Two Libra girls, two problems

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Cancer2448 on Thursday, July 20, 2017 and has 15 replies.
So I'm in need of advice here, preferably Libra women. I have two libra co-workers lol. One is interested in me(libra A), the other (libra B) I'm not sure. As you probably guess. I'm interested in Libra B. Libra A is a lot younger than me, and on top of that will be moving to Australia for 6 months because of the career she's choosing. Then she'll move to Alaska after that for another 18 months. And maybe she'll move back here when she's done, don't know she said she likes it here. So in the long run, that would be tough for me.

Libra B is older, and I am attracted to her. She took me out to lunch for my birthday along with another co-worker. Occasionally she will message me on Facebook mostly in replies of what I posted, like me going to Starbucks makes her jealous. She also has complimented me in the past on my clothes and that I don't need to lose weight, I look great. That's sweet but I'd like to look more toned. I've invited her out a few times with friends and everytime she flakes out. So I'm thinking let this one go. However, just recently she messaged me last Saturday asking if I was going out. And later sent me a video of her out with friends, having fun. I was in the middle of helping my sister move stuff over in her apartment. I didn't reply to her until the next day. Since then, she's been quiet. But I've been quiet as well. Mostly due to the fact my mother has been in the hospital so I don't feel like talking to anyone when I feel emotional.

Any advice on how to get Libra B more interested? I'm afraid of telling her I like her more than a friend, because I've done that in the past like 6 years ago with a co-worker and that ended up badly and embarrassing. Damn Capricorn woman was very dramatic!
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Posted by LibraMudra
Two of them?


You're fucked, Mr. Crabs
Ha I shouldn't say Libra A is a problem. She's very sweet and I know at some point I might have to say something to her in light way that I'm not interested. I appreciate people that speak the truth. And I need to do the same with her soon.
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Go for Libra B. Ask her to go lunch first, movie, activities outdoor, dinner etc.. Charm her and pay attention what she likes and gives complication about her hair/clothes/smiles.
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Posted by Rozaeon
If you want to invite her do one on one, not with friends. I know that some other Libras like to do that but the other, like me, don't feel comfortable at all in this kind of situation. She wants to see you, not your friends

Have you told her about your situation with your mother etc ? If not, you should because if she doesn't hear from you, out of the blue, she can think that you are not interested in her anymore

Communication is key, really
I posted a video on social media asking for prayers for her. I saw that she viewed it, but never said anything to me Sad

I was thinking the samething about 1 on 1. There's a concert coming up, and I have tickets. Maybe I could ask her to that. I'm concerned she likes someone else too.
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Posted by Cancer2448
Posted by Rozaeon
If you want to invite her do one on one, not with friends. I know that some other Libras like to do that but the other, like me, don't feel comfortable at all in this kind of situation. She wants to see you, not your friends

Have you told her about your situation with your mother etc ? If not, you should because if she doesn't hear from you, out of the blue, she can think that you are not interested in her anymore

Communication is key, really
I posted a video on social media asking for prayers for her. I saw that she viewed it, but never said anything to me Sad

I was thinking the samething about 1 on 1. There's a concert coming up, and I have tickets. Maybe I could ask her to that. I'm concerned she likes someone else too.
Ok so if she saw it then maybe she thinks that it's not apropriate to talk about this with you. In general, some Libras like to cheer up people that we like or don't say anything at all because we don't know what to say that will make you feel better etc

What makes you think that she like someone else ?
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I guess that makes sense. She's pretty popular, at least on Facebook. I feel she could have any guy she wants. That's why I say that. I know she was seeing some guy a month or two back but they weren't a couple and he's in a band that travels a lot.

If you were interested in someone how would you act around him? Because I know Libras have a natural charming personality, and some people can mistake it for just being friends. So what signs should I lookout for?
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Posted by Rozaeon
Posted by Cancer2448
Posted by Rozaeon
If you want to invite her do one on one, not with friends. I know that some other Libras like to do that but the other, like me, don't feel comfortable at all in this kind of situation. She wants to see you, not your friends

Have you told her about your situation with your mother etc ? If not, you should because if she doesn't hear from you, out of the blue, she can think that you are not interested in her anymore

Communication is key, really
I posted a video on social media asking for prayers for her. I saw that she viewed it, but never said anything to me Sad

I was thinking the samething about 1 on 1. There's a concert coming up, and I have tickets. Maybe I could ask her to that. I'm concerned she likes someone else too.
Ok so if she saw it then maybe she thinks that it's not apropriate to talk about this with you. In general, some Libras like to cheer up people that we like or don't say anything at all because we don't know what to say that will make you feel better etc

What makes you think that she like someone else ?
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It's funny I'm asking that when I know Libra A likes me. I just "know" that she likes me. Can see it in her eyes, she always wants a hug from me. Libra B doesn't seem the hugging type lol. I haven't tried to hug her though.

