Talking

This topic was created in the Libra forum by angiedbc457 on Thursday, June 6, 2013 and has 42 replies.
Why? Do u Libra's talk to people when they don't want to be bothered with u? And why? do u Libra's fuck up and act like nothing is wrong or u haven't done anything wrong. And what's wrong with u Libra's when a person tells u that they don't want u or love u anymore. And u still refuse to leave. What does a person have to do to get rid of u for good? I have done everything stop having sex, kissing him, ignoring him, stop cooking for him, WHY WANT HE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE AN GO ON WITH HIS LIFE!!!!
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hahahaha. I am relentless sometimes too. You have to be cold and VERY direct. Sometimes we have a hard time accepting these things and will think "Oh, they're just going through something. They'll get over it."
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If you're so tired & fed up then why not kick him out? Problem solved. Unless you enjoy how he is acting which I suspect you do. He's not a relative of yours, you owe him nothing...TO THE LEFT, TO THE LEFT!!
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heliumfiasco
Really Damn give me some tips on what to say that will be cold and direct cuz I have been very direct with not cooking an no sex and ignoring he. So what im I not doing right.
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Posted by angiedbc457
heliumfiasco
Really Damn give me some tips on what to say that will be cold and direct cuz I have been very direct with not cooking an no sex and ignoring he. So what im I not doing right.


"Get out!!" Sub-zero temperature right there & very direct too.
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Watercup
He needs to get out. I have been curl and low down towards him nothing is making him go. What do I have to do next kill him in his sleep, Hell that might work at least I will be rid of him for good.
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Relentless
& when you finally give in...bet he leaves then...lol
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Cruel I meant to say @Watercup
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brianafay
Give in what u mean give in
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Lmfao, my libra told me he would never leave me alone, and guess why. THE SEX. Lmfao
We had a fight last week and the man still won't let up, he did try the famous manipulation trick, but I didn't fall for it, all he wanted was a reaction, when he didn't he had a fit
One thing I know is that he doesn't even want me looking at another guy or even spending time with another guy, and let's just say fights have been cut down for awhile, getting those scales in balance makes him loose his mind which he refuses to do, but piss me off, those scales will fall
So to answer your question, ur screwed, it's something you have that he wants to keep and to not let no one else have, u got him whipped, enjoy and good luck getting rid of the libra, remember that sign is right next door to Scorpio, if they like what the see, it's easy, no harm done, but if you rock their world, they won't let go until someone does what u do, but better
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Posted by angiedbc457
Watercup
He needs to get out. I have been curl and low down towards him nothing is making him go. What do I have to do next kill him in his sleep, Hell that might work at least I will be rid of him for good.


Not to be mean to you, but I honestly dont get your dilemma or what's so hard about your situation. Its simple. You just pack his rags up & tell him to leave your house..end of story. I think what you're hoping to hear is that he doesnt wanna leave because he's inlove or other cute thing like that. Have you asked him to leave yet? If you haven't then he must think you're just putting on an act & are still mad because of your past issues & will eventually return to your old cooking/sexing self. Like him, I'm thinking you're not being serious because if you were, he would have been gone ages ago. Get real.
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Posted by angiedbc457
Watercup
He needs to get out. I have been curl and low down towards him nothing is making him go. What do I have to do next kill him in his sleep, Hell that might work at least I will be rid of him for good.


