So my libra and me and have been dating for 3 months now, I'm a piceas. He was all lovey dovey on text and in person when we were together at school for the first 2 months. When summer hit he kinda just stopped texting and me a lot and kinda changed. I asked him continuously multiple times what was wrong and he just said that he was busy with family and working and he just didint have much time to talk and he got grounded often. I believed him for a while, until one day I had it i ask him if he wanted this relationship to continue and he answered with he wanted this relationship to last and he sorry that he wasn't acting like himeself and said he loved me and would always care about me and said if we ever do break up he would tell me in person and would still want to be friends. I forgave and said let's hang out at a amusement park and he said he wanted to go hang out, so we meet up and when we were hanging out he was all lovey dovey and keep hugging me from behind and talking to me a lot and cuddling. Now I been 3 weeks and he's back to his old behavior he acting all weird and I asked if he's ok and he says he's fine just haven't been on his phone often and he left a couple days to go to another state for five days and I texted him safe trip and he replied thanks I'll see you soon, but one thing that kinda angers me is that I always see his snap score goes up and he likes pics on Instagram.I don't know if he's just comfortable in the relationship now or if he's planning to break up with me. please help thanks!
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Sep 17, 2014Comments: 22 · Posts: 8048 · Topics: 36
You're asking the wrong question.
The question is not why he is behaving this way. The question is do you want to be in a relationship where someone treats you this way?
You sound very young. The harsh reality is boys are incapable of a decent relationship and you'll be wasting your time trying to make them so.
He is full of hormones, his brain is still growing, he doesn't know his arse from his elbow at this point.
Either lower your expectations of him (not recommended) and realise that anything beyond what he is giving you now is unlikely to happen or you set some standards for yourself, and let the kid go do his thing without having you be another toy in his life that he can pick and put down when he feels in the mood.
Agree with above! Your convenient. Walk away now.
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Oct 24, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 2706 · Topics: 56
You're in hs?? Yea..... Don't expect much.. Don't let him screw you around either. If he's inconsistent you do the same. Teach him right from wrong.