What's the dark side of Libra?
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Well, most Libras are portrayed as pretty innocent and somewhat patient, this quite often puzzles me. Then what's the dark side/negative side of libra, aside from laziness?
I've been trying to see "it" and the only thing I have noticed is that they (in this case - women) hang around some shady/unpleasant people.
I've been trying to see "it" and the only thing I have noticed is that they (in this case - women) hang around some shady/unpleasant people.
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I like Libra. I dated a libra man before. I get along with the Libra men more than the women. I'm an Aquarius female btw.
When a libra woman doesn't like you. You will know. She will do subtle things to try to hurt you. I have a libra female cousin who does not like me because I give her the silent treatment (for talking bad about me behind my back to other family members in the house to came to visit being oblivious to the fact that I was in the other room and could hear everything.)
SOME libra women not all libra women can act like they better than other people. A trait that most Aquarius people hate since we are all about equality.
Some also have a princess mentality. You will never see my libra cousin pick up a dish and wash it and when the family had to move boxes to our new place she stayed at her university from morning until late at night while the rest of us carried everything to the new place we moved to.
I also had a classmate at my university who didn't want to sit next to certain people because of how they looked so I pissed her off by sitting next to her and when she tried to talk to me I would constantly ignore her. Now she drops any course or class that my friends are in or that I am taking.
When a libra woman doesn't like you. You will know. She will do subtle things to try to hurt you. I have a libra female cousin who does not like me because I give her the silent treatment (for talking bad about me behind my back to other family members in the house to came to visit being oblivious to the fact that I was in the other room and could hear everything.)
SOME libra women not all libra women can act like they better than other people. A trait that most Aquarius people hate since we are all about equality.
Some also have a princess mentality. You will never see my libra cousin pick up a dish and wash it and when the family had to move boxes to our new place she stayed at her university from morning until late at night while the rest of us carried everything to the new place we moved to.
I also had a classmate at my university who didn't want to sit next to certain people because of how they looked so I pissed her off by sitting next to her and when she tried to talk to me I would constantly ignore her. Now she drops any course or class that my friends are in or that I am taking.
Posted by ElTigre25
I can only speak for myself. My dark qualities are:
Stubborn (also a good quality, refuse to listen to others when I believe I'm right or otherwise, argumentative, isolated, impolite to strangers, can be bossy in workplace, superiority complex, huge ego, can be cold or insensitive, lacking compassion for humans, most engagements with others are on my terms so I suppose manipulative, there's others but those are ones I can think of as of now.
Disregarding others opinions seems to really get to people on here. Lol
Wat are the good qualities?
Dark side Of Libra ? What's that ? Is it a new movie coming out ?
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Angel and demon wrapped in one. The angel uses his charm and entices anyone it desires majority of the time. The demon anticipates to get out since it's always locked away, but even he has time to play.
Realist-most people cant handle that and can often see it as being negative or rude (if the situation is actually a negative, or rude one)
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All the horror stories you see here?
That.
That.
I think we're misinterpreted a lot. My libra friends and myself are seen as ditzy but we do it intentionally. Not because we think being dumb is cute but for the reaction people give. It's fun to provoke people.
Also we can use people for attention
Also we can use people for attention
I've dated libras and my sister is a libra. I've noticed that they're followers, insecure(!), superficial, full of excuses, not that reliable, can't make up their mind for shit, they're waaay too worried about what people think of them, etc
I dunno man, Libras are like my fave people.
BUT my boss is a libra, and he farted and then locked me in the office today. @_@
That's twice over 12years now, yes, I'm counting. It will happen again.
Disclaimer: he does have a Leo moon tho
And I might have stapled his work vest to the back of his desk chair soooo bla bla details details details
BUT my boss is a libra, and he farted and then locked me in the office today. @_@
That's twice over 12years now, yes, I'm counting. It will happen again.
Disclaimer: he does have a Leo moon tho
And I might have stapled his work vest to the back of his desk chair soooo bla bla details details details
Posted by wagtail
I dunno man, Libras are like my fave people.