Not to be mean to you, but I honestly dont get your dilemma or what's so hard about your situation. Its simple. You just pack his rags up & tell him to leave your house..end of story. I think what you're hoping to hear is that he doesnt wanna leave because he's inlove or other cute thing like that. Have you asked him to leave yet? If you haven't then he must think you're just putting on an act & are still mad because of your past issues & will eventually return to your old cooking/sexing self. Like him, I'm thinking you're not being serious because if you were, he would have been gone ages ago. Get real.
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Must agree there, libras are smart when it comes to bullshit, if your not serious he knows it, and just waiting for you to give up
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TaurusNikki
Damn so I am screwed I stopped having sex with him, I even stop cooking, and ignoring him and I don't even sleep in the same room or bed with him. "Sex" it can't be that, I mean this man has his own job so its not like he can't get his own place. He is a handsome man so its not like he can't get another woman, I mean I even changed his passwords on his accounts an leave comments on his instagram. He still want leave, I have never been with a man that is this damn clingy.
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@Angie
Your so screwed, my libra has a BFF that's a male libra, and let me tell ya, his BFF cheats on his girlfriend but he can't find a reason to leave her
You know why?
Because she still takes care of his azz, she talk bad to him, which they do like, cause I curse my libra out, he knows ur not serious and you have something that he wants that no one else has master yet, libras won't leave unless theirs is someone that can match you but do it better, no exit plan is in place, your screwed
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TaurusNikki and WaterCup I even called the police on this man how serious can I get and I have asked him numerous times to leave my house. He act like he isn't hearing me. I am not going to go back to my ways because I am fed up with him, I even talk to men in front of him on the phone, I be on the internet and on webcam talking to men so if that isn't being serious that I don't want u anymore then I don't know what is. I mean the other day I was walking through the house naked he got mad and said to me" U got to put some clothes on, its people that live next door" So why get mad at me when u don't want me and u got to have multiple women. I mean I even went out and came home late from a friend house, he didn't even say anything. And u all are saying give up how, or like what give up being mad at him or what.
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This guy has no respect for you, or himself. No respect for you in that, all the things you claim you're doing to send the message home dont affect him..he doesn't care. If he respected you he'd take himself out of the equation so you can decide your next move, but no, he's sitting there like a lump not reacting. A man, any man dont care the sign, if he has genuine feelings for you he'd be either be hurt or get jealous when you talk other men/not giving him sex & would leave cause its unbearable. His vegitative state doesnt say much about his character or his feelings for you. For him its "whatever, I still have a roof over my head, rent free. Cool"
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I mean I even post pics of Hot men for wallpaper on my computer and on facebook down my timeline I got hot men pics on there and he still want leave. Like he can't take a hint.
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You like it, pure & simple. And you're trying to get a reaction out of him with these "hot men" you're flaunting infront of him. If you were serious with moving on, you wouldnt be trying so hard to let him know you're after other men. You'd simply do it in your own privacy with him out of your house. No man is hard to remove from your space if you're dead serious.
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Lmao
Dam you Tiz
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Tiz is right

I ignore my libra period, no attention no nothing
I even leave the house and won't come back until I feel like it
But I will admit, that last 1 day, my libra refuses to let it get that far, control and justice is what it is
Taurus is stubborn and I can play it ruff and he knows it
He's not taking you seriously atall, I'm telling you ur screwed
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I would have gone half crazy by now if I were in your situation & some comatose man refused to leave. I like my way too much to not blow up & throw his natty stuff out the window.
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Yup, got my badge of honor from my libra
He can't get away with a dam thing, but I will admit he did get away with somethings, but once I catch it, ooooo it's on
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@Watercup
Yep I should do that that's something I havent' tried yet, @TaurusNikki This Libra can't get away with a dam thing either I catch him all the time with trying to talk with other women, what did he get away with. Yep I do know one thing those Taurus aint no joke u mess with that bull and they will bite your ass. Well one thing about my mom is a Taurus and she will be in town next week I am going to see how much he gonna stay then. My mom can see right through BS.
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I just wish I could breathe you some bitch air in you so you can deal with this man. Libra men are so easy to straighten up. I dont know about you, but after spending a time with a man I size him up & immediately know which method to use to deal with him when he pisses me off. You dont need your mom or Shri Krishna to deal with shitty man, you have the power..use it.
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@WaterCup
Thanks I know its a solution and I know that its a man for me that is gonna treat me right and that will love me like a man love a woman and most of all respect me. How are they easy to straighten up? I even told him I am not the woman for u and its like nothing gets through his head.
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Posted by WaterCup
Posted by angiedbc457
Watercup
He needs to get out. I have been curl and low down towards him nothing is making him go. What do I have to do next kill him in his sleep, Hell that might work at least I will be rid of him for good.


Not to be mean to you, but I honestly dont get your dilemma or what's so hard about your situation. Its simple. You just pack his rags up & tell him to leave your house..end of story. I think what you're hoping to hear is that he doesnt wanna leave because he's inlove or other cute thing like that. Have you asked him to leave yet? If you haven't then he must think you're just putting on an act & are still mad because of your past issues & will eventually return to your old cooking/sexing self. Like him, I'm thinking you're not being serious because if you were, he would have been gone ages ago. Get real.



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Must agree there, libras are smart when it comes to bullshit, if your not serious he knows it, and just waiting for you to give up
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Agreed!

