what the hell is wrong with him?

i m a frustrated 23 year old gemini girl. heres the story:

we were supposed to meet at place "A" today at 7:30. At around 6, he texted me, asking me if i would come to his place "B" first before we go to the restaurant in place "A". i said no, because first, it would take me 40 mins minimum to go to his place "B" , second, it only takes him 5 mins to go to place "A" from his place "B". Long story short, he wanted to have sex with me first before going to the restaurant. after I have rejected and asked him to stick to our plan, it took him another 20 mins to respond back to me. So i went on to do my thing. then 20 mins later, he texted me " ok come to place 'A'". So I texted back "ok" and off i went. When i arrived finally at around 8:20, I asked him where he was. Then he responded " i m gonna change my clothes". i was shocked, i thought he was already preparing to leave when he texted me 30 mins ago. I was really really pissed, so i told him "its okay, i m going home." he did not respond for 10 mins, then he told me it was my fault not telling him when i was supposed to arrive. I explained to him what happened. then he said i overreacted and that "women are unfortunately moody most of the time". He also asked is my period is coming soon.

I m still in shock tbh. I wanted to cry all the way back home. I tried my best to remain calm. Hes in his 30s but the way he behaves is quite immature sometimes and it seems to me he lacks the capacity to understand and respect people. Hes in a very high position in his company and might be spoiled since childhood. But i thought otherwise when i first met him because he had spent a great deal of time working abroad in china.

I really dunno if i should keep seeing him... I have slept with him (i know its very stupid) and its just not quite easy to break it off...

I havent replied to his messages afterwards....

I talked to my mother about it. She as a patient taurus also finds this guy very disrespectful and weird. I want to know if i have really overreacted, or its just him being disrespectful?

Posted by Sugarfoot
He's disrespectful if not just for the comment about ur period. End it.

maybe i will try. at least i will ignore him for awhile

One thing I can't stand is flakiness and I agree this is just disrespectful. For me, a plan is a plan. If something comes up and it changes, so be it, but if you don't let me know in a timely fashion then expect to hear about it from me. By all accounts, he was already an hour behind regardless of whether it was because he wanted you to come to his place or not.

Granted, I'm generally late everywhere, but dates/work/important events (funerals, weddings) I'm on time for or early. I'd let him go because if he was truly interested none of that would have occurred.

Posted by theGrinch
One thing I can't stand is flakiness and I agree this is just disrespectful. For me, a plan is a plan. If something comes up and it changes, so be it, but if you don't let me know in a timely fashion then expect to hear about it from me. By all accounts, he was already an hour behind regardless of whether it was because he wanted you to come to his place or not.

Granted, I'm generally late everywhere, but dates/work/important events (funerals, weddings) I'm on time for or early. I'd let him go because if he was truly interested none of that would have occurred.

You are right. I shouldn't take him back. I feel terrible right now ... Cried even though I know it's stupid. Such thing never happened to me before. It's beyond me why someone could be like that.

You're 23 and he's in his 30s. There's only one reason he's with you. Stop wasting your time.

May I ask why you cried? lol. I'm sorry but how old are you? I don't mean to sound insensitive but this is nothing to cry over. He's a jerk, and you need to let him know that. I don't think there's anything wrong with going out with him again, but put a lock on your panties and don't take them off again until he's committed. This way your feelings wont get hurt. I find that MOST women get emotional, and "moody" as he put it when our "feelings" are involved. TRUST me if you continue to sleep with him without any real solid ground in the picture YOU will get hurt, and you might as well get used to the tears. Keep being silent, and the next time he steps to you make sure he comes correct.

Be stronger. Don't be afraid to stand up for what you want, he aint shyt. Fuc his job, and his status. Your the prize. If he wants he needs to bring his cocky azz down a few notches, and come correct or not at all. Period.

From the sound of it, unfortunately, he seems to think that he can get some ass and forego the date. Actually, that sounded like his ultimate goal tbh.

