What do I do?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Unforgiven on Wednesday, November 24, 2010 and has 188 replies.
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I've made a Libra girl extremely mad at me. Extremely mad. She stated that she has not been so mad for a very long time. Now she ignores me when I try to talk to her. Please advise.
It appears that I've "ditched" her.
Well, I left a group that we established together. She assumed that I assumed that she wants to be left alone. Now I have in the past assumed things for her many times. This time I wasn't but my actions says otherwise. Now she ignores me and have said she'll never speak to me again. I don't know what to do.
I managed to put in a few sentences before she ignored me but it all came out wrong, like I was blaming her or defending myself. So I've now sent her a letter saying how sorry and childish I was but I afraid she'll think it's just another apology. Mind you she stated she is VERY angry.
She feels that I don't "get" her and always assume thing for her. That's why my leaving is unacceptable because she assumes that I assume she wants to be left alone. Unfortunately I've mailed her about how sorry I am. Now I might just seem pathetic. What's the best way to apologize or let her come around. I am really afraid that I will be ignored forever.
VERY BAD. I PISSED HER OFF VERY VERY BAD.
OMG..
Well, what if I publicly yell out my apology?
And those letter are already sent..
I sent you a private message of my sign.
I just want to show her how sincere I am. I do not want to give her the feeling that I don't care or not making the effort.
I just want to show her how sincere I am. I do not want to give her the feeling that I don't care or not making the effort.
I willing to back off if only she didn't misunderstood me so. I did not assume anything for her this time.
Maybe I don't know how to use this thing. I swear I sent a pm. I want to share and get advice but I feel like I'm exposing her, if you know what I mean..
I express how sorry I was and for a minute or two I was childish and stepped over the line. That how sorry I am and I wish I could take it all back..and I am punished for my behavior.
So apologizing publicly is bad..?
I didn't know I could erase later..dose it really erase? The chances? The chances are good..Even if I could erase my posts, I can't erase what others have posted..I want to yell I'm sorry in front of everyone...there's no other way if she is ignoring my messages to get through.
You're a Leo, aren't you? Sag? Fire, anyway. But my money's on Leo.. a whole dollar.
Assuming shit, pushing shit, even THINKING about some sort of public spectacle?!! Christ.. DO NOT DO THAT! It's not that apologizing publicly is bad.. but the over the top-ness IS.. the huge public scene.. the potential embarrassment.. Libras do NOT like to be publicly embarrassed or made to look bad or put on the spot.. if you do that and she's still furious at you and not ready to forgive and forget.. you will put her in a tough spot.. first, embarrassing her with your drama and theatrics and emotional displays.. then.. since it was public.. now SHE'LL look like the asshole if she tells you to drop dead like she WANTS to for you doing that to her.
LISTEN to TOC.. she IS a Libra woman.. she's giving you solid gold advice, FOR FREE! You've already apologized, fine. DO NOT kiss her ass or apologize more.. I don't mean that you have to be a dickhead.. just don't be a slobbering doormat throwing yourself at her. LIBRAS NEED SPACE TO COOL DOWN. Also, they have a deep-rooted fear of abandonment and rejection.. so what did you do? You left "YOUR" group and now she feels abandoned, rejected, like you're assuming shit again (since you have a shitty track record for this sort of thing!), like you're assuming she doesn't want to be around you and would rather you left. So you did. How's THAT working out for you?
Assuming shit, pushing shit, even THINKING about some sort of public spectacle?!! Christ.. DO NOT DO THAT! It's not that apologizing publicly is bad.. but the over the top-ness IS.. the huge public scene.. the potential embarrassment.. Libras do NOT like to be publicly embarrassed or made to look bad or put on the spot.. if you do that and she's still furious at you and not ready to forgive and forget.. you will put her in a tough spot.. first, embarrassing her with your drama and theatrics and emotional displays.. then.. since it was public.. now SHE'LL look like the asshole if she tells you to drop dead like she WANTS to for you doing that to her.
LISTEN to TOC.. she IS a Libra woman.. she's giving you solid gold advice, FOR FREE! You've already apologized, fine. DO NOT kiss her ass or apologize more.. I don't mean that you have to be a dickhead.. just don't be a slobbering doormat throwing yourself at her. LIBRAS NEED SPACE TO COOL DOWN. Also, they have a deep-rooted fear of abandonment and rejection.. so what did you do? You left "YOUR" group and now she feels abandoned, rejected, like you're assuming shit again (since you have a shitty track record for this sort of thing!), like you're assuming she doesn't want to be around you and would rather you left. So you did. How's THAT working out for you?
