Question for Libra's

Why can't a Libra move on after they have been caught cheating multiple times? And why do they act like nothing is wrong, Like talk to u like nothing is going on.

Well because we don't like talking about anything that is negative about ourselves and we need to be liked. DUH! Like Eddie Murphy said in RAW "Can we just leave the cheating out of this?" 🙂

heliumfiasco Well if Libra's don't like talking about negative things in their life, then why do it? And I have done everything I can for this Libra to go, and he still want go. I am even talking to other men, and he still want leave. Why is he being so clingy? He still choose to have other women so why not go on and be with them. And just leave me alone.

Is he working yet?

My ex contacted me several times with me not wanting to do anything with him as I asked him to leave me alone in the nicest way possible in those several times.

The only way he'll stop contacting you is when you stop responding to him. He'll try a couple times, once you stop responding all together, he'll get the hint and move on.

Not responding to anything he says or does, it is the only way for him to leave you alone.

Posted by angiedbc457
Well if Libra's don't like talking about negative things in their life, then why do it?

Sometimes they just never learn from past mistakes because they are not looking at the entire picture of what's going in and out of their lives, generally speaking.

@Watercup, Yes he do have a job He landed a full time one doing construction. I even told him I was going to bring my new man here and he said ok, we will all share the bed, he said he would even watch. I even called the police on him and they wouldn't take him, they told me I got to file and eviction but I talked with a lawyer and they said its not a tenant thing. I have never known Libra's to be clingy I was told if u give them the cold shoulder then they would get the point and leave u along. A friend of mine told me that I was the one he wanted to be with that's why he isn't leaving u alone.

Posted by IridescenceMorpha

Posted by angiedbc457
Well if Libra's don't like talking about negative things in their life, then why do it?

Sometimes they just never learn from past mistakes because they are not looking at the entire picture of what's going in and out of their lives, generally speaking.

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The Main Person, the One We Care(d) The Most, do not realize who they are hurting, and people involved, who happen to be one of us, get hurt because He/She does not see the full picture of what's going on inside and outside of their lives.

They might, but if they knew how much we were hurting, then they would have an idea how much karma will come back for them. Life is loop after loop after loop if not knowing how to stop the cycle, in which he has fallen to cheat and have plenty of women, because he doesn't know The One Lady who he will actually fall for, will break his heart into PIECES, for breaking other girl's hearts in his lifetime, if he doesn't stop cheating on women.

IridescenceMorpha Well im hoping he find that one woman that will do him in, Im not being mean but I wish he would move on, I told him he can't be with me and have other women to. Im not like that, and its not fun being hurt or used like that. I want him to find someone that makes him happy cuz apparently im not the one that does, cuz if I was he wouldn't cheat on me. I look at it like this why tell me u want me and u don't? And I wish to God I can get rid of him so badly, I want to move on with my life and be happy with a man that truly loves me. But he is in the way. I mean I sit up and talk to other men on the phone in front of him he still don't want to leave, What is it with this Libra and being so clingy to me. BTW im a Gemini girl.

Posted by size zero superhero
Sidenote--anybody remember this jam from back in the day?

LOL! I love this song! I thought it was hilarious when it came out. I didn't know Shaggy's a libra. Lol. Makes sense now. I just wished more guys would use the excuse, "It wasn't me", when they get caught. Lol

Whoa, I didn't know Shaggy is a Libra!! The song makes complete sense now! *thumps head*

Oh crap didn't know there were more posts on this forum. Well aquarius09, looks like you and I think alike! 😉

Posted by angiedbc457
IridescenceMorpha Well im hoping he find that one woman that will do him in, Im not being mean but I wish he would move on, I told him he can't be with me and have other women to. Im not like that, and its not fun being hurt or used like that. I want him to find someone that makes him happy cuz apparently im not the one that does, cuz if I was he wouldn't cheat on me. I look at it like this why tell me u want me and u don't? And I wish to God I can get rid of him so badly, I want to move on with my life and be happy with a man that truly loves me. But he is in the way. I mean I sit up and talk to other men on the phone in front of him he still don't want to leave, What is it with this Libra and being so clingy to me. BTW im a Gemini girl.

You're not being mean, it is the way of life, by the way he treated you for you to leave him alone and wishing him the best to find a woman who can make him happy.

Men are men, when they find a good woman who hasn't done them wrong, they cling. Since you mentioned God, leave it up to Him, He will know what to do with this guy who's playing a role in your life.

When you decide to leave it up to Him, you stop stressing/worrying, anything that this guy is doing won't bother you any longer. The only reason he bugs you is because you haven't given the chance to the universe to let go. When you let go, the universe will bring opportunities you never thought existed.

Your ex will disappear, once you start giving love and faith to the universe, he will disappear.