BUT my boss is a libra, and he farted and then locked me in the office today. @_@
That's twice over 12years now, yes, I'm counting. It will happen again.
Disclaimer: he does have a Leo moon tho
And I might have stapled his work vest to the back of his desk chair soooo bla bla details details details
....
! WTF, he farted and locked you in the office to smell his....!!
@neves ya, things got real
It's okay tho, we started a war - I'll probably lose but I have some things up my sleeve for tomorrow.
Eeehehehehe
It's okay tho, we started a war - I'll probably lose but I have some things up my sleeve for tomorrow.
Eeehehehehe
Posted by wagtail
@neves ya, things got real
It's okay tho, we started a war - I'll probably lose but I have some things up my sleeve for tomorrow.
Eeehehehehe
Put a snake in his toilet and glue on the toilet seat!
Posted by nevesPosted by wagtail
@neves ya, things got real
It's okay tho, we started a war - I'll probably lose but I have some things up my sleeve for tomorrow.
Eeehehehehe
Put a snake in his toilet and glue on the toilet seat!click to expand
Noooo that's just too mean!
Funny you mention glue thooo... Lol so many potential pranks *rubs hands together*
I should probably admit, I learnt from the best - #LibraLyfe
Posted by wagtailPosted by nevesPosted by wagtail
@neves ya, things got real
It's okay tho, we started a war - I'll probably lose but I have some things up my sleeve for tomorrow.
Eeehehehehe
Put a snake in his toilet and glue on the toilet seat!
Noooo that's just too mean!
Funny you mention glue thooo... Lol so many potential pranks *rubs hands together*
I should probably admit, I learnt from the best - #LibraLyfeclick to expand
Initially, i was thinking of Scorpios instead of a snake - but Libras and Scorpios don't seem to get along that well so...
True, glue does bring a lot of potential to the pranking table.
Posted by aquanibPosted by nevesPosted by wagtail
@neves ya, things got real
It's okay tho, we started a war - I'll probably lose but I have some things up my sleeve for tomorrow.
Eeehehehehe
Put a snake in his toilet and glue on the toilet seat!
I'd suggest laxatives and a sudden lack of toilet paperclick to expand
Simple but efficient.
Posted by aquanibPosted by nevesPosted by wagtail
@neves ya, things got real
It's okay tho, we started a war - I'll probably lose but I have some things up my sleeve for tomorrow.
Eeehehehehe
Put a snake in his toilet and glue on the toilet seat!
I'd suggest laxatives and a sudden lack of toilet paperclick to expand
Woah woah woah that's way harsh @_@
Besides laxatives cost money, this trickster needs shiz to be free.
Also I need to preempt any payback and That would bring wrath of Khan on my head. I came home and found about ten paper clips stuck in my bun when I jumped in the shower and took my hair down.
LIBRA STEALTH
I need to be carefeeull
Posted by wagtailPosted by aquanibPosted by nevesPosted by wagtail
@neves ya, things got real
It's okay tho, we started a war - I'll probably lose but I have some things up my sleeve for tomorrow.
Eeehehehehe
Put a snake in his toilet and glue on the toilet seat!
I'd suggest laxatives and a sudden lack of toilet paper
Woah woah woah that's way harsh @_@
Besides laxatives cost money, this trickster needs shiz to be free.
Also I need to preempt any payback and That would bring wrath of Khan on my head. I came home and found about ten paper clips stuck in my bun when I jumped in the shower and took my hair down.
LIBRA STEALTH
I need to be carefeeullclick to expand
He was just trying to be harmonious, cause you know - Libras are peace lovers... on the surface (for the public eye), cause what happens on the inside - that's another story (and also why some of them are not so fond of Scorpios - cause they dig shit up
. As a Libra would put it: what happens in Vegas - stays in Vegas. Posted by ElTigre25Posted by lovely77Posted by ElTigre25
I can only speak for myself. My dark qualities are:
Stubborn (also a good quality, refuse to listen to others when I believe I'm right or otherwise, argumentative, isolated, impolite to strangers, can be bossy in workplace, superiority complex, huge ego, can be cold or insensitive, lacking compassion for humans, most engagements with others are on my terms so I suppose manipulative, there's others but those are ones I can think of as of now.
