What to do when a libra man cheats

This topic was created in the Libra forum by angiedbc457 on Monday, April 29, 2013 and has 74 replies.
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I am a Gemini girl and my man is a Libra, why do u guys have to have so many women, I mean I just found out that its another woman that has popped up in the picture, I forgave him from the first and second one I found out about, Now a third one. OMG!!! Why!!!! Why pretend to want me, after I brought him here because I thought we were going to be together with each other then he gets here in my city and cheats on me not once, not twice, but three times. WHY the heartbreak if he didn't want me just tell me. He lives with me and eats my food, I felt sorry for him at first. But my love is turning to hate and anger towards him. And when I ask is there anymore women he keeps telling me no, that I am the only one. Just be honest and truthful for once. So tell me Why do Libra's have to have many women?
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Posted by oldskoolflavor
his heart belongs to you .. to some degree
his dick belongs to any pretty face out there
you draw your own conclusions



Agreed. Dude doesn't have his shit together and isn't ready for a relationship.
As far as the whole "Libra" bit, I'd blame insecurity. They (being those who fall into this category) are insecure. Attention calms the insecurity. This last one I was involved with- the tons o female attention = calming insecurity. Guys having female friends is fine and nice, but with him, the volume involved is pretty ridic and how he handled it.
The big question is wtf is your problem that you're keeping a cheater around?? THREE times? Honey, he should have been gone after the first, and definitely after the second time. It's all "Shame on you" at this point.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
The big question is wtf is your problem that you're keeping a cheater around?? THREE times? Honey, he should have been gone after the first, and definitely after the second time. It's all "Shame on you" at this point.


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Kick him the fuck out!
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Posted by oldskoolflavor
lol @ simple .. I like when women have mars in scorpio


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So your letting him think its ok to cheat on you by forgiving him each time. Do you want someone who is always going to do that to you?
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Thanks to everyone for their opinions on the topic I have posted, I am getting rid of him and let him be another woman's problem cuz ive had enough of the heartache and pain. I AM DONE WITH THAT CHEATER!!!!
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Posted by angiedbc457
Thanks to everyone for their opinions on the topic I have posted, I am getting rid of him and let him be another woman's problem cuz ive had enough of the heartache and pain. I AM DONE WITH THAT CHEATER!!!!


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@aqua86
Why break up with him then get back with him? That doesn't make any since, once im done with this Libra that I got its no more getting back with me. Cuz im always going to member what he done to me in the beginning so its no love for him anymore. And I wouldn't want a man that cheats on his girlfriend with me or any other woman
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oldskoolflavor
Why does his dick got to belong to every pretty face out there? and just his heart belongs to me, He wouldn't like it if my cat belong to every hunk out there and just my heart belong to him. So how can I make that connection, U tell me
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Posted by angiedbc457
oldskoolflavor
Why does his dick got to belong to every pretty face out there? and just his heart belongs to me, He wouldn't like it if my cat belong to every hunk out there and just my heart belong to him. So how can I make that connection, U tell me


