trying to win my libra back.

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Tharealher on Sunday, August 21, 2016 and has 50 replies.
You can say whatever you want bout me. Im in love with my libra guy. I tried dating a cancer man it didn't last. I tried to get back with my libra but i dont think he's having it. I really do feel like i messed up big time. I think i lost the love of my life. I haven't been the same ever since. We had a history and im scared to lose him. Hes the onlyguy in years ever made me feel this way. I dont know what to do. I tried talking to him he's in a relationship now.
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you're not in love, you're just lonely.
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Posted by tiziani
You've spoken a lot about yourself, but you can only open up a genuine connection with someone by being interested in what's going on with them. In this case, he's in a relationship. Obviously if you show disregard for that and just talk about how he made you feel, you'll just come off as someone wrapped up in yourself.


Respect it, be normal and be real. I think Libra is the sign that's least likely to be "won" or "lost". There's nothing to lose or win. That's just drama talk.


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Posted by Tharealher
You can say whatever you want bout me. Im in love with my libra guy. I tried dating a cancer man it didn't last. I tried to get back with my libra but i dont think he's having it. I really do feel like i messed up big time. I think i lost the love of my life. I haven't been the same ever since. We had a history and im scared to lose him. Hes the onlyguy in years ever made me feel this way. I dont know what to do. I tried talking to him he's in a relationship now.


what is your sign?


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Posted by jeane
you're not in love, you're just lonely.
The poor bitch doesn't know how to be single. Leos are notorious for this.




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Posted by jeane
you're not in love, you're just lonely.
How you going to tell me I'm lonely ? Wow you sound miserable yourself dear. Take your own advice please.
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Well he keeps telling me to focus on me and all this other crap. We are friends more than anything. I Don't try to bug him. I got my own life he does too. We were talking for awhile i end things because of a previous situation and i had alot of baggage. Its not bout me y'all just judge all on this forum thats why i said i don't care what yalk got to say bout me. I do love my libra its hard letting him go. But eventually time will let that heal. Thanks for the rude comments.
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Tharealher
Posted by jeane
you're not in love, you're just lonely.
How you going to tell me I'm lonely ? Wow you sound miserable yourself dear. Take your own advice please.
You sound ugly on the inside.


Help yourself.
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I think more people would be willing to help and not "judge" (her stupid term) if she didn't go around proving what a lying hoe she is. They do it all the time in this forum. Some crazy Leo chick shows up, all dick whipped emotionally by a dude who gave them the attention they're starved for, goes on about how she swears she's going to end it, only to go crawling back for that attention fix.


This chick isn't in love. She's too young and stupid to know what love is. She has a bad case of the "have nots."


Nevermind she goes around making a total jack ass out of herself. Seriously, it's embarrassing for her to see her posts, yet her logic is that people "judge." Fun fact- people who throw around such retorts to a general response to their bullshit are usually trashy bitches with no class and refuse to realize that they're the one in the wrong/who needs to do something about it.
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Posted by Tharealher
Posted by jeane
you're not in love, you're just lonely.
How you going to tell me I'm lonely ? Wow you sound miserable yourself dear. Take your own advice please.
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Lol smh


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I can say whatever I want? Well I wish you to be happy, joyful and healed from all wounds from the past, may your cheerful personality blossom fully and attract a Libra of your liking lol

In all seriousness i wish you to be happy dear smile
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my 2 cents:

I've never gotten back w an ex, and had it work out...ever
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Now he's in contact with me again now he's hitting me up. I work alot mostly crazy hours he hits me up during the time i can't respond back maybe til 6 hours later. I'm somewhat over it no lie. I know i deserve better. I'm going to let time heal it.
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You need help. I'm serious. You were just lamenting about your Aries ex too. You're a fucking mess dude.


It's okay to be single. It's okay to not have a dude in your life.


The sooner you realize this and the sooner you'll truly be happy and not this shell of a trainwreck.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
You need help. I'm serious. You were just lamenting about your Aries ex too. You're a fucking mess dude.


