Seems like Libra woman turned cold after first month of dating. What to do?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by patrikkk on Sunday, September 18, 2016 and has 26 replies.
Hello all,

I´m really confused of this girl borned 15th of October. She´s nearly 29, so no teenager anymore. Everything went well until this monday when we seen last time. Everytime we were along she kissed and hugged me all the time. I felt she really likes me. We texted and called on daily basis, not too much. I didn´t want to be too pushy. Sometimes I asked to go somewhere, sometimes she, everything was good. We also laid together. It´s true that sometimes she didn´t pick up the phone and even didn´t call back. So next day I texted her and didn´t ask why she didn´t pick up the phone but according to convo everything was fine. Her behaviour is really a bit strange to me. Sometimes she replies after 5 or more hours even if I know she read my message. We had a great time on last Sunday and we seen each other last time on Monday. From this time I feel that something is wrong. Ok, this week she had to take care about dog of her friend and her mother also came to visit her from wednesday to sunday but she didn´t text me this week even called me. When I suggested to go out on Friday she told me she is with her mother and didn´t propose any other day we could see each other. No question how am I, no interest to me at all. So I didn´t text and call her since friday. Should I wait until she texts or calls me? Maybe she will not text or call me anymore. Or should I try to call her somewhere? I don´t wanna ask her what´s going on because she will know that I am worried about. And maybe she is doing all this "mind game" on purpose to force me to chase her. But I don´t really like this. We are adults so why play this stupid games. We should looking forward each other and enjoy every moment we can be together since we know only one month so far. I read somewhere and heard also that if you ignore libra woman then she will seek you. If you are the one who still tries then she ignores you. So what should I do? Sorry for grammar and lenght. Thx in advance for each your comment and help. I appreciate it a lot.
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It sounds like she is not that interested in you.
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it sounds like she may be playing the field while you might be focused solely on her. I'd advise you to probably do the same. don't put all your eggs in this one basket. It doesn't seem reliable. If someone wants to see or talk to you, they will.
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Whats your sun sign?
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Whats your sun sign?
I was born 13th of March so I am pisces sign. I am pretty sure there is no other guy but of course I can be wrong. The thing I dont understand is that on Monday everything was perfect and from that time actually nothing so big happened. On tuesday she had meeting with her female friend, next two days I was busy and on Friday she was with her mother. I texted her and gave her one call during that week, neutral matters but anyway I feel that she was a bit cold. I am very sensitive in these things. Maybe she is upset on me but I dont why or really she is not interested in me anymore. Should I ignore her?


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Posted by patrikkk
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Whats your sun sign?
I was born 13th of March so I am pisces sign. I am pretty sure there is no other guy but of course I can be wrong. The thing I dont understand is that on Monday everything was perfect and from that time actually nothing so big happened. On tuesday she had meeting with her female friend, next two days I was busy and on Friday she was with her mother. I texted her and gave her one call during that week, neutral matters but anyway I feel that she was a bit cold. I am very sensitive in these things. Maybe she is upset on me but I dont why or really she is not interested in me anymore. Should I ignore her?


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Ok it doesnt sound like youve ben hounding her. Maybe she really likes you and she is weary? Confused about where she stands with you, maybe she would have liked a little more contact from you? In 1 week you contacted her once?
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Definetely I am not houding her. I always contacted her very seldomly, one message or a call per day but we spent together about 2/3 days per week. My seldom contact is from that she replies sometimes after many hours so I talked to myself it´s better not text a lot. I dont know what she wants. Last friday she wanted to very see me, she missed me but I couldn´t come so I came on saturday and we spent the night and all sunday together. Then also on Monday we were couple of hours together. From this time this weird week happened and when she told me this Friday she will not come and didnt response already and since that last message from her we are silent.
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Posted by patrikkk
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Whats your sun sign?
I was born 13th of March so I am pisces sign. I am pretty sure there is no other guy but of course I can be wrong. The thing I dont understand is that on Monday everything was perfect and from that time actually nothing so big happened. On tuesday she had meeting with her female friend, next two days I was busy and on Friday she was with her mother. I texted her and gave her one call during that week, neutral matters but anyway I feel that she was a bit cold. I am very sensitive in these things. Maybe she is upset on me but I dont why or really she is not interested in me anymore. Should I ignore her?