Sorry if it sounds religious, it's not, it's just how the world works when one is touched through the universal feelings and perception of reality. It can be disagreed, but it's not about them right now. It's about you and your ex, when you learn to let go, your worries and stresses will disappear and he'll eventually start disappearing out of your life day by day, little by little.

It's easier said than done, but doesn't hurt to try.

Love & Blessings. You'll get through this. 🙂

Posted by IridescenceMorpha
Oh crap didn't know there were more posts on this forum. Well aquarius09, looks like you and I think alike! 😉

Great minds think alike. 😉

Posted by size zero superhero
Sidenote--anybody remember this jam from back in the day?

what!? I also didnt know he's a libra. I had a crush on him growing up..I had a crush on A LOT of libra celebs without me even knowing their signs. The list is embarrassing thou, Lil Wayne is there lmao

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Posted by IridescenceMorpha
Oh crap didn't know there were more posts on this forum. Well aquarius09, looks like you and I think alike! 😉

Great minds think alike. 😉

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Indeed 😉

Posted by WaterCup

Posted by size zero superhero
Sidenote--anybody remember this jam from back in the day?

what!? I also didnt know he's a libra. I had a crush on him growing up..I had a crush on A LOT of libra celebs without me even knowing their signs. The list is embarrassing thou, Lil Wayne is there lmao

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Haha! Lil Wayne throws some badass lyrics, I don't blame him for all the women lining up in line for him! 😛 He's a favorite 😭.

He just wants to show to you how much you are wrong now... he just wants to show to you that yyou never ever loved him in fact... If you would love him now or ever, you could forget his cheating on you and keep him near by you exactly as he do everything to keeps you near by him now. It is just a clever Libra's way to show to you how much you wrong now. Even you will come with other man in that house, he will be there , you know why ? Because he lovd you and in on day he wants show to you that you really lost him. And that day will be when you will get hurt probably by the other man and then you will see what you lost. At that time, your Libra will go and move on , leaving you just thinking what you was wrong sending him to go away of you.... Now he humilate you a little , only that's way, to makes you make a mistake in your angry time now, so he is waiting for you to move on and when you will suffer from other man, he will leave you. So, better you think 2 times before to say "goodbye " to him , because you will never find a better man than Libra are ! At least he told you he cheated with other woman, but another man will not tell you this, even he cheat too, and you have to know, there is no man to not cheating !
In his opinion, now you hurt him veery much doing all this actions and I think calling police to get him out from there, sorry, but it is a really crazy thing ... I don't want to say what he thinks about you also... you can image by yourself, because you hurt him telling him ou want bring other man there and so on....

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Posted by heliumfiasco
Well because we don't like talking about anything that is negative about ourselves and we need to be liked. DUH! Like Eddie Murphy said in RAW "Can we just leave the cheating out of this?" 🙂

Obviously, but WHY. How does it make you feel? Or, is it just the feeling in general that causes discomfort? I've always been curious about this as I just cannot relate. I tend to want to handle issues immediately to get them out of the way. I'm not known for running from them. You would think, being as intelligent as Libras are, they would understand this.

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Honestly, I'm just coming to terms with how emotionally dumb I am. I have been in denial. I am CONSTANTLY in a confused state of why people are reacting to me the way they are. Your final comment was funny to me. My ex recently told me that "For someone I consider to be one of the smartest people I know, you have no clue about people, especially men."

For me personally I may "know" something about someone or a situation, but I can't take it for just that. Whether that is a good or bad thing. I can't really explain it. Hard to put into words. It's not just as simple as denial either, it's a thought process that is really fucked up. I think there is ALWAYS MORE to a situation/reaction. That NOTHING is black and white, so I dissect something to the point where it is no longer what it is. I need to learn to trust what is being presented as so. Does that make sense to you? I blame my 12th house Merc and Sun and 8th house moon. To have a chart really comprised of Libra, Gemini and Virgo is a bitch... analyzing, dissecting, fixing, probing. 24/7 mental masturbation.

Julya22,

He just wants to show to you how much you are wrong now... he just wants to show to you that yyou never ever loved him in fact... If you would love him now or ever, you could forget his cheating on you and keep him near by you exactly as he do everything to keeps you near by him now. It is just a clever Libra's way to show to you how much you wrong now. Even you will come with other man in that house, he will be there , you know why ? Because he lovd you and in on day he wants show to you that you really lost him. And that day will be when you will get hurt probably by the other man and then you will see what you lost. At that time, your Libra will go and move on , leaving you just thinking what you was wrong sending him to go away of you.... Now he humilate you a little , only that's way, to makes you make a mistake in your angry time now, so he is waiting for you to move on and when you will suffer from other man, he will leave you. So, better you think 2 times before to say "goodbye " to him , because you will never find a better man than Libra are ! At least he told you he cheated with other woman, but another man will not tell you this, even he cheat too, and you have to know, there is no man to not cheating !
In his opinion, now you hurt him veery much doing all this actions and I think calling police to get him out from there, sorry, but it is a really crazy thing ... I don't want to say what he thinks about you also... you can image by yourself, because you hurt him telling him ou want bring other man there and so on....


