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This topic was created in the Libra forum by narleycharley94 on Saturday, January 21, 2017 and has 26 replies.
Libras, my question is, do you ladies think that it's best to be in a relationship with a Libra once she is older ? Closer to 30 ?

I know Gemini's aren't into being locked down lol but I'm starting to see the pattern with Libras too.

The three Libras I have been with in the past where all my age or younger including my most recent ex, All of the relationships were great but their mind constantly changed and they no longer wanted to be in the relationship at some point.

So is it smarter to just be with Libras when they are older? The young ones have no clue what they truly want lol
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What sign are you?
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It might just be that they didn't feel you were compatible with them. I think it really depends on the girl and other aspects of her chart. Libras typically enjoy being in a relationship and sharing their life with another person. They like to have something to cling to and to feel needed. I know a lot of Libra girls who are still young (young adult age) and have been in a long-term relationship for several years. Their minds are constantly changing but as long as nothing happens that makes them question the other person, they usually don't really do anything. Well one Libra/Gemini moon girl I knew would test her friends and then got mad because they didn't react in the way she wanted or say what she wanted to hear... (which is quite stupid and immature in my opinion)

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@urania you are gorgeous by the way ?

Anyway, I understand what you're saying I'm very picky as well but I think they got the sense I wasn't in it for the long haul with them which I have to do a better job of moving forward. They always tell me that I have too many female friends and they felt unwanted I've heard this in the past from a few people.

For whatever reason I always attract Libras and then they end up running out on me out of fear Sad
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Posted by narleycharley94
@urania you are gorgeous by the way ?

Anyway, I understand what you're saying I'm very picky as well but I think they got the sense I wasn't in it for the long haul with them which I have to do a better job of moving forward. They always tell me that I have too many female friends and they felt unwanted I've heard this in the past from a few people.

For whatever reason I always attract Libras and then they end up running out on me out of fear Sad
Alot of female friends-this would put me off also. At 31 I want to have a relationship similar to my parents, they have each other, their family, and mutual married friends. They will want to feel stability and security within the relationship. Maybe more a maturity thing than a Libra thing also. I have less time for bs, I was single a pretty long time before I met someone who seemed to tick (most) of the boxes.
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Posted by narleycharley94
@urania you are gorgeous by the way ?

Anyway, I understand what you're saying I'm very picky as well but I think they got the sense I wasn't in it for the long haul with them which I have to do a better job of moving forward. They always tell me that I have too many female friends and they felt unwanted I've heard this in the past from a few people.

For whatever reason I always attract Libras and then they end up running out on me out of fear Sad
Alot of female friends-this would put me off also. At 31 I want to have a relationship similar to my parents, they have each other, their family, and mutual married friends. They will want to feel stability and security within the relationship. Maybe more a maturity thing than a Libra thing also. I have less time for bs, I was single a pretty long time before I met someone who seemed to tick (most) of the boxes. Too many red flags and I left it behind, it wasn't for me.
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Posted by narleycharley94
Libras, my question is, do you ladies think that it's best to be in a relationship with a Libra once she is older ? Closer to 30 ?

I know Gemini's aren't into being locked down lol but I'm starting to see the pattern with Libras too.

The three Libras I have been with in the past where all my age or younger including my most recent ex, All of the relationships were great but their mind constantly changed and they no longer wanted to be in the relationship at some point.

So is it smarter to just be with Libras when they are older? The young ones have no clue what they truly want lol
I'm 38 and still the same way, lol. That being said, I was in an 18 year relationship but we broke up 4 times. I'm in an 8 month relotionship now but my mind isn't made up on him. It takes us a long time to settle in our mind that you are the one. We also suffer from FOMO - fear of missing out. We can be content with one person but our radars are always up for something better. I'm not proud of it, though.
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My placements are Sun in Virgo, Moon in Sag, Mercury in Virgo, Venus in Libra and Mars in Gem

Who's a good choice for me ?
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I think most people are better at relationships when they are a bit older, know what they want, have experience, etc.
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I'll take that as she's a good woman that Men want to marry lol
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Posted by narleycharley94
Libras, my question is, do you ladies think that it's best to be in a relationship with a Libra once she is older ? Closer to 30 ?

I know Gemini's aren't into being locked down lol but I'm starting to see the pattern with Libras too.

The three Libras I have been with in the past where all my age or younger including my most recent ex, All of the relationships were great but their mind constantly changed and they no longer wanted to be in the relationship at some point.

