Maturity level

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Pride of 0ctober on Thursday, February 3, 2011 and has 4 replies.
on us libras. I have been introspective, goign into depths of my life trying to find balance. going thru all of the paper work of the personality and seeing how it holds down the soul. Not just as a libra, but as a human i think we all reach that point of some form of transformtaion. I think us libras do to. When u look at our glyph, it is the sun setting symbolizing how we go from what we know we are and what we know, to the unknown depths of ourselves and it starts with a mirror, a reflection. We see our traits reflected on us in relationships first and foremost and it can be so routine that its subconscious. B/c we all ignore something early on for the sake of some settling

but eventually that one relationship, early relationship can go sour and you relaize alot of things. Depending on that maturity level you may be very aware of it or not at all aware of it. We always get the short end of the stick on DESCRIPITIONs. now i know that thats know way to judge people, but im just trying to balance casual talk with my interests.
I see that i've done alot of things wrong in relationships and they went sour. But they went sour b/c of my negative traits. Like a part of me that wants something but is to afraid to do it out in the open. Well, eventually you will have to come to the light and see your reflection of yourself. I've seen the very ugly part of mine, and it disgust me and takes integrity to toss it out.

I will be the first to admit that i always consider people first. I think about the feelings of others. But it is somethings i do to protect the feelings of others but in reality its hurting them more. Thats why honesty is a must and fearing that you may hurt someone's feelings is not the proper way to handle conflict

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honesty is. If you cant be honest with people then you arent being honest with yourself. You have to figure out why you hate conflict and is that a praticall, realistic reason. More than likely its not, since its the past and based off one experience

you cant live life off one experience, it cant colour your perception or it will poison you. you have to keep the mind open. its one thing to have a set of morals, a belife system. Everyone has that no matter what. But its different to have one based off past afflictions. IF you view the world with paranoia and have a constant defense mechnaism, you have unresolved issues in the psyche and it will torment the hell out of you

That can serioulsy block a connection with the heart and mind. Thats why its best to be honest, no matter what b/c repression can lead to subconscious torment.

I guess this year im learning to balance the beams, empty out the subconsious and any blocks that i put on myself. I have seen myself but i want to see myself based off myself. Some of you matured earlier than me, good then you have passed this roadblock

But me, its my one BIG obstacle that i have overcome and demolished and im ready to put it into action. I know im dramatic but fucc it thats me
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thank u for your reply i thought this thread was gonna die

I think libras maturity process is neat. We do have a sense of others that can run deep and cause soem anxiety. Its best to catch it early enough to change before we get in relationships that are irreversible

I like what u said very wise
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yea saturn has been working my 12th house quite a bit these past few months. Im learning somethings about myself that i need to end and reltionships seem to be a little hassle right now

i do have some goals i decided not to go to school again until the summer starts this way i can work 2 jobs and save some money, it just doesnt seem to pratical to up and move with no stable income, and not even having a job in the city i plan on moving to, im def. caving some strutuce as it will make me feel a little more sure of my plans

the odd things is when saturn first entered my 12th house, i ended up on misdeameanor probation for my first dwi and it has altered my view on life completly, i cant do the things i used to do and i have now deemed them old and harmful with no neccassry need for them

my next step is for complete structure and money is the first need so when july comes and i start school again i will have some stability
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