Meeting New Ppl While in a Relationship...?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by tauruschic on Wednesday, May 3, 2006 and has 7 replies.
What do you guys think of this?
You aren't married, are you closed off completely to meeting other people?
Your thoughts on:
1-Giving out your number
2-Keeping in contact with a potential...
3-Flirting
4-Going out on (one) date
5-Denying the fact that you are in a relationship...?
You aren't married, are you closed off completely to meeting other people?
Your thoughts on:
1-Giving out your number
2-Keeping in contact with a potential...
3-Flirting
4-Going out on (one) date
5-Denying the fact that you are in a relationship...?
depends, what kind of relationship? is it serious? how long have you been in it? how do u feel about the person? are u bored out of your mind?.....
I would be inclined to say, that if you feel the need to do these things, then you are probably not in the right relationship in the first place and you need to make a conscious decision about whether it is right to continue it, without disloyaly coming into play.......Regards LL
I am with GEM*TWO. It depends on a lot of factors.
"Relationship" from what I gather by your use of that term, is more than casual dating.
There's a sequence right?
Meeting for the first time, the first date, more dates, relationship, engagement, and marriage? At least, that's pretty much the progression of things isn't it?
Trust starts at the relationship stage. That's where two people are pretty much in a commitment and are exclusive to each other. At least, I would imagine that's how the vast majority of people think.
Anyway, a violation of trust at this point, can only mean bad things down the line. In order to move on, if that is the intention, a solid foundation is needed.
What you are writing about, is not condusive to developing a good foundation and taking the relationship one step further down the progression.
If I was at that stage and found out that my partner was making himself available to others, I'd leave him. I wouldn't feel jealous, I would just see that he's not the kind of person I want to invest more time in.
There's a sequence right?
Meeting for the first time, the first date, more dates, relationship, engagement, and marriage? At least, that's pretty much the progression of things isn't it?
Trust starts at the relationship stage. That's where two people are pretty much in a commitment and are exclusive to each other. At least, I would imagine that's how the vast majority of people think.
Anyway, a violation of trust at this point, can only mean bad things down the line. In order to move on, if that is the intention, a solid foundation is needed.
What you are writing about, is not condusive to developing a good foundation and taking the relationship one step further down the progression.
If I was at that stage and found out that my partner was making himself available to others, I'd leave him. I wouldn't feel jealous, I would just see that he's not the kind of person I want to invest more time in.
These were questions for you guys, I don't need advice 
lol
I personally have no problem in giving out my number or keeping in contact with new guys I meet but I won't go out on dates. I'd do it if I liked someone more than my bf, but so far no one matches up and I do adore my crabby! But I don't feel like I should be tied to any one person and close off to new people.
Hmmm about the other questions... not much of a flirt and I don't deny my bf. Ever since I met him, I never liked anyone better... he's my main squeeze
Now where's that hot scorp to show me some danger lol
lolI personally have no problem in giving out my number or keeping in contact with new guys I meet but I won't go out on dates. I'd do it if I liked someone more than my bf, but so far no one matches up and I do adore my crabby! But I don't feel like I should be tied to any one person and close off to new people.
Hmmm about the other questions... not much of a flirt and I don't deny my bf. Ever since I met him, I never liked anyone better... he's my main squeeze
Now where's that hot scorp to show me some danger lolJk... waiting til he moves away ha ha
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