I speak 4 myself when I say this but... but Libra Men are the best!!!! I mean when I read the posts in this thread, us libras guys take a lot of heat. I've gotta take offense LOL. Like I said, I can only speak 4 myself, so what you read here, take and try 2 apply it to your inner libra (If you think you're capable).
My Take:
I'm a Libra on a Virgo Cusp so that means that means I'm a free-flowing spirit with the ability to put my foot down and Stand Ground. From what I've read, the majority of libras have trouble "Standing Ground" (Being Decisive), which seems to irritate everyone, including Libras ironically. I can even out both sides of the scales but still be able 2 make a decision. It's sorta like bein the Judge during the case and then claiming the role of the Jury in the end. Libras= All 3 sides of the law: Good, Bad, Crooked.
And I've come up with my own theory for te recent subject of seperating "Thinking" and "Feeling." I see myself as being a Libra with his scales leaning heavily in the positive direction. So when I'm "thinking," 99.9% of what I come up with is reasoned in a completely logical manner with my "feelings" in the back seat, not the passenger. So I see this being the most influential thing ever because I always try 2 to think with a logical mind because I find most of my positives are brought 2 light when I think logically.
My "feelings" on the other hand, always leads 2 a downfall. When I put my feelings ahead of my logic, my fortune nearly always takes a turn for the worse. And in introspect, I notice that when I'm silent in a crowd with plenty reason for conversation that's when I realize that I have gone and hidden under my transparent emotional canopy. I say transparent because you're usually able 2 see right through this. It's hard 2 hide emotions/what you're feeling. I see this as the negativity on my scales because when I let my emotions override my logic this usually spells nothing but B-a-d-N-e-w-s. Example, I like a girl I see on the train. I see her, she sees me. I like her, she likes me. But then I start "FEELING" like she doesn't like me, so now I'm feeling that there's something wrong with me. So my "feelings" led to my negative thoughts which then led to me passing up on this situation with this girl that had all that had all the makings for a success.
Catch my drift?
That's just my theory (which goes much deeper).
Any similar?
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My "feelings" on the other hand, always leads 2 a downfall.
Libra/Virgo - both signs are logical signs in different ways so they don't trust feelings, naturally, you'll feel this way.
But then I start "FEELING" like she doesn't like me, so now I'm feeling that there's something wrong with me. So my "feelings" led to my negative thoughts which then led to me passing up on this situation with this girl that had all that had all the makings for a success.
(Self-confidence) you've used logic to talk yourself out of this situation because you don't trust your feelings.