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Posted by Cancer2448
Posted by Rozaeon
Posted by Cancer2448
Posted by Rozaeon
If you want to invite her do one on one, not with friends. I know that some other Libras like to do that but the other, like me, don't feel comfortable at all in this kind of situation. She wants to see you, not your friends

Have you told her about your situation with your mother etc ? If not, you should because if she doesn't hear from you, out of the blue, she can think that you are not interested in her anymore

Communication is key, really
I posted a video on social media asking for prayers for her. I saw that she viewed it, but never said anything to me Sad

I was thinking the samething about 1 on 1. There's a concert coming up, and I have tickets. Maybe I could ask her to that. I'm concerned she likes someone else too.
Ok so if she saw it then maybe she thinks that it's not apropriate to talk about this with you. In general, some Libras like to cheer up people that we like or don't say anything at all because we don't know what to say that will make you feel better etc

What makes you think that she like someone else ?
It's funny I'm asking that when I know Libra A likes me. I just "know" that she likes me. Can see it in her eyes, she always wants a hug from me. Libra B doesn't seem the hugging type lol. I haven't tried to hug her though.

And you don't see anything in the eyes of Libra B ? I'm not the hugging type too so i understand
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Unfortunately for me, my telltale sign that I like a girl is I have a hard time looking them in the eye because in a way I'm still shy. I'll still talk to you, but have a hard time maintaining eye contact.

I don't but, I know her birthday. I searched it on the web with time unknown and location I guessed on it. This can't be right, it says her Moon is Cancer, and Venus is Scorpio! Don't know her rising but holy cow she has a lot of water placements. I have Scorpio Moon and Venus in Libra.
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Posted by Rozaeon
If you want to invite her do one on one, not with friends. I know that some other Libras like to do that but the other, like me, don't feel comfortable at all in this kind of situation. She wants to see you, not your friends

Have you told her about your situation with your mother etc ? If not, you should because if she doesn't hear from you, out of the blue, she can think that you are not interested in her anymore

Communication is key, really
I posted a video on social media asking for prayers for her. I saw that she viewed it, but never said anything to me Sad

I was thinking the samething about 1 on 1. There's a concert coming up, and I have tickets. Maybe I could ask her to that. I'm concerned she likes someone else too.
Ok so if she saw it then maybe she thinks that it's not apropriate to talk about this with you. In general, some Libras like to cheer up people that we like or don't say anything at all because we don't know what to say that will make you feel better etc

What makes you think that she like someone else ?
It's funny I'm asking that when I know Libra A likes me. I just "know" that she likes me. Can see it in her eyes, she always wants a hug from me. Libra B doesn't seem the hugging type lol. I haven't tried to hug her though.

And you don't see anything in the eyes of Libra B ? I'm not the hugging type too so i understand
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I feel like the fact that I waited awhile before I responded to her message asking if I was going out, like the next day. She's been quiet ever since. So I could see her moon being Scorpio. Maybe she's not happy I waited very long to respond. I didn't know in the message that she asked me what I was doing for the night until I opened it! I thought it was just a friendly story post like on instagram, "hey look at me having fun with friends." Surprised she didn't text me instead. The fact that she flaked on me even on my birthday party with friends, made me think that she wasn't interested.

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Kinda sounds like libra B is interested in you, but you need to lead things. Don't invite her out with your friends so soon. I always decline an invite to hangout with a guy and his friends if I'm not dating them. One on one is preferred. Ask her out for something casual. As far as libra A, you're already thinking of things you don't like about her or won't work so, why is their even a question about what to do with her? You're clearly not interested.
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Kinda sounds like libra B is interested in you, but you need to lead things. Don't invite her out with your friends so soon. I always decline an invite to hangout with a guy and his friends if I'm not dating them. One on one is preferred. Ask her out for something casual. As far as libra A, you're already thinking of things you don't like about her or won't work so, why is their even a question about what to do with her? You're clearly not interested.
I guess on how to let libra A down gently. I guess no matter what I'll hurt and disappoint her. And I hate doing that to anyone. But I'll say something to her soon
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Are you the same guy who was chasing a Scorpio a few months ago and was thinking of dating a Libra co-worker?
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To me it doesn't sound like she is interested.


I wouldnt mind if someone responded the next day.


I show someone I am interested by becoming friends with them, lots of chats, lots of gifts, lots of jokey behaviour.


