What to do next????
This topic was created in the Libra forum by browneyedgirl on Monday, January 21, 2008 and has 15 replies.
Are you sure you don't want more than a platonic friendship? He could be sensing that you want more. It kind of souncs like you do as well. Are you being honest with yourself?
Libra's are usually pretty certain when they want to pursue something, and it sounds like he doesn't want to. Remember, too, when a libra says they love, it doesn't always mean romantic love, but it is true and pure.
I am friends with most of my ex's, but always always need a period of space and time to be warm toward them again, even if we parted ways cleanly, I need time to process. He may warm up to you again, just be his friend as best as you can...
I am friends with most of my ex's, but always always need a period of space and time to be warm toward them again, even if we parted ways cleanly, I need time to process. He may warm up to you again, just be his friend as best as you can...
Yup what a muse a libra said. Libran's love on so many different levels...
"In the beginning there were emotional feelings...but that was qite a while ago...and they were dropped, as he wanted to be nothing more than friends, and I agreed that was best. I have never had expectations on him, nor have I ever made a romantic move on him, as I have respected his wishes."
Browneyedgirl, the reason why I assumed it was more is because of your statement above when you mentioned it got emotional feelings. and that "He" wanting to be nothing more than friends. If he wanted more would you have taken him up on it? It looks like you would have, meaning there is more than the friends only feeling there.
Again, he probably senses it. Ask yourself if any of your other friends acted this way would you be so intensly concerned about their actions? Just curious.
Browneyedgirl, the reason why I assumed it was more is because of your statement above when you mentioned it got emotional feelings. and that "He" wanting to be nothing more than friends. If he wanted more would you have taken him up on it? It looks like you would have, meaning there is more than the friends only feeling there.
Again, he probably senses it. Ask yourself if any of your other friends acted this way would you be so intensly concerned about their actions? Just curious.
He could feel more than friendship, an emotional connection and not ready for it. This too could be a reason. Only he can tell you truthfully.
which he won't.
Snatch his ass aside and ask. Call...
browneyedgirl, I have to be honest. It seems like you want more than a friendship. MHO.
This is way too insipid.
Jesus.
wow. you asked for the advice, just because you didn't like doesn't mean you have to go on the attack.
browneyedgirl sweety... Trust me, I know all about being good friends even after relationships/involvements. In fact a libra I used to be involved with and I remained very close after it ended. So dear, I know too well.
It is just that even though I used to be intimately involved with him at a time, I don't have any expectations. Being friends means letting them do whatever they chose or what makes them comfortable, not what you want them to do or be comfortable with. Like me, I am sure he feels (although you might deny it) that you are a bit intense about keeping things really close and maybe there is more too it. Even with family you don't have to be around eachother and be involved constantly but know they are family and if you need them or they need you, you both will be there for eachother.
It is just that even though I used to be intimately involved with him at a time, I don't have any expectations. Being friends means letting them do whatever they chose or what makes them comfortable, not what you want them to do or be comfortable with. Like me, I am sure he feels (although you might deny it) that you are a bit intense about keeping things really close and maybe there is more too it. Even with family you don't have to be around eachother and be involved constantly but know they are family and if you need them or they need you, you both will be there for eachother.
He is doing what he feels is comfortable. Why would that hurt you then? If he is only a friend? I see you hid the initial posts, there is probably some left over emotions from before that you have for him. Why would he have to tell you anything? Why is it such a big deal? It isn't about you TELLING him what to do. Expecting him to do things a certain way when he perfers to do it another way.
So how did he hurt you again? I don't get it.
So how did he hurt you again? I don't get it.
Be honest with yourself about how you really feel. It shouldn't bother you this much if there wasn't ANY emotions involved.
"Remember, too, when a libra says they love, it doesn't always mean romantic love, but it is true and pure."
Word?
I had a libra (that i was dealing with at the time) tell me he loved me and still tells me to this day...
I still thinks he's full of shyt, but i do believe he cares for me...
Word?
I had a libra (that i was dealing with at the time) tell me he loved me and still tells me to this day...
I still thinks he's full of shyt, but i do believe he cares for me...
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