I thought u are done with that cheater! who cares about the connection between his dick and heart... stick to your decision to move on and don't look back. Understanding the reasoning behind his actions will not get you anywhere, its pointless and u may never find out why he does what he does. People just do it cuz they want and can, its no brainer there. Hopefully u ll move on and heal, there are so many nice guys out there who are waiting for someone nice as you!
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+1 nicely put.
OP, libra men do have A LOT of female friends & i think its a libran thing, but if he cheats with them then thats another story. You dont deserve someone who doesnt respect you & himself. Sleeping around = no self worth or respect & he cant respect another until he learns to value himself a lot more..thats his job and his alone. I'm still surprised that you took care of him, you're very kind...I would never do that. Life's a journey of discoveries, he'll find himself & you'll also get to find out why you're SO tolerant of mistreatment..with time. Good luck, love.
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@LIBRA123, I am done with him I was just asking something to the other person that made a comment. @WaterCup having female friends is one thing but u don't sleep with them. I was reading somewhere that Libra's will stay in a bad relationship because they don't want to be alone is that true? And Why? did he come back to me if he didn't want me regardless if I asked him or not he still should of stay gone.
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Sorry typo LIBRA1234
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why wouldn't he cheat on you when you have told him its perfectly ok to do so
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I understand you very well what you feel !.. I hate Libras in this moment and maybe for all my life from now on ! After I forgived to him a stupid thing he did before, after I wanted him be happy and saw my love to him, he knew from me that I will go to his city now. I planed something out, my plan was ok, I wanted in fact to come here for him, but I told him I come for a project. Maybe it was my mistake, it was not as a lie to him, but I did not wanted to appear as a stupid in front of him and telling him " oh, I come special for you", no, I will never do this and in special for a Libra who think he is genial in all.. arogant also.. Well, I am here now, crying and very unhappy.. Yesterday he come to see me at my hotel ( I will not describle here what happened because you know..) and what should I do ? to say " I don;t want make love with you " ? I cannot, as you well know, if love someone, you want him and miss him so much... So this was the mistake maybe I did, I should not make love with him and let him feel he lose me. This is the best way to make him wants you I think. But, yes, I am weak at this point because I am a stupid Leo .. who give everything in love , offer her sould and heart in a relationship and don;t expect much in exchange.. And after he got what he wanted probably, today he told me he is busy.. Nice.. I was doing so much for him and for what ? For who ?... He didn't buy me a bottle of water only !
He is very handsome and sweet ( this attracted me to him from start) but his character is so bad now I see.
Well, dear girl who posted this , I just tell you the same as I think for myself now, just move on. If you feel cannot live in the same place where met him, change the city /place for a while. I will change it forever, I already decided and I had this plan made before to come here for him, in case he would make me suffer again, I will apply plan B.
I wish you be strong and life life , life is so short.. For what we crying ? For what we lose time ?
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OH??_MY??_GOD!
So that??s what all the fuss is about on the Libra board?!! All this ???I hate Libra??s?? rubbish??_ Are you fuggin nuts, coo-coo for co-co puffs?! Lol. You went to his city, didn??t?? exactly tell him you were coming ???Specifically?? to see him, you LIED, yes LIED and said you went for a ???project??. So he took you at your word. Then you allowed him over to your hotel, and gave it up without even requiring him to as you say ???Get you a glass of water?? BEFORE you spread your legs, and now you??re mad because he??s busy?! He didn??t even know you were coming! Smh. Lol. I seriously can??t believe this one.
It??s one thing to pop up on a man at his house, that bad enough. But to pop up in his city is a whole other ball game. You should??ve took your girls with you. Made it a girls trip, that way you could see him have fun with him, then have fun with your girls so you wouldn??t be so focused on him and what he??s doing. Hit the club, go to a bar meet NEW guys, instead of putting your all into ONE that??s only giving you a portion. Smh. You??ve got a lot to learn girl. If you wanted things to go as planned with your libra, you should??ve spoke with him first about it so you wouldn??t be so disappointed. This is your fault. Not his.
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Posted by aqua86
libras live on flattery; they don't know how to turn it down. if a lady likes a libra guy, that's it--he gets addicted to it immediately. take it from an aqua who's dated a libra for five years and met him when he had a girlfriend. now we're broken up and he's cheating on his new girlfriend with me.
this doesn't mean he doesn't like you; i'm sure he does, very much. he just wants everyone!


That's a perfect description of an unevolved libra.
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Posted by aqua86
libras live on flattery; they don't know how to turn it down. if a lady likes a libra guy, that's it--he gets addicted to it immediately. take it from an aqua who's dated a libra for five years and met him when he had a girlfriend. now we're broken up and he's cheating on his new girlfriend with me.
this doesn't mean he doesn't like you; i'm sure he does, very much. he just wants everyone!


BS.
Any halfway-matured Libra comprehends the importance of taking a compliment with grace. Clearly you're not dealing with a grown@ $ $ Libran if s/he caves for some random schmuck's pandering act, let alone pass up the sanctity of their relationship for the sake of flattery.
In your case--as much as I hate to put it this way & come off as condescending--the way you lost him was exactly how you got him in the first place.
How could the dude be boyfriend material by any definition, given he betrayed his last girlfriend to be involved with you?
Chalking up his chronic cheating habits to being a male Libra is monumentally fallacious logic, and the fact you didn't recognize that as a risk factor was also careless, TBH. Don't blame the rest of us.

