Whats wrong on Libras?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by libra_man on Thursday, September 13, 2007 and has 11 replies.
Ok, besides (just random choice): that we are indecisive, lazy, manipulating others, sometimes drinking a lot, flirting, etc., what really bothers you on Libras?
Social idea of justice is often an eye for an eye. Thats not libras way. Society adds pressure on a normal person, drives him nuts and he start troubling society and the same society which was the cause, sent him to jail. We dont appreciate such pathetic form of justice.
A part of us thinks all terrorists has to be shot even without a trial and other part asks us to send them to a doctor since most of them are crazy. Now to solve such cases, we often have to be rude with people. Manipulate them to a greater extend inorder to achieve balance. Most times we dont like to tell anyone what to do but to tell them what we would do in their position.
A part of us thinks all terrorists has to be shot even without a trial and other part asks us to send them to a doctor since most of them are crazy. Now to solve such cases, we often have to be rude with people. Manipulate them to a greater extend inorder to achieve balance. Most times we dont like to tell anyone what to do but to tell them what we would do in their position.
Whats wrong on LIbrans???
OMG where to start???
FRUSTRATING
COMPLICATED
OMG where to start???
FRUSTRATING
COMPLICATED
After this: "Whats wrong on LIbrans??? OMG where to start???"
This: "FRUSTRATING COMPLICATED"
Wasn't that hard of a blow. Did you get distracted in the middle of your list or is frustrating and complicated the extent of our shortcommings.
For the record I agree with thelibran on the whole societies implication of justice versus real justice. If someone is in the wrong or balance needs to be created it is a courtesy to accomplish it with...well....courtesy. In the end it needs to get done and intelligent/reasonable people will see the objective. Everone else will bitch and whine about it. These people will bitch and whine left, right and center in any situation anyway, so, why should we let it affect getting done what needs to get done?
This: "FRUSTRATING COMPLICATED"
Wasn't that hard of a blow. Did you get distracted in the middle of your list or is frustrating and complicated the extent of our shortcommings.
For the record I agree with thelibran on the whole societies implication of justice versus real justice. If someone is in the wrong or balance needs to be created it is a courtesy to accomplish it with...well....courtesy. In the end it needs to get done and intelligent/reasonable people will see the objective. Everone else will bitch and whine about it. These people will bitch and whine left, right and center in any situation anyway, so, why should we let it affect getting done what needs to get done?
"Wasn't that hard of a blow. Did you get distracted in the middle of your list or is frustrating and complicated the extent of our shortcommings"
Oh I have lots of other one word answers to put on the list but none of them are hurtful....frustrating is probably the best way to describe you guys LOL
Wishy Washy is 2 words damnit.
Oh I have lots of other one word answers to put on the list but none of them are hurtful....frustrating is probably the best way to describe you guys LOL
Wishy Washy is 2 words damnit.
woooooooooohoooooooooooo OMG welcome back!!!!!
It is soooooooooo good to have you back!!!!
It is soooooooooo good to have you back!!!!
Mostly everything... There are just something different in every Libran who has been in my life that didn't fit right with who I was at the time. They are cool people though. Loving and not so shy and just caring and charming.
The process of making up their minds can be challenging sometimes.
"The process of making up their minds can be challenging sometimes"
Ummmm its actually quite painful to watch *rolls eyes and giggles*
Ummmm its actually quite painful to watch *rolls eyes and giggles*
Im not lazy...thinking is a strenuous activity!! You just cant see that kind of "workout" 
I hate that i can be insincere (but only to save the other person unecessary hurt), i ALWAYS in 2 minds about every damned thing ever, sometimes i feel like i cant say no to people, i cant make decisions and thats really bad.
I hate that i can be insincere (but only to save the other person unecessary hurt), i ALWAYS in 2 minds about every damned thing ever, sometimes i feel like i cant say no to people, i cant make decisions and thats really bad.
"I hate that i can be insincere (but only to save the other person unecessary hurt), i ALWAYS in 2 minds about every damned thing ever, sometimes i feel like i cant say no to people, i cant make decisions and thats really bad."
If these are things you want to change, I had to do the same thing a bit. I displayed the same traits to some degree. I have never been indecisive to the extent that people describe Libras but enough to get on my nerves and other peoples. It doesn't make it any easier that when people try to push us into making a decision it actually makes it worse in that we tend do decide against them on principle because we don't like being pressured.
You know what I would do....this is what corrected the attributes in myself on what you wrote. Get a job where you have to make in the moment decisions without hesitating and are responsible for other peoples well being.
When I was a partner in a bail bonds company I was in charge of the fugitive recovery team. I lead from the field, so I would be on point with the guys that I hired, trained and who depended on the job we were doing to make a living....and stay alive even. Itis a dangerous job where the odds are stacked against you from the onset and you have to be "locked on" from the minute you activate the team for a recovery until the guy/girl you are after is booked. This brought out in me a new level of assertiveness, confidence, decisiveness and obligation. Since other peoples well being is dependant on you from the quality of their training to the cohesiveness of the team to suceeding in apprehending the people you go after YOU have to be confident in every decision you make and most decisions have to be made on the fly with little or bad intel and in a short window of time.
That is just an example, but any job where people or an objective are dependant on you to think/act quickly does a great deal of good for Libras I believe. I noticed in doing work with that quality that I am actually more comfortable and work better under that kind of pressure. It forces me to use my intuition and to take the attribute of seeing all sides of a situation and make a decision on which side quick, fast and in a hurry. You will find that if your in tune with the objective or job you do, 99% of the time you will make the right decision under these circumstances.
Anything like fire fighter, EMT, or supervising/managing in a fast paced department of a company like dispatch or routing.
If these are things you want to change, I had to do the same thing a bit. I displayed the same traits to some degree. I have never been indecisive to the extent that people describe Libras but enough to get on my nerves and other peoples. It doesn't make it any easier that when people try to push us into making a decision it actually makes it worse in that we tend do decide against them on principle because we don't like being pressured.
You know what I would do....this is what corrected the attributes in myself on what you wrote. Get a job where you have to make in the moment decisions without hesitating and are responsible for other peoples well being.
When I was a partner in a bail bonds company I was in charge of the fugitive recovery team. I lead from the field, so I would be on point with the guys that I hired, trained and who depended on the job we were doing to make a living....and stay alive even. Itis a dangerous job where the odds are stacked against you from the onset and you have to be "locked on" from the minute you activate the team for a recovery until the guy/girl you are after is booked. This brought out in me a new level of assertiveness, confidence, decisiveness and obligation. Since other peoples well being is dependant on you from the quality of their training to the cohesiveness of the team to suceeding in apprehending the people you go after YOU have to be confident in every decision you make and most decisions have to be made on the fly with little or bad intel and in a short window of time.
That is just an example, but any job where people or an objective are dependant on you to think/act quickly does a great deal of good for Libras I believe. I noticed in doing work with that quality that I am actually more comfortable and work better under that kind of pressure. It forces me to use my intuition and to take the attribute of seeing all sides of a situation and make a decision on which side quick, fast and in a hurry. You will find that if your in tune with the objective or job you do, 99% of the time you will make the right decision under these circumstances.
Anything like fire fighter, EMT, or supervising/managing in a fast paced department of a company like dispatch or routing.
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