Narcissism and the signs

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Ferocity Dravidian on Sunday, August 5, 2007 and has 46 replies.
Which are the top 5 narcissistic signs?
Doesn't 'narcissism' have a diifferent kind of meaning from egotism?
Narcissism www.dictionary.com
Scorpio, Leo, anymore input?
Uhhh, negative... There is a difference in being confident and being narcissistic... Scorps are very confident. However Libras (honest opinion) can definitely be self absorbed - narcissistic.
Leos and Virgos in my opinion. Both can be very vane and judgmental of others.
QS, I emailed you back.
Leos are vain, but mostly when young. Judgmental? Not at all, and that usually leads to problems because they are too trusting.
I would like to reiterate QS, Libras can be very vain, and Capricorns as well. Appearances must be kept at all costs...
So Capricorns and Libras are narcissistic?
"However Libras (honest opinion) can definitely be self absorbed - narcissistic."
Uhmmf..
***Uhmmf..*** Sorry honey, it is true.
QS we are confident and cocky but when we express it we tend to do it in a commical way. Or at least I do, I act narcisstic to make fun of narcissism. I make fun of jealousy by acting jelous. If that makes any sense.
As far as narcissistic signs, Gemini comes to mind with LEO taking the cake. I have known several Leos who are completely invested in the false image and ego that they have created and spin to everyone they come in contact with. Not all of them are this way, and I don't mean to bash the sign. But there are several Leos I have known whos presence alone irritates the crap out of me.
I dated a girl who was narcissistic to the extreme she was a Leo. I have known a couple virgoes to be, honestly I haven't known any Libra guys to be, but I have known a couple libra girls to be.
Of course there is the possiblity that we would view this as a fault, and sometimes we are a little blind to our faults. We will admit this to ourselves, but not outloud usually because it isn't worth having to deal with someone who would like to just concede to this and use it against us as some people are blind to situations as a whole so that can be problematic.
Scorpio women seem to be extremely realistic with and about themselves so I don't think they have this problem, but the men I have known are, and so are pisces.
And SOME capricorns but not all. Tito Ortiz anyone? he's a great example of a Capricorn with this trait.
How would Geminis be narcissistic Nico?
Its funny people always consider ones knowledge about himself and his image in public as narcissism. And it was coined by the guy(Taurean) who defined individual psychology which is a big failure in understanding humans beings(IMHO). Bcoz of another taureans stupid studies, many Geminis are getting treated for schizophrenia and 70% geminis I know have made them selfs believe that they are schizo(obviously they belong to the group who dont believe in astrology). And parents of libran's doubt their kids trouble in making a decision as a psychological disorder. Do you have any idea how many kids get into trouble bcoz of a minor mistake they did in the field of individual psychology??
Most people have some ideas about themselfs. Some are right, some are wrong. It depends on his capacity to read other peoples opinion about himself, filter out flattery and get the accurate image. Some losers get praised by public(may be when he got a rich dad) and if he ends up with a wrong image about himself, start admiring himself can we call him a narcissist? I think stupid is a more accurate term. bcoz he was stupid enough to think what others were telling him is true.
may be its jus me. I really don't understand many psychological labeling. They study social psychology and deduct it back as individual psychology and start labeling people.
Nic, in my experience I do think Librans women and men can become self absorbed. Not so much in a boastful way, but in a "this is about me right now" kind of way. This doesn't mean they aren't caring, or loving but I have seen time and time again where they have become self absorbed. They know their charm and charisma and the power it holds and they like it as well as the rest of us...
***Scorpio women seem to be extremely realistic with and about themselves so I don't think they have this problem.***
True and very true, we are who we are and stay true to who we are. With us, what you see is what you get.
Queen good point. We Libras can be vain, and confident and cocky sometimes, but with every libra I know....we can back up the stuff we talk, or the boasting we may do. Like for example if I brag in jest about something, chances are though i am bragging I can back it up % 100. Libras and air signs in general seem to have a lot of natural talent and we are fast learners. If we are going to decide to learn martial arts we will get good at it at a rapid pace, or music or whatever, we just seem to have that nack.
I have been called narcissistic once or twice, but I just looked at the one accusing me of such behavior and asked if it was narcissistic if I could realistically pull it off....that kind of thing.
It is the same thing with scopio women, if they are bragging about something, or threatening or whatever......be sure they can/will...because they are.
FD....Gemini's in general seem to be unrealistic with themselves regarding what they are capable of, what they have accomplished and tend to have pathological personalities. If there is one sign of all whom I know several pathological liars it's gemini...Leo being a close second. Both only with the males. They also like to come on strong...then whilt a little if someone steps up to the challenge and tend to try to manipulate situations when they get in over their head. ALL air signs are like this to some capacity, but it seems to be Gemini most, followed by Libra and least Aquarius. I don't think I have ever met an Aqua you could call narcissistic, a lot of the Libras may be but do it in a way that is hard to call them on and Gems just are.
I am narcassistic. I think I am pretty fanfuckingtastic. I wish other people felt the same about themselves. So much unhappiness is caused by the belief that we are less than.
That would be called vanity right there. Something a bit different.
Exactly narcissism has something different to it. Its a psychological complex.
Although vanity might fall within the realms of narcissism.
Actually, it is an erotic response to one's own body and mental ability. It is normal when we are babies but we are conditioned to be modest and beat ourselves up. I think seeing our own beauty is WAY more healthy. I get turned on looking at myself. I think a lot of people do. (both looking at me and looking at themselves.)
Not a biggie.
(both looking at me and looking at themselves.)
That was a joke by the way.
smile
***I get turned on looking at myself. I think a lot of people do. ***
LOL at LS!!!!
hee hee!
wanna see?
LMAO!
YES!!!

