
Definitely do not feel this way about Libra women... they are usually smart about self-awareness shit... they are the bomb dot com!! Love my libras 🙂

Posted by feby16aquaPosted by Lib911
Of course I am joking, you know me at least that much 🙂 You gotta have fun with this stuff after a while
Yes I know you definitely well enough. **hugs**click to expand
Posted by tiziani
C'mon 911, just got to leave em be. The Libran ex-wives club, same time, same place next week.
Posted by xtina
And instead of owning up to them they usually try to hide it under a heavy layer of bravado or cockiness. And therein lies the huge difference between confidence and cockiness... cockiness is to believe you are flawless or hardly ever wrong... confidence is understanding that you are flawed, admitting to it, and owning it NOT letting it slowly own you.

Posted by Lib911Posted by xtina
And instead of owning up to them they usually try to hide it under a heavy layer of bravado or cockiness. And therein lies the huge difference between confidence and cockiness... cockiness is to believe you are flawless or hardly ever wrong... confidence is understanding that you are flawed, admitting to it, and owning it NOT letting it slowly own you.
To acknowledge what truth? From all this shit I was reading, maybe 1% makes sense and its actually related to Libra sign. The rest is related to people in general regardless of a sign. They are just trying to justify a failed relationship by pointing out the negatives which can be associated with any sign, gimme a breakclick to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by xtina
And instead of owning up to them they usually try to hide it under a heavy layer of bravado or cockiness. And therein lies the huge difference between confidence and cockiness... cockiness is to believe you are flawless or hardly ever wrong... confidence is understanding that you are flawed, admitting to it, and owning it NOT letting it slowly own you.
To acknowledge what truth? From all this shit I was reading, maybe 1% makes sense and its actually related to Libra sign. The rest is related to people in general regardless of a sign. They are just trying to justify a failed relationship by pointing out the negatives which can be associated with any sign, gimme a breakclick to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by aquarius09Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by aquarius09
And so it begins because she can't handle it. Nobody is attacking her. We are just sharing our experiences as outsiders looking in. Aquarian forum doesn't usually have "bash" threads, but when they do, I don't see Aquarians crying foul and getting upset.
The passive attempt at masking bitchy snark under the guise of joking isn't disguised well.
And to elaborate for the butthurt, this is not a bashing thread. I seriously am wondering wtf the deal is because these guys that come to mind are decent guys who deserve better. I just do not understand why they eff things up for themselves or act so freaking insane when it comes to dating and relating. They kinda self sabotage which is sad because, again, they are decent dudes when they have their shit together.
Sweetz basically pointed out that truly balancing out is almost like a coming of age bit. They gotta learn how to get that balance going. Maybe this is why these guys go through such crazy phases and end up giving the entire sign a bad rap.
It's almost a catch 22 though. These guys are all about love, and romance, and pairing off, but they clearly are not ready for any of this (and shouldn't be doing any of this) until they achieve true balance and aren't behaving like romantic terrorists.
+1
Of course two haters hi-five each other, hoorah 🙂click to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by xtina
And instead of owning up to them they usually try to hide it under a heavy layer of bravado or cockiness. And therein lies the huge difference between confidence and cockiness... cockiness is to believe you are flawless or hardly ever wrong... confidence is understanding that you are flawed, admitting to it, and owning it NOT letting it slowly own you.
To acknowledge what truth? From all this shit I was reading, maybe 1% makes sense and its actually related to Libra sign. The rest is related to people in general regardless of a sign. They are just trying to justify a failed relationship by pointing out the negatives which can be associated with any sign, gimme a breakclick to expand


Posted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by xtina
And instead of owning up to them they usually try to hide it under a heavy layer of bravado or cockiness. And therein lies the huge difference between confidence and cockiness... cockiness is to believe you are flawless or hardly ever wrong... confidence is understanding that you are flawed, admitting to it, and owning it NOT letting it slowly own you.
To acknowledge what truth? From all this shit I was reading, maybe 1% makes sense and its actually related to Libra sign. The rest is related to people in general regardless of a sign. They are just trying to justify a failed relationship by pointing out the negatives which can be associated with any sign, gimme a break
LOL, proving my point EXACTLY. Make that 10 out of 11 now 🙂click to expand