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LMAO! Oh, size zero, I just love your posts. You really know how to articulate yourself!! Your post reminds me of a quote I came across back when my ex libra cheated on me, and the girl who he cheated on me with was flaunting their pic together showing off her trophy. The quote was circular, but, definitely got the message across: "If you date a man who cheats on his girlfriend, you'll be dating a man who cheats on his girlfriend." LOL
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I understand you very well what you feel !.. I hate Libras in this moment and maybe for all my life from now on ! After I forgived to him a stupid thing he did before, after I wanted him be happy and saw my love to him, he knew from me that I will go to his city now. I planed something out, my plan was ok, I wanted in fact to come here for him, but I told him I come for a project. Maybe it was my mistake, it was not as a lie to him, but I did not wanted to appear as a stupid in front of him and telling him " oh, I come special for you", no, I will never do this and in special for a Libra who think he is genial in all.. arogant also.. Well, I am here now, crying and very unhappy.. Yesterday he come to see me at my hotel ( I will not describle here what happened because you know..) and what should I do ? to say " I don;t want make love with you " ? I cannot, as you well know, if love someone, you want him and miss him so much... So this was the mistake maybe I did, I should not make love with him and let him feel he lose me. This is the best way to make him wants you I think. But, yes, I am weak at this point because I am a stupid Leo .. who give everything in love , offer her sould and heart in a relationship and don;t expect much in exchange.. And after he got what he wanted probably, today he told me he is busy.. Nice.. I was doing so much for him and for what ? For who ?... He didn't buy me a bottle of water only !
He is very handsome and sweet ( this attracted me to him from start) but his character is so bad now I see.
Well, dear girl who posted this , I just tell you the same as I think for myself now, just move on. If you feel cannot live in the same place where met him, change the city /place for a while. I will change it forever, I already decided and I had this plan made before to come here for him, in case he would make me suffer again, I will apply plan B.
I wish you be strong and life life , life is so short.. For what we crying ? For what we lose time ?



I knew he would go running as I mentioned in your I am sooooooo Happy thread....You my dear are desperate, and are clingy...This man sees right through you...Us Libras are pretty good at figuring this out and we will use it to our advantage if we want to...
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yep he's un-evolved.He can't control his d*ck !! I agree on the "Kick him the fuck out!!" response. BTW , us Libras , we are all flirters ,but we are NOT all cheaters !!
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@libragemmale so can u all be in a serious and committed relationship with a person. And not cheat or if u do only cheat once. Its a big difference between flirting and having sex with a person. I flirt with men but I don't sleep with them.
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ang I suppose anyone has the ability to cheat and everyone's different. I just never have , I won't consider it ,I probably couldn't live with myself if I did.It wouldnt be fair to the relationship. Not sure if that answers your question. If my wife cheated on me or vice versa, I suppose it could be forgivable the first time,If the guilty person shows great remorse - but only once.
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@libragemmale thanks for answering my question. I really want this to work out, I really do love him a lot and it seems that when we talk and I am calm down we get along better. Is it true that Libra's deal well when its peace, and I did forgive him for the first time, and he said the second time that they were just friends nothing more. And he really do love me and want me. I mean he keeps saying that he want and love me.
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Posted by angiedbc457
@libragemmale thanks for answering my question. I really want this to work out, I really do love him a lot and it seems that when we talk and I am calm down we get along better. Is it true that Libra's deal well when its peace, and I did forgive him for the first time, and he said the second time that they were just friends nothing more. And he really do love me and want me. I mean he keeps saying that he want and love me.


