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Oct 14, 2017Comments: 0 · Posts: 105 · Topics: 15
So my Libra just sat down with me tonight and we had yet another serious talk again...and when I say serious I mean the overall message. We still laughed together throughout and he kissed me several times during and after the conversation. Long conversation short: he cares about me, he respects me, he wants me to be happy, he's very attracted to me, he thinks that we could have a happier relationship than most people ever have for many, many years...but he doesn't want to be with me....seriously wtf?!?!
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Oct 14, 2017Comments: 0 · Posts: 105 · Topics: 15
Because he's not in a good spot in his life and he knows he's being selfish and that I will end up hurt...or both of us will get hurt...
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Oct 14, 2017Comments: 0 · Posts: 105 · Topics: 15
No seriously...what the actual fuck?
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Apr 29, 2018Comments: 4020 · Posts: 3656 · Topics: 89
When a man says he doesn’t want to be with you, let him go.
It’s confusing but he was honest.
The mind fuck is real though...
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Oct 14, 2017Comments: 0 · Posts: 105 · Topics: 15
It was more of an "I can't be with you right now because of where I am in my life" than an "I don't want to be with you". I don't understand his making plans during this conversation to go to his house and for our dogs to play together and so much talk of how much he wants me and likes me...then he puts himself down and says I deserve so much more than him...
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May 15, 2018Comments: 574 · Posts: 1765 · Topics: 0
does he have some venus issues? some Rx going on lmao
sounds like insecurities at 99% high
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Oct 14, 2017Comments: 0 · Posts: 105 · Topics: 15
And he's not one to just go around kissing people...he's a flirt but he's far from a whore
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May 17, 2016Comments: 0 · Posts: 239 · Topics: 23
He's using Libra charm to soften the blow. Sorry
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Jan 11, 2011Comments: 20999 · Posts: 11558 · Topics: 83
Sounds like a lot of fluff words to let you down gently. Hopefully not and he really is in a weird place right now but seems to be the norm with majority of guys instead of just telling you straight up.
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Jan 05, 2015Comments: 14 · Posts: 5462 · Topics: 94
At the end of the day, it really doesn’t matter the reason... wrong time + right person=wrong person, right time + wrong person = wrong person. Need to right time+ right person for things to work. Often later in life depending 🤷🏻♀️ Sometimes a guy can really like a girl BUT there is a crucial missing ingredient that sours everything... if you know what I mean? Move on, someone better for you and who has their shit together will make you happier then you thought possible.
-Been there, done that 😉
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
I just had this kinda chat with a Gem I broke up with. I told him we a great guy etc but that we should stop seeing other. Why? Everything I said was true and genuine, but we just didn't match. There were issues with lack of emotion, respect, and chemistry. Still, I was gutted and in my heart of hearts hope that we could maybe reconnect.
So I'm not for totally calling this guy a douche. It's issues on both sides that make a separation necessary sometimes.
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Jun 18, 2017Comments: 3657 · Posts: 5507 · Topics: 76
Are you in a good place to be in a relationship? Ready to date others if you wanted?
If yes then you should do exactly that and tell him that you understand he needs time but you’re looking for a relationship and won’t stop dating other people, and for him to let you know if he does ever become ready. In the meantime stay in touch if you enjoy his company but make sure you’re still continuing your life forward.
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May 11, 2006Comments: 3 · Posts: 2807 · Topics: 185
Yeah, I told the Gem the same thing..that I hope he meets someone else soon. My heart will break, but that's what happens when he doesn't step up or value me in ways that I expect.
So, probably you should accept the pain now and try and move on. Only no contact will work, or you'll be sucked back into the cycle again and again.
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Feb 08, 2015Comments: 88 · Posts: 2780 · Topics: 55
He wants to keep you on his backburner for casual hook ups. Smh... that‘s why he still charms the F out of you. Mindfucking you on a high level and he knows it! A real trickster. He is honest on one side by telling you he doesn‘t want a relationship but on the other side he charms your pants off mentally and keeps being touchy kissy?! Smart ass.. sorry for you girl 🌷 you‘ll find someone who wants to be with you, you sure deserve it!