Posted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by xtina
And instead of owning up to them they usually try to hide it under a heavy layer of bravado or cockiness. And therein lies the huge difference between confidence and cockiness... cockiness is to believe you are flawless or hardly ever wrong... confidence is understanding that you are flawed, admitting to it, and owning it NOT letting it slowly own you.
To acknowledge what truth? From all this shit I was reading, maybe 1% makes sense and its actually related to Libra sign. The rest is related to people in general regardless of a sign. They are just trying to justify a failed relationship by pointing out the negatives which can be associated with any sign, gimme a break
LOL, proving my point EXACTLY. Make that 10 out of 11 now 🙂click to expand

Posted by TaurusNikki
Which pretty much means some libras just can't face reality, they would rather live a lie than face the truth
Posted by xtinaPosted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by xtina
And instead of owning up to them they usually try to hide it under a heavy layer of bravado or cockiness. And therein lies the huge difference between confidence and cockiness... cockiness is to believe you are flawless or hardly ever wrong... confidence is understanding that you are flawed, admitting to it, and owning it NOT letting it slowly own you.
To acknowledge what truth? From all this shit I was reading, maybe 1% makes sense and its actually related to Libra sign. The rest is related to people in general regardless of a sign. They are just trying to justify a failed relationship by pointing out the negatives which can be associated with any sign, gimme a break
LOL, proving my point EXACTLY. Make that 10 out of 11 now 🙂
The fact that you replied in such a hostile manner means I hit a cord with you... meaning somewhere in your brain you know it's true.
Now lemme see... a lot of the men I know and mainly the ones I've dated (regardless of whether it worked out or not) the men of various signs (no libras go figure) were able to admit to fault or flaws and they usually never had a problem doing so because they were able to see things from an objective view and not get offended whether they believe said flaw to be true or not. And I've dated a good variety of signs... even Taurus men and Aries men (hello most stubborn) I knew were able to admit to flaws and not hide it and/or let it define them or even get butt hurt about it... but you're right it is prob because I date confident men in general that are not cocky or full of themselves...but then again you are on a predominately ASTROLOGY based message board... but hey I'm not judging 😛click to expand

Posted by xtinaPosted by TaurusNikki
Which pretty much means some libras just can't face reality, they would rather live a lie than face the truth
+1click to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by xtinaPosted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by xtina
And instead of owning up to them they usually try to hide it under a heavy layer of bravado or cockiness. And therein lies the huge difference between confidence and cockiness... cockiness is to believe you are flawless or hardly ever wrong... confidence is understanding that you are flawed, admitting to it, and owning it NOT letting it slowly own you.
To acknowledge what truth? From all this shit I was reading, maybe 1% makes sense and its actually related to Libra sign. The rest is related to people in general regardless of a sign. They are just trying to justify a failed relationship by pointing out the negatives which can be associated with any sign, gimme a break
LOL, proving my point EXACTLY. Make that 10 out of 11 now 🙂
The fact that you replied in such a hostile manner means I hit a cord with you... meaning somewhere in your brain you know it's true.
Now lemme see... a lot of the men I know and mainly the ones I've dated (regardless of whether it worked out or not) the men of various signs (no libras go figure) were able to admit to fault or flaws and they usually never had a problem doing so because they were able to see things from an objective view and not get offended whether they believe said flaw to be true or not. And I've dated a good variety of signs... even Taurus men and Aries men (hello most stubborn) I knew were able to admit to flaws and not hide it and/or let it define them or even get butt hurt about it... but you're right it is prob because I date confident men in general that are not cocky or full of themselves...but then again you are on a predominately ASTROLOGY based message board... but hey I'm not judging 😛
Actually the only reason I replied with that tone is because if something is stupid, I am gonna say its stupid, no hidden agendas, even though you really wish I have don't u?... aww sorry *playing the world's smallest violin*click to expand
Posted by TaurusNikki
Which pretty much means some libras just can't face reality, they would rather live a lie than face the truth