Ok it doesnt sound like youve ben hounding her. Maybe she really likes you and she is weary? Confused about where she stands with you, maybe she would have liked a little more contact from you? In 1 week you contacted her once?
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Definetely I am not houding her. I always contacted her very seldomly, one message or a call per day but we spent together about 2/3 days per week. My seldom contact is from that she replies sometimes after many hours so I talked to myself it´s better not text a lot. I dont know what she wants. Last friday she wanted to very see me, she missed me but I couldn´t come so I came on saturday and we spent the night and all sunday together. Then also on Monday we were couple of hours together. From this time this weird week happened and when she told me this Friday she will not come and didnt response already and since that last message from her we are silent.

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Posted by patrikkk
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by patrikkk
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Whats your sun sign?
I was born 13th of March so I am pisces sign. I am pretty sure there is no other guy but of course I can be wrong. The thing I dont understand is that on Monday everything was perfect and from that time actually nothing so big happened. On tuesday she had meeting with her female friend, next two days I was busy and on Friday she was with her mother. I texted her and gave her one call during that week, neutral matters but anyway I feel that she was a bit cold. I am very sensitive in these things. Maybe she is upset on me but I dont why or really she is not interested in me anymore. Should I ignore her?


Ok it doesnt sound like youve ben hounding her. Maybe she really likes you and she is weary? Confused about where she stands with you, maybe she would have liked a little more contact from you? In 1 week you contacted her once?
Definetely I am not houding her. I always contacted her very seldomly, one message or a call per day but we spent together about 2/3 days per week. My seldom contact is from that she replies sometimes after many hours so I talked to myself it´s better not text a lot. I dont know what she wants. Last friday she wanted to very see me, she missed me but I couldn´t come so I came on saturday and we spent the night and all sunday together. Then also on Monday we were couple of hours together. From this time this weird week happened and when she told me this Friday she will not come and didnt response already and since that last message from her we are silent.

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Youve been together fri-sat-sun. Thats intense for a Libra. It really takes it out of us to be around people for me even a few hours...especially new people. Thats why you may find many Libras having people around them (popular) but actually loners. We need alot of downtime and space to miss people, we also dont want others to feel sick of us lol. Its still early days for this relationship yes? Just focus on your own stuff. Dont ignore her but let her come to you. I think Pisces can be pretty full on quite early, its easy for you. Its difficult for Libra. Just be a little patient.
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Posted by patrikkk
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Posted by patrikkk
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Whats your sun sign?
I was born 13th of March so I am pisces sign. I am pretty sure there is no other guy but of course I can be wrong. The thing I dont understand is that on Monday everything was perfect and from that time actually nothing so big happened. On tuesday she had meeting with her female friend, next two days I was busy and on Friday she was with her mother. I texted her and gave her one call during that week, neutral matters but anyway I feel that she was a bit cold. I am very sensitive in these things. Maybe she is upset on me but I dont why or really she is not interested in me anymore. Should I ignore her?


Ok it doesnt sound like youve ben hounding her. Maybe she really likes you and she is weary? Confused about where she stands with you, maybe she would have liked a little more contact from you? In 1 week you contacted her once?
Definetely I am not houding her. I always contacted her very seldomly, one message or a call per day but we spent together about 2/3 days per week. My seldom contact is from that she replies sometimes after many hours so I talked to myself it´s better not text a lot. I dont know what she wants. Last friday she wanted to very see me, she missed me but I couldn´t come so I came on saturday and we spent the night and all sunday together. Then also on Monday we were couple of hours together. From this time this weird week happened and when she told me this Friday she will not come and didnt response already and since that last message from her we are silent.

Youve been together fri-sat-sun. Thats intense for a Libra. It really takes it out of us to be around people for me even a few hours...especially new people. Thats why you may find many Libras having people around them (popular) but actually loners. We need alot of downtime and space to miss people, we also dont want others to feel sick of us lol. Its still early days for this relationship yes? Just focus on your own stuff. Dont ignore her but let her come to you. I think Pisces can be pretty full on quite early, its easy for you. Its difficult for Libra. Just be a little patient.
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Perhaps but he last spoke to her on Friday. It's now Sunday, two days since they last spoke and a week since she saw him. My inkling would be you did something over the weekend. She mulled it over this week and you've lost your shine.