It's okay to be single. It's okay to not have a dude in your life.


The sooner you realize this and the sooner you'll truly be happy and not this shell of a trainwreck.
Word. Its okay to be single
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Posted by TheLibraMudra
i missed out on any other threads


but it seems like all of you are fucking assholes


LOL
If you saw her other threads, you'd see that we aren't. She's a nutter.


Going on about this dude forever. Claiming she's some "strong" woman that just wanted him for fwb, yet the vibe of her threads screamed desperation and feels. Nevermind dude was taken (and still is).


Starts going on about a... Cancer? Then an Aries. Now she's back to the Libra and basically proclaiming what we all said when she first came here.


Keep in mind this happened all in the span of a couple of months.


She's basically dick hopping, not wanting to take any accountability for her own enabling of these douchebags, and is generally just a trainwreck who keeps repeating the same shit over and expecting different outcomes.

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I am sorry you are going through this; I know how painful it is to love someone and circumstances prevent you two from coming together. Do you know what sign his new lover is? Where is your Venus, and where is his Venus?
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When he bored and have noonelse he will come your way to xoxo but thats about it
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Posted by Tharealher
Now he's in contact with me again now he's hitting me up. I work alot mostly crazy hours he hits me up during the time i can't respond back maybe til 6 hours later. I'm somewhat over it no lie. I know i deserve better. I'm going to let time heal it.
Your schedule and response time may interfere with this connection; doesn't sound like you are too available for a relationship right now. It's not your fault, you have to survive; but as Libra I HATE SLOW RESPONSES. I love Gemini and Aquarius they always respond quickly and rapidly. Libras usually require an enormous amount of time with their love interest.

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He got some issues going on he told he doesn't want to be bother with but he's been hitting me up. So i don't know what to do i think he has beeb in his feelings about something. Its like i don't have much to say. Its making me regret opening up cause he just been needy all week. I don't know whats going on so...
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Posted by Tharealher
He got some issues going on he told he doesn't want to be bother with but he's been hitting me up. So i don't know what to do i think he has beeb in his feelings about something. Its like i don't have much to say. Its making me regret opening up cause he just been needy all week. I don't know whats going on so...
Well at least he's contacting you, when you say "needy" not sure what that means.


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Like he needs someone to vent too. I label when he's not distance and cold we are good when he starts doing that things start getting ugly. I realize its just him not me. I told him i care and love him thats when he started contacting me. I guess he got serious issues going on. I consider us friends from the beginning. He asked me while back what were we i just friends i think thats when we haven't talked in 3 months. Everyone says negative things to me asking me what i see in him and he doesn't deserve my time. But i think there's times he tries to tell me the same but he realizes that doesn't push me away. I see his potential he doesn't see in himself. I really do love him but i don't know if i should move forward with anything ?
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Posted by Tharealher
He got some issues going on he told he doesn't want to be bother with but he's been hitting me up. So i don't know what to do i think he has beeb in his feelings about something. Its like i don't have much to say. Its making me regret opening up cause he just been needy all week. I don't know whats going on so...
maybe he has been needy because he had an argument with his girlfriend. does she know that he is contacting you and that you told him you love him?

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No she doesn't. I don't think I'm probably the only one he's contacting i don't know cause i dont have evidence. We been talking for a year now. He tells me all the time his relationship went downhill. I feel like he's negative alot. I think he sees me as a friend like i see him as a friend. I think one point of time he liked me and wanted to try us. I just keep thinking bout his relationship with his gf. He told me he's out for lust i told him thats not good but he's out for lust til his relationship is over. I don't know what to say on that one. I gave up on him before i don't want to give up on him now i feel like he's trying to make progress.
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Its just wrong.. Can you put yourself in the shoes of that poor girl? Would you like your guy talk to another woman behind your back? If you say you love him, than ask him to make up his mind.. You or her.. Than you will know...
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YOU DO NOT GO AFTER A GUY BASED ON HIS POTENTIAL.


