the return of the Libra

Hi all I posted in here a long time ago about a Libra I met who totally came on to me very aggressively , then after showing tons of interest cooled off. If you want to re -read that whole story I guess you guys can go back in my posting history.

Anyhow ...it's a year later, I've seen him around and he still like watches me intensely whenever we are at the same bar but he never approaches me anymore. About a month ago though he found me on an internet site and he has been daily all up on my tip. Constantly commenting on things i post like all day every day. Last night on a picture I posted he wrote "come over" ! I deleted his number a long time ago when he ran cold on me so I wrote him back on the thread saying," I misplaced your number and I don't feel comfortable posting mine on a public forum(you can't DM on this site), but if you want you can give me your email address ...."


he didn't respond to that.

but then today, he's all up on my spot per usual.

What the hell? It's driving me crazy.

Is he interested in me? Do Libra's just like playing these games? Should I just ignore him? Is he scared of something? I'd love any Libra's perspective on this

thanks!

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I doubt he is or he would've given you the contact info.

I totally agree but then why all the attention? and again he had given me the information in the past when we hung out in person... if he isn't interested he must be bored as fuck

Posted by everevolvingepithet
If he's giving it out to others then it isn't just you.
Are you sure you aren't over-emphasising things ?
Outside of the 'come over' I can't see how there's anything in it.

ok thank you for your perspective and honesty, I'm not quite sure what you mean by the if he's giving it out to others part *because that's just something I don't necessarily know if he is or isn't * , but I appreciate your candor . I guess I'll try not to think too much about it although the amount of attention he pays me is bonkers. Like I said maybe he's bored or just finds me interesting on some level

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You said he was on an internet site daily, so unless you're the one solely on that site it's more likely than not he would be conversing with others, if you kwim ?
It's not the lovely facebook by any chance ?
How much attention, just for the sake of curiosity ? 🙂

it is not fb or else that would have cut through a lot of the bs (because I would have been able to privately message him, vice versa)...

A LOT, like everything I post he either comments on or likes . we live in the same neighborhood too and he knows that from when we hung out a few times in person. So like he knows it's me who he met in person before so it's like this weird flirt dance (or so I thought but like you pointed out maybe I'm over emphasizing ). If I screen shot everything and could post it here I think you'd see where I was getting my feeling from. I'm really not an irrational person and usually can see things for what they are (being a double taurus we don't tend to be too daydreamy) so hence why I am perplexed. He's an interesting person , and I definitely wouldn't be opposed to getting to know him again IN PERSON but whatever. Men are such interesting creatures

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You could post screenshots if you like (it's a bit disrespectful if they were private I guess).
lol@ fb cutting through bs though, that's a good one !

i wouldn't post it because it holds names in the posts and I don't want to disrespect my privacy or his ...but they aren't exactly private since the forum is more like this a thread forum just without any ability to have private messaging with people. I wonder what will happen the next time I run into him in person, will he approach me again, or will he just stare at me like a piece of meat (like he has the last few times ive seen him out in our neighborhood).

Posted by everevolvingepithet
you could just copy and paste what was written, omitting everything else ?
You could go approach him and get it out of the way ?

no posting I'll be a good girl

ok maybe next time I see him in person I'll approach him, maybe I'll do to him what he once did to me the good ole send over a drink move. Yep I'm a classy broad ;p

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Haha. Don't send a drink over, go over and talk, then buy him a pint.

why does he get to be a semi p***y and I don't get the same luxury. Besides like you said he probably isn't interested.gaaaame ovaaaaah. Where are you from maybe I'll send you a drink on over ha ...cheers to my new internet friend

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Huh ? You just said you want to get it out of the way and Libras are the most intriguing in the universe and now it's unfair ?
I don't see the unfairness, I see the equality in the sense that you too are a semi p***y 🙂 if you can't set the ball rolling, kwim 😄
Thanks for the drink too 🙂

what's kwim btw sorry? I am wearing my semi puss status with pride, as any stubborn taurus would. are you a Libra?