what does this mean..

What does it mean when a Libra says under his breath, so you almost are unsure of what he's saying that he's in love with you and is afraid of losing you, but when you ask him what he said he just says talking to himself. He has done this three times..yet is not ready and does not want a relationship at this time...

It means he is unready and doesn't want a relationship with you at this time.

(((hurt)))

Just keep breathing girl. This has nothing to do with you and your worth ... it has to do with timing and yours stinks. Just keep breathing and know what he can and can't give you right now.

(BTW ... I didn't think catholics can ever get divorced. Could be wrong though.)

Catholics struggle with it yes...it is frowned upon BIG TIME!!!

Hurt-heart Little Sparrow is right...he's just not ready and he's probably more angry and hurt at himself for dragging you into his nightmare. From what I have seen and experienced with my particular Libra is that they just hide in their shell until they think things have calmed....yours is probably doing the same and in his own way PROTECTING YOU from more pain even though you think he might be an ass for not wanting to talk/re-hash everything - they dont like talking about emotional issues....from my experience anyway.

Protect your own heart and understand he probably does love you but he's not in love with you or he'd move mountains to be with you. He just can't right now.

I accepted this a few months ago myself and yes my Libra even said to me ...."at the end of the day, the timing was just so wrong for us and we wanted different things" but then he went on to say "it will be interesting to see where we both are in a year from now" and "who knows, things might change tomorrow"...you see with mine he would say things like that to keep options open...don't do it to yourself and count yourself lucky that he doesnt continually reach out as mine does - keeps the hope there!!!....you have to heal your heart and the only way to do that is to replace one man with another hehehehe.

It was the only way I could, as LS said..."breathe" again.

Good luck with that too and if you ever need a shoulder/ear/advice? this is the BEST place to come to 🙂

xx

You have to just wait, h-h.

DONT WAIT!!!!!

Thanks latinaindia

I believe I will change my tag to something more positive.

I do always try to be positive but I am having a hard time with this, I have never been with someone and not had any doubts that I want to be with them, until my Libra. I was even afraid to date him at first because he has two small children, one a baby, and my daughter is a teenager...I wasn't sure if I wanted to date someone with small children..
But by the time we were finished our first date, I wouldn't have cared if he had ten small children...No doubts at all ( we have also known each other professionally for two years prior to dating).

I have always believed in whats meant to be...so if we are not right for each other then their will be others for both of us, who will be right.. I want him to happy as well as myself, so letting go was the right thing to do...

My friends tried to set me up this weekend, invited me over to dinner and also invited another man..he was very nice but I could'nt imagine dating right now..I had a very nice evening though...

Hurt-heart (healing heart) ya think that is appropriate— LOL!!! Yes this can be hard with librans. It will take time. You will have to be strong enough for the both of you because no doubt he will come back around and you have to be strong enough to make the right decision for you both, because he is damaged and will most likely fall again into getting intimate if he is lonely and feels guilty for putting you through this, so you have to be the one to turn it down, it can only be damaging at this point. What is your sign?

Queen Scorpio

I'm a leo...I have cut contact all together because I realize if this pattern keeps happening I will eventually close the door for good...Right now I am carrying on with my life and if he is ready in the future so be it, if he is not, then we are not meant to be... I will not be treated that way by anybody...I realize that he didn't do it on purpose but I still do not have to accept his behaviour in my life..Better things to do with my time and my heart. Good name healing heart, tried to change it yesterday but I couldn't figure out where to do it, you can change your pasword but not your tag name.