EVER.


NEVER NEVER EVER.
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I have a libra gal friend she cheated on her bd for three years with the dude now that's her husband. She said she didn't feel bad at all because the relationship was draining and damaged. Why does libra tend to hold on to bad relationships? He says hes ready to be out of his relationship but i don't know if he knows how to be.. and my bff she talks to other guys all the time. She has a boyfriend she dated him four times and he keeps taking her back. I don't really get why libras do that?? He told me his gf does know and really we aint doing nothing. He still find ways to talk to me. He stopped by my house a month ago just to try to talk to me. I love him but i do realize i can't keep going on with any of this. I don't know how to go about it.
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
I am sorry you are going through this; I know how painful it is to love someone and circumstances prevent you two from coming together. Do you know what sign his new lover is? Where is your Venus, and where is his Venus?
No i don't understand any of that. I know shes a cancer and his birthday is in October. I think he did fall for me but he realized i didn't feel the same at the time. I do always look at it if he leaves his gf he will do the same to me. I never tell him to leave his gf i don't set expectations when we are just going to be friends period. I think his gf find out a year ago we talked but he always find a way to come back.
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You MUST be mentally stunted in some way....
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Posted by Harukka

You are stupid .. not in love..the end.
?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? you made my day. Thanks.
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But I'm stupid and i look thru this forum everyday y'all give advice to the same subject but oh yeah cause sounds like a hater. ??????????
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By approaching him in direct disregard of his current relationship and trying to 'win him back' you are sending the message that you don't respect him or his choices.


He may choose you to be a placeholder in between relationships as your legs swing open like a revolving door for him. But you will never be the end game.


Learn and grow from this. Cut contact with him and take some time to work on yourself. Place more value in yourself. Do better.
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Posted by Tharealher
But I'm stupid and i look thru this forum everyday y'all give advice to the same subject but oh yeah cause sounds like a hater. ??????????
Honey, people calling you out on your idiocy isn't "hating."


There is nothing to hate on. Not when it comes to you and these fucking insane posts. All you're getting is pity for your sub par I.Q.



Posted by LadyNeptune
By approaching him in direct disregard of his current relationship and trying to 'win him back' you are sending the message that you don't respect him or his choices.
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It also shows that she has no respect for herself by choosing to be this "other woman" waiting in the wings for him. Her desperation for dick in her life is so fucking sad. ...so, so sad.

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Posted by hera
Its just wrong.. Can you put yourself in the shoes of that poor girl? Would you like your guy talk to another woman behind your back? If you say you love him, than ask him to make up his mind.. You or her.. Than you will know...
He is not married, she is not his fiancée! Do they even live together?

Put herself in her shoes? She knows who her man is. A woman has a sixth sense about these things.


Marriage means a man is off limits, fiancée off limits, living together off limits. Everything else is fair game.

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Posted by librawomen7
Posted by hera
Its just wrong.. Can you put yourself in the shoes of that poor girl? Would you like your guy talk to another woman behind your back? If you say you love him, than ask him to make up his mind.. You or her.. Than you will know...
He is not married, she is not his fiancée! Do they even live together?

Put herself in her shoes? She knows who her man is. A woman has a sixth sense about these things.


Marriage means a man is off limits, fiancée off limits, living together off limits. Everything else is fair game.

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Hope you never end up in his gf shoes....
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Dont live together. Not married. Not engaged. I see him as a friend i think I'm just confused where we stand but i do think i see where now. Slowly but surely I'll move on. I confessed how i felt last night i didn't get no response and i don't see me getting no response which now I'm fine with.
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He may choose you to be a placeholder in between relationships as your legs swing open like a revolving door for him. But you will never be the end game.




He won't choose me because I'm not a prostitute. He says hes a sex addict someone is after him over a prostitute now trying to kill him. Darkness comes to light just wait on it. So i feel sorry for his girlfriend she looks dumb as hell out here believing that he is this and that when he just a person with no soul out looking for lust but in a committed relationship.