Good luck
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Sep 17, 2014Comments: 22 · Posts: 8048 · Topics: 36
is this what is called crumbing?
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Jul 10, 2015Comments: 11 · Posts: 1197 · Topics: 9
9/10 times, when a guy says he into you, yet proceeds to give some excuse as to why you cannot be together, he's not as interested as you would like to believe. Most men are not that complicated, and tend to go after what they want.
Sure, there's always a chance that his excuse is genuine, but why put your life on hold for that 10% ?
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Jan 05, 2015Comments: 14 · Posts: 5462 · Topics: 94
I love you, but I want you to be be fucking some other dude 🤦🏻♀️ He’s into cuckholding🤷🏻♀️
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Oct 14, 2017Comments: 0 · Posts: 105 · Topics: 15
PS you guys are awesome! Thank you for all of your opinions and support. It's been a rough week
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Dec 13, 2017Comments: 38 · Posts: 424 · Topics: 1
The weird possessiveness I had with an ex who was a Taurus was so bad. The way he was with me got worse over time and the way I was with him got bad too. I never felt that way with anyone else either.
I LOVE Taurus people as friends though. I wish I could be friends with more, 😂 but they tend to like me a lot and want to take up all my time! 😂😂 The way I am though, I know it won’t work. So I never got serious with another one as soon as I recognized the same characteristics. As happy as I knew we *could* be or that I knew I could make him, I knew after a while I wouldn’t want to live that way. It was like, can we just be friends?
Taurus are amazing loyal friends. We can talk for hours. But for a partner, I wasn’t able to ever feel fulfilled.
What are his placements?
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Dec 13, 2017Comments: 38 · Posts: 424 · Topics: 1
I always ship female Taurus and Libra males though. 😂😂😂😂
But don’t wait around for him! If he doesn’t want to be with you, then let that boy go!
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Mar 30, 2012Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
This shit is hilarious. All these stupid bitches telling you fairy tale bullshit.
He's not into you. Period. He's jerking you around because he knows he can and your silly ass will stick around and buy into his bullshit.
He's not into you. If he was, he wouldn't be doing any of this shit. A man who is into you does not "confuse" you.
Also, you? "I'm confused" translates to "I refuse to see logic and am so hung up on this dick that I'm just going to make a million and one excuses as to why I should wait it out. I REFUSE to accept the fact that sometimes shit doesn't work and someone may not be into me."
What the hell is wrong with your self esteem that you think THIS guy is THE one? I had a Libra that I connected with amazingly, but in the long haul, nada. Worked out better for me in the long run and he's still a miserable shit. So you can sit here, be a fairy tale wench about how you want to frill up his bullshit, but at the end of the day, that's all it is- bullshit.
This is classic Libra dude who wants to let you down easily, yet keep you around as an option. He keeps bringing up these bullshit talks because he feels guilty and has to constantly rehash this over and over for HIM, not you. All of this crap is about him and fuck all about you. He does it to reassure himself. He frills up his bullshit to make HIM feel better. If he truly meant what he said, he'd have dropped you and gone no contact. Not strung you along like he has been.
That's all this is- stringing you along and you're falling for it like some sad sap. And of course, in typical fixed sign fashion, you're stuck on stupid and you won't learn until your life, self esteem, and any views on a healthy relationship are destroyed in the process.
And if you so choose to stupidly stick around with loser, you forfeit any right to create the oncoming 2758934578493 threads about your so called "confusion" as your being stuck on stupid is your problem and nobody else's. You're the only one who can fix it sweetheart because all I'm seeing is your wanting validation for your moronic, lust filled thought processes, not actual advice that'll improve things for you.
Drop the douche. No woman deserves this dogshit.