Posted by xtinaPosted by xtinaPosted by TaurusNikki
Which pretty much means some libras just can't face reality, they would rather live a lie than face the truth
+1
This is what I love about Taurus women... they have all the drive and passions and strength of an Aries but definitely a lot more eloquent and straight to the point 🙂click to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
Which pretty much means some libras just can't face reality, they would rather live a lie than face the truth
If there is someone who can face a reality that's me, on the other hand I can't face nonsense...click to expand
Posted by tiziani
You're trying to relate really basic universal things like insecurity and manipulation to one sign only. And asking us to believe you want to understand and move on to better experiences with Libras if someone would just acknowledge some sort of responsibility for what you went through by accepting flaws. But it doesn't work like that because we've already been through a lot of good and bad points about Libras in many threads prior to this one and the story never changes. You still hang onto the past and use it as a reason to see whatever you want to see. No one is going to get you over it but yourself. That's the truth.

Posted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
Which pretty much means some libras just can't face reality, they would rather live a lie than face the truth
If there is someone who can face a reality that's me, on the other hand I can't face nonsense...click to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by tiziani
You're trying to relate really basic universal things like insecurity and manipulation to one sign only. And asking us to believe you want to understand and move on to better experiences with Libras if someone would just acknowledge some sort of responsibility for what you went through by accepting flaws. But it doesn't work like that because we've already been through a lot of good and bad points about Libras in many threads prior to this one and the story never changes. You still hang onto the past and use it as a reason to see whatever you want to see. No one is going to get you over it but yourself. That's the truth.
These chicks wanna feed on negative and they will never stop. And if someone comes in continuing the bash fast they hi-five them. The invite goes "You are welcome if you have shit to say about libras, all positive experiences are not welcome, go away!" LOLclick to expand

Posted by TaurusNikki
The good about libra is this at least for me
They like to keep things light and fun, never leave a person behind, ( when they should)
have good advice (but never take their own at times)
Are great friends
Good in the love department relationship wise( ( once they cut the bullshit out, which takes too much time, but it happens)
Make you feel young cause they are such kids at heart
Give you all they have once they trust you
Won't leave your side ( only if they have stop playing games by pulling the cycle game, trying to have it all instead of what they already have)
Posted by aquarius09Posted by Lib911Posted by tiziani
You're trying to relate really basic universal things like insecurity and manipulation to one sign only. And asking us to believe you want to understand and move on to better experiences with Libras if someone would just acknowledge some sort of responsibility for what you went through by accepting flaws. But it doesn't work like that because we've already been through a lot of good and bad points about Libras in many threads prior to this one and the story never changes. You still hang onto the past and use it as a reason to see whatever you want to see. No one is going to get you over it but yourself. That's the truth.
These chicks wanna feed on negative and they will never stop. And if someone comes in continuing the bash fast they hi-five them. The invite goes "You are welcome if you have shit to say about libras, all positive experiences are not welcome, go away!" LOL
When there are that MaNy negatives, the positives tend to be overlooked. That's to be expected. Hitler was a good husband, but nobody gives a shit about that. His negative outweighs his positive.click to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
The good about libra is this at least for me
They like to keep things light and fun, never leave a person behind, ( when they should)
have good advice (but never take their own at times)
Are great friends
Good in the love department relationship wise( ( once they cut the bullshit out, which takes too much time, but it happens)
Make you feel young cause they are such kids at heart
Give you all they have once they trust you
Won't leave your side ( only if they have stop playing games by pulling the cycle game, trying to have it all instead of what they already have)
Nikki that's nice to hear, but you do realize this post will be overlooked 😉click to expand