So is it smarter to just be with Libras when they are older? The young ones have no clue what they truly want lol
Yes. I think it's better to pursue a Libra male or female when they're close to 30 --> also hahaha you'd be amazed what kind of more mature emotional behavior does the 30 years old milestone brings to the life of an indecisive person smile) Even for me as a taurus, when i was in my last year of 29 years old close to 30 I did some pretty 180 changes in my life although people are saying taurus are hard to move smile)
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Posted by urania_ix
The thing is Libras are picky. Yes they love relationships but if they feel no "fairy-tale" type of relationship they feel it is worthless. They are very romantic and they expect their partner to be to. I'm a Libra and i love excitement, and new adventures (that's why I get along with fire/air signs so well) But honestly pay attention to moon sign, venus sign, descendant cusp, and even juno sign. Libras can't be alone unless there's a hard aspect affecting this.
I have a question for all you Libras here either you're a man or a woman:

Please define "fairy-tale" smile The Libra I once knew told me that I lacked magic. He didn't elaborate what magic meant for him and I don't think he was expecting Santa Claus smile) Taurus are very practical and maybe from this point not that romantic as our sisters/brothers Libra. We're also romantics but I have a pretty guess that it differs of the way you think something is romantic.

So please help me out and elaborate what fairy-tale and magic would mean for you smile
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Magic??

Go see a magician or a Disney movie

I'm here to offer loyalty, affection and excitement when you need it most, I'm not going to park outside your house with my magic carpet lol
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Posted by narleycharley94
Magic??

Go see a magician or a Disney movie

I'm here to offer loyalty, affection and excitement when you need it most, I'm not going to park outside your house with my magic carpet lol
I swear, we Earth signs get along SO GOOD smile) We're definitely on the same wavelength.
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Dunno. I think this could really go for any sign. We are all young and stupid at some point.
He was 26 at the time. In my books 26 doesn't qualify anymore as "young" smile

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Posted by urania_ix
The thing is Libras are picky. Yes they love relationships but if they feel no "fairy-tale" type of relationship they feel it is worthless. They are very romantic and they expect their partner to be to. I'm a Libra and i love excitement, and new adventures (that's why I get along with fire/air signs so well) But honestly pay attention to moon sign, venus sign, descendant cusp, and even juno sign. Libras can't be alone unless there's a hard aspect affecting this.
I have a question for all you Libras here either you're a man or a woman:

Please define "fairy-tale" smile The Libra I once knew told me that I lacked magic. He didn't elaborate what magic meant for him and I don't think he was expecting Santa Claus smile) Taurus are very practical and maybe from this point not that romantic as our sisters/brothers Libra. We're also romantics but I have a pretty guess that it differs of the way you think something is romantic.

So please help me out and elaborate what fairy-tale and magic would mean for you smile
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Posted by urania_ix
The thing is Libras are picky. Yes they love relationships but if they feel no "fairy-tale" type of relationship they feel it is worthless. They are very romantic and they expect their partner to be to. I'm a Libra and i love excitement, and new adventures (that's why I get along with fire/air signs so well) But honestly pay attention to moon sign, venus sign, descendant cusp, and even juno sign. Libras can't be alone unless there's a hard aspect affecting this.
I have a question for all you Libras here either you're a man or a woman:

Please define "fairy-tale" smile The Libra I once knew told me that I lacked magic. He didn't elaborate what magic meant for him and I don't think he was expecting Santa Claus smile) Taurus are very practical and maybe from this point not that romantic as our sisters/brothers Libra. We're also romantics but I have a pretty guess that it differs of the way you think something is romantic.

So please help me out and elaborate what fairy-tale and magic would mean for you smile
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Lol People always say Taurus are romantic.. well they must have had a Libra in their life.. ? Jk many signs are romantic in their own ways..

I taught my ex husband how to be romantic.. so did his Sag Mom to be honest.. funny..

She told him to get me flowers often. So he did a lot. I would write him letters, make him dinners with menus like it was a restaurant.. set music, special nights with candles, sexy lingerie.. He started to eventually write me letters and think of ways to surprise me.. this was after years. He might have thought it was cheesy at first lol But he would take pics of things I'd do for him too. For his birthday, I'd decorate the house and make a big deal of it. Valentine's, I'd let him plan sometimes but still write little notes all around the house of reasons why I loved him so that he could find them.

Anytime I bought him anything it had a special meaning and I was sweet as hell and passionate in the bedroom. I aimed to please and this led to some change in him. But he was not like that at all when I first met him..

Lol He called it "magical." My way of loving you is passionate, intense, and I will learn all that I can about you to make sure you are happy.. I also liked to plan surprise get aways too...that's always fun. He loved when I did that.