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I dont understand you.. You said he was the love of your life, you cant live without him, you are scared of loosing him... But now you feel sorry for his gf cause he is a bad person? Why do you love him than? Would you be happy with a guy like him?
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Nope i just learned his true intentions last night. Ill have love from a distance but i been single so i can talk to whoever i want. Which i do time to time go on dates. I never told him to leave his gf. You an outsider you won't understand it. Its been some bs that came from hell and back. We argued here and there like we are in a relationship which is ugly. We had sex so that's what made the relationship worse. I was dating someone when i met him he never told me bout his gf so really can't always blame the females. He didn't tell me til the fifth month of us seeing each other. I liked him so i continued to talk to him my relationship got rocky when my bf find out bout us. He used to text me til he said his gf find his text messages of us. So he stop texting me. So he used social media to talk to me we been talking off and on for a year and 4 months. Sex was incredible but our friendship went downhill ever since he asked me what were we and the lies started coming more often. I never had someone actually make it feel like a relationship when we really aren't in one.
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So not only were you knowingly helping him cheat on his gf at the time, but you were cheating on your dude as well?


You are the biggest piece of shit evar, dude. Congratulations. I feel even less remorse going after your ugly ass.
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I cant with libra men. They are like girls
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Well me and him are done. He told me his true intentions. I don't wish nothing but happiness towards him. He said he lust for a year basically told him thats really fucked up to do to someone that truly cared bout him. I think he's selfish and deserves to be single rest of his life. He says he'll be singe rest if his life now him and his gf aint together no more. He says i play too many games and the only thing i ever did was build a wall up so i don't get stepped all over. I never want to deal with a libra ever again. I dated a libra man years ago and he did some shady bs to me by throwing drugs in my lap and he's the reason why i got pulled over. I think they sneaky and just need attention. He says i always want to push things and i never have. I think he can't handle the fact I'm done with him and his gf is. He wanted the best of both worlds.
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Oh gee. What a shocker. Such a surprise.


Who saw that coming? I sure didn't.
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Posted by Tharealher

He may choose you to be a placeholder in between relationships as your legs swing open like a revolving door for him. But you will never be the end game.


He won't choose me because I'm not a prostitute. He says hes a sex addict someone is after him over a prostitute now trying to kill him. Darkness comes to light just wait on it. So i feel sorry for his girlfriend she looks dumb as hell out here believing that he is this and that when he just a person with no soul out looking for lust but in a committed relationship.


If his gf is dumb as hell what does that make you?


At least the prostitute is paying her bills. Your just left with damp thighs and empty hands when he's done with you.


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Posted by Tharealher

He may choose you to be a placeholder in between relationships as your legs swing open like a revolving door for him. But you will never be the end game.


He won't choose me because I'm not a prostitute. He says hes a sex addict someone is after him over a prostitute now trying to kill him. Darkness comes to light just wait on it. So i feel sorry for his girlfriend she looks dumb as hell out here believing that he is this and that when he just a person with no soul out looking for lust but in a committed relationship.


If his gf is dumb as hell what does that make you?


At least the prostitute is paying her bills. Your just left with damp thighs and empty hands when he's done with you.


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You sound bitter are you mad or nah ? No lie it feels good to know where we stand no lie. I'm not mad no hard feelings. I still care for him but it is what it is. You worried bout the prostitute tho you sound miserable seriously. Go jump your nonsense comments on someone's thread please. Prostitute thats a druggie paying her bills tho ?????????? thanks for making my day. I laugh at people all day over the dumb irrelevant bs comes out their mouths

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Posted by Tharealher
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Tharealher

He may choose you to be a placeholder in between relationships as your legs swing open like a revolving door for him. But you will never be the end game.


He won't choose me because I'm not a prostitute. He says hes a sex addict someone is after him over a prostitute now trying to kill him. Darkness comes to light just wait on it. So i feel sorry for his girlfriend she looks dumb as hell out here believing that he is this and that when he just a person with no soul out looking for lust but in a committed relationship.


