Was I wrong to cut contact all together...
This topic was created in the Libra forum by hurt-heart on Wednesday, January 2, 2008 and has 5 replies.
Hello
Wondering if I was wrong to cut contact all together. My Libra wanted to have a distant friendship through phone and e-mail for the time being...But I was hurt and angry and told him it would be easier to move on if we had no contact..I told him he should be focusing on his separated marriage and that he never should have opened the door, and I never should have walked through the door because he is still married, although they have been separated for 9 Months. I know not speaking to him will help me move on quicker but I miss his friendship, I feel like I lost my best friend...
I am trying to be strong for him as well as myself, because I no that he is confused and on a emotional rollercoaster. Did I do the right thing and will he forgive me and resume a friendship in the future...
Wondering if I was wrong to cut contact all together. My Libra wanted to have a distant friendship through phone and e-mail for the time being...But I was hurt and angry and told him it would be easier to move on if we had no contact..I told him he should be focusing on his separated marriage and that he never should have opened the door, and I never should have walked through the door because he is still married, although they have been separated for 9 Months. I know not speaking to him will help me move on quicker but I miss his friendship, I feel like I lost my best friend...
I am trying to be strong for him as well as myself, because I no that he is confused and on a emotional rollercoaster. Did I do the right thing and will he forgive me and resume a friendship in the future...
You did the right thing for you. That is what counts. Librans always come back, they hate losing people. It might take awhile, but he will be back.
*****I know not speaking to him will help me move on quicker**** YOU need to do what is right for YOU. Libras tend to be very selfish in this area. YOU DID the right thing. Don't start second guessing yourself!!!
(((((hugs))))) cuz I know it hurts. And yes,.....somewhere down the road......if you are meant to be together.......perhaps you will be if you are both single and both in the right place in your lives when that time should come around again.
You should probably expect him to keep popping back up from time to time. He knows there's still an opportunity there with you because you told him it isn't right until he has closure. He'll come back to see if his opportunity is still available sometime in the future but in a casual way.....just to test the waters first.
I wish you success in 2008 !!
(((((hugs))))) cuz I know it hurts. And yes,.....somewhere down the road......if you are meant to be together.......perhaps you will be if you are both single and both in the right place in your lives when that time should come around again.
You should probably expect him to keep popping back up from time to time. He knows there's still an opportunity there with you because you told him it isn't right until he has closure. He'll come back to see if his opportunity is still available sometime in the future but in a casual way.....just to test the waters first.
I wish you success in 2008 !!
Thanks your comments make me feel better....and make me feel stronger..
You answer is right here:
* I know not speaking to him will help me move on quicker
(hurt)
I know it hurts.
* I know not speaking to him will help me move on quicker
(hurt)
I know it hurts.
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