Posted by DonnaLibraNo he told me that twice and I never asked for a relationship... Why do you say she is a threat?
Why does he keep telling you he doesn't want a relationship? Are you asking him for one all of those times and that's why? If so, stop it. You say he's going through a divorce but she doesn't want it. How do you know he's actually going through a divorce? Have you seen the documents. It's doubtful that Libra will ever enter a relationship with you if he hasn't by now. Libras know right away if they want to be with someone or not and this guy seems to be playing. At least he isn't leading you on and told you he doesn't want a relationship so hanging around waiting on him is up to you. Yes that other woman is very much a threat.
Posted by DonnaLibraI know he is divorcing because he asked me for a lawyer and my best friend is dealing with the case...
Why does he keep telling you he doesn't want a relationship? Are you asking him for one all of those times and that's why? If so, stop it. You say he's going through a divorce but she doesn't want it. How do you know he's actually going through a divorce? Have you seen the documents. It's doubtful that Libra will ever enter a relationship with you if he hasn't by now. Libras know right away if they want to be with someone or not and this guy seems to be playing. At least he isn't leading you on and told you he doesn't want a relationship so hanging around waiting on him is up to you. Yes that other woman is very much a threat.
Posted by serenidadThank you for your answer... I feel the same thing: he has to sort many things out....
-it’s kinda admirable that this libra guy was honest with you about having met someone else and not knowing what to do at the moment. many people would hide things like that.
-all you can really do now is wait it out. he is going through a divorce plus a change of employment.
-no one can ever be a threat and take anything from you that’s meant to be yours. you can be up against the most beautiful, smart, kind hearted woman but if he wants to choose you and is meant to choose you over her, he will. and if he doesn’t choose you, then that just means god has someone better for you. someone who will be more aligned with you.
you also don’t know what will happen with her (the other woman) and the person she’s dating.
-as you can see, many things have to first fall into place before any relationship between you and him can happen.
Posted by Creamcheese113Posted by DonnaLibra
Why does he keep telling you he doesn't want a relationship? Are you asking him for one all of those times and that's why? If so, stop it. You say he's going through a divorce but she doesn't want it. How do you know he's actually going through a divorce? Have you seen the documents. It's doubtful that Libra will ever enter a relationship with you if he hasn't by now. Libras know right away if they want to be with someone or not and this guy seems to be playing. At least he isn't leading you on and told you he doesn't want a relationship so hanging around waiting on him is up to you. Yes that other woman is very much a threat.
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Posted by Creamcheese113Well the next time he tells you he doesn't want a relationship tell him, "Okay, but I never asked you for one so why do you keep telling me that?"Posted by DonnaLibra
Why does he keep telling you he doesn't want a relationship? Are you asking him for one all of those times and that's why? If so, stop it. You say he's going through a divorce but she doesn't want it. How do you know he's actually going through a divorce? Have you seen the documents. It's doubtful that Libra will ever enter a relationship with you if he hasn't by now. Libras know right away if they want to be with someone or not and this guy seems to be playing. At least he isn't leading you on and told you he doesn't want a relationship so hanging around waiting on him is up to you. Yes that other woman is very much a threat.
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Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Creamcheese113Posted by DonnaLibra
Why does he keep telling you he doesn't want a relationship? Are you asking him for one all of those times and that's why? If so, stop it. You say he's going through a divorce but she doesn't want it. How do you know he's actually going through a divorce? Have you seen the documents. It's doubtful that Libra will ever enter a relationship with you if he hasn't by now. Libras know right away if they want to be with someone or not and this guy seems to be playing. At least he isn't leading you on and told you he doesn't want a relationship so hanging around waiting on him is up to you. Yes that other woman is very much a threat.
No he told me that twice and I never asked for a relationship... Why do you say she is a threat?
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Because he told you e had strong feelings for the girl he met in Brazil. More than likely they are still communicating. If he was with you, yet could go to Brazil and fall for someone else so fast says his connection to you is not that strong. IMHO.click to expand
Posted by Creamcheese113Posted by DonnaLibra
Why does he keep telling you he doesn't want a relationship? Are you asking him for one all of those times and that's why? If so, stop it. You say he's going through a divorce but she doesn't want it. How do you know he's actually going through a divorce? Have you seen the documents. It's doubtful that Libra will ever enter a relationship with you if he hasn't by now. Libras know right away if they want to be with someone or not and this guy seems to be playing. At least he isn't leading you on and told you he doesn't want a relationship so hanging around waiting on him is up to you. Yes that other woman is very much a threat.
I know he is divorcing because he asked me for a lawyer and my best friend is dealing with the case...click to expand
Posted by Creamcheese113Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by Creamcheese113Posted by DonnaLibra
Why does he keep telling you he doesn't want a relationship? Are you asking him for one all of those times and that's why? If so, stop it. You say he's going through a divorce but she doesn't want it. How do you know he's actually going through a divorce? Have you seen the documents. It's doubtful that Libra will ever enter a relationship with you if he hasn't by now. Libras know right away if they want to be with someone or not and this guy seems to be playing. At least he isn't leading you on and told you he doesn't want a relationship so hanging around waiting on him is up to you. Yes that other woman is very much a threat.
No he told me that twice and I never asked for a relationship... Why do you say she is a threat?
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Because he told you e had strong feelings for the girl he met in Brazil. More than likely they are still communicating. If he was with you, yet could go to Brazil and fall for someone else so fast says his connection to you is not that strong. IMHO.