But IF you really want him gone... "I don't love you anymore. I don't care anymore. I want you gone." He will be so devastated and bruised I doubt you'd ever hear from him again.
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Because they like being talked to like shit.
The guys are suckers for raging, psycho bitches.
"Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" applies to these guys.
For your situation? Because you've proven that it's okay for him not to take you seriously.
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Like I said, I have this inner "measuring tape", I dont know what else to call it lol..but I can deal with any type of man accordingly if he rubs my nerves. And a libra, for me, was/is the easiest to set straight. I'm nice when its time to be nice, but I can be straight up nasty/cruel when it fits & mine knew/knows that about me. I think you need to play hardball if you want him to respect you. I dont know how you can do that, only you know what kind of a person he is.
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@heliumfiasco
But I have told this man those things what is he that stupid, I mean what is it gonna take for him to leave my house. @WaterCup I just don't get it, Play hardball how, this man still address me and his girl and babe. I even told him don't call me that im not your girl or babe. The only time he calls me by my name is when we get into an argument I thought I was doing the things that would run him away. But those things don't work on this Libra at all. I mean don't get me wrong he is a nice person, he shares what little bit he got but what I dislike is the cheating and the lying. I can't deal with that. I even signed up on dating sites and set right in front of him on the sites and talk to men on my phone in front of him. But when his phone ring he want answer his phone in front of me, why not I don't want u.
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TaurusNikki
Thanks for your input, I now know why this Libra man isn't going anywhere, I knew it had to be something as to why this man is holding on to me. I ask him today Im I the only woman that u have dated that has stood by u through thick and then, He said YES, I ask him about his ex-wife I said she didn't stick by you, He said she couldn't keep her legs closed, I ask him so thru all this drama that we have the reason your holding on to me an not going anywhere is because I am the only woman that has stuck by u. He said YES, and I don't want to give u up. WOW
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@Tiz
ok thanks
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It's a game, stand up to him and walk away, he knows you aren't going anywhere, prove him wrong
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@TaurusNikki
Ok thanks
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With libras is more along the lines of chess with them
If you think about it, they always have a calculated move, it's like they know which pieces to move before you do, and know what move your going to do next, which means they came prepared
That's plan A,
Example, he is playing on your emotions, which libras don't use much of, because they are a logical sign, even the women libras, which is also my BFF , your libra is balancing his moves according to your emotions, which means he is counting on your to mother him with the wooo is me tale
His past shouldn't matter, in which u failed, your worried about the other women that was in his life, and he is making it seem like ur different than them which can be true, but once again he relied on ur emotions to gain balance, his comfort zone
Now plan B
Example , when he played this game with you and u didn't give into him, his scale would be all fucked up and he would have to execute an exit plan, which in this case since u failed he no longer needs one or is planning on having one for that matter
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TaurusNikki
He needs to get a plan because I am plotting now against him to get him out. And I am getting others to help me out.
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@everevolvingepithet
I know right
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Posted by angiedbc457
TaurusNikki
Thanks for your input, I now know why this Libra man isn't going anywhere, I knew it had to be something as to why this man is holding on to me. I ask him today Im I the only woman that u have dated that has stood by u through thick and then, He said YES, I ask him about his ex-wife I said she didn't stick by you, He said she couldn't keep her legs closed, I ask him so thru all this drama that we have the reason your holding on to me an not going anywhere is because I am the only woman that has stuck by u. He said YES, and I don't want to give u up. WOW


*eye roll*
why are geminis so naive? Your posts remind me of that gemini girl @ the virgo forum. It's like you guys arent naturally suspicious & just believe everything a person says.
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Sometimes its good to ignore love & feelings, especially when you're not being treated fairly. You're not running a charity home, are you? I also dont get what you're wowwing about when he says he's with you cause you're the wind beneath his wings. He should be there only because he loves you & not because of the other stuff. Do you have cancer in your chart? You're coming across as someone who babies a man & he's taking advantage.
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TaurusNikki
Thanks for your input, I now know why this Libra man isn't going anywhere, I knew it had to be something as to why this man is holding on to me. I ask him today Im I the only woman that u have dated that has stood by u through thick and then, He said YES, I ask him about his ex-wife I said she didn't stick by you, He said she couldn't keep her legs closed, I ask him so thru all this drama that we have the reason your holding on to me an not going anywhere is because I am the only woman that has stuck by u. He said YES, and I don't want to give u up. WOW


*eye roll*
why are geminis so naive? Your posts remind me of that gemini girl @ the virgo forum. It's like you guys arent naturally suspicious & just believe everything a person says.


Seriously. It makes me wince.
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hahaha you are the one !!!!
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Posted by TaurusNikki
@Angie
libras won't leave unless theirs is someone that can match you but do it better, no exit plan is in place, your screwed


I guess this applies to male Libras, because I am the one who gets in the wind, but quick. Why hold on to something that does not want to be held onto. I have encountered this in other signs when it comes to me, but if you did all those things to me, I am gone. Just like a bus, a man comes along. The schedule may be inconsistent, but that bus is coming sooner or later. LOL
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libraCUSPscorpio
I think he does have a little of scorp in his chart cuz he clings on. @LoveSeeker What do u mean that im the one? @WaterCup I don't know what I got in my chart, I don't baby men I just have a heart for people that's all. @MzDiana I agree with what u said
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@WaterCup Geminis don't believe everything someone tells them at all, we are only suspicious of people when it needs to be. I just never met a Libra like him before that likes to hold on for dear life that's all and I thought by asking other Libra's their opinion my shine some light into the situation for me to understand how they are.
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