I don't want him, I don't care about hurting him, He wasn't thinkin about my feelings when he cheated so why should I care about hurting him I don't, and Libra's are NOT!!!!!!! best for me. Its other men out there that are best for me and want cheat or hurt me. And if he is that hurt then Why want he move his ass out? Yep I told him I was gonna bring another man to MY HOUSE, I got every right to do that and will, I will never suffer from the other man, I am already seeing the other man. And I will never ever forget that he went out and spend the night at this woman house then slept with her never will I forget that. Don't ever mess with me or hurt me. Cuz Karma a bitch. I want to see his ass hurt, because he never cared or thought about how I felt. He don't love me, he cheated on me and that's his way of love. BS.

leoliza

Agree

Julya22

Tell me what do he think of me? Im so so curious to know.

IridescenceMorpha

Thank you for your input its ok that it sound religious cuz I am a firm believer in God, and your right about everything your saying.

You're very welcomed.

Are you two arguing asking him to leave? Sometimes a person sees arguing as "affection," in a different sense.

If that's the case, maybe he's clinging onto you waiting to see if you will change your mind? Probably the reason why he sticks around because he might think the arguments will change someday?

Have you thought about moving out so he can stop bugging you if the lease is not under your name?

Posted by Julya22
He just wants to show to you how much you are wrong now... he just wants to show to you that yyou never ever loved him in fact... If you would love him now or ever, you could forget his cheating on you and keep him near by you exactly as he do everything to keeps you near by him now. It is just a clever Libra's way to show to you how much you wrong now. Even you will come with other man in that house, he will be there , you know why ? Because he lovd you and in on day he wants show to you that you really lost him. And that day will be when you will get hurt probably by the other man and then you will see what you lost. At that time, your Libra will go and move on , leaving you just thinking what you was wrong sending him to go away of you.... Now he humilate you a little , only that's way, to makes you make a mistake in your angry time now, so he is waiting for you to move on and when you will suffer from other man, he will leave you. So, better you think 2 times before to say "goodbye " to him , because you will never find a better man than Libra are ! At least he told you he cheated with other woman, but another man will not tell you this, even he cheat too, and you have to know, there is no man to not cheating !
In his opinion, now you hurt him veery much doing all this actions and I think calling police to get him out from there, sorry, but it is a really crazy thing ... I don't want to say what he thinks about you also... you can image by yourself, because you hurt him telling him ou want bring other man there and so on....

Wronged for what? She didn't do anything wrong, only loved him for who he is. Accepting his mistake saying it is okay? It is more in the sense of placing standards accepting value for being treated just for being you. You value what you accept which you think it is okay. What she thinks it is okay is by leaving him for cheating because it is acknowledging disrespect replacing for respect in knowing what her values are.

Her saying bringing another man to the house is proving him she's done and over with him. There is nothing wrong with that after a breakup if one already proved themselves disloyal to a significant other.

Accepting who you are is valuing what you think you deserve in how you want and would like to be treated.

IridescenceMorpha

The lease is in my name and the arguments have come down some. The only thing that I wanted was for him to make up his mind an come to terms with who he really want to be with. And I agree with what u said back to Julya22, because I am not wrong for what I said to him, he is the one that cheated not me she turned it around an made it seem like I was the cheated and im not. But, also my biggest thing is truly forgetting what has happen to me. And that keeps the anger inside of me. I mean don't no one wants a cheater or someone being disloyal to them.

Nobody wants to be mistreated, not having the desire to be with him any longer... By all means, it's not easy going through a process after a breakup not wanting to see significant other or face them everyday after what they've done.... By ignoring him and his acts... it's not required to pay attention...

I think that in a way we don't believe it is wrong unless we are married only because we are very romantic creatures, and when our sight spots interest we go after it. We are always testing the waters of a thing called love. However, when we are truly in love with someone we stay 100% faithful to them. You either have us or you don't simple as that. Haha 🙂

Yup, he's indecisive and if he truly loved you he wouldn't have cheated. There is a vast difference in flirting and then going through with the act. That's a line I have never crossed. Ignore him big time and eventually he will get the hint. Drop all the social media, block his number, and whatever else. It might take some time, but he'll see it eventually. Each time you respond, in our Libra head, that's an opening.

I'm with helium, I over analyze ever piece of information still I see what I want to see. It could literally be completely wrong, but I've balanced that scale with every little piece of good to negate those much larger pieces of bad. That all being said, the balance is starting to return 😉