Why is it so hard to say I love you

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LibraJackson
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Been seeing this Aries man for almost a year and I'm Libra. We both decided not to get serious from the very beginning as he's moving away to New York for a year in September.

Long story short, we both have been spending time with each other a lot like once a week. We decided to stop talking to each other early on this year as we felt like it was going to get serious. Then, we started talking to each other again.

He's currently preparing himself for NY and he's busy applying jobs etc. I booked flights to NY in December to see my family and I'll spend the weekend with him.

I don't want to bore you any further, we never agreed to be exclusive and he said he hasn't been with anyone else, me neither.

I'm in love with him and I can't say it. I'm really happy for him to go and gain all the experiences but I'm going to miss him so much and it's just heart breaking because we get on so well and the timing is butter.

I don't want him to forget about me. I know I sound really baby ish but what can I say to him. I've been trying to act cool the whole time and helping him with everything he needs but there were times I just want to say I love so much thanking for making this year better for me but I can't.

So what do you think I should do peeps ?
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saweetz1988
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Love doesn't understand anything that's logical.😉 you can always tell him that you will always love and care for him... I don't know though normally Aries men are straight forward. They are fire sign. If they love you will tell you and declare their love for you regardless of the circumstances. But again love shud b unconditional . If you love him just express it without expecting anything back in return
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Posted by LibraJackson
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
What will you regret more.

Telling him how you feel or not telling him how you feel.

If it were me, I would tell him as with him leaving, you don't really have much more else to loose.
I've been thinking about that and honestly I feel like I will regret not saying at the same time it's scary thought to say I love you
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it's a good thing it's scary because imo you know what you feel is true. Follow your heart as it sounds like it might be a risk worth taking

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MyStarsShine
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Posted by saweetz1988
Love doesn't understand anything that's logical.😉 you can always tell him that you will always love and care for him... I don't know though normally Aries men are straight forward. They are fire sign. If they love you will tell you and declare their love for you regardless of the circumstances. But again love shud b unconditional . If you love him just express it without expecting anything back in return
Such a good lesson for all of us to learn

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boxcarmirnta
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Tell him......loving someone and expressing it is never a mistake

How many people go to their gave saying "I wished I had never told that person I loved them" ?
I have. Huge mistake. Huge huge huge mistake.
Why was it.....?
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Bc dude was a total sociopath who used it against me, he could always hang it over my head. He had total power. I still regret saying it.