Lusting for a Libra man
This topic was created in the Libra forum by PeachyPops on Tuesday, September 18, 2012 and has 9 replies.
I met this Libra man in May of this year at a club. I am a Scorpio girl btw and during that time I was dumped by my ex bf. So anyways, this Libra man walks up to me and boy was he handsome! We danced a little and he held my hand almost the whole night...it was weird but I liked the attention and missed all that coming from a 4 year relationship. He got out of a 7 year relationship at that time too. He got really drunk as the night ended he didn't want me to leave but I had to so we exchanged numbers.
A week later I ended up texting him. It ended up being someone else's number. I figured he was drunk that night and accidently gave me the wrong number so I Facebook msged him saying "Hey it was fun dancing with you" and added him but he never replied and never added me. I was a bit bummed but I just let it go.
Then just recently last Friday I ran into him! I saw him from across the bar but I didn't say anything, walked by him but he was busy on his phone and I didn't say anything either. i figured he wouldnt remember me until he was sitting with his buddies and saw me and he kept looking at me. Then he must have told his friends something because they all looked at me turning their heads not once but twice/three times. I acted like I didn't notice all that and went on talking to my friends. Then I decided to sneak another glance at him and he was starring at me smiling! My heart was racing. The way he looked at me and smiled got me hypnotized lol but I smiled back and then went off with my friends.
The next night I Msged him on Facebook. He msged back asking why I didn't say hi to him and I said "I didn't think you would remember me..." Then he said "I would have..." we ended up chatting for a few hours and that was it. It was mostly friendly nothing flirty. He then added me on facebook then like 20 min after unfriended me...i didnt msg him about it. i dont know why he did that but I really want to get to know him more. I know its not much to tell if he likes me because we barely know eachother, I know the attraction is there but hes not making any moves. Hmm any suggestions as to how I can get a Libra man interested?
A week later I ended up texting him. It ended up being someone else's number. I figured he was drunk that night and accidently gave me the wrong number so I Facebook msged him saying "Hey it was fun dancing with you" and added him but he never replied and never added me. I was a bit bummed but I just let it go.
Then just recently last Friday I ran into him! I saw him from across the bar but I didn't say anything, walked by him but he was busy on his phone and I didn't say anything either. i figured he wouldnt remember me until he was sitting with his buddies and saw me and he kept looking at me. Then he must have told his friends something because they all looked at me turning their heads not once but twice/three times. I acted like I didn't notice all that and went on talking to my friends. Then I decided to sneak another glance at him and he was starring at me smiling! My heart was racing. The way he looked at me and smiled got me hypnotized lol but I smiled back and then went off with my friends.
The next night I Msged him on Facebook. He msged back asking why I didn't say hi to him and I said "I didn't think you would remember me..." Then he said "I would have..." we ended up chatting for a few hours and that was it. It was mostly friendly nothing flirty. He then added me on facebook then like 20 min after unfriended me...i didnt msg him about it. i dont know why he did that but I really want to get to know him more. I know its not much to tell if he likes me because we barely know eachother, I know the attraction is there but hes not making any moves. Hmm any suggestions as to how I can get a Libra man interested?
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He ain't interested.
Posted by Theultra79
Don't. Just leave him alone. For real.
Ditto. Libra or not, any man who does that is not serious and is just playing games.
I,m libra If he was Interested there wouln't be any games. I,d run away from that situation real guys won't do games
Don't add him if he sends you a request again leave him and don't speak to him
What a head-spinning borderline fairytale night.. it often feels like that when you meet a charming Libra guy.
Last May, he gave you the wrong number (don't make excuses for him, like saying he was drunk and it was a mistake - it was intentional) and he wouldn't add you on that stupid FB, or even answer your message. That would be plenty to tell me that a guy isn't interested.
He ran into you again, now months later.. I'm sure you're very pretty.. Libras sure are suckers for a pretty girl.. and there was a lot of eye contact, a smile. Ohhh, once again, how magical, mesmerizing (esp that Libra smile! omg!)... but alas, I assure you.. if a Libra wants a girl, he will make a beeline for her, not ignore her all night except for a few stolen glances. He's not interested.
The next night, you got him on FB.. caught him at a good time, obviously.. chatted for a few hours, but friendly not flirty. He's not interested.
He added you to check out your profile and pics... and unfriended you before the girl he's with (or wants to be with) finds out. He's not interested... in you. In flirting, stealing glances, maybe chatting when bored? Sure. But not interested in developing anything with you.
How'd you manage to get so hooked on so little from this guy? Don't fall for this guy.. you'll end up chasing and lavishing him with attention (which he'll eat up).. but until he comes after you, he doesn't want you... and sometimes not even then.
Let this one go.. you can do better.
Last May, he gave you the wrong number (don't make excuses for him, like saying he was drunk and it was a mistake - it was intentional) and he wouldn't add you on that stupid FB, or even answer your message. That would be plenty to tell me that a guy isn't interested.
He ran into you again, now months later.. I'm sure you're very pretty.. Libras sure are suckers for a pretty girl.. and there was a lot of eye contact, a smile. Ohhh, once again, how magical, mesmerizing (esp that Libra smile! omg!)... but alas, I assure you.. if a Libra wants a girl, he will make a beeline for her, not ignore her all night except for a few stolen glances. He's not interested.
The next night, you got him on FB.. caught him at a good time, obviously.. chatted for a few hours, but friendly not flirty. He's not interested.
He added you to check out your profile and pics... and unfriended you before the girl he's with (or wants to be with) finds out. He's not interested... in you. In flirting, stealing glances, maybe chatting when bored? Sure. But not interested in developing anything with you.
How'd you manage to get so hooked on so little from this guy? Don't fall for this guy.. you'll end up chasing and lavishing him with attention (which he'll eat up).. but until he comes after you, he doesn't want you... and sometimes not even then.
Let this one go.. you can do better.
You should have spoken to him the second time you saw him but he seemed like something like a slop but you missed your chance but you tried hard poor baby aw.
best way to get a libra interested is to be disinterested.
drives us crazy. not saying we will eventually like you,
but we will be interested..
drives us crazy. not saying we will eventually like you,
but we will be interested..
This behavior seems to be SO common in Libra men..so hot and cold, distant and close? Im one whos yet to work it out.
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