I zero in on them and only them. And i'm not one to give up either. If I fancied them, there is very little they could do that would stop that barring them being interested in someone else and then I would back off and call it a day.
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Posted by Rozaeon
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Posted by Rozaeon
If you want to invite her do one on one, not with friends. I know that some other Libras like to do that but the other, like me, don't feel comfortable at all in this kind of situation. She wants to see you, not your friends

Have you told her about your situation with your mother etc ? If not, you should because if she doesn't hear from you, out of the blue, she can think that you are not interested in her anymore

Communication is key, really
I posted a video on social media asking for prayers for her. I saw that she viewed it, but never said anything to me Sad

I was thinking the samething about 1 on 1. There's a concert coming up, and I have tickets. Maybe I could ask her to that. I'm concerned she likes someone else too.
Ok so if she saw it then maybe she thinks that it's not apropriate to talk about this with you. In general, some Libras like to cheer up people that we like or don't say anything at all because we don't know what to say that will make you feel better etc

What makes you think that she like someone else ?
It's funny I'm asking that when I know Libra A likes me. I just "know" that she likes me. Can see it in her eyes, she always wants a hug from me. Libra B doesn't seem the hugging type lol. I haven't tried to hug her though.

And you don't see anything in the eyes of Libra B ? I'm not the hugging type too so i understand
I feel like the fact that I waited awhile before I responded to her message asking if I was going out, like the next day. She's been quiet ever since. So I could see her moon being Scorpio. Maybe she's not happy I waited very long to respond. I didn't know in the message that she asked me what I was doing for the night until I opened it! I thought it was just a friendly story post like on instagram, "hey look at me having fun with friends." Surprised she didn't text me instead. The fact that she flaked on me even on my birthday party with friends, made me think that she wasn't interested.

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Cancer, it doesn't sound like she is interested in anything but a friendship. At least that is how I respond to guys when I just want a friendship.


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Posted by Rozaeon
If you want to invite her do one on one, not with friends. I know that some other Libras like to do that but the other, like me, don't feel comfortable at all in this kind of situation. She wants to see you, not your friends

Have you told her about your situation with your mother etc ? If not, you should because if she doesn't hear from you, out of the blue, she can think that you are not interested in her anymore

Communication is key, really
I posted a video on social media asking for prayers for her. I saw that she viewed it, but never said anything to me Sad

I was thinking the samething about 1 on 1. There's a concert coming up, and I have tickets. Maybe I could ask her to that. I'm concerned she likes someone else too.
Ok so if she saw it then maybe she thinks that it's not apropriate to talk about this with you. In general, some Libras like to cheer up people that we like or don't say anything at all because we don't know what to say that will make you feel better etc

What makes you think that she like someone else ?
It's funny I'm asking that when I know Libra A likes me. I just "know" that she likes me. Can see it in her eyes, she always wants a hug from me. Libra B doesn't seem the hugging type lol. I haven't tried to hug her though.

And you don't see anything in the eyes of Libra B ? I'm not the hugging type too so i understand
I feel like the fact that I waited awhile before I responded to her message asking if I was going out, like the next day. She's been quiet ever since. So I could see her moon being Scorpio. Maybe she's not happy I waited very long to respond. I didn't know in the message that she asked me what I was doing for the night until I opened it! I thought it was just a friendly story post like on instagram, "hey look at me having fun with friends." Surprised she didn't text me instead. The fact that she flaked on me even on my birthday party with friends, made me think that she wasn't interested.

I think too that she's not really happy that you waited to respond but, on the other hand we have a great amount of patience and she knew what you were going through

I'm also water dominant, but i have a Capricorn moon and a Virgo venus so i don't know. You should try to invite her at the concert, i think it's a great idea


As for Libra A, do you know how to tell her that you are not interested ? Because if Libra B sees that another woman is in the picture, she'll back off
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So update. Saw her this morning as I was walking in the hallway. She asked with a smile on her face, "where have you been? Haven't seen you in awhile." Told her I've been here half the time and other half in the hospital because of my mother. Told her about that and teased her that she looked like she had fun without me last weekend. She was with a bunch of friends and was seeing if I was going out too. I told her next time I would be happy to go with her. As far as 1 on 1, I asked if she like to go get lunch today. She said today that she has some tours to give but might just go get something and bring back both of us lunch. So that sounds nice. Don't have much time to go out with her 1 on 1 for a few days unfortunately.
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Posted by Ram416
Are you the same guy who was chasing a Scorpio a few months ago and was thinking of dating a Libra co-worker?
Yes that's Libra A. I did go out with her a couple of times after the Scorpio. Very sweet, down to earth gal. But she's underage, I thought she was 22 I heard from some others. And she told me she was moving to Australia, then Alaska for her career. Wish I could go with her but most of my family is here, and they need me. Especially after what happened to my mother. I probably won't see after she leaves for 2 years!
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