what should i do.

hi,
i need some opinions from libra guys.
I wonder if i should believe in things he says.
he would text me almost everyday
But when he dont text he'ld say he's waiting to see if i would text him.
Sometimes he would text to just say he miss me sometimes he does it indirectly or jokingly.
but he never told me if he likes me.
He says he would ride me on his bike anytime as long as he's not busy.
And he says he wouldnt ride anyone else.
Before he said this,he sent his ex gf(which is also my good friend)home and he told me that it was becase its on the way and nothing much.
Do you think he means it when he says he miss me
Will he mean it when he say he wouldnt ride anyone else?
Do you think he likes me?

And also whenever i ask about his ex gf he would just skip my qns away or to change topic.
And when i told him i was going to be bored because i'm gonna go out with a bunch of guys(i didnt that it was my cousin and his friends) with no girls and he actually said "good for you since there's gonna be so many guys entertaining you"

Well if that's all the evidence you have that he might possibly like you, I'm going to have to say that you both have a longggggg way to go before one can conclude that this guy likes you. Him being a Libra, he's very flirtatious. Libra men are very good at charming other people & always leaving other people wondering why they tend to naturally believe everything their Libra says. It's not to say that all Libras are full of (blank), BUT it does suggest that it's NOT uncommon for anyone platonically messing with a Libra to sometimes feel led on & confused about where the friendship/relationship is going. And Libras are known for still keeping in contact with people from the past; that doesn't mean that they still have relations (sexual/mental) with people from the past BUT know that it's not uncommon for Libra men to still keep SOMETHING (even if it's just 1% ) from their past. It stems from their fear of losing anything. Even if a Libra man doesn't necessarily want you for long term, he'll still keep you around if he can atleast get something out of the union. Of course, that's not fair to the other person BUT that's why it's important for you, as the other person to know the difference between when a man likes you or is just jerking your chain so that it doesn't give him an leeway or access to take advantage of you, use you or lead you on. Plus, if he really liked you, he'd tell you straight out...it's one thing to try to get that point across through cute jokes (the bike, for example) but make no mistake about it, Libra men will bluntly tell you they are interested in you. Honestly, it sounds like he's just having fun right now. From what you've shared, it doesn't sound like he's completely serious with you. There's no evidence that he puts you above any other woman in his life & unless he does exactly that, there is no reason to assume that he likes you more than for plantonic reasons 😢 I may be wrong but that's what it sounds like

ok thanks that was an insight for me.i think i should just stop the nonsense going on now.🙂

No. You should go away, unless you are a masochist. Which I assume you are. So, please continue.

why would you say so?

You will mope after him and miss out on the love of your life. Librans can be cancerous to cancer's emotions. Just take him at face value. . .
For one thing, he is keeping options open, and you're one of them.

I agree with spica. I know it is sooo hard not to take the person you really like at face value, but you have to. I am learning the same thing with my Libra guy. You just have to process his words and not take it so literally, unless the words come with actions. Trust me, Fall, I'm having a helluva time with mine, and he just told me he liked me a lot. Just stay strong. If you like, I'll try my best to muster up some strength too, lol..

Thanks but its not gonna work anymore
I just confessed this morning.
And He replied me only in the late afternoon when half the day is already gone.
He said that i'm a nice girl and hopes that we'll continue being friends And also hopes i will not avoid him Because of this
He said sorry if he ever hurt me.thats it.
Then i asked if there's already someone else in his heart he said yes.
I guess he was just flirting with me all along.Right??Or was it me who has been thinking too much

Yes. You have been thinking too much. Don't do that. Libra does not like to meet someone's expectations, especially at the beginning of a relationship.
When a girl thinks he likes her, that is when he pulls away.. because Libras (girls and guys alike) need time to choose our partners. It doesn't happen in a split second; a flirt is nothing but a flirt. Read too much into it and you're cut off first..

sorry to put it so plainly, you are better off not getting deeper into this mess. This will only be the beginning.

