Silly Q

Hello, my Libra friends,

The silly question I have is in regard to Librans needing time away from their love interest to further intrigue them or solidify the relationship. Don't Librans realize they are taking the risk of LOSING that love interest by letting time go by and / or not showing as much interest?

As always, I appreciate your honest feedback.

Not any more than you are taking a risk of losing us by trying to keep us too close 😉

Yeah, but if your not willing to give us that spae initially, then things aren't going to work out too well in the long run. Better find out sooner than later I guess.

Atom, I think they realise but its just them being them....guess those who are patient and understanding will win over their Libran eventually. If they come back time and time again, that's a good sign you're on their list of important people.

I would rather lose the other person than myself.

I get very unbalanced to the point of emotional ruin if I spend too much time with my partner. Trust me, space is better for our emotional health.

There is a difference between 'before I have you' and 'whilst I have you'...

Whilst I have you: no need to take real breaks unless you really, really choke me. By then I want you so much that it's all fine. If I want breaks something is wrong.

Before I have you: withdrawals are highly necessary to asses how YOU feel about me, and to assess how I feel about you (you know this now). During that period I will not be afraid of losing you. But what might happen is that I come to the conclusion that you might like someone else etc. But not because I am not fast enough in my conquering of you. As long as you don't tell me you are in love with me, you're not really in love with me - IN MY HEAD THIS IS THE WAY THE STORY GOES - otherwise you would tell me. It's for you to come forward. You're the man. And you may not want me at all.

!Thanks for the insights!

Yeah so, I will show you - which will then be your cue to come forward...

All is fair in love.

Yep and the dance continues LOL

Cha-cha-cha, Chatz. Brushing up on my two left feet.

So here goes, Lovely Libra, I called her ("you're the boy, you're the boy, you're the boy, etc.") and told her I was sad tonight. She asked why. I told her it was because I noticed she wasn't on my schedule this week yet. So we did the typical "balancing act" thing Libras do (lunch? dinner?) and I want to surprise her with a GREAT dessert I found, so I told her I have to order it in advance and it is a dinner item---SO we are having dinner Wednesday night. That gives her a couple days to think about things and her voice had this kind of "yummy" tone in it with everything she said. Looking forward to dinner! BTW, dessert is a special mango / rice combo Thai dish. IS IT TRUE? You Librans love SWEET things? Libra Girl sure does---lots of fruit, candy AND she likes spicey dishes too.

Anyway, we shall see what Wednesday brings. I'm also posting a new topic in a minute or two.

"her voice had this kind of "yummy" tone in it with everything she said."

I know what you mean, hard to ignore isn't it? With scorps, it's the eyes that can't lie. With Libras, it is the voice. No matter how hard we try to hide something, it always comes out in our voice.

nic', you are so awesome---I always catch something new in what you write.