I'm trying to attract a guy that is a Libra. From what I've read they are more to notice a woman (we're both 34) if she does something to stand out from the rest. I have some ideas but I??m not sure if he'll be really into it or if it will creep him out. First a little background. We live a state apart and see each other 4 to 5 times a year at dog shows. We both show agility mini Aussies. He??s also a good trainer and I would like him to train my new puppy. We??ve talked on Facebook and email a little. He??s a sweet guy and he??s friendly with every one so I don??t see any of the little chats we have as anything special. If we stay as we are or grow closer as friends it??s cool with me but I do think we??d really get along as a couple because of our likes and we have good laughs together. I don??t really care if he has tones of friends and most of them are women. Whatever happens he??s going to be my puppy??s trainer.
I??m meeting him to talk about the arrangements and fees for the training. I was wondering if it would be creepy to him if I painted him a picture of his dog or better him and his dog. My business is graphic artist, portrait painter, and photography. I do have a lot of images of his dogs (with and without him) competing. So I don??t sound like a stalker lol I also have photos of others, friends that compete and candid??s from the dog shows. I am thinking of giving it to him when we chat about my puppy and then I was thinking of asking him and his traveling buddies to come over (I live 20 min away from the show) and grill burgers. I??d like some ideas on getting his attention and being the one that stands out from the rest.
I also have a business proposal for him incase his training fees are too expensive for me. I was wondering how far a Libra would bend. Not to get out paying fees but something like do an advertisement page for him for a month of training fee. Also would it be wired to tell him I want to know him better especially since I??m putting my puppy in his care. Is it too much to ask if he??d allow me to visit for a week or so to see my pup and help him out (work for him for no fee) while I??m there.
Please, advice needed.
Thanks
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Yes it would be creepy considering you two just seem to be casual aquaintances. Maybe down the road when you have a more personal relationship that could stem from training.
Also, it would reek of trying too hard. When you don't try so hard is when they're most likely to be attracted.
Just be beautiful, sexy and happy around him. Do not tell him what to do ( your business proposal) they dislike to hear from someone what to do. Let him do his job and be warm, nice and friendly with him.