Trying to understand Libra..........

So far I have charmer, romantic & lover of harmony

Trying to get to the meat of it though

It seems that aquarius love people by giving freedom.
But do libra love people by trying to be whatever the other person wants? Or by trying to make everything beautiful?

The crux Im coming to is concluding that if someone puts on an act but out of a sincere love....then they may conclude that everyone is acting...........and then conclude that people are pretending to be happy when they arent.

Being sensitive and into feelings this could be devastating and lead to a lot of insecurity, fear, self doubt etc about if the love is real or not.

Am I bang on or going down the wrong track?

if this is true how can you help a libra find the peace & harmony they long for? Especially if THEY are pretending to be ok to keep everything pleasant?

do libras like to sacrifice their own happiness in a sort of mayryrdom love almost? Ie putting themself in a position where they make themselves a bit uncomfortable so that someone else is comfortable? I hope they dont get into being uncomfortable as when they feel confident that they are a beautiful person..? If this isnt Libran what starsign does this sort of thing Im curious?

MM, long time no see, what happened to Mr Aqua? I'm not a libra but I know some librans who stick around in relationships they dont wanna be in just because it would hurt the feelings of the other should they leave. It dont make sense, does it? I mean, you are not responsible for another person's feelings and if they are hurt then that's their problem. I dont think I would ever sacrifice my own happiness just to make another happy...I'm too selfish for that...I guess that's where the "beauty" or w/e of libra is shown.

My ex (a libra) was involved with another girl and he clearly didn't want to be there and we talked about it a lot, so I asked him "why dont you leave her if you arent happy?" and he sad "I have NO REASON to leave her. She is a good girl, I dont love her, but she is a good girl and I cant drop her when she did nothing wrong." I never forgot those words because they sounded insane. Maybe some librans can give you some clarity on this.

I have always read that a Libra will stay in an unhappy relationship but to me its more then that. I have stayed in previous relationships longer then I should have because I refused to let them fail. A Libra will do (almost) anything to make a relationship work. Some may sacrafice some of their.own hapiness like my Libra (aqua moon) said in previous relationships he had stopped being his playful childlike self to make it work with a Virgo and only after she cheated on him he realised how unhappy he had been by trying to make her happy.

Now my selfish Cancer moon means my feelings always come first. I will still work hard to try and make a relationship work but will not.upset myself to do it I will.work hard to make the other person come round to my way of thinking rather then allow myself to be unhappy but once I finally realise it isnt going to happen I'm out!

Libras like to please but often dont know where the line is between keeping others happy and making themselves unhappy.

An aries moon (aother selfish one) would prob make this less likely too

What happens to a libra when the relationship fails? Why keep working on it? Why not just leave it? See, I dont get why you guys put yourself in so much trouble & stress over nothing.

Because they are "the love of our life" haha. Libras hate to be wrong so if you cant make it work you must have been wrong when saying "we're a perfect match" "this is true love this time" and all the other stuff we told everyone 🙂

Personally once its failed I'm so busy with the next guy that I couldnt even tell you the last guys name !!

Lol ^^^. So, you guys believe that everyone you get involved with is the one? Thats strange lol. After being "wrong" a few times, do you still continue to think.."this time is right"? When do you finally stop thinking about being right, if ever? And, why do you guys start new relationships before ending the current one? Dont you think the current partner needs to know 1st about you moving on?

Sorry, aqua questioning mode is on lol

Most Libra have a "get out of jail free card" when in a relationship lol I usually always have an escape plan but I dont move onto it until I have ended and closed off my last relationship. When I was younger I didnt use to "close" which was why ex's kept being recycled numerous times!

I start every relationship optimistic I've luckily never let past relationships effect the current. I've been engaged 3 times planned two weddings and gone through with one. This time its THE ONE however I have been wrong before 😉 haha

In other words, you guys never stop believing in "this is the one"? In your opinion, what makes you go back to exes? And what makes you finally close the door that leads way to the ex?

To me the door is closed when I wake up and realise that whatever the person has to offer is no longer what I want. The returning to ex's is never for another relationship its usually just for a bit of fun. Inbetween a relationship. I always stay friends with ex's although since being married I have stopped hanging out with a few as once I removed the ability to be able to sleep with them I realises we.didnt really have much need to be friends!

I always agreed I would only ever get married once and if it fails then I'll be done and there will be other men but they wont be "the one"

Smh @ librans lol. Interesting. Astrology is really true, I find nothing to relate to in both statements and when there's an "Indeed" from another person sharing the same sign, it just seals it for me lol. You all are too weird.

Posted by WaterCup
MM, long time no see, what happened to Mr Aqua?

Mr Aqua was a loner by nature so he tried out being with someone but then reverted to loner life style That was the conflict in that instance

Well my 1st impressions are that me (cappy) and him (Libra) are both so laid back we might both conclude the other is becoming indifferent. We both have a big flexibility..putting the other person at ease thing going on. How do Libras express passion? or are they always hiding it or putting the other personas wishes 1st such that they dont express their own?

The other energy Im sensing is a form of privacy. What is Libran view on privacy or even secrets? My concern about this is my bluntness as capricorn might make me reveal private information- thinking its no big deal. I was with a Libra over 10 years ago & he had this special view that what happened between us was just between us ie noone else in the world would ever know. Ie no talking to friends about if ones love life is going well.

My 3rd observation is that there seems to be a form of romance that is more like a innocent fairy tale than 2 hot blooded adults looking at each other and saying wow you are amazing. Like when someone wants to kiss you all over your face rather than running their fingers down your spine and circling at the spines base. Puppy love rather than sensual artistry. I kind of like this as its different for me. I like to see new perspectives