What Is This Libra Man Up to?

Hi Guys, I just joined in today hoping some people can help me fihure out this charming Libra Man who is really showering me sweet thoughts and etcetera.

He at first told me he doesn't want a woman from the far east because he is not looking for a wife. So I told him I am mature enough to accept whatever he would decide. I ask him if "I should stay or should go away". Then he started sending me poems which are really romantic. He then saying he finds me different and that for the first time he missed someone whom he haven't seen (that was after he and I sent songs, well he started it first). He said it is very unusual for him to stay infront of the PC now that he have seen that there is something in which made me stand-out.

Now, he'll be coming to my country in 3 weeks time for a speech he is about to render and asking me if I can meet him. I said I am not sure ( I actually am insecure for he is My G! very gorgeous). He told me he wanted to see me to know what's really with me that makes him get out of control. By the way, I just reply to his poems with pems and his songs with songs. Also, when he send me deep-meaning mails I return mail with the same tone.

Now he said : " I changed my mind, I want you body and soul".
"It is not just another excess sex or another trophy in the shelf that I need, I need more than that now that I am old". (He is 49 and I'm 38 and gosh! stunnigly gorgeous). He is a film director and I've seen him in some website.

He always send message and call me via phone and telling me his whereabouts.

Help me please...What is this guy up to?

Need help before he arrives on the 28th of this month.

Opinions will be most appreciated.

I agree with leokitten.

I think he is wondering if there is a chance you might end up fitting the image of "the one" he has been carrying with him for long.

wats ur zodiac? that could explain more about the reasons behind his thoughts.

He sounds interested in bowing more about you and probably feels he hastily made a decision that he didn't want a relationship. BUT I do agree with leokitten - I do wonder if he's infatuated with the idea of having a fling with someone from another country. Protect your heart but enjoy your time with him.

Knowing not bowing

"well to be honest....can you be sure you will not be his travel fling? i certainly would NOT sleep with him if you meet him."

leokitten,
This is what I am thinking too right now....(sad)

Virgo-Libra

Thank you for the kind hope...

thelibran,

I am a cancerian ....

houstonpeach,

I think I might just have to do exactly what you say, thanks.

Its fantastic weather here but cold
Will meet the contracter for my beach house today
Will take pictures and show you later
The most beautiful place on earth

Savner deg og dine spro innfall
Lengter etter a treffe deg
Hore deg le og synge for meg
Og folelsen av a trenge dypt inn i ditt mest private sted
(what is this mean)

Ill do everything I can
To make you love me
And - not make you love me.
(I don't understand)

To be honest
I miss you


(this is his letter today)

"Ill do everything I can
To make you love me
And - not make you love me."

I think what he wanted to express is that he wants to make you happy and but not want to break your heart in case things will not go well between you(he's leaving ur country after 3 weeks, who knows how you could manage ur relation...etc)

...maybe he s not sure what he wants and feels..

you should really see, how things develop if he s gonna be there with u

I mean I agree houstonpeach, enjoy ur time but try to protect ur heart...

You've never met. Them all words.

No offence but this guy has player written all over him.

I agree with LS... Playa wanna be!

I am becoming less sensitive now and a little more tough. I think joining forums really help. It opened my mind to many other possibilities other than what I believe in. Thank you so much guys. I will just get along but shall protect my heart.

Hi kennyg (you have my fave sax player's name - wink*)

Thank you for the compliment.
One of the reason I guess that made him drawn to further conversing with me is the way I write and say what I feel. He had told me that too. Anyway, there are chances that I doubt this person and there are moments that I believe he miss me at a particular chance. Like say, when he send text message in his mid of night time (we have diff. time zone) and saying "do u have the phone with you?" (I don't have my own phone he knows I am borrowing my daughter's) and I don't answer. Then he will say " I like this chick, she's got the touch".

Well, I'll keep you guys posted with my real life tv (hehe).

I do want to know how this thing will be taken by different minds and different opinions.

I love this forum!!!

Lisa - you have a point there and in fairness I want to give this person a try but must watch out as little-sparrow has a kind warning already (hehe) I really think i should be wary.

When my bf(who's not from my nationality, just lived in my country 4years,&from this we were together only the last 3 months) went further abroad to study, we broke and 2 years later he visited me again but I had fears that maybe we gonna have fun but that's it, when he returns, nothing's gonna change& my heart will stay broken.

Before he arrived, he wrote me:
"I want to spend some quality time with you and make you happy and enjoying myself to see your happiness ..... but I don't want to see your sadness when I am leaving again also!"

Finally, when he was here, we spent time together but only moderate programs, e.g. we didn't have sex. It was not easy but he felt my doubts and wanted to make me feel comfortable and make me trust him.
I think u can avoid harms only if you draw the line to protect ur heart. If he really have more intentions to u, he's not gonna disappear from ur life anyway.

Oh Lisa, that's really possible. He maybe just too polite to not hurt you but there is that what we call "killing me softly", although he did not intend to hurt you but he isn't serious as well. So maybe being a little cautious would help. Besides, when you're not really committed to each other the pain will be less intense.

I will do my best not to get my heart involve yet. I will make brain work first.
Years and experiences have taught us to be strong, perhaps now's the time to be.

Let's keep in touch sis!

His mail: ( Can this mail answer many questions?)

The pictures is shoot in a hotel
May i ask what the occassion was
No offense
Just interested
This is a love nest
Im a director dont forget

I not hostile
I just learned that you - when you feel it might be to your advantage ? is twisting the truth a little
I believe most people do?
But come clean ? I mean a brit might be servile ? but not to that extent...
Look again on the picture of the bed ? does not look like sleeping to me....

I get to know you better every day

Just think you could come clean ? not creating the Madonna icon.

But the fact remains ? that underneath all these words and accusations I admit being attracted to you
(perhaps that's why Im being ironic.)

I like your style .
Your erotic in all you do ? the way you write - talk ? even in the look in your hotel room eyes..

The surjection on the presents was well meant- maybe an excuse from my side to have a reason to meet up..

How about it.

As I never know if its you or your daughter who has the phone....
Should I get you one when I come over?

Looks like you need a camera too.....
Please tell me what you want.

(Too many questions now....)

hotel room eyes? Does he see you a fling? I think so. Sorry to say that.

I stick to what I said originally - protect your heart.

I sent him a pic, I was on a hotel abroad.
I told him I was seeing a british suitor at that time.
The picture was shot like an art, me, up close - looking far away and sad.

Libras are so effing charming. Damn them.

No but really, it's clear you're meant to be a one-night stand. Sorry. :/

Thank you guys

Actually, I also meant the same thing
I just want to see him (will be first time)
Then walk away soon
I know I can create an impression if I would do that
(he would realize he thought I'm in the bag, BUT - NO)