Posted by utopianPosted by aquarius09Posted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
Which pretty much means some libras just can't face reality, they would rather live a lie than face the truth
If there is someone who can face a reality that's me, on the other hand I can't face nonsense...
So we have Sweetz and xytina (libra moon) who can own up, then we have Taurus, aqua and an Aries saying the same thing, that leaves you out in the cold by yourself. All have made valid points and used examples whereas you have just covered your ears and yelled, "lies, lies, lies!" That should tell you something about YOU if not your sign. :S
Congratulations. You are falling into the trap of the fallen gregori. Preaching hate and destroying the minds of the innocent.click to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
The good about libra is this at least for me
They like to keep things light and fun, never leave a person behind, ( when they should)
have good advice (but never take their own at times)
Are great friends
Good in the love department relationship wise( ( once they cut the bullshit out, which takes too much time, but it happens)
Make you feel young cause they are such kids at heart
Give you all they have once they trust you
Won't leave your side ( only if they have stop playing games by pulling the cycle game, trying to have it all instead of what they already have)
Nikki that's nice to hear, but you do realize this post will be overlooked 😉click to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by aquarius09Posted by Lib911Posted by tiziani
You're trying to relate really basic universal things like insecurity and manipulation to one sign only. And asking us to believe you want to understand and move on to better experiences with Libras if someone would just acknowledge some sort of responsibility for what you went through by accepting flaws. But it doesn't work like that because we've already been through a lot of good and bad points about Libras in many threads prior to this one and the story never changes. You still hang onto the past and use it as a reason to see whatever you want to see. No one is going to get you over it but yourself. That's the truth.
These chicks wanna feed on negative and they will never stop. And if someone comes in continuing the bash fast they hi-five them. The invite goes "You are welcome if you have shit to say about libras, all positive experiences are not welcome, go away!" LOL
When there are that MaNy negatives, the positives tend to be overlooked. That's to be expected. Hitler was a good husband, but nobody gives a shit about that. His negative outweighs his positive.
wow thats the worst example ever :/
There are many positives, you just refuse to see them. And the negatives you mention are mostly related to all signs, not just libras
Sometimes I would joke around and say 'leeb males are this or that' but most of the time I am joking because I have seen those same negatives in other signs.click to expand

Posted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
The good about libra is this at least for me
They like to keep things light and fun, never leave a person behind, ( when they should)
have good advice (but never take their own at times)
Are great friends
Good in the love department relationship wise( ( once they cut the bullshit out, which takes too much time, but it happens)
Make you feel young cause they are such kids at heart
Give you all they have once they trust you
Won't leave your side ( only if they have stop playing games by pulling the cycle game, trying to have it all instead of what they already have)
Nikki that's nice to hear, but you do realize this post will be overlooked 😉
I don't doubt that their is an amazingly sweet and amazing side to Libra men, I've just never seen it and am really not interested in seeing it yet only because there has yet to be a Libra man that catches my eye (I've caught their eyes for sure)... and it's not because I think they are god aweful I just haven't found one I was interested in! Every sign, just like every person, has their flaw.click to expand

Posted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
The good about libra is this at least for me
They like to keep things light and fun, never leave a person behind, ( when they should)
have good advice (but never take their own at times)
Are great friends
Good in the love department relationship wise( ( once they cut the bullshit out, which takes too much time, but it happens)
Make you feel young cause they are such kids at heart
Give you all they have once they trust you
Won't leave your side ( only if they have stop playing games by pulling the cycle game, trying to have it all instead of what they already have)
Nikki that's nice to hear, but you do realize this post will be overlooked 😉
I don't doubt that their is an amazingly sweet and amazing side to Libra men, I've just never seen it and am really not interested in seeing it yet only because there has yet to be a Libra man that catches my eye (I've caught their eyes for sure)... and it's not because I think they are god aweful I just haven't found one I was interested in! Every sign, just like every person, has their flaw.click to expand

Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
The good about libra is this at least for me
They like to keep things light and fun, never leave a person behind, ( when they should)
have good advice (but never take their own at times)
Are great friends
Good in the love department relationship wise( ( once they cut the bullshit out, which takes too much time, but it happens)
Make you feel young cause they are such kids at heart
Give you all they have once they trust you
Won't leave your side ( only if they have stop playing games by pulling the cycle game, trying to have it all instead of what they already have)
Nikki that's nice to hear, but you do realize this post will be overlooked 😉
I don't doubt that their is an amazingly sweet and amazing side to Libra men, I've just never seen it and am really not interested in seeing it yet only because there has yet to be a Libra man that catches my eye (I've caught their eyes for sure)... and it's not because I think they are god aweful I just haven't found one I was interested in! Every sign, just like every person, has their flaw.
I don't blame you there, I agree, but I will admit this if he had lied or try to pull that woe is me again, I'd been in jail for sure friendclick to expand


Posted by Lib911Posted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
The good about libra is this at least for me
They like to keep things light and fun, never leave a person behind, ( when they should)
have good advice (but never take their own at times)
Are great friends
Good in the love department relationship wise( ( once they cut the bullshit out, which takes too much time, but it happens)
Make you feel young cause they are such kids at heart
Give you all they have once they trust you
Won't leave your side ( only if they have stop playing games by pulling the cycle game, trying to have it all instead of what they already have)
Nikki that's nice to hear, but you do realize this post will be overlooked 😉
I don't doubt that their is an amazingly sweet and amazing side to Libra men, I've just never seen it and am really not interested in seeing it yet only because there has yet to be a Libra man that catches my eye (I've caught their eyes for sure)... and it's not because I think they are god aweful I just haven't found one I was interested in! Every sign, just like every person, has their flaw.
So why did you side with the 'negative' clan when you don't have much experiences with leebs? Did you have bad experience with leebs, males and/or females?click to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
The good about libra is this at least for me
They like to keep things light and fun, never leave a person behind, ( when they should)
have good advice (but never take their own at times)
Are great friends
Good in the love department relationship wise( ( once they cut the bullshit out, which takes too much time, but it happens)
Make you feel young cause they are such kids at heart
Give you all they have once they trust you
Won't leave your side ( only if they have stop playing games by pulling the cycle game, trying to have it all instead of what they already have)
Nikki that's nice to hear, but you do realize this post will be overlooked 😉
I don't doubt that their is an amazingly sweet and amazing side to Libra men, I've just never seen it and am really not interested in seeing it yet only because there has yet to be a Libra man that catches my eye (I've caught their eyes for sure)... and it's not because I think they are god aweful I just haven't found one I was interested in! Every sign, just like every person, has their flaw.
I don't blame you there, I agree, but I will admit this if he had lied or try to pull that woe is me again, I'd been in jail for sure friend
lol ouchclick to expand
Posted by TaurusNikki
But what gets me is that I find that libras like staying in touch with their ex's
Jmo
But once your an ex, I keep you in the past, there is no going back


Posted by TaurusNikki
But what gets me is that I find that libras like staying in touch with their ex's
Jmo
But once your an ex, I keep you in the past, there is no going back

Posted by aquarius09
Oh I forgot your best quality. I love you guys for this and this is probably why I have a lot of libra friends: you guys are attentive listeners and care about the ones you hold dear. I'm talking strictly friendship.
Posted by xtinaPosted by TaurusNikki
But what gets me is that I find that libras like staying in touch with their ex's
Jmo
But once your an ex, I keep you in the past, there is no going back
+1click to expand
Posted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by xtinaPosted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
The good about libra is this at least for me
They like to keep things light and fun, never leave a person behind, ( when they should)
have good advice (but never take their own at times)
Are great friends
Good in the love department relationship wise( ( once they cut the bullshit out, which takes too much time, but it happens)
Make you feel young cause they are such kids at heart
Give you all they have once they trust you
Won't leave your side ( only if they have stop playing games by pulling the cycle game, trying to have it all instead of what they already have)
Nikki that's nice to hear, but you do realize this post will be overlooked 😉
I don't doubt that their is an amazingly sweet and amazing side to Libra men, I've just never seen it and am really not interested in seeing it yet only because there has yet to be a Libra man that catches my eye (I've caught their eyes for sure)... and it's not because I think they are god aweful I just haven't found one I was interested in! Every sign, just like every person, has their flaw.
So why did you side with the 'negative' clan when you don't have much experiences with leebs? Did you have bad experience with leebs, males and/or females?
Nope, no bad experiences. Only experience is with my Libra best friend and I love her to death. See you see this as black and white when it really isn't. I just said you guys have flaws like everybody else I NEVER said you guys are bad or even assholes or idiots... I was just telling you "hey Lib911 she has a point and you should admit it" did I say everything they said was right? No I didn't even read everything they wrote. I just clicked on this link, clicked to the last page and scrolled down to the last comment. I ALWAYS do this. and I answered from there.
Why do there have to be bad and good guys when it comes to natural observations?click to expand