Disregarding others opinions seems to really get to people on here. Lol
Wat are the good qualities?
Mine are:
Hardworking, determined, level-headed, great speaker, assertive, honest, organized, health-conscious, dependable, deadpan (I'm actually quite dry in person), quirky, great leader, efficient.
SN: I can be generous with close friends and close family only. Everyone else knows me as selfish lol.click to expand
Thats good. Whats your venus, moon and Mercury
Posted by Plagued
People are dumb, they forget we are humans. Lying is not limited to libras nor is laziness.
It's okay, I guess we share laziness with the cancer and bulls cause ohmyfish experiences.
Im not lazy i work very hard even when sick i avoid pto days. I work 2 jobs and in school for double masters while working on a business. Im a cancer i dont mind having lazy days i work hard.
Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
Angel and demon wrapped in one. The angel uses his charm and entices anyone it desires majority of the time. The demon anticipates to get out since it's always locked away, but even he has time to play.
Damn!
Posted by PlaguedPosted by lovely77Posted by Plagued
People are dumb, they forget we are humans. Lying is not limited to libras nor is laziness.
It's okay, I guess we share laziness with the cancer and bulls cause ohmyfish experiences.
Im not lazy i work very hard even when sick i avoid pto days. I work 2 jobs and in school for double masters while working on a business. Im a cancer i dont mind having lazy days i work hard.
Lmao this response is exactly the thing I am talking about
Blah blah the signs are this way but NO when you talk about my sign no I am not. Than ya'll wonder why generalizing is annoying.
That last part was sarcastic btw but thanks for thinking it's serious so you can tell us how you aren't those waysclick to expand
U welcome 😂
Posted by PlaguedPosted by lovely77Posted by Plagued
People are dumb, they forget we are humans. Lying is not limited to libras nor is laziness.
It's okay, I guess we share laziness with the cancer and bulls cause ohmyfish experiences.
Im not lazy i work very hard even when sick i avoid pto days. I work 2 jobs and in school for double masters while working on a business. Im a cancer i dont mind having lazy days i work hard.
Lmao this response is exactly the thing I am talking about
Blah blah the signs are this way but NO when you talk about my sign no I am not. Than ya'll wonder why generalizing is annoying.
That last part was sarcastic btw but thanks for thinking it's serious so you can tell us how you aren't those waysclick to expand
Virtual hug 😇
They have a very calculating dark side
Whatever they are presenting on the surface is fake lol
I know a bunch of libras lol
Whatever they are presenting on the surface is fake lol
I know a bunch of libras lol
Posted by Libsizzler
My dark side--I can be charming, vindictive and patient all at once. And I can get revenge for others.
Yup! Me too.
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WHAT the fuck is up with the typos in this thread?
Scorpios in the toilet?? Vaginas bleeding gold??
Lawdy, such entertainment.
Scorpios in the toilet?? Vaginas bleeding gold??
Lawdy, such entertainment.
We can find the dark side of Libra analyzing the correspondent chinese sign: The Dog
The Dog is friendly and playful. Has a nice look face that many people loves to touch. It's free and loves to make new friends.
It also has the "smell". Dogs can smell good things and bad things in people, so Libra also has a good flair.
The "dark" side od the Dog barks you and can bites you even you being a loyal friend.
Take that to the people's side of the sign and you will found the Dark Side.
The Dog is friendly and playful. Has a nice look face that many people loves to touch. It's free and loves to make new friends.
It also has the "smell". Dogs can smell good things and bad things in people, so Libra also has a good flair.
The "dark" side od the Dog barks you and can bites you even you being a loyal friend.
Take that to the people's side of the sign and you will found the Dark Side.
My dark side falls into extremes, I'm unable to see the balance until I, well, balance again, which doesn't take much time. But while it lasts... I'm a ball of fire, very confident in my altered perception. I get very idealistic, very critical of what doesn't get close to ideal, very picky with words and arguments, very sensitive...
Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
Angel and demon wrapped in one. The angel uses his charm and entices anyone it desires majority of the time. The demon anticipates to get out since it's always locked away, but even he has time to play.
well said
I'm a cusper, but I'd say my "darkside" from Libra would be indecisive, fickle (I can fall out of love just as easily as I fell in--but when I fall out its permanent), need some space or "me" time, can blow up with a temper- that seems to come from out of nowhere. Sometimes can be superficial.
they own a pair of crocs
Posted by LuckyLibra979
My dark side? Im vicious and brutal
SAME HEYAH
I would describe the Libra guy friends I know in a song lyrics:
"You got me going
You're oh so charming
But I can't do it
You womanizer"
"You got me going
You're oh so charming
But I can't do it
You womanizer"
I love Libras.. male and female. Libra is my opposite sign but somehow I get along with these beautiful people fabulously. #LibraLove 😘
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Posted by TheLibraMudraPosted by firebunny
they own a pair of crocs
I would goddamn never.click to expand
NOT EVEN IF THEY WERE BLINGED OUT AND SHINY??
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Posted by topesPosted by TheLibraMudraPosted by firebunny
they own a pair of crocs
I would goddamn never.
Clogs make great driving shoes, but you never step out side with them on.
Flip flop crocs are the best footwear ever.
I heart my crocodiles.click to expand
Aka soccer sandals, which were out eons before crocs.
I still have my pair of Nike soccer sandals from a soccer tournament ages ago. ....they're like 17 years old and still hanging in there haha. Same concept, same material as crocs.
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Posted by topes
Those are far more presentable than the hideous clogs.
Not exactly the same (different color/flag), but same concept.
Knowing how comfy my soccer sandals are, I get the comfort appeal of the clogs. But fuck if I'd own a pair. I'll just stick with these. I wear them around when I'm working in my yard. If/when I play soccer again, they'll be used for that as well.
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Yeah, I've got a pair of those around here as well.
Shadow side of Libra...
They want more and mimic what they want..
They want more and mimic what they want..
Every sign has some issues, but in my experience libra men are far by the worse zodiac sign I have ever met. Believe me they are charming as hell when they are trying to get you but once they have sucked you into their trap, then they change in a blink of an eye. I was with my libra for a year. He broke up with me but still wanted us to be friends because he wanted me in his life. He was very manipulative, will make you think that u have done something wrong to him. He never took responsibility for anything that he did. Everything will always be your fault and then they just so cold-hearted and cruel. Will say the most meanest things. And they are so undecisive. One minute they love u next minute they don't. Take it from me these type of men will have u on an emotional rollercoaster and will make u think u the crazy one. I warn u that if you are thinking about dating a libra man DON'T. Run for the heels.
Posted by truevirgo19
Every sign has some issues, but in my experience libra men are far by the worse zodiac sign I have ever met. Believe me they are charming as hell when they are trying to get you but once they have sucked you into their trap, then they change in a blink of an eye. I was with my libra for a year. He broke up with me but still wanted us to be friends because he wanted me in his life. He was very manipulative, will make you think that u have done something wrong to him. He never took responsibility for anything that he did. Everything will always be your fault and then they just so cold-hearted and cruel. Will say the most meanest things. And they are so undecisive. One minute they love u next minute they don't. Take it from me these type of men will have u on an emotional rollercoaster and will make u think u the crazy one. I warn u that if you are thinking about dating a libra man DON'T. Run for the heels.
You just described the modus operandi of an abusive person, most likely a narcissist. His behavior has very little to do with his sign or natal chart for that matter.
Posted by nevesPosted by wagtailPosted by aquanibPosted by nevesPosted by wagtail
@neves ya, things got real
It's okay tho, we started a war - I'll probably lose but I have some things up my sleeve for tomorrow.
Eeehehehehe
Put a snake in his toilet and glue on the toilet seat!
I'd suggest laxatives and a sudden lack of toilet paper
Woah woah woah that's way harsh @_@
Besides laxatives cost money, this trickster needs shiz to be free.
Also I need to preempt any payback and That would bring wrath of Khan on my head. I came home and found about ten paper clips stuck in my bun when I jumped in the shower and took my hair down.