Always be wary of guys in their 30s that chase after girls in their early 20s. This pairing is almost always a disaster because the guy can't get his shit together and women his age aren't attracted to him for it. So he goes after youngins because they don't know better and will put out asap.

Essentially, they don't want to grow up. Real women know better and young girls don't. Not a shot at you, OP, but it's how these guys function. Just the fact that he wanted you to come over first for some ass is so incredibly telling about him and how he sees you.

Tell him to quit being an asshole or drop him. You deserve better than this shit.

Posted by pinklibra
May I ask why you cried? lol. I'm sorry but how old are you? I don't mean to sound insensitive but this is nothing to cry over. He's a jerk, and you need to let him know that. I don't think there's anything wrong with going out with him again, but put a lock on your panties and don't take them off again until he's committed. This way your feelings wont get hurt. I find that MOST women get emotional, and "moody" as he put it when our "feelings" are involved. TRUST me if you continue to sleep with him without any real solid ground in the picture YOU will get hurt, and you might as well get used to the tears. Keep being silent, and the next time he steps to you make sure he comes correct.

Be stronger. Don't be afraid to stand up for what you want, he aint shyt. Fuc his job, and his status. Your the prize. If he wants he needs to bring his cocky azz down a few notches, and come correct or not at all. Period.

I don't want sound aggressive and make him pull away even more. He told me he hates people who complain much , so I always try to avoid talking about the same thing too much. He always cares more when I ignore him. You are right. I will not sleep with him until he shows big improvement.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
From the sound of it, unfortunately, he seems to think that he can get some ass and forego the date. Actually, that sounded like his ultimate goal tbh.

Always be wary of guys in their 30s that chase after girls in their early 20s. This pairing is almost always a disaster because the guy can't get his shit together and women his age aren't attracted to him for it. So he goes after youngins because they don't know better and will put out asap.

Essentially, they don't want to grow up. Real women know better and young girls don't. Not a shot at you, OP, but it's how these guys function. Just the fact that he wanted you to come over first for some ass is so incredibly telling about him and how he sees you.

Tell him to quit being an asshole or drop him. You deserve better than this shit.

My friends mostly date men closer to their ages, but I m often attracted to older men. Maybe they are more successful and perhaps more likely to settle down. Even though knowing these men are also better at lying and hiding things, I still tend to fall for it. I guess I like the thrill and challenge. Maybe i Want someone whom I have to take longer time to figure out. I will focus more on myself from now on... And stop letting him circling my emotions.

Libras are never balanced. this is only the begining....

Posted by Maria1980
Libras are never balanced. this is only the begining....

Should I sacrifice my needs to be with this guy? Besides, libra men are notorious for cheating on and lying to their women. Many things make me wonder

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Posted by Maria1980
Libras are never balanced. this is only the begining....

Should I sacrifice my needs to be with this guy? Besides, libra men are notorious for cheating on and lying to their women. Many things make me wonder

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NO. ARE YOU LISTENING TO YOURSELF?

Snap the fuck out of it. No guy is worth sacrificing yourself if they behave like this.

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Posted by Maria1980
Libras are never balanced. this is only the begining....

Should I sacrifice my needs to be with this guy? Besides, libra men are notorious for cheating on and lying to their women. Many things make me wonder

NO. ARE YOU LISTENING TO YOURSELF?

Snap the fuck out of it. No guy is worth sacrificing yourself if they behave like this.

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Okay ~ he still hasn't apologised. He's not worth my attention anymore. He's lost all the points. I feel free. No need to sacrifice or compromise no more.

He Left me an audio message last night on whatsapp at around 2am about how much he missed me and he coudnt fall asleep because of that. I did not answer.

He sent me another message this afternoon, asking me if I was feeling better, which I replied "feeling great thanks"...after 2 hours, he said he was sorry for yesterday. I still have not replied to that. He called me at around 9pm, i did not pick it up. He left me a message, asking me to reply to him. and then after 30 mins for receiving no response from me, he texted again "I tried calling you but it didn't work."

However, at this moment, I do not know what to say to him. I dont want to talk about last night again. I think if i do , it will just turn into nagging. what should i do?

