Too soft!!

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Sola on Tuesday, March 6, 2007 and has 19 replies.
Hey amigo?s!!
God, i dont know where to start here, but my saga continues a little and im at a point where i dont know whether to continue or not. I was casually seeing a Scorpio since beginning of December, everything was nice and fine etc, and thn things went a bit wrong. Anyway, i ceased contact with him, and and couple of weks later he started to contact me again (not that i wasnt happy about that..but i was ready to be with other people already). Anyway, we started to see each other again, nothing serious, but i have fallen so deeply in love. I cant help myself, ive tried everything.
I just need advice from fellow Scorp daters. Please tell e there is some good in this!! Ta.
p.s, please dont call me stupid or dumb..im already well aware of it!!
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I don't understand why you went back. He didn't treat you well sweetie. Ask yourself if you are hooked into getting his approval or if you really believe he is a good man. That will show you the truth of the situation.
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I disagree.
This guy hasn't been good to you. Find someone who is.
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Your expectation to be treated with respect and dignity is not out of line but first you have to treat yourself with respect and dignity, by booting bad boys, and only dating those who have respect and dignity for you.
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Yes but Scorpboy isn't really interested in snagging her, from what I know. The present thing was pretty shit. So was kissing another girl in front of him. The present is up there with my Valentine's disaster. Difference is I did walk away and moved on. He has called since (a week and a half after) and I will not return the call because what is the point? A week and a half later? I assumed it was over so I got over it.
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No. V-day was his birthday. We had plans. He picked a fight a few days before. They stood me up on V-day saying we didn't have firm plans even though I called him first thing in the morning to confirm and confirmed with him after our fight.
He made his choice. He knew that there is no way I could accept such behaviour but he was counting that I would. Alas, I made my choice that I expect someone to treat me better. Now, he regrets.
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scorp men can be harsh. Much harsher than scorp girls... Arrogant.
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I believe I did.
I really have no regrets.
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Is that really the best you can do?
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No. But, admittedly, I was in a pissy mood because everyone is arguing semantics instead of concept. I think, for the most part, we all agree. Everyone seems to be reactionary without looking objectively at what is being said. And the whole threat, intimidation thing REALLY pissed me.

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not you or JR.
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and they didn't threaten me per se. they just tried to quelsh the conversation with intimidation ... which of course makes me wonder what nerve was it hitting that they needed the conversation stopped?
Regardless, I am happily high on cold medication again. Watch out in an hour or two when the buzz fades again. Winking
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alas, my dear bling, I have a cold.
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half speed? how about no speed!
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she just did tell me I looked awful. good times.
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Made from giiiirrddeeerrrsss indeed Bling, lol!! Hey you and LS, CHEERS FOR THE POSTS.
Anyway, Mr. BAWBAG...i saw him today and he blanked me completly. Yip, i receive the predictible text shortly afterwards to say "sorry, i was with my mother, blah blah". Does any sane man over 18 not know NEVER EVER to start his sentences with "my mum this, and my mum that...". WTF ever..love or no love, i am never, ever, ever going back again...ever!! Jesus, im even bored listening to myself over this. Next!!
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Sola,
Where were you tonight?
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Hi, i was held back at work until 9pm because im having some problems with my boss. Im so sorry, i hate to break plans, especially with you. Im only online now because i cant sleep...im homesick and i just want to go home. Can we re-arrange? My parents come tomorrow Thurs-Tue so tomorrow night at 10.00? Does that suit you?
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Sola,
I was wondering what happened to you. Absolutely, we can re-arrange. I can be online tomorrow night at 10.00. Have a good night. I'm doing the nursing project now regarding newly discovered diabetes with children. That's why I'm up late. Besides, I've been taking small breaks and checking out DXP land as I haven't been on for over a month. There has been loads of things to read about. I even got some insight last night from someone called Freebird. It's been very interesting. Looking forward to catching up tomorrow night.
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Sola,
Just curious - why didn't you break through the blank?
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