Will my Libra man come back

Posted by Arinoaqua

You were black out drunk and he tried to have sex with you and screamed at you? I’m not saying you should get black out drunk but most of us have accidentally had a little too much... and a spouse is supposed to take care of you (as long as it’s not a habit)

He’s 49 with a shit ton of baggage. Move on.

Posted by LadyNeptune

You actually had an excuse for acting out being young and black out drunk. What’s his excuse for screaming bloody murder. He’s old enough to know better.

Posted by Ms_Ari32794

i feel like it was my fault too. I put him in a bad situation as far as causing a scene in his apartment he could have gotten kicked out. His biggest problem was me playing and pushing him away and acting like I wanted affectionAnd then pushing him away (i don't remember any of that). I also got jumpy when he was yelling and that made him mad becuase his ex wife lied and said he hit her. I was also dramatic by calling my sister. He has been really nice up until now he has helped me alot with covid so i don't want to villanize him. He’s very romantic and we have a beautiful honest chemistry that i haven't felt with anyone else. Im not gonna act like i wasn't aware of the sex i went along with it. I just feel bad i messed up the great relationship. He was really nice to me but i guess if we cant get through this Its not worth it.

Posted by Ms_Ari32794

I know this is probably an age thing more than zodiac but can you elaborate on how you think this will play out with this libra id love to hear from some male libras.he also

he has:

Libra sun

sag moon

Scorpio venus

Aquarius mars

How do you think these placements effect this situation?

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Posted by LadyNeptune

You actually had an excuse for acting out being young and black out drunk. What’s his excuse for screaming bloody murder. He’s old enough to know better.

He made a big point to let me know i disturbed his peace. He is now religious so peace is big for him. But yea i woke up he was yelling at me and i was freaked out. Part of me feels like what if none of that happened or something different happened.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Notice he was upset and disappointed in you, but not enough to stop him from sticking his dick in you when you were waking up from being black out drunk. Gross. Very rapey vibes.

If you were such a asshole drunkard that disgusted him so much why did he still have sex with you? Smh.

Plus he's married and old. You got maybe another 10 years before he can't perform sexually at all (and thats with the help of the lift off pill).

You getting the short end of the stick.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Notice he was upset and disappointed in you, but not enough to stop him from sticking his dick in you when you were waking up from being black out drunk. Gross. Very rapey vibes.

If you were such a asshole drunkard that disgusted him so much why did he still have sex with you? Smh.

Plus he's married and old. You got maybe another 10 years before he can't perform sexually at all (and thats with the help of the lift off pill).

You getting the short end of the stick.

Posted by bmoon8

Oh my.

Libra men don’t just up and leave. Just relax.

Posted by ELIGAB

This is the second Aries chick with a man thats like 20yrs older

Posted by Ms_Ari32794

Posted by ELIGAB

This is the second Aries chick with a man thats like 20yrs older

Thats how some of us like it 😭😅

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Posted by Ms_Ari32794

Hello I am an aries and Ive been dating a wonderful Libra man for about 4 weeks before I runined it on Xmas night. A little bckgrd on him, he is 49 going through divorce 2 kids has a business, quite successful. Im in my mid 20s no kids, never married, college grad. So Libra found me on Facebook in April. He messaged me saying he found me by mistake & i was pretty and started a chat with me. he had a lot of baggage so I ignored him for about 6 or 7 months. He finds me on instagram (I seriously dont know how) and finally in October I gave him a chance and let him have my number.

We talk every night for a week and then we plan a date for Saturday and he cancels due to an issue with ex wife and kids. I immediately abort and break up with him. He was upset We block each other. I start using FB dating app and he finds me there and messages me. We have a small chat then I blocked him on dating app because he suggested to be just friends and I wanted more. He then messages me on FB,ask why I blocked him and I just tell him that I am going through hard times and need to stay to myself he offers to be there for me I thank him. Eventually we begin texting again as friends. He ask me out on a date and we go and it was amazing i ended up staying the night Saturday and Sunday night. And we have been together every weekend for the last 4 weeks and even made it official. He is sweet very generous and our chemistry has always been amazing for such a big age gap.

I come over on xmas he gifts me I gift him. And then i drink way too much rum and wine and blk out. During the blk out I apparently pushed him away in bed and Would not lay down when heasked me to at 1:30am . he did not like it and went into a fit screaming i come to Conciousness and get scared cause i don't know what happened we have a weird Non physical confrontation mostly him being upset with me and Yelling. i was crying being weird And calling people. Then eventually we get back in bed and we have sex.