Nagging? Where have you addressed the issue that he treats you like a sex object of convenience? This guy clearly hasn't had anyone show him boundaries and put him in his place for his behavior if he even does it to begin with.

You're sounding like a doormat, tbh. If you're THIS afraid to bring up something that's bothering you and don't want to be direct about it without sounding "naggy" then you're just going to continue to see this type of behavior from men generally.

Do not be afraid to tell them what isn't cool and treating you certain ways will not fly. Our society teaches women to just roll over and put up with a lot of shit by fabricating all this magical grey area when it comes to guys. If you stand your ground and don't tolerate their bullshit, you're a bitch. If you don't put out at their beck and call, you're a prude. If you have any ounce of respect for yourself, you're uptight.

Not all guys think like this, but the skeezy, douchey ones do- the very same ones who perpetuate the myths of dating, all of which benefit them, btw.

If you still don't feel comfortable talking to him, that's fine. You don't have to. I think anyone would feel iffy realizing that a person like this only sees you for one thing and clearly has issues with how to treat others.

Besides, be glad that you found out early (I'm assuming you haven't been dating this dude this long?). I know it's a generalization, but I swear I have yet to meet an age pairing like this that works. Of all the instances and friends who have been in situations with these guys, it's never been successful. What's happening in your situation is why they never work- the guy is immature and aims low because that's all he can get. Women his age won't bother with him because he's a pos and they know better.

His behavior was just atrocious and now he's backpedaling and attempting to use that Libran charm to get his way. Don't fall for it and if you choose to talk to him about any of this, you do it on your own terms. It's your turn to hold the power in this situation.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Nagging? Where have you addressed the issue that he treats you like a sex object of convenience? This guy clearly hasn't had anyone show him boundaries and put him in his place for his behavior if he even does it to begin with.

You're sounding like a doormat, tbh. If you're THIS afraid to bring up something that's bothering you and don't want to be direct about it without sounding "naggy" then you're just going to continue to see this type of behavior from men generally.

Do not be afraid to tell them what isn't cool and treating you certain ways will not fly. Our society teaches women to just roll over and put up with a lot of shit by fabricating all this magical grey area when it comes to guys. If you stand your ground and don't tolerate their bullshit, you're a bitch. If you don't put out at their beck and call, you're a prude. If you have any ounce of respect for yourself, you're uptight.

Not all guys think like this, but the skeezy, douchey ones do- the very same ones who perpetuate the myths of dating, all of which benefit them, btw.

If you still don't feel comfortable talking to him, that's fine. You don't have to. I think anyone would feel iffy realizing that a person like this only sees you for one thing and clearly has issues with how to treat others.

Besides, be glad that you found out early (I'm assuming you haven't been dating this dude this long?). I know it's a generalization, but I swear I have yet to meet an age pairing like this that works. Of all the instances and friends who have been in situations with these guys, it's never been successful. What's happening in your situation is why they never work- the guy is immature and aims low because that's all he can get. Women his age won't bother with him because he's a pos and they know better.

His behavior was just atrocious and now he's backpedaling and attempting to use that Libran charm to get his way. Don't fall for it and if you choose to talk to him about any of this, you do it on your own terms. It's your turn to hold the power in this situation.

Yeah I told him what I was to say last night on Whatsapp. First I asked him if he knew what exactly he should be sorry for. He replied " for making you angry".

It seems like he wasn't sure what he really did. So I explained to him in detail. After having sent those long messages to him, his only reply was "yo

His only reply was " you don't miss me? "

I did not reply to that ...

What a dick. No wonder he can't get women his age.

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Posted by geminancer
His only reply was " you don't miss me? "

I did not reply to that ...

Message him back this:

"Nope! Have a nice life! 🙂 "

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I can't do it right now,. I still have some feelings left for him. The best I can do is to ignore him.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
What a dick. No wonder he can't get women his age.

Oh btw, he lied about his age in the first place. He told me he's 29, but actually he's already 35. He told me his real age just recently.

