Opposite energy

This topic was created in the Libra forum by ladylibra21 on Thursday, April 21, 2016 and has 19 replies.
So I totally went completely Aries yesterday. I was on a blinding war path it scared me so bad I couldn't snap out of it. I absolutely hate cowards and I am normally not that girl but I would have given anything to round house kick this Sag guy.

You're probably the kind of cunt that lets her fuck buddies have at it with your son.


after all, it's not like you actually care about his well-being.



You've already described to us about how uncontrollable you are when on your blinding war path ...... you pin your son's hands against the wall, so you can beat him up.


Most of your threads describe how uncontrollable you are.


Hopefully, someone steps in to take your child .. he actually deserves a decent person as a parent.
Posted by Koniucha
You should have :p

You look so pretty and I love your glasses!

Thanks love! He was super disrespectful, but now I think he may really just be delusional so I almost pity him now. But yesterday was terrible I haven't been that angry in a long time.
@P_Angel I am not sure what you are writing because I cant see what you say, but I can tell you this much everyone gets angry and feels emotion and I am allowed to discuss it however I want and with whomever I want. The fact that you keep bringing up my old threads and that you are so fixated on certain people proves that DXP is the height of your life. You see it as your kingdom and I pity you because you obviously aren't making any other moves in your life if all you do is fixate on other peoples lives.
Posted by ladylibra21

.... everyone gets angry and feels emotion and I am allowed to .....




No, only you, and maybe a few others beat their 2 year old babies, and then pin their hands against the wall.

You've taken your anger out on a baby, and beat him. A 2 year old.

And then you come here to dismiss yourself by saying that everyone expresses their anger like you.


Wrong! Just you. You're the only cunt here who does that. Well, and maybe the Aqua who raped someone.


Again .... I wouldn't be in the least bit surprised if you let all of the men you seem to fuck, have at it with him ... after all, you don't care about his well being.


You don't care that he's being beat by you ... you only care about how YOU are being treated.


It's funny how that works. People have the attitude with me of: stop judging, let her be ... which translate to: let her beat him, she's more important than the child, don't hurt her, she's nice, it doesn't matter what she does, it only matter that you're nice to her ... meanwhile, you're physically beating a baby.


That will never be forgivable. And quite frankly, every person in here who defends you - condones it.
Sun Sagittarius 1.51 Ascendant Aquarius 21.05
Moon Aries 8.32 II Aries 5.59
Mercury Scorpio 19.08 R III Taurus 10.31
Venus Scorpio 2.05 IV Gemini 6.13
Mars Capricorn 5.02 V Gemini 28.21
Jupiter Gemini 12.32 R VI Cancer 21.21
Saturn Scorpio 5.49 VII Leo 21.05
Uranus Aries 4.47 R VIII Libra 5.59
Neptune Pisces 0.25 IX Scorpio 10.31
Pluto Capricorn 8.09 Midheaven Sagittarius 6.13
Lilith Gemini 8.05 XI Sagittarius 28.21
Asc node Scorpio 26.01 XII Capricorn 21.21

That is my son's chart he is 2 and very very stubborn, rebellious, and emotional he is almost 3 (Nov. 23) and he tests me more than any toddler I have ever seen and I worked child care for 3 years. Spanking does not work with him he either laughs or gets so mad that he cant even process why he is being punished he will some times retaliate or say to me a week later mommy you don't spank me for doing this and he will recount why he got a spanking or you don't take away that. He never forgets what he sees as a wrong doing. I do hands on the wall with him which is basically he has to put his hands on the wall for 2 minutes without talking or moving he hates is with a passion and the threat of it usually works because he hates sitting still, but sometimes he throws him self around and refuses to do it so I am literally holding his hands there. This is very exhausting for me.He grows very attached to people though and has behavior problems at daycare if a teacher he likes quits. Friday he was in the office 4 times. This is so embarrassing for me because I was far from this as a child we are total opposites I don't feel like I can control my child which terrifies me because he goes to school in 2 years and he is extremely intelligent and I would hate to have to hold him back for behavior.

Any advice for me? Here is my chart I am mostly pretty passive so you can see why the whole thing tears me up. It breaks me to the core to have to fight with him like this.