He was very upset the next morning very disappointed in me. I cried for 3 hours and he basically let me know i was wrong and i have some deep issues to get over, mentioned I was attn seeking and created a bad situation also said during the drunk i was really an asshole. He also said me pushing him away shows i may not be ready for this kind of love. I agreed with everything he said (except the not being ready for our love) and answered everything he asked. i was apologetic i take full responsibility for my role I was out of line and clearly have a issue. He put the fear of god in me. He kissed me on the forehead and sent me home he checked on me later in the evening told me I love you. I text him in the afternoon the next day He didn't text me back until night time saying good night

He didn’t officially break up with me but i know he will need space and time. Im patient and plan on not texting him. I plan on doing a grand gesture. I thought of getting a hotel or making a cute video for him cause i know people haven’t done that for him before.

What do you all think is going on in his Libra mind? im sure his love for me will change and things wont be the same. Is it worth fighting for? should i let it go? Is there any chance he will forgive me? I started my journey for Alc moderation and I feel motivated to better myself. I really Love him and dont want to let this go but I will if its best for him.

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Posted by Ms_Ari32794

Posted by LadyNeptune

You actually had an excuse for acting out being young and black out drunk. What’s his excuse for screaming bloody murder. He’s old enough to know better.

He made a big point to let me know i disturbed his peace. He is now religious so peace is big for him. But yea i woke up he was yelling at me and i was freaked out. Part of me feels like what if none of that happened or something different happened.

But do you not see the irony in that.

He made a big deal about how you disturbed his peace. Did he acknowledge how he disturbed your peace? Literally yelling at you while your sleeping. His actions are a more apt example of ‘disturbing ones peace’.

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Posted by Ms_Ari32794

Hello I am an aries and Ive been dating a wonderful Libra man for about 4 weeks before I runined it on Xmas night. A little bckgrd on him, he is 49 going through divorce 2 kids has a business, quite successful. Im in my mid 20s no kids, never married, college grad. So Libra found me on Facebook in April. He messaged me saying he found me by mistake & i was pretty and started a chat with me. he had a lot of baggage so I ignored him for about 6 or 7 months. He finds me on instagram (I seriously dont know how) and finally in October I gave him a chance and let him have my number.

We talk every night for a week and then we plan a date for Saturday and he cancels due to an issue with ex wife and kids. I immediately abort and break up with him. He was upset We block each other. I start using FB dating app and he finds me there and messages me. We have a small chat then I blocked him on dating app because he suggested to be just friends and I wanted more. He then messages me on FB,ask why I blocked him and I just tell him that I am going through hard times and need to stay to myself he offers to be there for me I thank him. Eventually we begin texting again as friends. He ask me out on a date and we go and it was amazing i ended up staying the night Saturday and Sunday night. And we have been together every weekend for the last 4 weeks and even made it official. He is sweet very generous and our chemistry has always been amazing for such a big age gap.

I come over on xmas he gifts me I gift him. And then i drink way too much rum and wine and blk out. During the blk out I apparently pushed him away in bed and Would not lay down when heasked me to at 1:30am . he did not like it and went into a fit screaming i come to Conciousness and get scared cause i don't know what happened we have a weird Non physical confrontation mostly him being upset with me and Yelling. i was crying being weird And calling people. Then eventually we get back in bed and we have sex.

He was very upset the next morning very disappointed in me. I cried for 3 hours and he basically let me know i was wrong and i have some deep issues to get over, mentioned I was attn seeking and created a bad situation also said during the drunk i was really an asshole. He also said me pushing him away shows i may not be ready for this kind of love. I agreed with everything he said (except the not being ready for our love) and answered everything he asked. i was apologetic i take full responsibility for my role I was out of line and clearly have a issue. He put the fear of god in me. He kissed me on the forehead and sent me home he checked on me later in the evening told me I love you. I text him in the afternoon the next day He didn't text me back until night time saying good night

He didn’t officially break up with me but i know he will need space and time. Im patient and plan on not texting him. I plan on doing a grand gesture. I thought of getting a hotel or making a cute video for him cause i know people haven’t done that for him before.

What do you all think is going on in his Libra mind? im sure his love for me will change and things wont be the same. Is it worth fighting for? should i let it go? Is there any chance he will forgive me? I started my journey for Alc moderation and I feel motivated to better myself. I really Love him and dont want to let this go but I will if its best for him.

Please, you can speak to him alone. Tell everything about what you can feel the love for him. In this world, everyone can make mistakes, so forgive everything and patch up with him.

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Posted by GenerousLeeb

Why would his wife accuse him of hitting her? I think he has anger issues, what you did on Xmas Eve was completely normal, it didn't deserve all the fuss he made, and he shouldn't have pressured you to sleep with him when you were still drunk.

If you still want him I think you should test his patience first.

You're almost half his age, remember you're the prize not him.