You can see more of her pictures, this one is rather higher octave probably Aquarius or Pisces with a narcissistic like personality http://www.ratedesi.com/view.php?id=13256
Right on LS, I turn me on too. I have a mirror next to my bed, I like watching....
Ooo...Can I come lay in your bed...
"Ooo...Can I come lay in your bed..."
I have one hour slot still open on saturday at 3pm if your available. Tongue
Libras love mirrors...i have lots smile
Actually, I don't really like mirrors. I just look down. LMAO!!!
Sorry TMI. hee hee!
"Actually, I don't really like mirrors. I just look down. LMAO!!!"
Oh yes. I usually do this, and pull my partner up with one arm, hold myself up with the other so they can look down to. I like watching, I like watching them watch more. Sharing is caring.
***Libras love mirrors***
Mirror is our mentor.
I am a Gemini and I think I'm fantastic. I do the stuff Nico says eg. flirt, but then back off when they come to the challenge or whatever.
Yep.
Nico as in the singer?
There is a singer named Nico?
Bite your tongue!
Yes. There was a singer named Nico. Did you ever see The Royal Tenenbaums? She sings These Days. She use to sing with the Velet Underground.
She was awesome. A total icon.
also ... a libra.
lEO, LIBRA, ARIES, SCORPIO, TAURUS
I think a lot of people are clumping two different things together:
Vanity and Narcissism.
Narcissistic: Leo, Taurus (men), Capricorn women and Gemini (men), some Virgo (women).
Vain: Libra, Taurus (women), Leo (women), some scorps.
Good call, nic'.
narcassistic is a synonym for vanity...they're one and the same.
along with smug, conceited, egotistical, pompous....all mean the same.
We all, no matter what your sign, possess these traits.
"libras can be narcasisstic and vain what with all that venusian beauty and social popularity ."
"leo as well ."
I think libras act, like actually know when their doing it, or do it purposefully and Leo's just come across as such. When I am being cocky I am purposefuly doing so, I know I am, when I am acting any way I know I am acting that way. Usually, there are always exceptions like when I am being reactionary but for the most part it is a knowledgable act.
"And SOME capricorns but not all. Tito Ortiz anyone? he's a great example of a Capricorn with this trait."
Tito Ortiz is an Aquarius actually. Big shock huh?
lol this is funny, my mom is libra and she is def. full of herself. She always goes on about how beautiful wshe was when she was younger and how she coulda had any guy she wanted
*(rolls eyes)*
lol
btw i can be kinda vain too but it's personal to myself . . . i hardly ever say it out loud like she does. well except like online cause i think it funny . . . but yeah I'm modest about it but I def. know.
i think that's the difference between scorp and libras there.

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