Sun Libra 27.48 Ascendant Leo 9.34
Moon Cancer 23.58 II Virgo 1.45
Mercury Libra 14.23 III Virgo 28.25
Venus Sagittarius 13.55 IV Scorpio 0.31
Mars Libra 20.41 V Sagittarius 5.48
Jupiter Cancer 10.46 VI Capricorn 9.37
Saturn Capricorn 8.35 VII Aquarius 9.34
Uranus Capricorn 2.03 VIII Pisces 1.45
Neptune Capricorn 9.52 IX Pisces 28.25
Pluto Scorpio 14.27 Midheaven Taurus 0.31
Lilith Libra 28.27 XI Gemini 5.48
Asc node Aquarius 23.20 XII Cancer 9.37
Tell me how I was spanking my child and holding him against the wall. Hands on the wall was an attempt for time and I held his hands there one time to get him to understand that he was in time out. you make it sound like I pressed his hands into the wall until they were bruised and that I beat him while I did it. P_Angel and Blue whoever both of yall can sit there and say whatever you want. The fact of the matter is I love my child and my kid loves me too and he feels very safe with me. I don't need you or anyone else to judge that. I came here for parental advice and you came in for a witch hunt because just like all of those so quick to cry witch over the years you cant process much in your brain because you totally tried to see what you wanted to see and Blue who ever you should be ashamed of yourself co signing this disgusting woman she gets pleasure of thinking of abusive ways that she thinks in her pee brain or that she would like to see done to my son probably because she has fantasized about it. How can you co sign someone who fantasizes all the ways children can be hurt especially when she mentioned she imagines me letting other people hurt my own child. You both are disgusting.
@busyeyes88
busyeyes88 you are consigning a pervert.
Please don't look at your child as a chart.

Posted by happyface1
Please don't look at your child as a chart.



Who said I did?
Posted by Alieness
When your child has reached a point where spanking makes them laugh and does not scare him anymore you must have been beating him too much. And he is just a toddler! You do know right that behavior problems in children is not from birth and a reflection of bad parenting?

Yes because all children must be the exact same and you know my child so very well right? As a matter of fact my son bearly has behavior problems anymore and the point is all of this shit was hashed out months ago and she keeps popping up trying to paint me as something that I am not because she is feeling guilty about her own life.
Posted by Libsizzler
OP your son is 3. What are his daily activities?

He goes to daycare. Well first off let me say that when all of this was going on he was transitioning into a new class at school and his favorite teacher came back after maternity leave and then when he was out for a week for vacation she left. My son doesn't forget he has a long memory he still asks about her, but he was upset about that as well as just being stubborn. At school they start the morning off with center play, then they have circle time, then they go outside, then they come in read and get ready for lunch, take a nap, and then does centers, art or plays outside until end of day. When he comes home he gets a snack and will usually ride his bike while dinner is on that is either inside or out depending on the weather, He also likes to have a movie on. I don't have television so he watches dvd or vhs and he will normally just listen to it in the back ground while he is playing with blocks or his spelling puzzle. he has an art table but he gets bored with coloring easily so he barely uses it unless there is playdoh there. Sometimes he will ask me to read when we get home, but we normally save that for bed time, but that is about it. I don't know what he really does at his dads house. For Christmas we both got him something for each of your houses that he could do to burn off energy if the weather is bad.
Posted by Libsizzler
^^^ thanks @ladylibra21 for sharing. The reason I asked is because I have experience with single parenting of a toddler (now my son is 18) who was kinda of onrey. He didn't respond well to spankings, as I learned that quick. The goal as a parent/mentor is to be effective so for me and him I knew spanking was not. Whereas with another kid, it would have been.

What was effective was talking to him--getting him to think. So he would do something and I would engage in conversation with him as to what he did wrong and why it wasn't the best choice. Even though he was 3 he still understood. For me it was a less stressful approach to parenting. Of course there were time when he'd repeat the behavior but again, the same approach would be had. I did take stuff away (but no timeout) as a consequence to his actions or choice. You gotta have patience though but the long term benefits were my son grew to be very introspective and conscious of his choices and their impact. By 5/6 he was easy and somewhat self manage.

You are right I am finding that that approach definitely works with him I have to really stress the importance of why he shouldn't do things then give him another option of what he can do. it is working so far, but he still has his moments.

You belong in prison .. you're a child abuser.

A 2 year old is a baby ..... and you beat him.

Even he knows it and tries to reason with you.

My hope is that somebody in the child's life who cares about him will follow you here, and find out that you need to be prosecuted for aggrevated assault.
Posted by ladylibra21
So I totally went completely Aries yesterday. I was on a blinding war path it scared me so bad I couldn't snap out of it. I absolutely hate cowards and I am normally not that girl but I would have given anything to round house kick this Sag guy.

Wait..I'm confused. I don't see any mention of a child in this post. Are you talking about a kid?
Posted by Stefanie87
Posted by ladylibra21
So I totally went completely Aries yesterday. I was on a blinding war path it scared me so bad I couldn't snap out of it. I absolutely hate cowards and I am normally not that girl but I would have given anything to round house kick this Sag guy.

Wait..I'm confused. I don't see any mention of a child in this post. Are you talking about a kid?
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No P-angel tried to come here racking my name through the mud because she is a damaged creature
Posted by ladylibra21
Posted by Stefanie87
Posted by ladylibra21
So I totally went completely Aries yesterday. I was on a blinding war path it scared me so bad I couldn't snap out of it. I absolutely hate cowards and I am normally not that girl but I would have given anything to round house kick this Sag guy.

Wait..I'm confused. I don't see any mention of a child in this post. Are you talking about a kid?

No P-angel tried to come here racking my name through the mud because she is a damaged creature
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Oh she is so predictable it's boring.
So what happened with this Sag guy? Let's try to bring this back on topic.