Repeat this to yourself-
"He cheated THREE times."
Three.
THREE. There is something wrong with that. The fact that you want to be all beaten wife about it and stick around to such treatment says you don't think much of yourself. Go be single and get your shit together. You'll attract better guys and not leeching losers like this one.
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Funny thing, most of the libra guys that I know have a past of mooching off people..all of them. The minute they stand on their own two feet, its off to be with better people..leaving the person who've helped them behind. Also using the money they got charming other women to entertain the ones they truly love, or ones that arent dumb enough to pay for their way. Gigolos. I believe you're being taken for a ride, and ofcourse he'll say anything just to keep the silverspoon deep in his mouth & his hands glued inside your purse. Send him back to wherever he came from, dont pay for anything & lets see how much he'll love you then, sugarmommy. Wake up, please.
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How is it possible to talk calmly to a cheat!? I dont wanna learn how to, I'm just curious to know if such thing is even possible. It is YOUR house, HE did wrong & things have to go HIS way? Unbelievable! He is lucky to have you lol. He would have been deaf & homeless from me by now.
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Posted by angiedbc457
@libragemmale thanks for answering my question. I really want this to work out, I really do love him a lot and it seems that when we talk and I am calm down we get along better. Is it true that Libra's deal well when its peace, and I did forgive him for the first time, and he said the second time that they were just friends nothing more. And he really do love me and want me. I mean he keeps saying that he want and love me.


Wow are you serious? You want it to work out...Well prepare for a lifetime of heart ache honey, cause this boy is not going to stop cheating..Don`t be that girl with low self esteem to not even realize what you deserve...A REAL relationship isn`t as FUCKED up as this...but hey if you love his cheating ass then at least wear CONDOMS cause shits going downhill if you stay with this LOSER
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Thanks to all whom have committed I am already talking with other men.
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Posted by tiziani
Myself and Bling will pm you all the answer to success as soon as WaterCup paypals me a small... but generous (from the deep of her heart)... gift as compensation.

Love you xx


lmao, libra mooch. Tiz, I just came across a copy of, The 12th of never. Its the Betty Broderick story. She worked numerous jobs to send her husband to law school & when he got successful, he divorced her, and married somebody else. Refused to compensate her for all the years she helped him, even thou he was a millionaire at that point. Well, she killed them both, the ex & his new bride. Moral of the story..NEVER HELP A MAN OUT FINANCIALLY.
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Posted by tiziani
Wow that story turned out grim for all. Was he a Libra?


i thought he was & i wanted him to be Tongue but no, he was a sadge. The story is very sad for Betty, they left her with nothing..they took her children too. They deserved every new hole they got!
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Posted by WaterCup
Funny thing, most of the libra guys that I know have a past of mooching off people..all of them. The minute they stand on their own two feet, its off to be with better people..leaving the person who've helped them behind. Also using the money they got charming other women to entertain the ones they truly love, or ones that arent dumb enough to pay for their way. Gigolos. I believe you're being taken for a ride, and ofcourse he'll say anything just to keep the silverspoon deep in his mouth & his hands glued inside your purse. Send him back to wherever he came from, dont pay for anything & lets see how much he'll love you then, sugarmommy. Wake up, please.


So true!! That's precisely how unevolved libra male friends of mine are. They always mooch of some girl, and that could very well be their sisters, pretty much any sucker who will fall for their poor miserable act. The reason libra males are fond of arts like acting is because they are amazing actors themselves. They can play a hobo, bum, beggar, tragic lover, and many poor sap roles. When they stand on their feet, they go and run romance with some next chica. Gigolos is the word! Considering the verbal bashing they get from me for their douchebaggery, I wonder why they keep me around as a friend. They say because they like being called out and punked off. Masochistic, much?
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@JennGem I don't understand why do Libra's have to be big cheaters, especially when they have someone that truly loves them and want to be with them, Now if I would have done that to him, OMG he would have took it and ran with it. So why do they ask for a faithful mate then when they get that they just mess up everything. Now I am not saying all Libra's are cheaters but the ones I have been with are, But I refuse to be with a person like that. And then u to got married and he still didn't straighten up. WOW what a jerk.
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@tiziani U stated that a relationship for a Libra is based on respect and acceptance. Now I found it to be very disrespectful for my ex to sleep with another woman on me, and that wasn't acceptance to me. And accept the truth about him being a cheater I accepted that and as far as respect u got to give that in order to get that. IF I tell u I love u then don't go out an cheat on me because if the shoe was on the other foot he would be very upset with me.
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Posted by tiziani
What you're saying makes little sense to me. If you accepted that he was a cheater then logically that is the type of relationship he gave to you. Now you are saying you find it disrespectful, so it's really on you to take responsibility and put this relationship behind you.
You have to remember that Libra are the feminine men of the zodiac. We are reactive, not proactive. You set the rules and we work within them. If you want respect, go out and get it for yourself. Love isn't a good enough reason to ask for the rules to change that you set from the beginning.
"as far as respect u got to give that in order to get that" - I don't agree with that at all. It doesn't matter what you give other people. Most people don't give a damn what you expect of them. All that matters is what you give yourself. Respect yourself more and people will respect you. That's how it works with a Libra.


