Quesion?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by sexysiren on Friday, September 7, 2007 and has 14 replies.
What do you do to get over a break up?
REVENGE ...
or a few drinks, whatever's easiest...
Stay busy and come to terms that it just wasn't right, right time and it wasn't about you (if it wasn't)Hang with friends, do some self-involvement things... Then have a drink...
Look at the whole situation as a blessing/lesson and nothing more and move foreward.
shop..lol which is bad because i'm a student with no job. I also go out and meet new people. Talk about all of his bad points and stuff that annoyed me with my friends and I keep it moving.
sometimes revenge....but that takes so much work because I like to get creative so I think about it a lot. That is only if you really try and scr#w me! Like making webpages and designing them so everytime someone visits the site it sends and email to your boss. Reporting your license plate to the state trooper for littering so you get a $ 300 ticket in the mail......sending emails and notes or whatever other evidence I've found of your infidelity to the person you cheated with significant other....creative stuff like that I try to cater my revenge to the individual and their pressure point!
* revenge?
Not me.
The best revenge is living well.
Krazy - your funny as hell, I guess the best revenge is when they see you doing better now that your not together. Not showing any emotion regarding the break up.
Take a step back, see what went wrong and what I can learn from it both about myself and relationships in general. I've learned something from every relationship I've been in so in some ways each experience was necessary to grow and become the person I am today. Also a great excuse to buy a really nice bottle of wine! Working outs great too, and I also tend to start a self-improvement project right after a breakup.
I happens so often i just say to myself "not AGAIN"?!! Sad
like if being dumped? lot of drinks the same day in the evening, some flirting in the bar, talking out of it with some male fellow-buddies at the bar, who usually advices as dont worry she ll come back (true only in about 50 % of cases), but it helps. Then big hangover in the morning, pretending (in front of her if have to meet her) that I am not that devastated as I am. If she doenst come back then moving on after some short time, because there is so much other girls and its so hard to be alone... Its been a while but that is as I remember it.
but revenge? nooo really not. How does it works anyway? How you can revenge if youre not acutally a couple anyway? She/he might not give a damn about what you do later if she/he dumped you. Or you mean something like seducing her/his best friend? Yes, it might hurt, but I dont think so, because its pathetic isnt it?
Revenge is unnecessary, how does thathelp anyone at all. I guess getting revenge would be the person who was dumped. Hmmm, never actually been left/dumped before. Now, that I think of it, I left all my relationships. Damn, I might need therapy...
LOL

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