Things only ended badly because of miscommunication and some ugly life events...plus he fell into a selfish routine..it was exhausting to do the same thing over and over again.

The point is.. make an effort, make it meaningful, and know what/who your partner is. Put your own personal preferences aside and really think about what they'd want.. time, effort, and that feeling where you feel wanted makes a world of difference for me.. because I would do the same for you.

Even just staying up and having conversations about life can be amazing...

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The thing is Libras are picky. Yes they love relationships but if they feel no "fairy-tale" type of relationship they feel it is worthless. They are very romantic and they expect their partner to be to. I'm a Libra and i love excitement, and new adventures (that's why I get along with fire/air signs so well) But honestly pay attention to moon sign, venus sign, descendant cusp, and even juno sign. Libras can't be alone unless there's a hard aspect affecting this.
I have a question for all you Libras here either you're a man or a woman:

Please define "fairy-tale" smile The Libra I once knew told me that I lacked magic. He didn't elaborate what magic meant for him and I don't think he was expecting Santa Claus smile) Taurus are very practical and maybe from this point not that romantic as our sisters/brothers Libra. We're also romantics but I have a pretty guess that it differs of the way you think something is romantic.

So please help me out and elaborate what fairy-tale and magic would mean for you smile
My Gemini and scorp exes were not romantic in my eyes. Flowers every once in a blue moon when they fucked up and gifts with very little thought on christmas The Gemini and I went to fun places like concerts. The scorp just always wanted to stay home. There wasn't much chivalry. I like the classic man and woman role. They never truly expressed their loving feelings towards me. I was the cheesy poem/essay writer with very little in return from them.

With the Leo I am...

-100% swept off my feet even 2 years since we started dating

- I am truly the lady and he is the protective man

-there is magic when we look at each other. He is not afraid to grab me, hug me and look deeply into my eyes. Infront of everyone.

-he is very expressive. Everything is a grand gesture of his love for me

-when I think he wasn't listening, he surprises me all the time with gifts, poems, songs, writings tailored to all my interests and passions

-he is just a very inspiring person I respect with all my heart. Everyone respects him. And he encourages everyone to be their best

Genuine thoughtfulness. Little things like sitting next to me at the restaurant instead of across from me, making it an effortless point to compliment me or lift me up to keep the fire burning every day...
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Fire signs just "get" us girllll! ? Happy for you!!
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Posted by narleycharley94
@urania you are gorgeous by the way ?

Anyway, I understand what you're saying I'm very picky as well but I think they got the sense I wasn't in it for the long haul with them which I have to do a better job of moving forward. They always tell me that I have too many female friends and they felt unwanted I've heard this in the past from a few people.

For whatever reason I always attract Libras and then they end up running out on me out of fear Sad
Maybe this isn't a question of libras then. After all the common denominator in each of these instances is you.

When it's not right it's not right.
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The thing is Libras are picky. Yes they love relationships but if they feel no "fairy-tale" type of relationship they feel it is worthless. They are very romantic and they expect their partner to be to. I'm a Libra and i love excitement, and new adventures (that's why I get along with fire/air signs so well) But honestly pay attention to moon sign, venus sign, descendant cusp, and even juno sign. Libras can't be alone unless there's a hard aspect affecting this.
I have a question for all you Libras here either you're a man or a woman:

Please define "fairy-tale" smile The Libra I once knew told me that I lacked magic. He didn't elaborate what magic meant for him and I don't think he was expecting Santa Claus smile) Taurus are very practical and maybe from this point not that romantic as our sisters/brothers Libra. We're also romantics but I have a pretty guess that it differs of the way you think something is romantic.

So please help me out and elaborate what fairy-tale and magic would mean for you smile
My Gemini and scorp exes were not romantic in my eyes. Flowers every once in a blue moon when they fucked up and gifts with very little thought on christmas The Gemini and I went to fun places like concerts. The scorp just always wanted to stay home. There wasn't much chivalry. I like the classic man and woman role. They never truly expressed their loving feelings towards me. I was the cheesy poem/essay writer with very little in return from them.

With the Leo I am...

-100% swept off my feet even 2 years since we started dating

- I am truly the lady and he is the protective man

-there is magic when we look at each other. He is not afraid to grab me, hug me and look deeply into my eyes. Infront of everyone.

