Scale of jealousy

They say air signs don't get jealous & I say bullshit. We have our own ways of showing jealousy, but its usually done in a subtle & unpsychotic manner.

So, librans, how do you show jealousy & how do you BALANCE it with being rational?

I got my own observations, but I wanna hear it from you guys.

Its a scaley jealous out there lol. Oh, come on leebs, admit. Show us your MO & how much your jealousy weighs in those scales.

I refuse to believe you are that perfect, EEE, even with your virgo venus. No way, no how. What do you do when you get 'mardy'? I know librans like to make snide comments here & there when they're seeing green, but its never a full blown jealous scene. It takes a skilled individual to even notice it, but its there bubbling underneath and making the scales to see-saw. How do you mantain the poise & not go coockoo? What goes throu you mind?

Venus in scorpio!!! I can get jealous feelings but I dont act on them because I've learnt to shut my my venus up haha. Most Libras I know with a non psycho venus dont seem to get jealous like EEE says more of a mardy.

My husband also venus in scorp gets so jealous to the point.its annoying. However he knows.better then to touch my phone. If he wants to get jealous fine but to go throughmy phone shows lack of trust and if he dont trust me we are done.

Librasun, yeah thats the thing with scorpio planets, they make you think all kinds of uncomfortable things, but you do learn to shush them up with time. Most of us learn the art of dealing with dark emotions on the inside than outside because we realise that WE are the problem & not the other person, cant punish a person for YOUR insecurities. Hard placements to deal with, hate the with passion & having venus there must be hard. I dont envy you lol.

EEE, what all sorts? The sweets? Dont speak in codes lol, me no spy.

One thing I noticed about air signs, we are fake. We like to live up to the descriptions written on astro books so much that we pull these robotic comments, like 'nuh, I'm above all that emotional crappy nanana'. Its a lie. Yeah we dont go bawling over shitty little things like cancerians, but we have our emo moments too just like everyone else.

My point is, jealousy is a human emotion & everyone experiences at some point. Romantic relationship are a most common type of relating & its just weird to not experience a human emotion even once in such a type of relationship. Its bs. Btw, I can be jealous, but I never show it. My way of showing jealousy is by bitching, being a total witch to the person & I make sure that it doesnt get connected to the real issue that made me jealous...because, you know, I dont wanna be known as a jealous basketcase.

Tiz, I get all that, but I find it hard to believe that your jealousy is picky...it chooses when/where it shows itself. Thats ok thou cause i cant prove that what you are saying is chicken shit lol. I dont wanna be jealous, but i still get jealous because jealousy doesnt ask for my permission & it doesnt care if i like it or not. But, I dont get jealous over every guy I'm screwing. Others could go fuck Miss Universe & I wouldnt give a damn, you have to be really precious to get me to feel a tinge of the green.

I never had a jealousy scale until recently. Normally I don't get jealous over my significant other and always felt comforted that the feeling doesn't exist within me.....but something about this one....altho its not very high. I've never been one for searching phones or attacking for a glance on the street. Never been me and I'm not gonna start now, but....the jealous vibe is there at times.
Its an unfamiliar emotion and I just ride the wave when the feeling comes. I've actually told him I feel some level of jealousy over him. He can't say shit about it cause he's a Scorpio and I've experienced his dumbass level of jealousy. *rolling my eyes*

EEE, How do air signs show jealousy then? The 'i dont get it' is nonsense unless you were manufactured in china, I dont believe it

Shashi, dats wot me is talking about, mon. It does happen, just not with every jerk in town...special people. Hows Jamaica mon, shashi? I and I get each other & I agree jealousy is very uncomfortable to say the least. Ugh

I can feel emotion but dont act on it. So how do I act when I'm jealous? The same as I act when I'm not jealous 🙂 . In general I am not jealous of people or possesions not because I pretend I'm not because they really dont effwct me.

Apart from my venus which only makes me jealous of my husband giving someone more time then me (male or female!!) and I suppose I can.gwt jealous when any of my friends give someone else attention that should be mine but I dont really do anything or behave any different then usual.

I got a tax rebate last year and my Libra cousins response was "I'm well jealous" and that was it lol. I took her out for dinner and there was no hostility. This year she got the rebate and I didnt and she took me out for dinner lol

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Shashi, dats wot me is talking about, mon. It does happen, just not with every jerk in town...special people. Hows Jamaica mon, shashi? I and I get each other & I agree jealousy is very uncomfortable to say the least. Ugh

LMAO@ your version of Patois (Jamaican dialect)! I love it! If you speak like that here, believe me, you will be laughed at but don't feel bad if it happens.

I've had at least two friends say that it's because he is "special" why I feel jealous. I'm still in denial. LOL

Shashi, why would they laugh? Isnt it part of the lingo or w/e?

TBH, I never get jealous. Maybe because I'm very comfortable with myself and self-consumed. I measure my life by what I have. Never felt jealous of a friend or even a lover. My libra ex was the most jealous person I knew constantly comparing himself to others. I think jealousy has a lot to do with low self-esteem

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Shashi, why would they laugh? Isnt it part of the lingo or w/e?

It is, but when a foreigner mispronounces how we talk (possibly mixing our dialect with another island), it's sometimes funny and Jamaicans love to laugh. Like when Prince Charles came here and put on a Rasta hat/wig backwards. 😄

Posted by tiziani
I'm still shocked at a Jamaican having Heineken in their avi. What happened to repping Red Stripe?

