my libra guy
This topic was created in the Libra forum by aqua-baby on Saturday, September 9, 2006 and has 3 replies.
Im an aquarian and ive been with my libra guy for nearly two years.... love him to pieces and i know he loves me..... but i still find that he doesn't open up enough to me. For example he doesn't really discuss the future with me. I'm 24 and he is 29 but i still find that he is very closed with me, is this normal? He is currently in the music industry and that is all he seems to be concerned about.... i would love to settle down with him but i am starting to loose patience. I have expressed this to him and he just says he is very sorry for letting me go through all these emotions and that it is all his fault, he also states he doesn't know how to balance things out. Do i wait for my libran guy or just move on?
It is really up to you.
Men generally focus on career before settling down. It sounds like he is in career mode and that is what he needs to focus on. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you, not at all! If he isn't ready to settle down for another five years are you willing to wait? Is it worth the risk of waiting another five years and have the relationship end without marriage, having wasted all that time?
Tough call. Trut me I have been there.
It really comes down to whether you want to gamble or not.
Plus, if he is 29 .... chances are he is in saturn return which is a very hard time emotionally for anyone. Saturn will be in leo for another year. Go to the Leo board and look for a thread called MY LEO IS DEPRESSED!!! or something similar for more.
good luck
Men generally focus on career before settling down. It sounds like he is in career mode and that is what he needs to focus on. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you, not at all! If he isn't ready to settle down for another five years are you willing to wait? Is it worth the risk of waiting another five years and have the relationship end without marriage, having wasted all that time?
Tough call. Trut me I have been there.
It really comes down to whether you want to gamble or not.
Plus, if he is 29 .... chances are he is in saturn return which is a very hard time emotionally for anyone. Saturn will be in leo for another year. Go to the Leo board and look for a thread called MY LEO IS DEPRESSED!!! or something similar for more.
good luck
The best way to help the libran guy in love is to help him make a decision. He badly needs a bit of pushing from your side when it comes to big decisions like marriage. I am kinda sure he wont find it bitter if you try to push. I once read somewhere something related to this pushing part. may be in linda goodmans love signs. You know he loves you, he will listen to whatever you have to say.
And I dont think a libran gets into that career mode. Remeber he is a master of balancing and he can balance btween these two worlds when he feels like. Just that someone has to ignite the thought.
goodluck
And I dont think a libran gets into that career mode. Remeber he is a master of balancing and he can balance btween these two worlds when he feels like. Just that someone has to ignite the thought.
goodluck
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