Married Libras
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Maygirl on Wednesday, December 20, 2006 and has 31 replies.
Okay everyone,
I have a girlfriend that I see occasionally (not as much as we would both like to, but we are both busy). We were talking the other night and she said she met this guy that she really likes. He's married but doesn't seem to have a strong bond with his wife (no emotional connection anymore). I told her it wasn't a good idea to get involved with a married man, no matter what they tell you, but she insists that this guy is wonderful and very sweet. Then she tells me he's a Libra and immediately my guard was up. After chatting with all of you lately, I know she might be hearing one thing from this guy when he is thinking something else, and I'm afraid she's in for a heartache.
So my question to you, are married Libras likely to cheat, and if they do, are they really looking for somone else to share a life with (if their relationship isn't working) or are they just in it for the benefits? And would their guilt keep them going back and forth between wanting to be good to the wife and wanting something more?
I really want to steer my friend in the right direction, or at least let her know what to expect.
I have a girlfriend that I see occasionally (not as much as we would both like to, but we are both busy). We were talking the other night and she said she met this guy that she really likes. He's married but doesn't seem to have a strong bond with his wife (no emotional connection anymore). I told her it wasn't a good idea to get involved with a married man, no matter what they tell you, but she insists that this guy is wonderful and very sweet. Then she tells me he's a Libra and immediately my guard was up. After chatting with all of you lately, I know she might be hearing one thing from this guy when he is thinking something else, and I'm afraid she's in for a heartache.
So my question to you, are married Libras likely to cheat, and if they do, are they really looking for somone else to share a life with (if their relationship isn't working) or are they just in it for the benefits? And would their guilt keep them going back and forth between wanting to be good to the wife and wanting something more?
I really want to steer my friend in the right direction, or at least let her know what to expect.
she'd be in for a lot of heartache I think.....tell her to run, run as fast as she can :s
That's what I think so too. It's hard enough being with a single Libra. I can't imagine on that's married. And, if, as a Libra, he really is afraid of hurting people and can't make decisions, then I think he is always going to go back and forth between my friend and his wife, which is going to rip her apart.
exactly. I am involved (well kinda lol) with a single libran who broke up from a long term r/ship 18 months ago, however, they share a daughter and he is always talking about his ex (not always nicely I might add) and spends time with her and her other children, i.e. special birthdays and on Xmas morning they will be opening presents together.....I guess there is a bond there but for a new partner that is difficult to take as I only get to see him after all the family events of the day which really sucks....he goes to his exes first thing, then to his own family for lunch and dinner and I get to see him when he's all partied out - great!!! But at least I get to see him which is great and I've decided not to make myself available to him until Xmas night - he is way too comfortable knowing that Im there for him whenever he wants.
Maygirl....I think it would be very wise to try to steer your friend out of that scenario.....maybe take her out on a girls night and mingle with other guys
LIke you said, we have trouble with the single ones....imagine the pain, the waiting game, the thinking phase, the I dont want to hurt her phases, blah, blah, blah....disaster!!!
Maygirl....I think it would be very wise to try to steer your friend out of that scenario.....maybe take her out on a girls night and mingle with other guys
LIke you said, we have trouble with the single ones....imagine the pain, the waiting game, the thinking phase, the I dont want to hurt her phases, blah, blah, blah....disaster!!!Okay! Girl's Night on the horizon!
By the way, she's a Leo. She's very fun and outgoing, but has never really had a long-term relationship. What signs would be good for her?
By the way, she's a Leo. She's very fun and outgoing, but has never really had a long-term relationship. What signs would be good for her?
Maygirl... uuhh. Not sure if anyone realizes this but from my experience Libra's don't too much cheat. They can deal with the drama of being caught. They may do everything leading up to a cheat.. but actually doing it is another thing (usually). YES, they will flirt, YES they will spend time, YES they may even spend the night, but usually it will be with clothes on....
They can get caught up in the moment, if the chic is very forward, but that is not suggested, bc after he does, usually he will feel guilty, and he will NOT leave his wife.
If he really is in a bad marriage, which most marriages are for many years.. until they get good.. he may be planning to leave. She must wait until he does. When he is out of the house, she can take time being his friend, but still ... you're back at.. trying to get him to make a committment. Look how hard it is for single women to get a single libra.. How much harder would it be if he had a wife at home to contend with?? I know I would not be up for such a challenge.. and I always put myself in the other persons shoes.. Libra's are good at doing that too. If he does cheat he will feel guilty and won't leave his wife. If he really wants to pursue another relationship, he may leave, but I would not count on it. He probably is just needing attention, and your friend is paying him the attention he is not getting at home. So then he is not missing anything and has no reason to leave. Believe me (not with a married libra) but I did this for many years.. Don't let her be his crutch.. it is not fair to her.
They can get caught up in the moment, if the chic is very forward, but that is not suggested, bc after he does, usually he will feel guilty, and he will NOT leave his wife.