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Posted by Ms_Ari32794

Hello I am an aries and Ive been dating a wonderful Libra man for about 4 weeks before I runined it on Xmas night. A little bckgrd on him, he is 49 going through divorce 2 kids has a business, quite successful. Im in my mid 20s no kids, never married, college grad. So Libra found me on Facebook in April. He messaged me saying he found me by mistake & i was pretty and started a chat with me. he had a lot of baggage so I ignored him for about 6 or 7 months. He finds me on instagram (I seriously dont know how) and finally in October I gave him a chance and let him have my number.

We talk every night for a week and then we plan a date for Saturday and he cancels due to an issue with ex wife and kids. I immediately abort and break up with him. He was upset We block each other. I start using FB dating app and he finds me there and messages me. We have a small chat then I blocked him on dating app because he suggested to be just friends and I wanted more. He then messages me on FB,ask why I blocked him and I just tell him that I am going through hard times and need to stay to myself he offers to be there for me I thank him. Eventually we begin texting again as friends. He ask me out on a date and we go and it was amazing i ended up staying the night Saturday and Sunday night. And we have been together every weekend for the last 4 weeks and even made it official. He is sweet very generous and our chemistry has always been amazing for such a big age gap.

I come over on xmas he gifts me I gift him. And then i drink way too much rum and wine and blk out. During the blk out I apparently pushed him away in bed and Would not lay down when heasked me to at 1:30am . he did not like it and went into a fit screaming i come to Conciousness and get scared cause i don't know what happened we have a weird Non physical confrontation mostly him being upset with me and Yelling. i was crying being weird And calling people. Then eventually we get back in bed and we have sex.

He was very upset the next morning very disappointed in me. I cried for 3 hours and he basically let me know i was wrong and i have some deep issues to get over, mentioned I was attn seeking and created a bad situation also said during the drunk i was really an asshole. He also said me pushing him away shows i may not be ready for this kind of love. I agreed with everything he said (except the not being ready for our love) and answered everything he asked. i was apologetic i take full responsibility for my role I was out of line and clearly have a issue. He put the fear of god in me. He kissed me on the forehead and sent me home he checked on me later in the evening told me I love you. I text him in the afternoon the next day He didn't text me back until night time saying good night

He didn’t officially break up with me but i know he will need space and time. Im patient and plan on not texting him. I plan on doing a grand gesture. I thought of getting a hotel or making a cute video for him cause i know people haven’t done that for him before.

What do you all think is going on in his Libra mind? im sure his love for me will change and things wont be the same. Is it worth fighting for? should i let it go? Is there any chance he will forgive me? I started my journey for Alc moderation and I feel motivated to better myself. I really Love him and dont want to let this go but I will if its best for him.

You sound toxic and unhealthy

Work on yourself and let the guy come to you when he’s ready.

Libras always come back after they don’t hear from people.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Ms_Ari32794

Posted by LadyNeptune

You actually had an excuse for acting out being young and black out drunk. What’s his excuse for screaming bloody murder. He’s old enough to know better.

He made a big point to let me know i disturbed his peace. He is now religious so peace is big for him. But yea i woke up he was yelling at me and i was freaked out. Part of me feels like what if none of that happened or something different happened.

But do you not see the irony in that.

He made a big deal about how you disturbed his peace. Did he acknowledge how he disturbed your peace? Literally yelling at you while your sleeping. His actions are a more apt example of ‘disturbing ones peace’.

Yea i agree because i wasn't yelling mostly sobbing. He had a meltdown it was so insane. He probably hasnt gotten to that point in a while. He’s normally a happy guy. I wonder what i did I said i am a mouth aries at times.

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Posted by newtothis

I know an Aries woman who is 26 and very happily married to a Gemini man who is 49 with no kids. She is a tour de force and he is very calm. An older man/younger woman relationship can work. Here is my advice:

Your Libra man has kids. Regardless of your feelings, his kids should come first over anything else. You being dramatic about him canceling for his kids is not mature. It puts him in a situation where he has to choose between a girl he met on online or his kids. I would be more worried about him choosing you over them tbh.

That is not to say what he when you were drunk is appropriate. It definitely was not. Please do not get black out drunk with a guy ever, it can lead to some very bad and dark things. You live and you learn.

You are in your twenties, so am I, focus more on advancing your career, education, and travel. This is the time to do it. Relationships are not that important when you have the world at your fingertips.

If you end up with this man, will he encourage you or will he hold you back? Are you ready to play housewife?

Is that is what he will want? If so, go back to him. If not, update your passport or enroll in a course.

