Turned Off
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Cancer on Tuesday, September 18, 2007 and has 8 replies.
There are thrills, excitment, and love....
But once you have been torn to shreds and sewn back together too many times
there is just too much damage done for repair.
I think that I can actually say and mean it, I am completely turned off by
my recent incident with my ex libra ... I am not angry, just confused and mentally exhausted by his behavior and I am so ready to change this pattern.
I welcome all advice that anyone thinks would help. This my question should I put on a face that I am happy or that I am upset. Why do I need to do anything? because I despertly want closure from this nighmare I am in. He won't let me do that.
But once you have been torn to shreds and sewn back together too many times
there is just too much damage done for repair.
I think that I can actually say and mean it, I am completely turned off by
my recent incident with my ex libra ... I am not angry, just confused and mentally exhausted by his behavior and I am so ready to change this pattern.
I welcome all advice that anyone thinks would help. This my question should I put on a face that I am happy or that I am upset. Why do I need to do anything? because I despertly want closure from this nighmare I am in. He won't let me do that.
Love shouldn't be that hard. Walk away and find someone with similiar mental, emotional and physical needs where your closeness is a natural progression and doesn't leave you "torn to threads". Life is too short!
absolutely....Cancer, you don't need to put on any face for this guy. If you truly feel he is just being cruel/childish, make sure you don't reply to any of his calls/emails/texts/anything. LIve your life and be happy...you deserve better than being screwed around 
Either accept him as he is and don't expect anything other than a friendship or walk away.
* Love shouldn't be that hard. Walk away and find someone with similiar mental, emotional and physical needs where your closeness is a natural progression and doesn't leave you "torn to threads". Life is too short!
YAY!!!! This.
Seriously. Go where it is easy.
YAY!!!! This.
Seriously. Go where it is easy.
"YES" to easy
Firegirl that was so on point, I agree with you 100% .
"Let go" , Cancer ! Very simple ! You thought you couldnt leave without the other person . You thought he/she meant the world to you . You thought you could turn the world upside down for them . You thought you could give them anything , even your soul . You thought you could silently sacrifice for love is pure and selfless . Then oneday , you looked into the mirror , wondering and asking "who is this girl ? It isnt me , I was way better than this and I deserve to be myself , not a souless person with tiring and pitiful look" . That was the result for all the illusions , the dreams in your heart , denying the cold and harsh truth that thrown at your face many times . True love isnt just excitement , thrill of the chase , electrifying moments , chemistry , lustful feelings...It's more than that and it 'll come true when you "LET GO" , it isnt the guy - he never changes , Libra , Taurus ,Virgo or any signs , he isnt the one for you , that's all . Very simple but painful lesson I know .
If you keep coming back for more , eventually you delude yourself more in the drama while the other could become resent you as well . That isnt love , that's pride , selfishness , posessiveness , wining desires . More importantly , dont ever think that playing games could feel good somehow , it only lasts for awhile .Dont become a pitiful and sad lady .Be strong and be happy by removing yourself from the drama played by both of you .
Sorry for talking way too much
If you keep coming back for more , eventually you delude yourself more in the drama while the other could become resent you as well . That isnt love , that's pride , selfishness , posessiveness , wining desires . More importantly , dont ever think that playing games could feel good somehow , it only lasts for awhile .Dont become a pitiful and sad lady .Be strong and be happy by removing yourself from the drama played by both of you .
Sorry for talking way too much
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