.. but paranoid like a Scorp? WTF?
Okay.. so Leo Sun and Scorp Moon and.. let's see.. Cancer Venus?
Okay.. so Leo Sun and Scorp Moon and.. let's see.. Cancer Venus?
Aquarius.
^ Reaaaaaaaallly?? Dude.. as an Aqua.. why would you even CONSIDER making a public scene? o.o
I...she knows my fear of loosing her. She does. When it comes to her, I'm like...a brain dead puppy. I really don't know what to do.
Wasn't going to yell her name. Was just going to say "I'm sorry, so sorry". She'll know its me. I protect her even though she doesn't feel that way or might say "I can take care of myself."
Posted by TasteOfChaos
Oooh... I was guessing Aries, but Leo sounds good too!
Definitely fire!
Come on dude! Tell us!
1) He's lying to "avoid detection".. the paranoia that SHE'S going to see this, like he already said.
OR
2) That boy's got a SHITLOAD of FIRE or SCORP underneath his Aqua face.
I don't know? I just know I'm an Aquarius, no idea what the other signs are..no idea what they are and how to find them.
I wasn't going to expose who she is..
Really I'm an Aquarius!
Posted by Unforgiven
I don't know? I just know I'm an Aquarius, no idea what the other signs are..no idea what they are and how to find them.
http://www.alabe.com/freechart/
Go here, enter your birth details and it will give you the results. You can do it for HER too.. even if you don't know the TIME she was born (makes it more accurate though).. Rising/Ascendant changes with birth time, and there can be a couple different choices for Moon on a given day, though it's often the same all day long... the rest of your chart should stay pretty accurate as long as you know the birth date.
Now, don't get all paranoid here.. (hell.. you didn't even want to tell us you were an Aqua, like we haven't seen 1,000 Libra-Aqua matches here?!) But paste your results here.. no, not your names or birthdates.. just the results.. your Sun, Ascendant, Moon, etc.. and hers too.. we want to HELP you figure out the best way to reach her, to get through to her... and we need more than just her Libra Sun to help you with that.
Also.. this WHOLE THREAD can go POOF when you're done.. YOU created it, and YOU can delete it. Or we can all just Hide our revealing posts.. I'm sure TOC would be game for that, if you're really that worried that this chick might find you here.
Rising Sign is in 03 Degrees Gemini
Extremely active by nature, you like to get around, meet people and do different things. Very restless, you just can't seem to stay put. You need to be involved in several projects at once in order to keep your mind stimulated. You like to read books and to write letters and to talk -- constantly. Seemingly ageless, you will always appear to be much younger than you really are. Very adaptable and inquisitive, you are always open to new ideas and experiences. A "jack-of-all-trades", you are lively and versatile. Because of the high nervous tension that you always seem to have, athletic activity would be a good way for you to burn off energy. But be careful of a tendency to experience things only superficially -- try to dig in and absorb things at a deeper level.
Sun is in 20 Degrees Aquarius.
You get bored with the status quo and are generally open to new things and ideas. An individualist and a free spirit, your friends are quite important to you as long as they do not try to tie you down by making too many emotional demands on you. Your thoughts are offbeat and you're a bit eccentric, but not always very changeable. As a matter of fact, you can be quite stubborn at times. Very fair-minded when dealing with large groups or broad issues, you are not always emotionally sensitive to the needs of individuals. Extremely objective, with good powers of observation, you would be qualified to study technical and complicated subjects, like science, computers or maybe even astrology.
Moon is in 00 Degrees Sagittarius.
An idealist, you prefer the grand, the beautiful, the good and the noble. You get very disappointed when your high expectations in life are not met. Very curious by nature, you enjoy traveling and learning about other peoples and cultures. Try to avoid your tendency to ignore the small but important details of living. You are independent and free, and you want others to be that way, too. Optimistic, buoyant and cheerful, others like to have you around. You have an incessant desire to learn as much as possible about metaphysics, religion, philosophy and any other broad, deep subject. Your life tends to be punctuated by bursts of energy and frenetic activity.
Mercury is in 04 Degrees Pisces.
Your ideas and thought processes do not come to you in an orderly, logical fashion. Instead, you think with your feelings or with images produced by your rich and fertile imagination. A very subjective person, your drea
Extremely active by nature, you like to get around, meet people and do different things. Very restless, you just can't seem to stay put. You need to be involved in several projects at once in order to keep your mind stimulated. You like to read books and to write letters and to talk -- constantly. Seemingly ageless, you will always appear to be much younger than you really are. Very adaptable and inquisitive, you are always open to new ideas and experiences. A "jack-of-all-trades", you are lively and versatile. Because of the high nervous tension that you always seem to have, athletic activity would be a good way for you to burn off energy. But be careful of a tendency to experience things only superficially -- try to dig in and absorb things at a deeper level.