-he is very expressive. Everything is a grand gesture of his love for me

-when I think he wasn't listening, he surprises me all the time with gifts, poems, songs, writings tailored to all my interests and passions

-he is just a very inspiring person I respect with all my heart. Everyone respects him. And he encourages everyone to be their best

Genuine thoughtfulness. Little things like sitting next to me at the restaurant instead of across from me, making it an effortless point to compliment me or lift me up to keep the fire burning every day...
Fire signs just "get" us girllll! ? Happy for you!!
Yea, fire sign men really got it goin on for me. Aries and Sag. The best Leo. Even if I wasn't with him, it'd be Leo. Something about the way fire romances is just.... Mmmmmm.
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This is true for me, there is a man extremely interested in me, tells me loves me that I'm his beautiful woman.....he makes me sick. I know that sounds terrible but I don't like him romantically at all. We have had sex and he has a small penis and small mouth and can't kiss. I just am not interested in him at all. I don't know how to tell him, he is setting himself up for heart break. Originally I did like him, but finding out about all of his problems and not being a good lover really just turned me off to him. Totally and completely. I feel bad...

Libras are extremely picky when it comes to love. Not wanting to rock the boat makes it difficult in being honest with our feelings towards someone that just isn't good enough.

He is so terrible in bed.

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I'm a Libra Gem moon
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I've gotten worse as I get older. When i was young(er)! I was so happy in long relationships and I actually found it natural and easy. Now though, I would actually hate to date me..I'm so fickle. I hate that I am but it's like I can't control it, I can love /hate in the same breath. I can barely stand to get past a second date.

And people say "oh, you're just not meeting the right people"..that's quite true. But there's a definite "NO BULLSHIT" policy going on and once i've filtered through the crap I realise I'm really quite happy being single smile
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Posted by narleycharley94
Libras, my question is, do you ladies think that it's best to be in a relationship with a Libra once she is older ? Closer to 30 ?

I know Gemini's aren't into being locked down lol but I'm starting to see the pattern with Libras too.

The three Libras I have been with in the past where all my age or younger including my most recent ex, All of the relationships were great but their mind constantly changed and they no longer wanted to be in the relationship at some point.

So is it smarter to just be with Libras when they are older? The young ones have no clue what they truly want lol
I've read about your situation with your ex Libra. I've been dating a Virgo for year and a half, and while he can be so sweet and caring, there's no passion. I only see excitement when he is angry, and I mostly only hear how deeply and truly he feels for me when he's been drinking. This is a problem for a Libra, who needs to FEEL the love. He is dedicated to our relationship though. He could very well not hear from me, and be so practical to say "I thought you must've been busy" whereas I want a man who is LOOKING for me! I know this is ridiculous and waste of energy, but on the other hand, I would love the excitement of some old fashion jealousy...ask me where I was for crying out loud. I know this makes me needy and I hate that, but I can't curb those feelings. He definitely tells me, often, that life is not a fairy tale and relationships aren't about roses and candy. But I want that excitement. Now this is where the age & maturity (yes, for me over 30) comes to play with a Libra...I am not going to lose a loyal, caring and good Virgo who is dedicated to our relationship because of my wants. I need stability in my life, and he's it.

I'm so damn indecisive, I had an Aries boyfriend who smothered the life out of me with his love and passion. I could not breathe and had to escape his clutches. Now I have the TOTAL opposite in my Virgo and I'm still complaining, smh
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Libra women like reliable men. It is non negotiable. They actively try to find this out about crushes early on. If you come off as not sufficiently reliable, they will get scared.

As a Virgo man, you are quite attractive to Libra women. You are just a scary guy for them.
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@justwant to be loved

That was me and my ex???

I'm not a dramatic guy or overly aggressive guy at all, I don't scream from the rooftops to show you how I feel, I'm just dependable and reliable always. I feel like she would love that, one time we got into the biggest argument and she waited outside my house for 6 hours to apologize and came to my friends house and made a big scene to show me how sorry she was. No matter how much I love you I just can't do any of that stuff, it's not me. Maybe I don't fight hard enough, or maybe I don't display my true feelings but I have pride and self respect. I've seen women make fun of guys who text and call them 100 times, guys will stalk a girl and profess their love for them. I don't do any of this stuff, if you say you don't want me, I'll try to tell you logically why you're making the wrong decision but if that doesn't work I just walk away. Maybe I should've showed her how much she meant to me??
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@gombolom

I need to learn how to be more "movie style " passionate. I care so much about my pride and showing a person I don't need them to be happy even if it's killing me inside but I want to learn how to be more versatile and switch up the routine lol

I remember one time my ex came in my room and threw my shoes all over the place and told me that I was just so predictable, looking back on it that hurt my feelings ?? I don't want to be predictable at all but I am?
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