Plus, he MAY like you, but you scared him away with your super quick confession. If he really likes you, you gotta wait a few more years. He is like a 1 year old yet. . . its your choice now. You'd be better off with a water/fire sign, for dating purposes.

Posted by spica
Yes. You have been thinking too much. Don't do that. Libra does not like to meet someone's expectations, especially at the beginning of a relationship.
When a girl thinks he likes her, that is when he pulls away.. because Libras (girls and guys alike) need time to choose our partners. It doesn't happen in a split second; a flirt is nothing but a flirt. Read too much into it and you're cut off first..

sorry to put it so plainly, you are better off not getting deeper into this mess. This will only be the beginning.

Curious... so if a girl is unsure if he likes her, would that keep him interested or is the whole insure thing a turn off??

i didnt want to confess at this time as well because deep down i know he's either not interested or maybe he's still uncertain of his own feelings.my friend kept urging me to do so because if i dont do it she's going to do it for me.now i'm at loss.i probably stand no chance at all anymore.

ugh... friends. love 'em but rarely is it a good idea taking love/relationship/dating advice from them! even if their romantic lives are awesome it's only because they found out what works for them. also, if ur friend was a girl, it's even worse! never turn to a woman on advice regarding a male and vice-versa.

Its a bad choice to have taken my friend's advise to confess i should have just trusted my own feelings.
But can anyone here give me some clues how i can move on from here?
I really want to win him over,Badly
And i have no idea how to go on from where i left.

Posted by fallforyou23
Its a bad choice to have taken my friend's advise to confess i should have just trusted my own feelings.
But can anyone here give me some clues how i can move on from here?
I really want to win him over,Badly
And i have no idea how to go on from where i left.

For now just focus on yourself. Winning him over is not a game, it is about if you guys are right for each other and if the timing is right too. Continue on being his friend and don't think anymore of it. Just focus on your life, be happy and enjoy yourself. Who knows, maybe another Mr. Right will come along 😉

Posted by amyl

Posted by spica
Yes. You have been thinking too much. Don't do that. Libra does not like to meet someone's expectations, especially at the beginning of a relationship.
When a girl thinks he likes her, that is when he pulls away.. because Libras (girls and guys alike) need time to choose our partners. It doesn't happen in a split second; a flirt is nothing but a flirt. Read too much into it and you're cut off first..

sorry to put it so plainly, you are better off not getting deeper into this mess. This will only be the beginning.

Curious... so if a girl is unsure if he likes her, would that keep him interested or is the whole insure thing a turn off??

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Never do something just to "keep him/her interested". It's either a yes or no for Libra, but he really needs to find it out himself. When he's unsure, take it as a "no" for now. Because when Libra is very sure, you can bet they will never let you get out of their web. But alot of things must happen before that.

Posted by fallforyou23
i didnt want to confess at this time as well because deep down i know he's either not interested or maybe he's still uncertain of his own feelings.my friend kept urging me to do so because if i dont do it she's going to do it for me.now i'm at loss.i probably stand no chance at all anymore.

I think in a way you did the right thing. You needed to know where you stood. Now things are clear. That is his decision FOR NOW. Even if yu did not confess your feelings, things won't be speeded up. Just remember that for Libra, the time is OURS. You can't speed it up, neither can we. If you speed it up too soon, and Libra follows suit, the ending will be bad.

Is it going to be bad if i say i'm gonna tell him that i'll go on liking him and i'm not gonna expect anything out of it?

Posted by fallforyou23
Is it going to be bad if i say i'm gonna tell him that i'll go on liking him and i'm not gonna expect anything out of it?

Personally, that is a contradiction... you can say whatever you want, but be sure (for your own sake) you mean it.
Also, he already knows you like him, there is no point repeating it again. It sounds like a hint to get his attention.
You already made things very clear; maybe you should not broach the subject anymore.

But that is up to you. That is my POV.