Revenge on libra male

So I haven't spoken to my former ex libra in almost two years. He just disappeared one day in typical libra style . Today I get a fb friend request from him. I haven't accepted or declined yet. So would it be better to ignore it since i know libras hate being ignored. Or accept it and let him see my great life now without him? Thanks so much!

I would leave it for a few days and then accept it. Show superiority but don't reply too soon when he sends you a message :p

If he annoys you or something just delete him. You've got nothing to lose!

I'd ignore it

Why waste your time on a libra that just walked out, we Taurus don't have time for that

Make that libra work for your time, cause he will disappear again, he just want to see if he still has a hold on you

Yeeah, I wouldn't bother. I mean really, he pulled a disappearing act and now he feels like gracing you with his presence?

Eff that noise. Allowing the add would only give the message that it's okay for him to drop out of your life.

If he truly wanted to make amends, he could message you instead to plead his case.

Everyone has a point and they are all good ones what i whana bring to light is if you give a libra the chance to charm your ass off he wi'll without a hesitation even if he aint planning on being around long.

Posted by TaurusNikki
I'd ignore it

Why waste your time on a libra that just walked out, we Taurus don't have time for that

Make that libra work for your time, cause he will disappear again, he just want to see if he still has a hold on you

This! Do this. If you make it easy he will disappear again, and if you make him work too hard, he??ll get lazy and disappear again. Either way it goes, he's going to disappear again, I wouldn't waste my time. You can accept him as friend if you just feel like being nice, but don't show any interest in trying to reconcile or anything like that. If he tries to explain, let it go in one ear and out the other unless he's face to face and your good at seeing through bull. The only excuse you should accept is if he was in jail or in the hospital or if somebody passed away. Anything less, is total bull, and he should just be saying sorry and move on. Something happen that made him disappear the first time, and if he had faced what it was he wouldn't have just dipped like that. Normally when I disappear on someone, they did something, or I noticed something about the relationship or person that rubbed me the wrong way, or they became distant and instead of bringing my concerns to the table, depending on what they were I??d just dip. The only time I do that though is if I don't feel talking about it will help.

DITTO to every response...WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE THE FIRST TIME..BELIEVE THEM.
Now, it's very possible that he's grown some balls and matured a little, but like Rocky said..if he was really serious about apologizing, he would have sent you a message first. With that being said, I just found this out. There's another folder on facebook that I didn't know existed. If a new person sends you a message, it does not go directly into your regular inbox..it goes to another folder "Other". I just realized I had messages in there from 2 years ago..LOL. Goes to show how much I know about facebook, so be sure to check that folder to make sure he did not send you a message before sending the friends request. However, if you want to be nice, I guess you can accept his request, but if I were you, I would be very wary and remain distant. ***sorry for all of the late replies..haven't been on the site lately**

Why waste your time? The disappearing act is a blatant lack of respect for you and the relationship so just get on with your life. Ignore the dude.

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Posted by spoiledtaurus
So I haven't spoken to my former ex libra in almost two years. He just disappeared one day in typical libra style . Today I get a fb friend request from him. I haven't accepted or declined yet. So would it be better to ignore it since i know libras hate being ignored. Or accept it and let him see my great life now without him? Thanks so much!

I see NO harm in allowing him to be your FB friend. LEt him look around and plunder hell, if you want revenge bad enough give him what you know he wants to see and them bait him. Never ve in and do it with charm just to drive HI ass crazy.

The best revenge is moving on and being happy. Show him you've done that and you're golden.

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She can further show him that she's moved on by NOT adding him to Facebook.

Grow up.

No. No it does not. Your lack of experience is showing.