Sun is in 20 Degrees Aquarius.
You get bored with the status quo and are generally open to new things and ideas. An individualist and a free spirit, your friends are quite important to you as long as they do not try to tie you down by making too many emotional demands on you. Your thoughts are offbeat and you're a bit eccentric, but not always very changeable. As a matter of fact, you can be quite stubborn at times. Very fair-minded when dealing with large groups or broad issues, you are not always emotionally sensitive to the needs of individuals. Extremely objective, with good powers of observation, you would be qualified to study technical and complicated subjects, like science, computers or maybe even astrology.
Moon is in 00 Degrees Sagittarius.
An idealist, you prefer the grand, the beautiful, the good and the noble. You get very disappointed when your high expectations in life are not met. Very curious by nature, you enjoy traveling and learning about other peoples and cultures. Try to avoid your tendency to ignore the small but important details of living. You are independent and free, and you want others to be that way, too. Optimistic, buoyant and cheerful, others like to have you around. You have an incessant desire to learn as much as possible about metaphysics, religion, philosophy and any other broad, deep subject. Your life tends to be punctuated by bursts of energy and frenetic activity.
Mercury is in 04 Degrees Pisces.
Your ideas and thought processes do not come to you in an orderly, logical fashion. Instead, you think with your feelings or with images produced by your rich and fertile imagination. A very subjective person, your drea
, your dreams and fantasies are very important to you. You trust your intuitions and tend to reject ideas that are based solely on logic. Very impressionable, you are sensitive to the moods and emotional states of those with whom you come into contact.
Venus is in 00 Degrees Aries.
You are a very affectionate person but you hate to be tied down. You are more than willing to be the aggressor in initiating new relationships. Indeed, once you have set your sights on someone, you tend to pursue him or her ardently and passionately. But you do demand your own way in a relationship. Try to give in to your partner's needs and desires once in a while.
Mars is in 11 Degrees Virgo.
Very careful and systematic, you pay great attention to details. You are always seeking perfection and sometimes get bogged down searching for the ultimate when adequacy would have been sufficient. You dislike abstractions, preferring whatever is practical, useful and demonstrable. You have a strong and enduring sense of personal responsibility, and you demand that others be as responsible and upright as you are. Very critical of yourself and others, sometimes you carry this too far and become overly intolerant of others and their right to choose their own life style s.
Jupiter is in 07 Degrees Virgo.
You feel most expansive and at ease with yourself when you are doing something that you consider to be practical or useful. You enjoy being dutiful and carrying out responsibilities. You gladly take on the little tasks that others seem to want to avoid. At times, you carry things to extremes and feel guilty anytime you do something that you consider to be self-indulgent. While it is appropriate for you to demand little for yourself in life, try to loosen up once in a while -- go out on a fling and enjoy yourself!
Saturn is in 26 Degrees Virgo.
Your life must be orderly and practical and full of known and familiar routines in order for you to feel comfortable with yourself. Be careful, however, not to let "order" become the be-all and end-all of your life, or you may become cold, crass and unfeeling. Doing useful, practical things boosts your self- esteem. Abstract concepts and reasoning seem frivolous and a waste of time to you. You are very critical of yourself (and others), indeed at times quite self-deprecating. Try to relax a bit and allow yourself the freedom to fail once in a while. However, you probably won't fail very often because you are such a perfectionist.
Venus is in 00 Degrees Aries.
You are a very affectionate person but you hate to be tied down. You are more than willing to be the aggressor in initiating new relationships. Indeed, once you have set your sights on someone, you tend to pursue him or her ardently and passionately. But you do demand your own way in a relationship. Try to give in to your partner's needs and desires once in a while.
Mars is in 11 Degrees Virgo.
Very careful and systematic, you pay great attention to details. You are always seeking perfection and sometimes get bogged down searching for the ultimate when adequacy would have been sufficient. You dislike abstractions, preferring whatever is practical, useful and demonstrable. You have a strong and enduring sense of personal responsibility, and you demand that others be as responsible and upright as you are. Very critical of yourself and others, sometimes you carry this too far and become overly intolerant of others and their right to choose their own life style s.
Jupiter is in 07 Degrees Virgo.
