Sense of security Scorp/Libra

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Queenscorpio on Tuesday, January 30, 2007 and has 7 replies.
Hey guys, yes it's me again... I know the one who can't seem to get away from the Libras. (Glutten for punishment... Heeeheee ) I don't mind this kind of punishment though.
Anyway, question... Is it that we scorp girls give Libra guys a sense of security? I know we love to the dying death, even our friends. We protect them and they can always depend on us no matter what...
Is this what gets Libra men so comfortable around the Scorp girl? I have been known to spoil them. Cater to them and just have their back even on the smallest level. We always wind up being deep heart felt friends outside of a relationship or FWB's. It is always deeper than the norm...
Question: What is it (besides the sex) that get you Libra guys comfortable and attached to the Scorp girl?
Nic you can go first....
Awesome question QS cant wait to hear this response - like the Libra guy I am attached to and still obsessing about. I know he's told me how he doesnt even talk to his ex wives or xgirlfriends and yet here I am still his friend. Maybe its because WE cannot seem to let go and they are just too nice to tell us otherwise. Everyone else seems to except defeat and move on.
Although my xgemini told me once he would never get back with any of his x's and yet after several years has called me saying he misses me????? Im not bragging just seems odd, I never even tried to call him, just wrote him off.
Anyways, I think Ive learned my lesson from these thrds about Libra men, the one who is bugging me now Im not going to give in to or get hooked on. He is quite different from the first, doesnt talk much, seems to not want to do a whole lot of anything as far as going out except to go out to eat. Hhhmm seems a little boring.
Tell me more, tell me more.
Yes, shirley. But, if you catch a Libra they won't let you go. My ex hubby still begs and pleads to reconcile. Gap too wide and honestly I have given him all I can and it still didn't work in the end. Not for me anyway. Now my feelings have changed so I can't force it. That would be ideal since we have a daughter together and we are still good friends. He is fine and tempting. I refuse to shagg him though, bc, once they are emotionally tied to you they can't tell the difference. Some part of me wish we could still work it out, but because we scorps see things Black and white. I know I have evolved into a person that wouldn't be happy at all with who he is right now. I love him, but not in love with him anymore.
BTW, I am still friends with a couple of ex's... Funny
Ok, what besides the sex?
Devotion. I don't know if I will ever be able to comprehend the level of absolute sureness and devotion to someone that you love. I could just look into her eyes and know that she was happy with me. There was no questioning with her, she knew what she wanted and she had it, plain and simple, It just isn't that simple for anyone else. I more than liked that quality about her, I admired it and aspired to it. When we were together this gave me the confidence to do whatever I wanted, knowing that nothing was going to seperate us. There was a real sense of seperate we are strong, together we are invincible quality to our relationship.
Its not just libra- Scorp issue Queen. Its same for all 1-2/M-F sun sign patterns. Its the same trouble btween a Scorp Man and Saggi Girl. Same goes with Virgo man and Libra girl. Mainly its sex. Secondly the understanding level. Then a lot of emotional security.
I guess you are right Nic... We scorps are black and white. If we do we do with all if we don't, we totally don't.
The Libra, I just haven't had the same experience with the couple other signs I have dated or just went out with a couple times... Not the same connection for me anyway.

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