Yes geminancer, they are desperate to hear and say " I miss you" and this " I miss you" when they say it, is just like they say " hello" to you, you will see how many times he will use this words, but do not consider them ! Is only their game of words to make a woman crazy about them . Then when everything you see so nice and wonderful, again he will come up with a ..."surprise" and make the things again bad ... I am also as you now, I will try my last time to talk to him and I am ready sacrifice myself for him , but if he want to sacrifice his freedoom for me also .. Other way, even I love him, I will can't accept to be just friends or to wasting time as he wants. From so intense love, they ask you be just friends then when things become too serious ! Later he will start to say " I love you" the same much . but when it come to show to you not only in words, you will don't see anything like that. I read stories from women who was destroyed by Libras . They are so profesionals in destroying your plans or change them ! You can arrive to regret the day when met him .
I hope you can see how things are going on , soon .. and decide if really is worth to sacrifice yourself for him.

Yes. you will find many , many lies if he started to a lie.. They have so geat imagination to lie almost anything, even to rent a house and lie that is his house.........
Please take care ! I know the attraction is big for you, but I tell you as a sister, as a friend or wwhat you want I be here , think realistic ! Do not let your heart controled by him ! I was doing this and now I cannot stop... I must continue ....

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Posted by geminancer
His only reply was " you don't miss me? "

I did not reply to that ...

Message him back this:

"Nope! Have a nice life! 🙂 "

I can't do it right now,. I still have some feelings left for him. The best I can do is to ignore him.

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Posted by Maria1980
Yes. you will find many , many lies if he started to a lie.. They have so geat imagination to lie almost anything, even to rent a house and lie that is his house.........
Please take care ! I know the attraction is big for you, but I tell you as a sister, as a friend or wwhat you want I be here , think realistic ! Do not let your heart controled by him ! I was doing this and now I cannot stop... I must continue ....

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I really do not understand why these men could be so evil. Are they born psychotic? They have no concern for others. I have started to have headache these days because of thinking about him and about how terrible he had treated me. Same as you, I wanted to marry him, hoping that he is the one. Sleeping with him was one of the biggest mistakes I have ever made in my life. I must not repeat it again ever.

I can totally agree what you said about his "I miss you" message. It's really lame. He deserves no attention. I m glad he doesn't send me anymore messages after the last one, because his messages really mess up my logic sometimes. I need to find serenity again.

I hope u will feel better soon , Maria. I can feel what you are feeling... Lets see if we can get rid of our relationships with these men soon...

If you want to break a libra man's hold on you go no contact. Block his every way of contacting you or you'll forever be going in circles. Linda Goodman said it better, she said something along the lines of "close your eyes & ears when trying to break away from this man for his words alone will pull you right back in. Add his smile into the mix & you will forgive him." It makes you feel like a fly caught in the spider's web, no escape..unless ofcourse you gauge out your eyeballs so you cant see him, or do something to your eardrums so you cant hear those sweet nothings that come out of his mouth. Good luck with THAT. LOL!

Posted by WaterCup
If you want to break a libra man's hold on you go no contact. Block his every way of contacting you or you'll forever be going in circles. Linda Goodman said it better, she said something along the lines of "close your eyes & ears when trying to break away from this man for his words alone will pull you right back in. Add his smile into the mix & you will forgive him." It makes you feel like a fly caught in the spider's web, no escape..unless ofcourse you gauge out your eyeballs so you cant see him, or do something to your eardrums so you cant hear those sweet nothings that come out of his mouth. Good luck with THAT. LOL!

Awsome man !!

Tiz, yeah in a way I agree, but sometimes the more you ignore a libra, the more they pursue. How do you stop them from doing that? Libra is one of the most selfish & arrogant signs, I tell you. When you tell them not to do xyz, they do it anyway..no boundaries whatsoever.