Actually, both beers are quite popular here, but I prefer Heineken. 😉

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Posted by aquarius09
TBH, I never get jealous. Maybe because I'm very comfortable with myself and self-consumed. I measure my life by what I have. Never felt jealous of a friend or even a lover. My libra ex was the most jealous person I knew constantly comparing himself to others. I think jealousy has a lot to do with low self-esteem

I agree with this. That's why I said someone has to have something I really covet in order for me to get jealous. I try to treat myself well so I have the things I want as long as they fall within my budget. If someone was to say they were taking a few months to travel around the world, then I would say "I am so jealous". Because that's something I'd like to do but have yet to be able. Jealousy is really petty. Why be jealous when you can more than likely get or have what that person has. You can at least put in the effort/energy to work towards getting it instead of taking it out on the person who did what they needed to do in order to obtain whatever it is you are currently jealous of.

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Precisely. Jealousy along with greed are 2 things that I don't understand. I fail to comprehend how people marry for money. Like I've seen some really hot chicks/hot guys marry people they didn't like for money. Everytime someone wealthy takes interest in me, and I don't take interest in them, I get a lot of my acquaintances calling me a dumbass or an idiot for not going for them.

Also sometimes people fail to realize their own weaknesses. For example, if I know I'm an envious person or a deadbeat who can't hold a job, I wouldn't surround myself with people who are doing well for themselves because I would naturally be inclined to get envious of them, which would further lower my sense of worth in my own eyes.

This is so off-topic, and so forgive me WC, but I came across some chick asking a question on yahoo about her libra bf and someone answered her question saying: "As far as I'm concerned libra is a tampon brand". LOL

We don't have a tampon brand called libra. lol Which country is this?

Australia 🙂 My friend who's also into astrology likes to make fun of me for this one and grabs it and says "HEY IT'S YOU!"

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Posted by aquasnoz
Australia 🙂 My friend who's also into astrology likes to make fun of me for this one and grabs it and says "HEY IT'S YOU!"

Why'd she say that when you're an Aqua?

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My Rising is Libra! A Libra pad?! get it 😄 *hangs head in shame* lol!

Posted by aquarius09
This is so off-topic, and so forgive me WC, but I came across some chick asking a question on yahoo about her libra bf and someone answered her question saying: "As far as I'm concerned libra is a tampon brand". LOL

We don't have a tampon brand called libra. lol Which country is this?

lmao! No wonder why they are such pussies. Sorry leebs, I cant let this one pass. I still got love for you, but isnt that just too coincidental? I'm thinks not. Its a sign from the universe! Hahaha

Posted by Loveorlust
I'm not proud of it but I can be horribly jealous when I'm really infatuated with someone! I hate it so much and I know it's such a huge red Flag of being insecure! I'm working on it but it's a big issue for me.. I'm Sept 25th libra with moon in Leo...I think jealousy is a very bad personality trait.

You have my darling's birthday :-)

Venus in Scorpio. Yes, I get jealous.

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Posted by Gandalf
Libras are great strategists. It's hard to beat you guys in a battle of wits on that front. However i still say you guys a are kinda boring in the sense that you are way too much into harmony. The world need some entertainment😛

HA! You obviously don't get Libras....They're really fun, and also love to fight/debate. Desire harmony they may, they need some assistance in achieving it.

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how come I didnt see Gandalf's post & I half agree. I disagree that they are witty and I agree that they can be boring because they dont indulge me when I'm in the mood for a verbal arse to arse. Aquas love a verbal banter. Its always harmless, but very needed to sharpen the mental weapons so to speak & leebs dont entertain this part of my nature.

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Posted by aquarius09
This is so off-topic, and so forgive me WC, but I came across some chick asking a question on yahoo about her libra bf and someone answered her question saying: "As far as I'm concerned libra is a tampon brand". LOL

We don't have a tampon brand called libra. lol Which country is this?

lmao! No wonder why they are such pussies. Sorry leebs, I cant let this one pass. I still got love for you, but isnt that just too coincidental? I'm thinks not. Its a sign from the universe! Hahaha

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That's precisely what I was thinking too when I thought tampons being named after them. Hilarious!

I also have a venus in scorpio ... and i can get crazy (in the inside) lol ... but my libraness tries to shake it off !

yeah you guys do that, make snarky comments lol

I stay silent, gather information and then I quiz.

Posted by WaterCup
They say air signs don't get jealous & I say bullshit. We have our own ways of showing jealousy, but its usually done in a subtle & unpsychotic manner.

So, librans, how do you show jealousy & how do you BALANCE it with being rational?

I got my own observations, but I wanna hear it from you guys.

I can be jealous yes... But I am not aggressive or like some girls showing their anger and jealousy infront of people. If I get jealous is because I love him; no other girl has the right to mess with my man.

I guess I am possessive. If hes my boyfriend, no other chick will be allowed to show any kind of games or idk what....you name it. Usually girls know they cannot mess with my relationship once they see me.

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Posted by WaterCup
They say air signs don't get jealous & I say bullshit. We have our own ways of showing jealousy, but its usually done in a subtle & unpsychotic manner.

So, librans, how do you show jealousy & how do you BALANCE it with being rational?

I got my own observations, but I wanna hear it from you guys.

I can be jealous yes... But I am not aggressive or like some girls showing their anger and jealousy infront of people. If I get jealous is because I love him; no other girl has the right to mess with my man.

I guess I am possessive. If hes my boyfriend, no other chick will be allowed to show any kind of games or idk what....you name it. Usually girls know they cannot mess with my relationship once they see me.

This is how I could describe me being jealous. Where are your moon and mars?

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Libra, I have no clue. I am not that much into astrology, although Id love to learn how to find out what are my moon and mars. I know my Venus is in Virgo, btw!I think all Libras are jealous... All that I know are...