I'd get this theory after the first time cheating.
But where the hell is the respect on his part if he's cheating on her to begin with (talking about the first time here)? What the hell compels him to even do it to begin with if he's all about respect?
If Libras are all about respect, they need to show some themselves. When they can't even give it, I'm sorry, they have no place expecting relationships that are about respect because they clearly have none for others. I've seen many instances where they push boundaries because of lack of respect on their part. It's that infamous manipulative streak of theirs that you like to brag about. To sit here and place blame on the other individual is bs.
"Well you clearly don't respect yourself, that's why he cheated. Libras are all about respect and if you don't have any for yourself, they're going to do this. Deal with it. Oh, and don't try to change your mind afterward. It's too late."
Seriously Tiz? Where's the accountability on his part?
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@rockyroadicecream I agree with u u got to give respect in ordered to get respected Libra's don't ever want to take responsibility for their actions especially when they are in the wrong, I got a lot of respect for myself and I did set the rules up front and he was the one saying he wanted a woman that want cheat on him and a woman to want him and only him. That's why u Libra's never have successful relationships unless its with your selves. Respect go both ways in a relationship. Because if I did it to him He would be so so hurt and he couldn't believe I did that to him. But see u Libra's are the kind of people that have to be showed that the game can be played both ways. I am a Gem we can play the game just as hard @Tiz
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Mmm I just found out that Julio Iglesias is a libra man, I guess it explains the 100s of women he has slept with. Ijs
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@Mixtape So I guess u never heard of forgiving a person for doing something that was wrong, we all do that in our lives and that doesn't make me or any other woman dumb, if that's the case then no relationships would take place. Cuz everybody cheats in some forum or fashion. So u mean to tell me if someone cheated on u the first time then u would drop them like a hot cake. No forgiveness from u what so ever. And how do u know I am with him. It was a question that I was asking opinion on. But I don't look for props from people on here, I was just asking, Now I see why the other person on here respond like she do to people like u.
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@Tiz so u say that I love u isn't a good enough reason for a Libra to be in a relationship, so why do u all get in relationship just for the sake of saying I am in one. That doesn't make any since what's so ever. But Libra's are suppose to be good at partnerships. People get in relationships for love for one another. Not just for the hell of it.
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Posted by angiedbc457
@Mixtape So I guess u never heard of forgiving a person for doing something that was wrong, we all do that in our lives and that doesn't make me or any other woman dumb, if that's the case then no relationships would take place. Cuz everybody cheats in some forum or fashion. So u mean to tell me if someone cheated on u the first time then u would drop them like a hot cake. No forgiveness from u what so ever. And how do u know I am with him. It was a question that I was asking opinion on. But I don't look for props from people on here, I was just asking, Now I see why the other person on here respond like she do to people like u.


The question is why does your self esteem suck so much that you'd keep him around after 3 times of this bullshit?
You've gone beyond forgiving and are just being a fool now.
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@rockyroadicecream I kept him around until I find a replacement for him. I want some company so that's why he is here. We make great friends when we aren't in a relationship.
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Posted by angiedbc457
@rockyroadicecream I kept him around until I find a replacement for him. I want some company so that's why he is here. We make great friends when we aren't in a relationship.