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Posted by WaterCup
If you want to break a libra man's hold on you go no contact. Block his every way of contacting you or you'll forever be going in circles. Linda Goodman said it better, she said something along the lines of "close your eyes & ears when trying to break away from this man for his words alone will pull you right back in. Add his smile into the mix & you will forgive him." It makes you feel like a fly caught in the spider's web, no escape..unless ofcourse you gauge out your eyeballs so you cant see him, or do something to your eardrums so you cant hear those sweet nothings that come out of his mouth. Good luck with THAT. LOL!

Awsome man !!

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It's the truth, right? Dont listen to a libra, dont even look at him or you'll be doing things his way over & over again... until HE tires of you & leaves you alone. Only then are you FREE.

Posted by tiziani
Funnily enough, you seem like a strong and reasonably well balanced individual in spite all of this. You've answered all your own questions. Just have faith in yourself. It's one bad experience. There are plenty more with many new people to come. Brush it off and enjoy life.

I always have a bad luck of meeting strange and older guys and being intrigued by them. Maybe I should really wait a few years till I become more mature to date someone real nice. Or maybe there will never be the one for me.

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Posted by WaterCup
If you want to break a libra man's hold on you go no contact. Block his every way of contacting you or you'll forever be going in circles. Linda Goodman said it better, she said something along the lines of "close your eyes & ears when trying to break away from this man for his words alone will pull you right back in. Add his smile into the mix & you will forgive him." It makes you feel like a fly caught in the spider's web, no escape..unless ofcourse you gauge out your eyeballs so you cant see him, or do something to your eardrums so you cant hear those sweet nothings that come out of his mouth. Good luck with THAT. LOL!

Awsome man !!

It's the truth, right? Dont listen to a libra, dont even look at him or you'll be doing things his way over & over again... until HE tires of you & leaves you alone. Only then are you FREE.

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How do u know whether a libra man is good from the beginning ? They were always nice to you at first , until they have got what they want. I have a friend who's libra , he's married to a Gemini and he's always so devoted to his family and wife. He also gives his wife a lot of space. They travel a lot and do many fun things together. I wish I could have someone like this in my life. Why m I so unlucky to have met a bad one?

Posted by tiziani
As for "how do you stop them from doing that?"

No one can help anybody with no boundaries, regardless of star sign. Like you said, when disrespect is involved in a big way (especially disrespect for someone's time) just don't engage with that.

Yeah I think they have personality disorder, probably narcissism. It's just real sad someone at this age 35 still cannot grow up and be a real man who can take care of woman.

i have a feeling He won't text or call anymore ... I sent him a really long message last night talking about his problems. now hes scared.
I still need time to get over him. After awhile, I will surely have the courage to delete him forever. After All. He's no use to me no more.

"Don't engage" is a very good advice. Easier said than done thou, especially when your temperament is of the explosive kind. Sometimes I feel like librans get some kind of a sick kick in their games. Like when you say no, then they get this obsessive drive to make your no a yes by any means necessary. You ask them, what do you want?..they say they want nothing...you ask them, then why are you bothering me?...they arrogantly say, I'm bothering you? Sorry I wont BOTHER you again. Weeks later they are at it.. over & over again. Not sure if it's a libran trait or mental illness.

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Posted by tiziani
As for "how do you stop them from doing that?"

No one can help anybody with no boundaries, regardless of star sign. Like you said, when disrespect is involved in a big way (especially disrespect for someone's time) just don't engage with that.

Yeah I think they have personality disorder, probably narcissism. It's just real sad someone at this age 35 still cannot grow up and be a real man who can take care of woman.

i have a feeling He won't text or call anymore ... I sent him a really long message last night talking about his problems. now hes scared.
I still need time to get over him. After awhile, I will surely have the courage to delete him forever. After All. He's no use to me no more.

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You're correct about the personality disorder. They're sick from something.

Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure if there are any good men if I'm being honest with you. There are just those that are trying to be better, and those that refuse to change.

It's a tricky job but the simplest way is to take your time when you like someone. Really get to know one another, the ugly stuff as well as the good things and see how much time you both have for that.

I think the Libras in with a shot at turning out good for someone are the patient ones that move slow. Then you get people who say "ah they are moving too slow, they're not real men". Well, can't please all of the people all of the time. Libras have to learn this.