LIBRA STEALTH
I need to be carefeeull
He was just trying to be harmonious, cause you know - Libras are peace lovers... on the surface (for the public eye), cause what happens on the inside - that's another story (and also why some of them are not so fond of Scorpios - cause they dig shit upclick to expand
yeah, libra sun with scorpio rising was hell on wheels
Posted by TheLibraMudraPosted by firebunny
they own a pair of crocs
I would goddamn never.click to expand
oh come on - live a little LOL !
Posted by truevirgo19
Every sign has some issues, but in my experience libra men are far by the worse zodiac sign I have ever met. Believe me they are charming as hell when they are trying to get you but once they have sucked you into their trap, then they change in a blink of an eye. I was with my libra for a year. He broke up with me but still wanted us to be friends because he wanted me in his life. He was very manipulative, will make you think that u have done something wrong to him. He never took responsibility for anything that he did. Everything will always be your fault and then they just so cold-hearted and cruel. Will say the most meanest things. And they are so undecisive. One minute they love u next minute they don't. Take it from me these type of men will have u on an emotional rollercoaster and will make u think u the crazy one. I warn u that if you are thinking about dating a libra man DON'T. Run for the heels.
yes and I'm still trying to figure out how to not let him get to me and how to get him to understand that it was him all along and stop trying to blame me cause I ain't havin' it ...
Posted by nevesPosted by wagtailPosted by nevesPosted by wagtail
@neves ya, things got real
It's okay tho, we started a war - I'll probably lose but I have some things up my sleeve for tomorrow.
Eeehehehehe
Put a snake in his toilet and glue on the toilet seat!
Noooo that's just too mean!
Funny you mention glue thooo... Lol so many potential pranks *rubs hands together*
I should probably admit, I learnt from the best - #LibraLyfe
Initially, i was thinking of Scorpios instead of a snake - but Libras and Scorpios don't seem to get along that well so...
True, glue does bring a lot of potential to the pranking table.
click to expand
I can't believe I'm laughing at this comment I mean my sun is Libra and my moon is Scorpio. Am I that doomed?
Here ya go...and it's very accurate:
http://songsdomain.tripod.com/librashadow1/index.html
http://songsdomain.tripod.com/librashadow1/index.html
The exact opposite of what they lead you to believe they are...cold, superficial, lazy, vain, unforgiving, selfish...you get the idea.
I'm flighty and sometimes unreliable, can be self centered when I want to be. Can also be brutally blunt which I find strange considering that isnt characteristic of Libra. Been told I'm aggressive and very intense my whole life. It might be my Pluto in the First.... IDK.. All the other stuff listed here isnt me at all.
Posted by gemguyaz34unfortunately, I've seen this side of a few of them..
The exact opposite of what they lead you to believe they are...cold, superficial, lazy, vain, unforgiving, selfish...you get the idea.
It's crazy b/c if I love you, I will, forever. I would never treat the man I have children with the way he treats me. For the 1st time, I can say I see every single thing you put in this description and it blows me away.
He is behaving very odd right now. He truly has deep hate in his heart towards me and I really do not understand why? I pray a year from now his heart will soften and I will see something similar to the man I knew for so many years. He has become very much into his body and extravagant things and almost like he is trying to buy my kids love.
Posted by TauruswithspunkMy ex is extremely organized like OCD!!! He apparently yelled at our little girls for leaving paint out and something else out. Like actually yelled, like freaked out!!
7 years with a libra .... three beautiful kids. Never again for the libra part ?
He did have Scorpio Venus and Scorpio mars so this matters... but:
Very wishy washy (like the scale) they cannot choose a side very unbalanced.
Not detail oriented and cannot keep finances in check. Not very dependable or organized. Also sometimes lazy. Cannot hold conversations for long period so very ADHD if you ask me. Critical (they have a perfectionist streak like a Virgo).
I could go on but just like a typical libra and our relationship... I rather be "gone with the wind" ?
He is pretty good with money but since we aren't together now, he literally shops for clothes for himself, the girls, all the time..When we were together, I kept him grounded about stuff like that.
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