If he really is in a bad marriage, which most marriages are for many years.. until they get good.. he may be planning to leave. She must wait until he does. When he is out of the house, she can take time being his friend, but still ... you're back at.. trying to get him to make a committment. Look how hard it is for single women to get a single libra.. How much harder would it be if he had a wife at home to contend with?? I know I would not be up for such a challenge.. and I always put myself in the other persons shoes.. Libra's are good at doing that too. If he does cheat he will feel guilty and won't leave his wife. If he really wants to pursue another relationship, he may leave, but I would not count on it. He probably is just needing attention, and your friend is paying him the attention he is not getting at home. So then he is not missing anything and has no reason to leave. Believe me (not with a married libra) but I did this for many years.. Don't let her be his crutch.. it is not fair to her.
OOPPSS! They CAN'T deal with the drama of getting caught and being confronted.
apparently Gemini and Librans (but this one she should RUN from)....I am a Leo and get along with most signs....I wouldn't though, base all relationships on astrology as there are so many other factors.
Tell her to have a wonderful time no matter who!!!
Tell her to have a wonderful time no matter who!!!
A married Libra that strays is a deeply unhappy Libra.
We don't act on whims - you all should know by now!!!!!
We don't act on whims - you all should know by now!!!!!
deeply unhappily married Libra*
She should definitely run. Libra men are always sweet and flirtatious with the opposite sex if you spark their interest. I have known only one out of my friends who cheated on a girl friend. However, two who did everything but the act because of guilt and he won't leave his wife. Trust, guilt kills them. She would have to leave him unless it is sooo terrible.
Libra men and family (children), my ex and I open gifts together with my daughter so I could see another person thinking that might be unnerving, however Libras and Scorpios are very sensitive to their children and making things comfortable for them. It isn't about us it is about my daughter.
It still breaks my heart that my 3-year-old baby asks constantly "Mommy you remember when you and my daddy got married" (not that she remembers, we were married 3 years before she came along - she saw pictures - my ex still has our wedding pictures around the house, weirdo...)I respond, "yes, however we aren't anymore, but we are friends and your parents and we love you"...
So we do things with her together from time to time. Not all the time, but sometime.
Libra men and family (children), my ex and I open gifts together with my daughter so I could see another person thinking that might be unnerving, however Libras and Scorpios are very sensitive to their children and making things comfortable for them. It isn't about us it is about my daughter.
It still breaks my heart that my 3-year-old baby asks constantly "Mommy you remember when you and my daddy got married" (not that she remembers, we were married 3 years before she came along - she saw pictures - my ex still has our wedding pictures around the house, weirdo...)I respond, "yes, however we aren't anymore, but we are friends and your parents and we love you"...
So we do things with her together from time to time. Not all the time, but sometime.
We hv troubles to cheat bcoz of the issues we gotta go through after that. Confronting, guilt, added insecurity ect ect. So we figure out its best to stay clean with clothes on. But there are times when we swing a lot. But still our brain and logic dominates our zipper. 
Your,
Leo friend should stay away from the married Libra guy. Nothing but head aches are in the future...... Libras that are unhappy are a road to ruin.... run away fast.... Do not look back at the Libra charm... it is too hypnotizing.
Leo girl + Aries guy is a good combo... She is most likely warm with lots of passion. Aries guy is passionate and can very faithful to passionate Leo girl.
This is a wipped cream and strawberries in the bed combo.
gallagher out!
Leo friend should stay away from the married Libra guy. Nothing but head aches are in the future...... Libras that are unhappy are a road to ruin.... run away fast.... Do not look back at the Libra charm... it is too hypnotizing.
Leo girl + Aries guy is a good combo... She is most likely warm with lots of passion. Aries guy is passionate and can very faithful to passionate Leo girl.
This is a wipped cream and strawberries in the bed combo.
gallagher out!
Oooh whipped cream and strawberries in bed!
What sign do I look for for that combo for me?!
What sign do I look for for that combo for me?!
Maygirl.."Oooh whipped cream and strawberries in bed! What sign do I look for for that combo for me?! "
You are too funny, crazy girl!! LOL!! hehehe!
"You are too funny, crazy girl!! LOL!! hehehe!
I would say probably another Gemini - all you'd have to do is mention the idea of whipped cream and strawberries, and you know us... another Gemini would be all for it!!
I have never dated (or even done the FWB thing) with another Gemini. I wonder how that would go over. Most of my guys have been Libras (three at last count), one Leo, one Aquarius, one Aries and several others I don't know what they were, but I do know that the overall attraction was always a sense of humor, a flirty attitude and a strong sense of self. Dang! Just what my current Libra has. I sure hope we connect again. If not, then I guess I'm off with strawberries and whipped cream in hand in search of a Gemini lad!
Maygirl... "or even done the FWB thing"
What is FWB thing?? I am not well versed in this elanguage..
What is FWB thing?? I am not well versed in this elanguage..
Friends with Benefits
strawberries and whipped cream I've got some ideas.
you're all hooked on those strawberries and cream!!!
in the midst of strawberries and cream, chocolate coated apples comes to a gems mind and they just go and forget their having strawberries and cream...
mmmmmmmmmmm
Heck! Let's just throw in the whole fruitbowl and see what happens!
I have dibs on the bananas! 
I could go for chocolate-coated anything!
WOW!!.. how far this topic has come...
Interesting though...
And HP74 you're wrong for that...
And HP74 you're wrong for that...
You didn't have to go there... with it.
oooooh fruit salad!!! Now there's a thought
.. a bit much maybe.. we aquas do not need all that.. things can get a bit too messy, then what'll you do? Clean up afterward?? See that is just too much.
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