Seriously pissed off

Communication stopped. Asked him what it was about. Gave me some excuses, which I do not think are good enough.

He knows I'm upset, but has made no effort to enquire or sooth.

Has left the ball in my court as to when I want to see him.

Strongly believe he's seeing someone else, but won't break it off with me. However, when he messages he is still "open".

WHAT THE FUCK— If you're done, don't string me along!

What's up with this and how do I get a Libra to start chasing again, and if not break up with him in way to hurt him?
It's not cool to ignore me like this and be obviously blowing me off ---out of thin air!!

Signed Seriously pissed

I'd say confront him about establishing how you feel and where do you stand with each other. It's really the only way. The thing is that it's Gemini vs Libra = beating around the bush, double-talk, & sugar-coating. I'm sure you both can be civil about this.

You want him to start chasing you again? Do that shit yall do w/ your eyes, play with his clothes when you talk to him, & compliment compliment compliment......then don't answer his texts lol. It's ridiculously frustrating for us and it works. If you want to break it off, make him come to a decision. We both know how much pressure that is for Gems & Libras.

Whoa, Oct-Nov was all about Libras crying about Gems in the Gemini board and in Dec., it's a couple Geminis worrying about Libras. It's SO the Mercury retrograde. This really means I need to make a comeback next week.

My scorpio moon says to hell with his crap! One thing I hate the most is when people aren't straightforward with me and I can feel it. I can feel him putting me on the side.


The only issue is I don't know if this daft idiot is upset and hurt or just plain found someone else. The upset/hurt bit may come about because of my seeming "coldness", but WTF aaask me about it! On top of that, deceive me intentionally, and "pretend" to still be interested?

Do Libra men do that? I have heard about this disappearing/balance thing. So how the hell am I supposed to know if he's testing me??

I am so pissed off!

But I want him back.

And this talking thing will just get nowhere. He has that silver tongue.

He feels emotionless towards me now.

Posted by amethyst2002
...leave the situation?

Gawd, I'm starting to see what people were talking about with Gems. :/

What about us Gems?

shhhhhhh chiiiiiiillllllllllll


This is one of the effects the Houdini trick: you're tripping about it & we want you to care, especially if you were being cold & distant. You're right about now, the more talking, the more miscommunication so I'd say let it ride for a little bit and give yourself some time to think.

Damn, I've reading that Dec. 13+ was going to cause a lot of miscommunication but damn, they weren't kidding!

"Then from the last day of Hanukkah, December 9th, through December 14th, Mercury, Pluto, and Mars will all move to an exact conjunction! Mercury rules communication, transportation, and short trips. Pluto governs passion, criminal behavior, and transformation. Then add Mars, the warrior, who represents sex, energy, and fights! There will be all kinds of mishaps, misfortunes, and misunderstandings, especially on Monday December 13th."

Great song UrsaMediocre, i love it!

Qlibra, I am only venting here, I did not blow up at him or have an argument with him. I simply cut the conversation saying I had to go do something.


But I am so raw right now. It hurts to the bones and then some!! At least if he told me bluntly that he doesn't want us or he found someone else, I'd know and leave but he makes it seem like he's still stringing me along.

So common Libra behavior? How to know when a libra is done with you?

Glad you liked it! I was born to relax, it's like I bleed sedatives.
*playing jazzy hip-hop, drinking chamomile tea, and burning incense & K2*

silver tongue - yep
no straight answers - yeah, hate to admit it, we just don't want to upset you
disappear - yep, if you don't respond, we'll cut off communication for a little bit
being a player - when we're young, yeah I think all my Libra friends were at some point. I never was though.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not insinuating that he's being a player, but yeah.....do you have any evidence of this or are you just going by intuition?

How do you know when a Libra is done? Probably when they start being less agreeable and start putting their foot down on certain things. That and when they're starting to be distant much longer than usual. I know I was in the last 2 years of my last relationship.

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Posted by amethyst2002
...leave the situation?

Gawd, I'm starting to see what people were talking about with Gems. :/

LOL

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lulz X's 2. gawd-damn gems 😄

What about Geminis?

I'm currently associating with a libra (cause lets face it to date a libra is to date his ex)this bastard tells me that with me he can be his true self (how sweet well at least i thought so for awile) but with that same mouth he says he is still emotionally involved with his ex.he is the only person that has excited me in every way in along time.he goes ghost.im not worried hes with the ex(she lives oot,lol)

im trying my hardest not to talk to him anymore.ive even told him.he says he wont let me(hmmmm,makes me wanna hang around)
but im about to be 25 and i want a lasting relationship.i have wasted 6 months of my energy on the "boy". i cant believe im telling people my libra issue.

the best advice i can tell anyone about a libra is to stay away. if you like being second in a mans life get a libra man.lol, naw but they are good when they feel like it, make u feel special,when they feel like it,fix things(and you will be like aww a man that can do shit.

im a very confident person and i love me more than anyman....

i want someone in my life that i can say "remember when...."

sorry for typeos (dont feel like fixing)

wtf, the "king of libras" knows it all. i really dont like this chat. its def not me. so hi to all and goodbye. libras are assholes.

b**** i wish this dumb** site would allow me to curse. i came on this because i thought it was people just saying how they feel. and others giving constuctive criticisms. ya'll are a damn trip.

I cuss all the fucking time on here. Go into your damn settings and disable the fucking profanity filter if you want to see me bitch up a damn storm...

That barely made sense. I think I cussed too much... no way.


Now let's go back and see what we're cussing about...

Posted by nicole6
I'm currently associating with a libra (cause lets face it to date a libra is to date his ex)this bastard tells me that with me he can be his true self (how sweet well at least i thought so for awile) but with that same mouth he says he is still emotionally involved with his ex.he is the only person that has excited me in every way in along time.he goes ghost.im not worried hes with the ex(she lives oot,lol)

That's what we're cussing about?

He told you he isn't over his ex yet and you wonder why you are dating her too... at least he told you. Most guys would just pretend they were and let you figure it out.

You would be doing yourself a favor to let this guy go. If he isn't over the last one how could he be serious about you?

P.S. all men are assholes, not just Libras. And don't let KoL get too you... I think he just likes getting people upset.

oh thanks im prob just gonna delete my account tho. i wish i could see these people that have all this shit to talk. this aint me. lol. i dont hate libras or dislike people that i dont know. i came on this shit cause i was obviously feeling a type of way.but i will get over it asap. lol

Posted by nicole6
oh thanks im prob just gonna delete my account tho. i wish i could see these people that have all this shit to talk. this aint me. lol. i dont hate libras or dislike people that i dont know. i came on this shit cause i was obviously feeling a type of way.but i will get over it asap. lol

This site should be about giving constructive criticism but I think this site is some people's entire life so just pity those people and hope that someone without psychological issues logs on and responds to your question/situation.