So I just found out....

...that my sister-in-law, aka The Bitch, is a Libra.

I don't know any other Libra's - that I'm aware of anyway.

She's a money-grabbing whore who doesn't give a shit about our family other than how much she and my brother will inherit once my parents are gone. She has insulted my mother, upset her countless times and barely talks to either myself or my stepdad. To be fair though that suits me fine because I can't stand the cow.

She thinks she's better than everyone else and leaves my brother (who is not well just now) to watch their two kids while she saunters off to trendy cocktail bars with her equally stuck-up friends. I honestly cannot stand her. She's fake and pretentious and thinks she's some sort of princess.

Anyway, it would obviously be rather silly for me to assume all Libra women are like this. So I wanted to ask you guys, what are Libra women like. Please tell me my sister-in-law is a one-off!

LadyLibra that is helpful thank you.

She definitely looks after herself and is always well dressed. She's also extremely sociable, my brother and she are always entertaining. The silent treatment sounds about right, although in my case I think she stays out of my way because she knows better.

The fairness thing I don't get. She does come across as only being interested in herself and her behaviour towards my parents has been anything but.

I have tried to see where she's coming from but I just don't get it.

I must get her details and check out her full chart.

Or maybe it has nothing to do with astrology and she's just a bitch lol.

It happens.

I have two sister in laws just like that, 1 a Sag and the other a Cancer and they do everything you say and more. I think it is a sister in law thing...

I'm Libra and perfect! lol they dont think so though!!!

She's been with my brother (a Scorp btw) for around 13 years, they've been married for 8. The thing is I used to like her. When they were first dating she used to invite me on her nights out with friends and she was sooo down to earth.

Ever since she married my brother it's like she acts like lady muck. My brother had an excellent career and made great money, so it's almost as if she just got accustomed to being able to have whatever she wants. For the past 2 years though my brother has been unable to work due to ill health but we haven't seen any signs of them (ok her) tightening the purse strings. She left my brother at home with the kids last weekend to go out with her friends, despite the fact he wasn't well (he has Crohn's btw) and had more or less said to my brother "can't your mum come down and help out?" which pisses me off because she always expects my mum to drop everything for them.

She is all for her friends, and her own family who are perfect btw, although they are all arseholes.

I don't normally hold grudges and I rarely use the word hate but this woman is really getting on my tits.

^Pisces plus Libra always have misunderstandings. You may be seeing only one side of things. Plus, she probably should visit the chickentail bars but maybe something elses' up (esp in their relationship).

Plus, maybe you're privvy to that one time she goes out to chickentail bars but you're not sure if she spent the rest of the time at home.

Plus, its understandable you side your brother.

Plus two, sisters in law don't usually get along like honeyed toast.

*Plus, she probably should not visit the chickentail bars

Thing is I can also understand her wanting a break but the thing is she's out ALL the time. And my brother not working puts more a financial strain on things so they should be making adjustments to their life style but it seems to be my sister-in-law who is still living as though they have all the money in the world.

Of course she is entitled to a night out but it's EVERY weekend almost she's away to some posh do or fancy spa day out. I just find that unfair and irresponsible given their circumstances.

I know it may seem as though I'm siding with my brother out of family loyalty but the best part is he and I aren't even that close!

Anyway sorry I could rant forever about this. There are other issues also, squabbles over inheritance which just make me sick. The way she talks you'd think she wants my parents to just hurry up and die so she can get her hands on their money.

And from the Libra's who posted on here you all seem like nice peeps so thanks. 🙂

MissPirate, forrealz... are you the sister of my Aqua Uncle? lol

You totally describe my Libra Aunt.. she's my mother's little sister... but I've always maintained that there's something very, very wrong with this woman. And it's SOOO HARD to type up an accurate synopsis of all the shit you witness over the years that make you go, "😕 Wtf? Is this woman human? Is this a joke? No one can be this fucked up and not know it!?"... but *I* understand. Little piece by little piece.. doesn't seem that bad really, or seems justifiable... but once those pieces pile up and you step back for a good look.. you can't believe your eyes.

But I'd never, ever assume my Libra Aunt is typical of Libra women, nor would I assume any others are like her (until now? lol).. she was always kinda spoiled and selfish (baby of the family) but it got steadily worse.. esp after her (preggo) shotgun wedding at 15 to my Uncle with a very, very wealthy family. Funny thing.. the worse she got, the more snooty and selfish and bitchy... the better the mother-in-law liked her... and then I realized the mom-in-law (a Cap, I believe) started similar.. raised in a working-class family.. then married the very nice, down-to-earth boy of a very, very rich family... and it was like Insta-Bitch! So I see that twice in that family... the rather nice boys who grew up wealthy and so didn't care... married money-hungry women who use it to put others down and satisfy their every whim. I wonder if it's a nouveau-riche thing more than an Astro thing? I hear it happens to people a lot when they marry into money or win the lottery... not so much to people who worked hard to become wealthy.

It's definitely about the money I think. She acts like they "owe" her in some way because they have money and she and my brother are experiencing financial difficulty. Or at least that's what she makes out, you'd never know looking at her life style . It's the expectation that bothers me the most. She expects my parents to just write them a big fat cheque and bail them out. My parents have helped them TONS, paid medical bills for my brother, taken them away for a few weekend breaks, my mum takes the kids on her days off work and my stepdad who doesn't work is constantly over helping my brother out with the kids.

My sister-in-law doesn't seem to appreciate any of it though. She's taken to almost ignoring my parents when they're across or talking to them only when she needs something. And she's always dropping hints about how hard up they are, they can't afford this or that. And yet none of us have seen her make any changes to her life style .

I have tried and tried to see things from her side but all I can see sadly is greed. She's upset my mum on a regular basis with comments about how they aren't there for them blah blah which is crap. Talk about guilt tripping. How dare she tell my parents what they should do with their money. They now feel like they can't do anything without being talked about or made out to be skinflints who don't help out their kids - which is bull because they've helped us all out loads.

That's what upsets me. Personally I couldn't give a tiny rats ass if I never had to speak to her again, but my mum feels like she has to keep the peace so that she can see her grandchildren.