Sun in Libra Venus in......

Posted by Pride of 0ctober

... when i feel crossed or hurt, i give the cold shoulder, extremely cold. you dont exist to me anymore, i ignore you and if i see you i am angered by your presence. But if i love you i would ride and die wit ya, give what i got to help and always be there for you.

Posted by PandorasBox
Sun in Libra Venus in...
Awesome.
Libras are just da shizznit. Da.. Shiz..Nitt..

Posted by playswitfire83
Venus in leo here and I'm pretty much the same way. If you hurt me I can walk past you like we never new each other. I think that's my cancer moon tho. In love I just need a good amount of attention. I need to know that I'm important to them. My mars is in virgo but I've never been attracted to virgo men. I like fire signs so my venus seems to be stronger.

Posted by libra sun
I also have venus in scorp it is a gift and a curse. I have all this intesity but have no idea how to use it productively! Instead I just sit and obsess over people!

Posted by woundedbird
well, coming from people that are always bored and claim they need to be stimulated and challeneged and they
sit on a messageboard of this caliber day in and day out, id say you need to examine your own life. you
are the ones that need relife from your misery!
i am, in my journey, just where i want and ive become the person im proud of. im strong and im wise and im positive/
optimistic and im compassionate and smart and talented and i dont think im ugly. far from it. ive had attention
that way all my life. perhaps thats bothers you the most. that im self contained. i dont need you or anyone
elses approval. i dont run with a pack of wolves like some people. i dont get my self worth from a bunch of
teenagers and people that hide their true identities behind phony profiles.
really you need to grow up. i mean you are old enough to be fathers and grandfathers and you act like stupid
little boys and girls. selfish.

Posted by woundedbird
"women who challenge meb/c if the scales tip one way its boring. I will get my way but i want the type of woman who wants her way so i can snatch it back and do things my way"

you sound like a little boy. sorry if i offend you but you seem very immature. Are you in high school? you
seem a bit like someone i was intrested in. i came to realize after a very long observation and many tests that
he had problems with intimacy! i was destroying myself emotionally. there are certain dysfunctional people that
look for others to keep them busy. especially with their never ending "boredom". Its a never ending search for
something new and exciting but it ends just as fast when things start to get serious. i have to be careful myself
because attract a "certain" type. there are those who build fences and there are those who need fences. these
the controller(fence builder) looks for the out of control type(wild one who needs the fences) and so the cycle
begins.

Posted by woundedbird
as a matter of fact, im the only reason i come on this stupid f-ing messageboard! There isnt one person
on here that inspires me or i find intresteing. quite the contrary. there are some i feel something for but its not that!
it might be a little bit of compassion but nothing else.

Posted by woundedbird
3 Ways to Reduce Fear of Intimacy
Be authentic in your relationships. Your feelings match your words and actions. If you feel angry or betrayed, you express yourself with words and behavior (remember that 90% of communication is nonverbal, which means that even if you don??t speak your feelings, your actions will likely reveal them). Try sentences such as "I feel sad because I hoped to see you there," or "I'm angry and frustrated because I was relying on you to take the garbage out, and now the garbage truck won't be back for another week." Instead of hiding behind fear of intimacy, step out and reveal yourself. You'll feel vulnerable and afraid - there's no getting around that!
Learn to communicate about big and little things Mutual self-disclosure occurs when the two of you share your personal and everyday experiences. You open up at the same level; for instance, you both discuss experiences of being betrayed in the past ??? or neither of you shares it. You meet each other at the same level in terms of the amount and type of personal experiences and thoughts you disclose. If mutual self-disclosure doesn??t happen, then you??re in an unbalanced relationship. One partner has opened their heart, while the other has hidden it away. Sometimes fear of intimacy can be reduced simply by talking about it.
Feal fear - and be real. Talk about what's going on in your life, how you really feel and what you really think. You reveal what??s important to you, which builds trust in your relationship. You don??t play games, such as expecting your partner to read your mind or dropping hints instead of saying what you really mean. You may still have a fear of intimacy, but you're honest about it.
The longer fear of intimacy festers, the worse it gets - and the more difficult it is to overcome. Now's the time to face fear of intimacy and embark on a bigger, deeper life!

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Posted by woundedbird
meet each other at the same level in terms of the amount and type of personal experiences and thoughts you disclose. If mutual self-disclosure doesn??t happen, then you??re in an unbalanced relationship. One partner has opened their heart, while the other has hidden it away

Posted by woundedbird
and you morons can take your best shots; play with each other.
nothing you can throw on me would ever stick. you cant even come close.

Posted by libra sun
I also have venus in scorp it is a gift and a curse. I have all this intesity but have no idea how to use it productively! Instead I just sit and obsess over people!