Ahh... I met such a libra man before ... Hes a slow one. But he was also really quiet and sometimes selfish and aloof ... So I stopped seeing him. I guess maybe he was shy and also had attachment problem because of his difficult childhood. No chemistry since the beginning. He told me he liked me but the way he acted seemed too cold to show any bit of likeness. Another libra guy I met tried to use some pickup artist techniques to pick me up ( his aqua friend told me that lol). I rejected coz I don't like guys using Pua and I don't like how he looks( yes I can be quite shallow >_

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
What a dick. No wonder he can't get women his age.

Oh btw, he lied about his age in the first place. He told me he's 29, but actually he's already 35. He told me his real age just recently.

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So the entire thing has already started with dishonesty and using you for selfish reasons.

What a fuckin winner.

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What a dick. No wonder he can't get women his age.

Oh btw, he lied about his age in the first place. He told me he's 29, but actually he's already 35. He told me his real age just recently.

So the entire thing has already started with dishonesty and using you for selfish reasons.

What a fuckin winner.

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I really want to take revenge. But I dunno how... Damn it It's such a struggle

Posted by cunninglinguist
Because this guy is the type of dude you can't just fade away from. His head is crammed too deeply up his ass, which squishes the frontal lobes that would tell him, "Hey she's ignoring me. I guess she's not interested in being my groupie! 😢"

You need to actually tell him to take a long walk on a short pier.

I just wonder why a Danish girl would stay with him for 14 months. How could she take it?

My heart is not a switch button, can't just be turned off immediately... I m free spirited but for relationships, it takes me long to let go... I had a very stressful relationship before with another guy . Had problems at the beginning already. I have always tried to work it out.

Probably with this guy, at the end, I will try till there's absolutely no hope for change anymore.

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Posted by cunninglinguist
Because this guy is the type of dude you can't just fade away from. His head is crammed too deeply up his ass, which squishes the frontal lobes that would tell him, "Hey she's ignoring me. I guess she's not interested in being my groupie! 😢"

You need to actually tell him to take a long walk on a short pier.

She's thriving on the drama, can't you tell. Some women just love it..

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I don't like drama ... I truly wish he could be a better person. He was really sweet at the beginning ... For example, He ate all my pasta even though it tasted so bad lol

If I like drama, I would have been arguing all the time with him about his problems. I always try to avoid bringing negativity into this relationship

Posted by Libra911
Gem - Don't confuse his chasing with his caring. If he cared he would be very apologetic and he would try his best to gain your trust again. He seems not to care about what he did and does not feel sorry about it. That's why he is acting douche-y and shoving everything under the rug.

He is 35, you are 23, he is a user and knows what he is doing, you are young and just starting to experience this kind of behavior from douche men. We, the experienced ones here immediately saw him for what he is just by reading your post. Move on and don't waste your time..

I guess he's not worried about marriage since he's still so irresponsible at this age.

God I wish I never met him! Wish I could send him straight to hell.

I will be more careful from now on

GIRL! LOL. I can see it right now, it don't matter how many people tell you to stand up to this man by telling him to come correct or step off, Your going to end up buying a ticket on this rollercoaster he's setting up anyway. smh. you're little technique of ignoring him will only make him leave you alone thinking you need time to cool off. Libra believes in giving people all the time and space they need, and this goes double for someone the don't have any real true feelings for. He will get some other young hot thang to fall in his trap and when you snap out of your funk (his thought process, NOT mines. lol) but when you snap out of your funk he'll cut you right back in on the party.

It's cool. Enjoy the attention, he will only do it for so long. Eventually he will stop altogether. The only way to get through to a Libra man is to say exactly what you want and be firm and make sure he knows you mean business and you are willing to drop his azz like a hot potatoe if he steps out of line. Period. To be honest we only fall for challenges. People who aren't always fazed by our charm and makes us works a little harder intrigues us. Take NOTE!

