Question about a Libra Man..... Need your opionion
This topic was created in the Libra forum by craceegurl on Thursday, July 13, 2006 and has 7 replies.
I'm a Gemini women and i met this Libra man at a local bar.... I had a hard day at work decide to have a few drinks alone. So we started chattin i met hi before through his brother and i hadn't seen him in a while. He told me what he did for a living I told him what i did and we just talked. He invited me to his house for a beer so i obliged he say only one i said only one.
I went to his house talked drank one beer and said thank you and left. I saw him again a few days later he bought me a beer i said thank you we talked about work and he invited me to see the work he does. I obliged went for a drive he dropped me off at the bar and he said come over later we can have some drinks i said i'll think about it. Well the night was still young after all so i went to his place we had one beer and talked about past relationships we had the bad ones. I was tired I slept over he wanted to have sex i said now he was okay about it but we messed out he pleasured me and next mornin i got up he walked me out and that was it.
Another week goes by i needed someone to talk to i went to his house he had company over so he gave me his number and he said call me later well i did. We had a few beers he wanted to get somethig to eat instead i whipped up something real quick for him. We talked some more and he asked me to stay the night so i did we messed around had "sex" which was really good. He set the alarm on for me so i could wake up the next mornin. We woke up had a "quicky" and i left he stayed in bed didn't walk me out... Whatever. I called him later that mornin just to check if he made to work.... That was it. He never called me again i left him a message and asked him if he found my earrings that i had left. He never called me back....
Now here's what happened yesterday: I went out had a few drinks i called him he didn't answer his cell. I went to his house didn't answer his door. So I went back to the bar... I went to his house later that night knocked again he answered. Went straight to his room and laid down he was completely naked.... he sleeps in the nude.... I told him the reason for my visit was to explain to him this thing that happened between is cool i'm old enough to make my own decisions. he asked me to lay down and i did i pleasured him and then he says "okay take off your clothes" i was like no i don't want to i just want to sleep i did i woke up this morning told him i was leaving said goodbye. what the hell is this?
I went to his house talked drank one beer and said thank you and left. I saw him again a few days later he bought me a beer i said thank you we talked about work and he invited me to see the work he does. I obliged went for a drive he dropped me off at the bar and he said come over later we can have some drinks i said i'll think about it. Well the night was still young after all so i went to his place we had one beer and talked about past relationships we had the bad ones. I was tired I slept over he wanted to have sex i said now he was okay about it but we messed out he pleasured me and next mornin i got up he walked me out and that was it.
Another week goes by i needed someone to talk to i went to his house he had company over so he gave me his number and he said call me later well i did. We had a few beers he wanted to get somethig to eat instead i whipped up something real quick for him. We talked some more and he asked me to stay the night so i did we messed around had "sex" which was really good. He set the alarm on for me so i could wake up the next mornin. We woke up had a "quicky" and i left he stayed in bed didn't walk me out... Whatever. I called him later that mornin just to check if he made to work.... That was it. He never called me again i left him a message and asked him if he found my earrings that i had left. He never called me back....
Now here's what happened yesterday: I went out had a few drinks i called him he didn't answer his cell. I went to his house didn't answer his door. So I went back to the bar... I went to his house later that night knocked again he answered. Went straight to his room and laid down he was completely naked.... he sleeps in the nude.... I told him the reason for my visit was to explain to him this thing that happened between is cool i'm old enough to make my own decisions. he asked me to lay down and i did i pleasured him and then he says "okay take off your clothes" i was like no i don't want to i just want to sleep i did i woke up this morning told him i was leaving said goodbye. what the hell is this?
What it is, is you saying you aren't worth more. You are accepting bad treatment. Just don't see him anymore and don't go looking for him. If he likes you, he will think it over, realize he is being an ass, come and appologize and make things better. If he doesn't, you just saved yourself some heartache.
i agree with you some guys are total asses....Yes i knew what was doing we both did but come on now be mature about the situation why do guys all of the sudden become MIA. too scared maybe what do thay think i want a relationship no... What? Whatever life's too short to worry about guys that can't get their head out their ass... Sorry but everyone knows there are some men out there that ruin it for the rest of them the same goes for women.
Because anything you chase runs away from you.
You have to honestly define what you want. When he didn't contact you again, you pursued him and contacted him ... including showing up at his door uninvited (which always gets you labeled a psycho even if it is innocent.) If he stopped contact, making it clear he wasn't interested in a relationship with you, because a guy who wanted a relationship wouldn't risk losing you, why wasn't that okay with you if you didn't want a relationship?
Just giving you some stuff to think about.
You have to honestly define what you want. When he didn't contact you again, you pursued him and contacted him ... including showing up at his door uninvited (which always gets you labeled a psycho even if it is innocent.) If he stopped contact, making it clear he wasn't interested in a relationship with you, because a guy who wanted a relationship wouldn't risk losing you, why wasn't that okay with you if you didn't want a relationship?
Just giving you some stuff to think about.
Here is some Libra dating advice, tosses hair and throws smile.
Where there is one man, there are many.
Be like the cat who fell off the fence and pretended no one was watching. Pick yourself up, tell yourself you are unbelievable and anyman would be lucky to have you, because it is true, define what you want and get back out there and find another.
Where there is one man, there are many.
Be like the cat who fell off the fence and pretended no one was watching. Pick yourself up, tell yourself you are unbelievable and anyman would be lucky to have you, because it is true, define what you want and get back out there and find another.
Your right! I know what I want i'm not confused i just wanna have fun no strings attached but if later in life i find that one guy who knows what'll happen. Thank you!
Then go for it!
Just don't expect calls, callbacks, etc. cause men see those as strings.
Good luck and happy hunting.
Just don't expect calls, callbacks, etc. cause men see those as strings.
Good luck and happy hunting.
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