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No, I couldnt come on Friday. I came to her on saturday evening and spent whole sunday together. Then just two hours on Monday. But before she called me every weekend to sleep with her over the night so I am really confused now. But there was yet one thing I havent mentioned. Last week she told me that she has to take care about her friend dog and told me I could be with her whole week at her apartmant. I told her I would like to but I commute for a work with one of my friend so I cannot. When I leave her on Monday evening she didnt ask me anymore if I cannot stay then we texted later night and I told her that I could stay next night but she didnt reply this sentence and just send me early morning some complain that dog destroyed her flip flop. Ok I didnt ask again and afternoon she texted me she goes to hang out with her female friend even she knew I could sleep there. Maybe she is getting me something back, I dont know. I am completely confused. So should I text her? Or should I surprise her maybe now to come her place for a while to talk of course like nothing happened. Or should I just wait?
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No, I couldnt come on Friday. I came to her on saturday evening and spent whole sunday together. Then just two hours on Monday. But before she called me every weekend to sleep with her over the night so I am really confused now. But there was yet one thing I havent mentioned. Last week she told me that she has to take care about her friend dog and told me I could be with her whole week at her apartmant. I told her I would like to but I commute for a work with one of my friend so I cannot. When I leave her on Monday evening she didnt ask me anymore if I cannot stay then we texted later night and I told her that I could stay next night but she didnt reply this sentence and just send me early morning some complain that dog destroyed her flip flop. Ok I didnt ask again and afternoon she texted me she goes to hang out with her female friend even she knew I could sleep there. Maybe she is getting me something back, I dont know. I am completely confused. So should I text her? Or should I surprise her maybe now to come her place for a while to talk of course like nothing happened. Or should I just wait?
Leave her alone. Your sensitivity/neediness will turn her further away.
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uhh libras don't think like that.. mainly because we don't think/calculate things so much..? (at all..) I would totally ask someone to spend a week with me and a dog together if I thought/had the impression that we could spend the damn week and be cool about it in the meantime and afterwards. so I guess she likes you. if not, it's OK. contrary to popular belief, libras aren't that dramatic over little things. and YES we need time. if she has a sense of humour and you do too there's no harm chatting her up just avoid drama. I really don't think she's seeing someone else. it's more common for a libra to want loneliness more than another person/a relationship/people/buzz/whatever. cheer up! smile
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sorry, I don't know what I meant by "if not, it's OK". Big Grin maybe I meant "if someone new wouldn't want to spend an entire week with me and a dog after a short aquaintance, I wouldn't collapse or lash out dramatically etc". so it would also be cool.. sorry again... long week lol
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sorry, I don't know what I meant by "if not, it's OK". Big Grin maybe I meant "if someone new wouldn't want to spend an entire week with me and a dog after a short aquaintance, I wouldn't collapse or lash out dramatically etc". so it would also be cool.. sorry again... long week lol


Thx guys for your comments. I´m just still thinking what actually happened. Maybe I´m too cold. I have never told her during that month "I missed you" or "I like you" but she neither. Actually she yes, last friday whem I couldn´t come she told me "I was looking forward to you", then we spent great weekend, two hours on Monday and that´s it. Should I text or call her more?, be more sweet? maybe she´s thinking that I´m not into her as much and she wants to goad me to do this. Now there is an obvious tention between us since no contact from Friday and maybe she is fine if there is no interest to me. Sorry for my stupid comments but for very long time I haven´t felt something like to her now and dont know how to deal with it. What kind of men do you Libra women prefer when you start to fall in love? He should be sweet or mysterious? You are the first who tell him "I like you, I miss you" or you wait for him? Do you like everyday intensive convo? Oh this waiting killing mesmile
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sorry, I don't know what I meant by "if not, it's OK". Big Grin maybe I meant "if someone new wouldn't want to spend an entire week with me and a dog after a short aquaintance, I wouldn't collapse or lash out dramatically etc". so it would also be cool.. sorry again... long week lol