I miss ya PINKLIBRA

Gem---- um, we all know u still want the guy, but like everybody says, ur doom to repeat the cycle

Dem scales are balance in his favor because it the thought of getting u back again without the work, I'm telling u, think Martha Stewart while playing chess, Libras need someone to get the mind working, to get dem scales off balance to get them in your favor, it's dang near a 24/7 job, cause if u don't know what ur doing, cycle stage begins

The trick to a libra, is just be yourself, with a brain to do ur on things

Libras need love, I mean the real thing, not just pretty words, they mastered that already, libras are a logical sign, they are not stupid at all, very young at heart tho, but not stupid, they will play u before u play them, you have to know what your doing with them, they are too dam indecisive anyway, that's why the cycle until they are done with you

@Tiz

Ur too much, lol

Posted by TaurusNikki
I miss ya PINKLIBRA

Gem---- um, we all know u still want the guy, but like everybody says, ur doom to repeat the cycle

Dem scales are balance in his favor because it the thought of getting u back again without the work, I'm telling u, think Martha Stewart while playing chess, Libras need someone to get the mind working, to get dem scales off balance to get them in your favor, it's dang near a 24/7 job, cause if u don't know what ur doing, cycle stage begins

The trick to a libra, is just be yourself, with a brain to do ur on things

Libras need love, I mean the real thing, not just pretty words, they mastered that already, libras are a logical sign, they are not stupid at all, very young at heart tho, but not stupid, they will play u before u play them, you have to know what your doing with them, they are too dam indecisive anyway, that's why the cycle until they are done with you

Nice logic =D

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Posted by TaurusNikki
I miss ya PINKLIBRA

Gem---- um, we all know u still want the guy, but like everybody says, ur doom to repeat the cycle

Dem scales are balance in his favor because it the thought of getting u back again without the work, I'm telling u, think Martha Stewart while playing chess, Libras need someone to get the mind working, to get dem scales off balance to get them in your favor, it's dang near a 24/7 job, cause if u don't know what ur doing, cycle stage begins

The trick to a libra, is just be yourself, with a brain to do ur on things

Libras need love, I mean the real thing, not just pretty words, they mastered that already, libras are a logical sign, they are not stupid at all, very young at heart tho, but not stupid, they will play u before u play them, you have to know what your doing with them, they are too dam indecisive anyway, that's why the cycle until they are done with you

Nice logic =D

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Thanks 🙂. I have a libra boyfriend, never a dull moment yet, but it's for sure a 24/7 job, lol

I m already moving on...I have been talking to others guys and flirting with them. hes the first guy who has ever treated me like this. I won't forget and forgive. I will meet someone 10000000000x better. And i would rather be alone than being his toy. Everyone here is right about him...I can see that he really does not care and will not. I will date someone else soon but maybe i will just text / reply him once in awhile and mimic the way he talks to me ...see if i can mess him up a bit too. I can let it go. At least, I will fake it until I make it.

Don't try to mess up a libra, they already know how messed up they are, if ur gonna play that kind of game with him, you better know what ur doing, otherwise ur gonna be right back here saying he did something else to u because u thought u could mess him up

Posted by TaurusNikki
Don't try to mess up a libra, they already know how messed up they are, if ur gonna play that kind of game with him, you better know what ur doing, otherwise ur gonna be right back here saying he did something else to u because u thought u could mess him up

alright, i will not do anything with him anymore. Hes not worth the hassle. I cant say i m in love...maybe I just don't want to give up on what I havent conquered completely. I m doing my best to suppress the urge to stay with him though. A Cancer man asked me out and I m going to meet him this coming Friday. He seems a fun guy...i guess he could take my mind off the libra for awhile.

my mom is a taurus too...i must admit taurus women are very good at creating challenges for men. Geminis are too quick to fall in love and too easy to read. 😢

Posted by tiziani
That's pretty much what happened to the last Gem that came here and vowed to get her own back. Lost her mind, came back weeks later and posted how she was still in love with some Libra that wouldn't move out of her apartment.


It would be a Pyrrhic victory.

Sounds interesting. I would like to read her posts.