new here/to astrology/dating/libras
This topic was created in the Libra forum by nomorepajamas on Monday, July 16, 2012 and has 2 replies.
New to astrology. I have a lot of Capricorn attributes, but I am not really a hard worker/ladder climber/motivated like in most descriptions of Caps. I am pretty shy, logical, reserved, but am very outgoing if I'm around the right people/feel comfortable. The past few months I have been growing and changing a lot because I was in a really long, unhealthy relationship with a Scorp for a few years that just held me back from life and finding myself.
I'm pretty new to dating. With my ex, it was intense and we fell for each other right away. I am currently very intrigued by a Libra guy. He left a funny comment on one of my friends page so I added him a few months ago. At first, it was an occasional liking of things, but now he likes/comments my stuff on facebook quite regularly and has initiated conversation a few times. Most of our conversations are really silly/dumb and he seems to disappear afterwards. He's kind of cute, but I am much more drawn to his sense of humor/personality because it is very similar to mine. He seems to possess a lot of Libra qualities like he's creative/musical, is always doing stuff especially with his friends, ect. I met him for the first time last week at one of his shows. When he saw me, he came up and hugged me and was like "Hi, I'm that guy on facebook that likes all your pictures" and we had small talk for a few minutes then I let him go do his thing and I didnt talk to him for the rest of the night. After I left, he left a comment on my page saying something like he just saw me and it was crazy (making fun of that stupid Call Me Maybe song. his band did a cover of it). I texted him "hey i just met you! that was crazy. you already have my number, so text me maybe" and he replied saying that it was good seeing me and that he wished we couldve hung out but the venue was really lame and I told him that I still had fun and it was nice to meet him and see him play and that we could hang out someplace else if he wanted to some time and he said he was definitely down. After that, he seemed to like my stuff almost every day, except for the past few days. He randomly tagged me in a post that just said "dammit (my last name)" the other night, and aside from that, hasn't tried talking me. I feel a strong connection with him, like a gut feeling that I've never felt before, so I'd like to see if something is there, but I don't know if I should make a move, or wait. My guy friends say chase, girlfriends say play hard to get. Advice?
I'm pretty new to dating. With my ex, it was intense and we fell for each other right away. I am currently very intrigued by a Libra guy. He left a funny comment on one of my friends page so I added him a few months ago. At first, it was an occasional liking of things, but now he likes/comments my stuff on facebook quite regularly and has initiated conversation a few times. Most of our conversations are really silly/dumb and he seems to disappear afterwards. He's kind of cute, but I am much more drawn to his sense of humor/personality because it is very similar to mine. He seems to possess a lot of Libra qualities like he's creative/musical, is always doing stuff especially with his friends, ect. I met him for the first time last week at one of his shows. When he saw me, he came up and hugged me and was like "Hi, I'm that guy on facebook that likes all your pictures" and we had small talk for a few minutes then I let him go do his thing and I didnt talk to him for the rest of the night. After I left, he left a comment on my page saying something like he just saw me and it was crazy (making fun of that stupid Call Me Maybe song. his band did a cover of it). I texted him "hey i just met you! that was crazy. you already have my number, so text me maybe" and he replied saying that it was good seeing me and that he wished we couldve hung out but the venue was really lame and I told him that I still had fun and it was nice to meet him and see him play and that we could hang out someplace else if he wanted to some time and he said he was definitely down. After that, he seemed to like my stuff almost every day, except for the past few days. He randomly tagged me in a post that just said "dammit (my last name)" the other night, and aside from that, hasn't tried talking me. I feel a strong connection with him, like a gut feeling that I've never felt before, so I'd like to see if something is there, but I don't know if I should make a move, or wait. My guy friends say chase, girlfriends say play hard to get. Advice?
Hi. Sounds to me like you have made it clear that you would like to hang out. Don't chase, just be friendly and don't come across as desperate. Don't do hard to get either. Be yourself. If he likes you he'll let you know. His next actions will give you a clue as to whether he is interested or just having a bit of casual fun. If you chase him you won't find this out until too late.
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