Dude, go fuck yourself. You deserve the treatment you get, tbh.
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@aqua86 Yep I guess that was the other woman he was with. But we neva agreed to an open relationship, he was telling me that he wanted a woman that was going to be faithful to him and not cheat on him. But he went out and did what he said he didn't want happen to him. Its crazy. But we make better friends than anything. And he still don't want to go anywhere it floors me as to why he holds on. But he's been a good man so far. But Im still looking for a replacement
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@aqua86 So since u can't lock a libra down then why do he want a close intimate relationship with a girl, for what and what's the point in being his best girl if I can't be the only girl. They are a crazy sign I wonder why they can't just have one.
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@Tiz u don't make any since to me, U mean to tell me that a Libra have to find a woman that wants a man that is just his best girl, and but she can't be the only girl. What kinda mess is that? U make it seem like with u Libra's that one girl isn't enough that u got to have tons of them to make u happy. But your gonna tie up one person life just for the hell of it. That's not right to play with a person's heart like that. But let someone play with the Libra's heart all we will never hear the end of it. See what u all need is to meet your match for a woman/man to treat u all the same way. Cuz that's what im going to do to this Libra, play with his heart its called pay that bitch back.
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Posted by angiedbc457
@Tiz u don't make any since to me, U mean to tell me that a Libra have to find a woman that wants a man that is just his best girl, and but she can't be the only girl. What kinda mess is that? U make it seem like with u Libra's that one girl isn't enough that u got to have tons of them to make u happy. But your gonna tie up one person life just for the hell of it. That's not right to play with a person's heart like that. But let someone play with the Libra's heart all we will never hear the end of it. See what u all need is to meet your match for a woman/man to treat u all the same way. Cuz that's what im going to do to this Libra, play with his heart its called pay that bitch back.


lock me down, my love .. I'm decent looking & I'll never cheat (venus in scorpio)
I'll make you forget about that unloyal douche in 2 nights smile

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Going through a dry spell much?
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Nah. Just amused.
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Posted by angiedbc457
@Tiz u don't make any since to me, U mean to tell me that a Libra have to find a woman that wants a man that is just his best girl, and but she can't be the only girl. What kinda mess is that? U make it seem like with u Libra's that one girl isn't enough that u got to have tons of them to make u happy. But your gonna tie up one person life just for the hell of it. That's not right to play with a person's heart like that. But let someone play with the Libra's heart all we will never hear the end of it. See what u all need is to meet your match for a woman/man to treat u all the same way. Cuz that's what im going to do to this Libra, play with his heart its called pay that bitch back.


lock me down, my love .. I'm decent looking & I'll never cheat (venus in scorpio)
I'll make you forget about that unloyal douche in 2 nights smile

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Aww sweetie pie! When did you turn sweet as a candy!! I'm sad now. I never got more than one liners in our public comments Sad lol
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@Tiz so u mean to tell me that a Libra can be true to a relationship with a female that they are involved with. And im not trying to lock no man down, And tell me why a Libra can't let go and move on with no one else.
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Posted by oldskoolflavor
LOL @ sweet as a candy .. it's just a facade used to lure vulnerable women in my web of deception .. not even sure it even works :/


Your facade is working when an iron fist woman like myself becomes vulnerable to your libra charms.
You dedicated a post to me? When? This is the first I'm hearing of it!
So, to answer this OP on "what to do when a libra man cheats", ditch the cheater and grab yourself a libra/scorp cusp because that's a libra without the crap aspect associated with this sign. Ex. My friend here and triple E.
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LOL @ sweet as a candy .. it's just a facade used to lure vulnerable women in my web of deception .. not even sure it even works :/


Your facade is working when an iron fist woman like myself becomes vulnerable to your libra charms.
You dedicated a post to me? When? This is the first I'm hearing of it!
So, to answer this OP on "what to do when a libra man cheats", ditch the cheater and grab yourself a libra/scorp cusp because that's a libra without the crap aspect associated with this sign. Ex. My friend here and triple E.


come on ..
you're a lot more logical than emotional, it won't be hard for you to pull yourself out of my mediocre web
that thread goes back to late 2012 .. october or november
and I wonder if rockyroad would agree with your stance on libra/scorpio cuspers LOL
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But that's the thing: my logic stops working when your "mediocre" web gets thrown. You see, it's no ordinary mediocre charm of a normal libra man, it's charm of a LiBRA/SCORP. That's double the lure! LOL! From what I've seen of rocky, if she's falling for regular libra men, then she can't resist a lib/scorp. Bah humbug!
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