If his gf is dumb as hell what does that make you?


At least the prostitute is paying her bills. Your just left with damp thighs and empty hands when he's done with you.





You sound bitter are you mad or nah ? No lie it feels good to know where we stand no lie. I'm not mad no hard feelings. I still care for him but it is what it is. You worried bout the prostitute tho you sound miserable seriously. Go jump your nonsense comments on someone's thread please. Prostitute thats a druggie paying her bills tho ?????????? thanks for making my day. I laugh at people all day over the dumb irrelevant bs comes out their mouths

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I'm neither bitter, mad or worried. Nice deflection though.


My point remains that out of three of you the prostitute and gf both got something for their time. The prostitute got paid, the gf has the relationship. Your just giving that pussy up for free.

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Posted by hera
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Posted by hera
Its just wrong.. Can you put yourself in the shoes of that poor girl? Would you like your guy talk to another woman behind your back? If you say you love him, than ask him to make up his mind.. You or her.. Than you will know...
He is not married, she is not his fiancée! Do they even live together?

Put herself in her shoes? She knows who her man is. A woman has a sixth sense about these things.


Marriage means a man is off limits, fiancée off limits, living together off limits. Everything else is fair game.

Hope you never end up in his gf shoes....
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I have been in his girlfriend's shoes; I knew I was dating a flirt; a woman knows her man before anyone else does. I made that choice to date a cheater. I knew what I was getting myself into, and I did not blame one single woman for his pursuits. Now if I was his wife, or live-in woman there will be a problem. But I made my own adult decisions, and I lived with the consequences of my decisions at that time.


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Posted by Tharealher

He may choose you to be a placeholder in between relationships as your legs swing open like a revolving door for him. But you will never be the end game.




He won't choose me because I'm not a prostitute. He says hes a sex addict someone is after him over a prostitute now trying to kill him. Darkness comes to light just wait on it. So i feel sorry for his girlfriend she looks dumb as hell out here believing that he is this and that when he just a person with no soul out looking for lust but in a committed relationship.




She knows who he is on some level, she loves him in spite of himself.

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It's fucking pathetic when other women come on here and justify such shitty behavior.


So many selfish whores up in this place. You all should be locked away from the general population until you get your shit together.
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Tbh he only talks bout her in a negative way. I think he takes her out just cause he is gulity of things. His fb relationship is hidden hers is open . She posts pics of them he doesnt. I mean he talked to me for a year basically lead me on. I didn't even have enough time for him i always worked but when he told me he has health issues thats when i started to feel bad. We had sex there were times in my mind i just wanted to stop i knew it was wrong I'll admit but i felt like me made love to me so my feelings got involved. Only reason i was still hung on him he never said his true intentions i really can't tell by his actions because we never had time around each other due to schedules. For two months we had sex alot that's when he asked what were we i came out and said friends ever since then i feel like he got heartless and stop coming around or even attempt contact. I don't know til this day really he liked me. He was always someone i came to when i needed someone to talk too more than sex. I think i just wanted to be his friend more than anything then let it go with the flow. He asked relationship questions i never really bothered by it i just shrugged it off. So hmm ...
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My libra broke it off with me. I don't know what we were i feel like me made me think we were in a relationship. I told him i was seeing someone by the way things sounds he's hurt. He told me he doesn't be in a relationship he wants to be left alone. I cried thinking bout it. I really hurt him because I'm bitter from my ex i thought it was okay to see things changed with my ex but nope. All i want is my libra man. He says i keep pushing things and i play too many games. I seen him the next day at a store around my neighborhood he looked at me all hurt and surprised to see me. I think my feelings were lost but there's not a day goes by i don't think of him. I really miss him but i don't want to just say things i want to show him i love him but i don't know how. I can blame myself for acting like a dumbass but i think i seriously made my feelings clear i just want him.
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