly by chance...

Definitely being myself, not sweating the little stuff, having a life outside of them, playful, very spontaneous, very straight forward and upfront, connecting on an emotional and sometimes spiritual level, trying to keep things easy going and light, not emotional bound all the time. Taking my space and giving them theirs.Last, but not at all least, being an adventurous, intense and mind blowing sexual mate... LOL!!! 😉

Sorry, These might be a couple of things that keep Libra men into me....

luring ? funny word...Not sure he can handle you and neither can you. You both lure each other with your charm and then the rest is history 😛

I'm used to getting any man I want, so this is really frustrating to me. I just want to know what I should do. Any suggestions?

Lol tell me about it! I'm a libra and i managed to snag a virgo.....but can't get the libra man lol

Definitely being myself, not sweating the little stuff, having a life outside of them, playful, very spontaneous, very straight forward and upfront, connecting on an emotional and sometimes spiritual level, trying to keep things easy going and light, not emotional bound all the time. Taking my space and giving them theirs.Last, but not at all least, being an adventurous, intense and mind blowing sexual mate... LOL!!!

Yup I understand totally! I am not sure how that will go because it can go both ways. I am pretty social and go out a lot....so does he lol so that doesn't work. Im in school and so is he....he always tells me he's impressed with me and the education program im in...it's a doctorate program and hes big on school. But he never lets on that me being a social butterfly bothers him...so lol the individuality can go both ways!