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Posted by newtothis

I know an Aries woman who is 26 and very happily married to a Gemini man who is 49 with no kids. She is a tour de force and he is very calm. An older man/younger woman relationship can work. Here is my advice:

Your Libra man has kids. Regardless of your feelings, his kids should come first over anything else. You being dramatic about him canceling for his kids is not mature. It puts him in a situation where he has to choose between a girl he met on online or his kids. I would be more worried about him choosing you over them tbh.

That is not to say what he when you were drunk is appropriate. It definitely was not. Please do not get black out drunk with a guy ever, it can lead to some very bad and dark things. You live and you learn.

You are in your twenties, so am I, focus more on advancing your career, education, and travel. This is the time to do it. Relationships are not that important when you have the world at your fingertips.

If you end up with this man, will he encourage you or will he hold you back? Are you ready to play housewife?

Is that is what he will want? If so, go back to him. If not, update your passport or enroll in a course.

Reread the post he didnt cancel because of the kids

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Posted by GenerousLeeb

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Posted by GenerousLeeb

Why would his wife accuse him of hitting her? I think he has anger issues, what you did on Xmas Eve was completely normal, it didn't deserve all the fuss he made, and he shouldn't have pressured you to sleep with him when you were still drunk.

If you still want him I think you should test his patience first.

You're almost half his age, remember you're the prize not him.

Yea he told me that story about them getting into an argument and her calling the cops on him for something physical he said she was lying and he got off. Im officially not saying anything to him though

I understand your attraction to this libra guy, I've been with an Aries myself and we were obsessed with each other, and I still remember the times he made me go crazy, but don't let this blind you from reality. Give it some time and most importantly test his temper.

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Posted by GenerousLeeb

Why would his wife accuse him of hitting her? I think he has anger issues, what you did on Xmas Eve was completely normal, it didn't deserve all the fuss he made, and he shouldn't have pressured you to sleep with him when you were still drunk.

If you still want him I think you should test his patience first.

You're almost half his age, remember you're the prize not him.

Yea he told me that story about them getting into an argument and her calling the cops on him for something physical he said she was lying and he got off. Im officially not saying anything to him though

I understand your attraction to this libra guy, I've been with an Aries myself and we were obsessed with each other, and I still remember the times he made me go crazy, but don't let this blind you from reality. Give it some time and most importantly test his temper.

Yeah, Libra and Aries will obsess over each other so at least you've got that OP. We just can't get along. Libra's have bad tempers and Aries......well you know. Girl, you should have blown up at him and shown him your Aries fire and that you aren't going to take his shyt. That's what we expect from Aries.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

You actually had an excuse for acting out being young and black out drunk. What’s his excuse for screaming bloody murder. He’s old enough to know better.

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Posted by Ms_Ari32794

Posted by LadyNeptune

You actually had an excuse for acting out being young and black out drunk. What’s his excuse for screaming bloody murder. He’s old enough to know better.

He made a big point to let me know i disturbed his peace. He is now religious so peace is big for him. But yea i woke up he was yelling at me and i was freaked out. Part of me feels like what if none of that happened or something different happened.

But do you not see the irony in that.

He made a big deal about how you disturbed his peace. Did he acknowledge how he disturbed your peace? Literally yelling at you while your sleeping. His actions are a more apt example of ‘disturbing ones peace’.

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Posted by ELIGAB

This is the second Aries chick with a man thats like 20yrs older

Thats how some of us like it 😭😅

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Posted by Ms_Ari32794

Well the best thing about all of this is its his lost I recieved $ 2000 in cash, gifts and a free weekend trip to the mountains. All of this because he wanted to I didn't ask for anything. So I made out good i made some peoples monthly salary not many can say anyone would do that for them. Most women Just get a headache and a wet A** from their men. So it is what it is. Im about to book a spa day on him have a good evening all.

Posted by Gem03

No wonder he is divorced, my brother is libra sun+sag moon and frankly they can be selfish people. I'm not saying that they might have malicious intent but that they put themselves first. Also at 49, if you disturbing other people's peace then you kinda need to mature....

Posted by Ms_Ari32794

Well the best thing about all of this is its his lost I recieved $ 2000 in cash, gifts and a free weekend trip to the mountains. All of this because he wanted to I didn't ask for anything. So I made out good i made some peoples monthly salary not many can say anyone would do that for them. Most women Just get a headache and a wet A** from their men. So it is what it is. Im about to book a spa day on him have a good evening all.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

You actually had an excuse for acting out being young and black out drunk. What’s his excuse for screaming bloody murder. He’s old enough to know better.

Being young and black out drunk can be used as an excuse?

As a man too? Or just women..

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Posted by Gem03

No wonder he is divorced, my brother is libra sun+sag moon and frankly they can be selfish people. I'm not saying that they might have malicious intent but that they put themselves first. Also at 49, if you disturbing other people's peace then you kinda need to mature....

That sag moon



Fucking ridiculous

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