You feel most expansive and at ease with yourself when you are doing something that you consider to be practical or useful. You enjoy being dutiful and carrying out responsibilities. You gladly take on the little tasks that others seem to want to avoid. At times, you carry things to extremes and feel guilty anytime you do something that you consider to be self-indulgent. While it is appropriate for you to demand little for yourself in life, try to loosen up once in a while -- go out on a fling and enjoy yourself!
Saturn is in 26 Degrees Virgo.
Your life must be orderly and practical and full of known and familiar routines in order for you to feel comfortable with yourself. Be careful, however, not to let "order" become the be-all and end-all of your life, or you may become cold, crass and unfeeling. Doing useful, practical things boosts your self- esteem. Abstract concepts and reasoning seem frivolous and a waste of time to you. You are very critical of yourself (and others), indeed at times quite self-deprecating. Try to relax a bit and allow yourself the freedom to fail once in a while. However, you probably won't fail very often because you are such a perfectionist.
Uranus is in 25 Degrees Scorpio.
You, and your peer group, demand to confront life at its deepest and most meaningful levels. Very compulsive and obsessive in your approach to everything, you will avoid anything that is casual or superficial, especially when it comes to relationships. You will seek out and explore new methods of healing as well as different ways to deal with deep-seated emotional problems.
Neptune is in 22 Degrees Sagittarius.
You, and your entire generation, are heavily involved in investigating and idealizing foreign and exotic intellectual systems and religious philosophies. The most extreme ideals will be pursued with gusto. You will be at the forefront of humanitarian attempts to improve the lot of those who are in need of assistance. You will be comfortable with the concept of the "global village."
Pluto is in 21 Degrees Libra.
For your entire generation, this is a time of radical changes in society's attitude toward marriage and interpersonal relationships. There is a general fear and awe at the power inherent in making emotional or contractual commitments -- they will not be entered into lightly.
N. Node is in 29 Degrees Leo.
You prefer to take the leadership role when it comes to dealing with others. You enjoy administering and organizing group activities. Others tend to listen to your suggestions because you aren't usually overly domineering or patronizing in your interactions. You love to entertain in a big way -- you're at your best when throwing a large and lavish party. Your popularity and social success are assured as long as you don't take others for granted -- resist the temptation to become snobbish and arrogant.
You, and your peer group, demand to confront life at its deepest and most meaningful levels. Very compulsive and obsessive in your approach to everything, you will avoid anything that is casual or superficial, especially when it comes to relationships. You will seek out and explore new methods of healing as well as different ways to deal with deep-seated emotional problems.
Neptune is in 22 Degrees Sagittarius.
You, and your entire generation, are heavily involved in investigating and idealizing foreign and exotic intellectual systems and religious philosophies. The most extreme ideals will be pursued with gusto. You will be at the forefront of humanitarian attempts to improve the lot of those who are in need of assistance. You will be comfortable with the concept of the "global village."
Pluto is in 21 Degrees Libra.
For your entire generation, this is a time of radical changes in society's attitude toward marriage and interpersonal relationships. There is a general fear and awe at the power inherent in making emotional or contractual commitments -- they will not be entered into lightly.
N. Node is in 29 Degrees Leo.
You prefer to take the leadership role when it comes to dealing with others. You enjoy administering and organizing group activities. Others tend to listen to your suggestions because you aren't usually overly domineering or patronizing in your interactions. You love to entertain in a big way -- you're at your best when throwing a large and lavish party. Your popularity and social success are assured as long as you don't take others for granted -- resist the temptation to become snobbish and arrogant.
The above is me. How off will it be if you don't know the birth time?
Like I said.. Moon *could* be off.. but usually isn't.. it's the Rising/Ascendant that changes dramatically.
And what I see for you is the (FIRE) Sag Moon, which is your emotions, and why TOC and I both bet on you being a Fire (I DID mention Sag!).. and (FIRE) Aries Venus, which is how you are in love and relationships.. again with the Fire, and TOC said Aries lol Your Pisces Mercury.. that's gotta be a real kicker for you.. I know, I too have a Pisces Mercury AND an Aries Venus... but I think it's your SAG Moon making you even think about making some huge public display, and your Pisces Mercury makes your thinking more FEELING based than it is LOGIC based... so your Airy Aqua Sun rebels against all this FIRE emotion, and this Watery abstract thinking... and then your Virgo Mars (your way of DOING things, your DRIVE) and Jupiter and Saturn.. all logical and orderly and organized.. is REALLY rebelling against all the fire emotion and illogical Water thinking, cuz that shit is like CHAOS to the Virgo parts of you lol
You're a hot mess, huh? Also, if you were all Aqua-like and emotionally distant from this Libra chick... maybe she DOESN'T know how you feel about losing her.. maybe it ISN'T as obvious as you think it is... maybe she got fed up with all of it, and now you're panicking but she won't believe you or is simply DONE. Who knows? Not me.. cuz you've been evasive and vague as all hell, so I can't tell you what's going on.