Thx guys for your comments. I´m just still thinking what actually happened. Maybe I´m too cold. I have never told her during that month "I missed you" or "I like you" but she neither. Actually she yes, last friday whem I couldn´t come she told me "I was looking forward to you", then we spent great weekend, two hours on Monday and that´s it. Should I text or call her more?, be more sweet? maybe she´s thinking that I´m not into her as much and she wants to goad me to do this. Now there is an obvious tention between us since no contact from Friday and maybe she is fine if there is no interest to me. Sorry for my stupid comments but for very long time I haven´t felt something like to her now and dont know how to deal with it. What kind of men do you Libra women prefer when you start to fall in love? He should be sweet or mysterious? You are the first who tell him "I like you, I miss you" or you wait for him? Do you like everyday intensive convo? Oh this waiting killing mesmile
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You're just going to keep asking the same questions until you get the answer you want aren't you?


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sorry, I don't know what I meant by "if not, it's OK". Big Grin maybe I meant "if someone new wouldn't want to spend an entire week with me and a dog after a short aquaintance, I wouldn't collapse or lash out dramatically etc". so it would also be cool.. sorry again... long week lol


Thx guys for your comments. I´m just still thinking what actually happened. Maybe I´m too cold. I have never told her during that month "I missed you" or "I like you" but she neither. Actually she yes, last friday whem I couldn´t come she told me "I was looking forward to you", then we spent great weekend, two hours on Monday and that´s it. Should I text or call her more?, be more sweet? maybe she´s thinking that I´m not into her as much and she wants to goad me to do this. Now there is an obvious tention between us since no contact from Friday and maybe she is fine if there is no interest to me. Sorry for my stupid comments but for very long time I haven´t felt something like to her now and dont know how to deal with it. What kind of men do you Libra women prefer when you start to fall in love? He should be sweet or mysterious? You are the first who tell him "I like you, I miss you" or you wait for him? Do you like everyday intensive convo? Oh this waiting killing mesmile
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I can't speak in general, but any kind of quality time will do it for me. it's usually great if the other person has a hobby or has an idea about what he'd like to do and I'm happy to join, and with time, I mean, TIME, I'll most likely contribute. has nothing to do with the other person, I am slow as hell. I don't know, just ask her out. be REAL. and one more thing. again I can't blindly generalize, but intimately a Libra is more likely to be seduced than seduce. teasing, yes, but in a not so overt way.. thank heavans kissing is usually a good way to start things Big Grin all the best and keep us posted!
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Libras like their own space as other air signs. This can hurt Pisces big time. The more you ask questions the further she drifts away. She wants someone who can stimulate her mind intellectually and who can be around without the need to express emotionally. She is a s ucker to your telepathic communication. In the long run you going to get hurt emotionally more than her, so better stay away before these all get too serious.
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Posted by patrikkk
We are adults so why play this stupid games.
Yeah! why play this stupid games? Go all outttt. Overwhelm that libra. Then leave when you get bored. =)
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Stop all communications and back off. If she is interested she will come to you. If not, you have the answer. Move on.
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Read the title only-


She's not into you. When a Libra suddenly goes cold while dating, they've lost interest and string you along because they're too pussy to tell you so.
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Hi Guys,

I texted her on Monday evening, that I missed her and I wanna be with her. She texted me back a day later tha she is suprised she read something like this from me. But she is missing something about us. Sometimes she had sensation that I am not attracted to her etc. That I am cold. That she is missing passion. I texted her back yesterday afternoon, that I am on biz trip in Copenhagen right now but surely I am attracted to her and bla bla bla, but for longer time I hadnt relationship so probably I need some time to adapt for all these sweet things etc but I wanna be with you and I missed her.

This is what I wrote before, when she was with me still she kissed and hughed me. That´s why I am totally confused that from day to day she is totally different.

The answer from her I haven´t got yet. I am going to do nothing right now. I already revealed my feelings to her so she cannot be insecure right now. Maybe she is happy now and that´s it. She is over me and can do nothing. She got what she wanted.
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Update: so after one week inactivity from my side she has started to text me. She wanted to see me this saturday but I had other plan already for whole weekend so that I refused her. I´m pretty sure if I suggest some meeting with her now she would deliberately be refused me. As I wrote in OP what about these kind of relationships are? These stupid mind games. I´m actually loosing my interest toward her after this.
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...dude you sound pathetic.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
...dude you sound pathetic.
I don´t think I sound pathetic...I´ve just realized during my inactivity this not healthy relationship...

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