Posted by xtinaPosted by aquarius09
Oh I forgot your best quality. I love you guys for this and this is probably why I have a lot of libra friends: you guys are attentive listeners and care about the ones you hold dear. I'm talking strictly friendship.
Yes, yes! They are really good in the friendship depart and they actually remember and pay attention to what you have said... even if they take up most of the convo talking ^__^click to expand

Posted by Lib911Posted by xtinaPosted by TaurusNikki
But what gets me is that I find that libras like staying in touch with their ex's
Jmo
But once your an ex, I keep you in the past, there is no going back
+1
I agree 100% , leeb is the only one I went back to but only because it was never really overclick to expand

Posted by aquarius09Posted by xtinaPosted by aquarius09
Oh I forgot your best quality. I love you guys for this and this is probably why I have a lot of libra friends: you guys are attentive listeners and care about the ones you hold dear. I'm talking strictly friendship.
Yes, yes! They are really good in the friendship depart and they actually remember and pay attention to what you have said... even if they take up most of the convo talking ^__^
Oh yea! Totally! I was gonna say they pay attention to what you say and then respond accordingly. They are not a conversation hog.
BTW, I've only had ONE bad romantic experience with a libra male. My opinions on libra males are formed mainly by what I observe in them presently as friends and acquaintances than what I went through romantically. The reason for that is because break up with my ex happened like 3 yrs ago and I don't have that much memory left of that relationship. Thank God for that. Secondly, I didn't face the typical bullshit that women write about lik coming on strong and then disappearing etc. The only libran thing I faced was the whole securing another girl and then leaving the present one only to string her along. It's really funny how similar they are. Lol. That's why I believe in astrology.click to expand

Posted by aquarius09Posted by xtinaPosted by aquarius09
Oh I forgot your best quality. I love you guys for this and this is probably why I have a lot of libra friends: you guys are attentive listeners and care about the ones you hold dear. I'm talking strictly friendship.
Yes, yes! They are really good in the friendship depart and they actually remember and pay attention to what you have said... even if they take up most of the convo talking ^__^
Oh yea! Totally! I was gonna say they pay attention to what you say and then respond accordingly. They are not a conversation hog.
BTW, I've only had ONE bad romantic experience with a libra male. My opinions on libra males are formed mainly by what I observe in them presently as friends and acquaintances than what I went through romantically. The reason for that is because break up with my ex happened like 3 yrs ago and I don't have that much memory left of that relationship. Thank God for that. Secondly, I didn't face the typical bullshit that women write about lik coming on strong and then disappearing etc. The only libran thing I faced was the whole securing another girl and then leaving the present one only to string her along. It's really funny how similar they are. Lol. That's why I believe in astrology.click to expand

Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by Lib911Posted by xtinaPosted by TaurusNikki
But what gets me is that I find that libras like staying in touch with their ex's
Jmo
But once your an ex, I keep you in the past, there is no going back
+1
I agree 100% , leeb is the only one I went back to but only because it was never really over
Funny that you said that, cause that's what most libras think, that it was never really overclick to expand
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