And what I see for you is the (FIRE) Sag Moon, which is your emotions, and why TOC and I both bet on you being a Fire (I DID mention Sag!).. and (FIRE) Aries Venus, which is how you are in love and relationships.. again with the Fire, and TOC said Aries lol Your Pisces Mercury.. that's gotta be a real kicker for you.. I know, I too have a Pisces Mercury AND an Aries Venus... but I think it's your SAG Moon making you even think about making some huge public display, and your Pisces Mercury makes your thinking more FEELING based than it is LOGIC based... so your Airy Aqua Sun rebels against all this FIRE emotion, and this Watery abstract thinking... and then your Virgo Mars (your way of DOING things, your DRIVE) and Jupiter and Saturn.. all logical and orderly and organized.. is REALLY rebelling against all the fire emotion and illogical Water thinking, cuz that shit is like CHAOS to the Virgo parts of you lol
You're a hot mess, huh? Also, if you were all Aqua-like and emotionally distant from this Libra chick... maybe she DOESN'T know how you feel about losing her.. maybe it ISN'T as obvious as you think it is... maybe she got fed up with all of it, and now you're panicking but she won't believe you or is simply DONE. Who knows? Not me.. cuz you've been evasive and vague as all hell, so I can't tell you what's going on.
So you see, I'm insane. I don't really know what each planet represents.
Hi. I still don't know how to delete/remove posts. Any pointers. My chart is all new to me, it's the first time I've done them. So Aries in Venus huh? No wonder I only act this way when it comes to love. Actually I want to post everything here once I am sure I have the freedom to remove the thread. I am moved so many of you contributed, I thank you all. Something did happen and I dunno. I rather organize and paint you the entire picture than give you pieces.
As for the public apology I had in mind. It was to only display my sincere apology in public, I wasn't going to address her.
I really am not okay. I have decided to stick to this board until I am sane again. I feel like such a loser. I'm not here to fish for comfort. I need to understand to heal. I have no idea what's going on and I don't know anything anymore. I... could really use some Libra help. I will do my best to write out the whole story.
Please write out the whole story. I am kind of lost about what happened. Sit down, have a beer, tell us your woes. Everyone else does. lol.
(And I secretly like big displays. I pretend to hate them but from the right person, they are wonderful. *shrug* Leo moon.)
It's like it's bits and pieces everywhere. It's just very hard for me, so if I am slow, bare with me.
Btw, a friend just joined the ignoring me list and now...I wish I could just go into hibernation or I dunno.
My "friends" have been doing weird shit for a couple of months.
I got a sag moon and sag rising.. I feel U !
Tell us a story? said like a little child wanting a bedtime story.
(yeah. my sag rising is starting to get irked. give it to me! give it to me! Now ... NOW!!!)
He is acting like a Scorp.
He is acting like a Scorp.
Fuck I know! I always have way more of a spiritual connection with them. It is really otherworldly.
As for the Gem dude, I have no idea what the hell is going on there. No idea at all. If anyone is going to double guess every move they make in a relationship, it is going to be me dammit! I'm not sharing that privileged with no boy!
As for the Gem dude, I have no idea what the hell is going on there. No idea at all. If anyone is going to double guess every move they make in a relationship, it is going to be me dammit! I'm not sharing that privileged with no boy!
I get to be the flakey one. Know what I am saying girls?
meh. Boys. Poor me another barkeep.
meh. Boys. Poor me another barkeep.
The only sign I know that tells me what I am feeling and assumes they know anything about me, and they are usually don't have a clue is Scorp.
Uranus? My eye!
Uranus? My eye!
Posted by LibraLuvPosted by thisLIBRAgirl
I got a sag moon and sag rising.. I feel U !
You think something is up too?click to expand
Im just like that.. impatient. when I first think that I've lost someone that I really liked, I get out of control, and do stupid things. But its only for a month or so, after that month I cant even remember his name...
Posted by TasteOfChaos
Hahaha LS, you're cute with your lil Gemini crush
The Aqua is probably writing his story gals... patience!
He needs to collect his thoughts and put it into words, he might be a while...
Honest to God, last night was so weird, he gave his own head a shake. LMAO. Seriously never been so baffled by a man in my entire life.
This little dude is going to have a whole load of Libra girls pissed at him if he doesn't get a move on.
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