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Actually we were not together, we had known each other for 2 weeks max at the time… he told me he is still talking to her on insta from time to timeclick to expand
Posted by DonnaLibraThanks
You have to stand up to Libra men or they will run over you. Don't make him think you can't be without him or he'll use it to his advantage and continue to keep you in a holding block.
Posted by Creamcheese113Look if you just want to be this guys f-buddy or FWB that's fine. He isn't offering you anything. Men who are newly separated or divorced don't want to be locked down again. They want to play so don't be afraid to be clear with him about what you want and if he can't give it, bounce.Posted by DonnaLibra
You have to stand up to Libra men or they will run over you. Don't make him think you can't be without him or he'll use it to his advantage and continue to keep you in a holding block.
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Well I told I didn’t want a relationship and he pulled a face… Now I need to stand up for myself a bit moreclick to expand
Posted by aquarius09Thank you for your message…
You always have to go by what you want. If you want a relationship and he’s not willing to offer that, then kiss him good bye. Yes, your feelings are involved but take it as a blessing that it happened now rather than much later.
Now, time for an astrological insult, this is standard Libra and Cancer quixotic approach to love: come on quick and strong and then fizzle out just as fast.”It was love at first sight for both of us and we couldn't stay apart. Right after we met, he had to travel to Brazil for 3 weeks (he is brazilian). We started to talk everyday and both of us had the same feeling: it feels so natural between us. We both live in France and we decided to meet in Italy to spend the Week end there.” Your words quoted.
Perhaps pace yourself next time especially when dealing with another fantasist sign.
Posted by Creamcheese113Reserve the cloud nine feeling if someone is consistent and present within the 6 month mark. People who come on strong at the very beginning have issues (lovebombing, thinking they found the one etc) and biggest red flag ever. You see, they don’t know you and you don’t know them, so how is it love? At best it is lust at first sight. People have to know you to like traitd about you l, and if they do, they will stick around and only then will it lead to love.Posted by aquarius09
You always have to go by what you want. If you want a relationship and he’s not willing to offer that, then kiss him good bye. Yes, your feelings are involved but take it as a blessing that it happened now rather than much later.
Now, time for an astrological insult, this is standard Libra and Cancer quixotic approach to love: come on quick and strong and then fizzle out just as fast.”It was love at first sight for both of us and we couldn't stay apart. Right after we met, he had to travel to Brazil for 3 weeks (he is brazilian). We started to talk everyday and both of us had the same feeling: it feels so natural between us. We both live in France and we decided to meet in Italy to spend the Week end there.” Your words quoted.
Perhaps pace yourself next time especially when dealing with another fantasist sign.
Thank you for your message…
We both rushed into something and I believed him… After that I thought he needed more time because I haven’t met a man in years that I actually like
It killed me when he said he met someone else because I realized that during this WE in Italy he already knew he wanted nothing with me and he was thinking about someone else while I was on cloud 9 thinking that I finally met someone special…
Now I feel incredibly stupid and to be honest I don’t think I want to meet anyone or have a family… it’s too hard and heartbreaking… yea I was silly as sone of you pointed out but it’s my dream to have someone in my life but I think it’s stupid now,maybe I am meant to remain single and alone all my life
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Posted by aquarius09Thank you for your words… I remembered thinking he went too fast, planning to help me move out to my new flat the day we met, writting 50 messages a day, telling me he never met someone he liked so much si ce his divorce and now, I realized that 2 weeks after, he met someone else and felt the same way… still talking to her on a daily basis because it is a fantasy I guess and it has to be consumed (they haven’t slept together)…Posted by Creamcheese113Posted by aquarius09
You always have to go by what you want. If you want a relationship and he’s not willing to offer that, then kiss him good bye. Yes, your feelings are involved but take it as a blessing that it happened now rather than much later.
Now, time for an astrological insult, this is standard Libra and Cancer quixotic approach to love: come on quick and strong and then fizzle out just as fast.”It was love at first sight for both of us and we couldn't stay apart. Right after we met, he had to travel to Brazil for 3 weeks (he is brazilian). We started to talk everyday and both of us had the same feeling: it feels so natural between us. We both live in France and we decided to meet in Italy to spend the Week end there.” Your words quoted.
Perhaps pace yourself next time especially when dealing with another fantasist sign.
Thank you for your message…
We both rushed into something and I believed him… After that I thought he needed more time because I haven’t met a man in years that I actually like
It killed me when he said he met someone else because I realized that during this WE in Italy he already knew he wanted nothing with me and he was thinking about someone else while I was on cloud 9 thinking that I finally met someone special…
Now I feel incredibly stupid and to be honest I don’t think I want to meet anyone or have a family… it’s too hard and heartbreaking… yea I was silly as sone of you pointed out but it’s my dream to have someone in my life but I think it’s stupid now,maybe I am meant to remain single and alone all my life
Reserve the cloud nine feeling if someone is consistent and present within the 6 month mark. People who come on strong at the very beginning have issues (lovebombing, thinking they found the one etc) and biggest red flag ever. You see, they don’t know you and you don’t know them, so how is it love? At best it is lust at first sight. People have to know you to like traitd about you l, and if they do, they will stick around and only then will it lead to love.
Stop that ‘woe is me’ Cancerian nonsense. Let this be a learning lesson, not a deterrence from finding love. As I said before, stay calm, composed and pace yourself next time especially in the first six months where you are getting to know someone.click to expand