What wrong with you Libra guys?....0__O

Ok,so..i've noticed that me & Libra males don't get along for some reason..im not Gay,so im not interested in dating y'all..but as friends it's like..we'll be cool at first..but y'all will just start getting suspicious and ansy & later bitchy..then be back to normal..

I'mma Aqau male btw

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You've just outlined the same things in yourself that the Libra does, except dating Aqua dudes.
?

Haha.-_____-

Posted by everevolvingepithet
What's an example of an underhanded insult in comparison to an overhanded one ?

If you were to be more overhanded,that person would know IMMEDIATELY you're insulting them,or atleast trying to DIRECTLY.Libra's will seem to come out of NOWHERE with a quick indirect insult & continue on the conversation as if they've never said..it's only until,1 minute later that that they've just insulted you that you realize it.I don't play pretend so when sum1 does that,it can be very confusing..because they are smiling,or they have a straight face..YET they are clearly insinuating something negative about you're character,whoever that may be...

Thats when my guard goes up & at that point I can't take ya'll seriously which makes things worst...but i'll tell ya..libra's guys can be cool AF but thats a total mind fuk to me..libra guy at work,got pissed off at me for sumthing petty & I blocked him out,next thing I know he wants to fight me..2 seconds later he's smiling asking me for help with something..10 minutes later,im an "a $ $ hole" again..........WTF!!!!

This is the second time I literally just wanted to knock the $ hiit autta a Libra at where I work..I just don't get it..I get along with EVERYONE...EVERYONE!but Libra's just seem to want to always pic fights with me..im not tryna loose my job over s

@everevolvingepithet Jealousy isn't in my nature.I honestly just want to be friends & honestly,I think Libra's can't handle being themselves or standing on their own about what or who they are for too long.All Libra people have made an attempt to try to be MY friend.I didn't even have to try.Once they think,they are in my good graces,THATS when you guys seem to drop the ball.You start with the mind games,then you try reading & controlling my thoughts,which I am completely aware of..& if you can't do that,then you come with the insults.It's like ya'll are reaching for something,but I have no clue,what it is..so I can't help you.lmao If I really wanted to,I could go into full Aqua mode and have ya'll go INSANE....no really,I could..I KNOW how you guys tick,after our first conversation.BUT,I choose not to go that far,because it's not worth the trouble..especially knowing how emotionally unstable you guys are,it's scary & funny at the same time.I'm still sitting here wondering,why you guys do that..are ya'll afraid,we are manipulating you..or are trying to manipulate you?

Posted by exoskeleton
aquas are fixed. they're usually very stubborn and stuck in their beliefs. (you've demonstrated that here enough times, lol). and your aries moon just adds to that.

libras tend to look at both sides of an issue and can be indecisive/wishy washy and passive aggressive.

on top of that, your aries moon opposes libra. that's a hard aspect.

just different mindsets. try to understand each other or just don't fuck with them.

Passive Aggressive!

Thats the word I was looking for.

I completely understand,what Libra's say or mean.(besides the underhanded random,insults)But what I don't understand is why they are so standard,when it comes to thinking.The only people that have ever called me out of my name,in person at work..have been LIBRA'S guys..why are they so fixed on trying to piss me off...why do they feel like they have to outsmart me and put me down..it just causes stupid arguments that cant go far,because someone can't keep their emotions in check.I feel like they feel,that im not being "real" with them..when I haven't faked about who I was since middle school..

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I think exo made a good point and you think too highly of your capabilities to be considered manipulative but this was covered at great length on the Aqua board previously, plus control seems to be factor forming in your presentation of yourself which in some ways is manipulative in itself, situation specific no doubt.

I'm def. aware that I manipulate what comes into contact with me.Only if it's negative..i'm very protective of ME,im all DEFENSE.My responsibility is ME,so if I can't take good care of that..then what good am I to anyone else?I can't help anyone if im suffering myself...lol I see people look at me & tell me all time,im too nice for my good..YET i don't see what im doing as anything,"great"..it really is natural..I don't even have to think about helping sum1..if im able to,I just do it..i don't see the big deal..we are all capable people..

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Although this comes around to the God complex that seems to be crop up every now and then with some Aquas on here but I've never seen in real life.
Do you feel this is a hidden compartment to your personality Dunce ?

Honestly,I don't know what it is about me,that separates me from the rest besides I am who I am.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You sound a bit paranoid tbh.
Plus, was that a typo or repeat post that you hid, purely as an example of being "real" ?

Paranoid about what?lmoa and I didn't like the fact they cut out the cuss words,that made it hard to understand so I went back and changed it..don't get too ahead of yourself thinking this that lol

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DUNCE

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I think exo made a good point and you think too highly of your capabilities to be considered manipulative but this was covered at great length on the Aqua board previously, plus control seems to be factor forming in your presentation of yourself which in some ways is manipulative in itself, situation specific no doubt.

I'm def. aware that I manipulate what comes into contact with me.Only if it's negative..i'm very protective of ME,im all DEFENSE.My responsibility is ME,so if I can't take good care of that..then what good am I to anyone else?I can't help anyone if im suffering myself...lol I see people look at me & tell me all time,im too nice for my good..YET i don't see what im doing as anything,"great"..it really is natural..I don't even have to think about helping sum1..if im able to,I just do it..i don't see the big deal..we are all capable people..

I could easily say the same about myself, I've dealt with many a bottomless pit/emotional parasite, but I wouldn't have the same predicaments you seem to have with this thread here so I don't understand your frustration ?

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Ok,heres what Libra guys say about me:

I'm bull $ hitting
I'm not being real with them
I'm too sensitive
I'm insensitive
I act like I don't know what their talking about

They are always down my neck,REACHING..for something..yet I don't know wtf they want out of me..i like to get along,so this is very frustrating when you don't know why a person does something.Am I missing something here—??

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Boundary issues ?

.....I think i know EXACTLY what your talking about,care to elaborate?

Posted by everevolvingepithet
It's self explanatory. I can't elaborate as I'm not you ?

You could,based off of what you gathered from all that i've said.Things aren't one dimensional,you could have a totally different opinion on the whole idea,what do you think?

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You like being part of the flock but also seen as outside of it without question and have violent reactions if so.

I was kinda with you up until "have violent reactions if so" are you saying I have negative reactions,if im not apart of the "flock" because honestly,as long as I can be me & say & do what I want & im not hurting anyone,I could care less about what everybody thinks of me..I been called all kinds of things when people first meet me..yet those same people are excited or happy to see me NOW.

maybe if you were less serious? i have given up hanging out with people who cant handle my little digs/passive aggressive comments. its a non confrontational way for me to tell people about themselves. So if the other person retaliates with aggression then im not interested. now i am going out with a libra i find all the little comments coming from him very amusing, neither of us get offended we take it on board laugh it off and continue with our lovely day. lighten up! 😛 haha