Posted by GOATActiononly time will tell - I hope you don't get played and that she's ok and pays the money back when she can - yer a good man Charlie Brown ...
This is my Libra female my age I have a little of romantic history with. She texts me out of the blue at 9am, saying literally that she's messaging me out of the blue, and that she needs $ 200. She goes on to say how I'm a good person at heart, and she knows I've always got her back.
I send the money (because I legit care about her and because I can spare it, I'm off to a great start in this new role, getting a good commission check in a few weeks). Says I'm the best and that it means a lot to her. I ask if everything's OK, she says yes and no. She's got a couple of doctor's appointments, but states she should be alright (had issues in her back and neck last time we hung out).
Don't know if I'm being played or not, but I tell her I'm just a text or call away if she wants to talk. Weird, I had a sexual dream about her two days ago lol. DXP thoughts?
Posted by FantamRooster
Getting played how? As far as I can tell, she asked for money, no strings attached. You gave her money, no strings attached. Are you expecting something out of it?
Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by GOATActionI sometimes give money to people I care about who are in need if I can afford it. I don't ask what it's for. I don't expect it back, and I don't expect it to buy me any goodwill with them. I honestly think that's the only way to approach it and not get disappointed. Do it because you care, if you want, and try not to ask anything in return.Posted by FantamRooster
Getting played how? As far as I can tell, she asked for money, no strings attached. You gave her money, no strings attached. Are you expecting something out of it?
Maybe just a "hey how are you doing? I was thinking about you..."
All she said was that she'd tell me more later.
I'd also say don't give money to the same person over and over. You might be financing a drug addiction.click to expand
Posted by Fleshpot
Has she been nice to you in the past? More disconcerting to me than the money is the fact that she contacted you out of the blue with a laudatory remark about how great you are, yet giving no explanation as to why she needs the money (and from you of all people??). Sounds manipulative.
But since it's an amount you felt comfortable parting with, the worst that could happen is that you get stiffed and chalk it up to a lesson learned. Maybe those dreams will be gone for good too.
Personally, the only time I would lend a sum of money to someone no questions asked, is if they were an immediate family member or really close friend.
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Caplove
Best get ready for the Nigerian Prince to come at you in your pms.
Srs though, be vigilant if she's asking for more money. It might have been just a one off thing and she really needed the help, but if she has bad intentions and knows you have a soft, kind heart, she'll come around again. And yeah, if you'd like the money back then clarify that it's a loan.
The fact she’s not even clarifying what she needs it for
Makes it suspiciousclick to expand
Posted by RooSagicorn
Either she’s really desperate or knows she can walk on you. Just saying.
Posted by TimonPosted by Jade_AlexanderI'm with you on this. I would never ask an acquaintance for money. I don't even want to ask friends and family. They only time I've seen libras do it is if their intentions aren't the best. When they are selfish and thinking about themselves. The fact that she didn't insist on paying you back when she got the chance makes me think she's just using you. Sorry. Hope I'm wrong.
If you can spare it and you don’t care then it doesn’t matter.
I have had to ask for money before and it was humiliating. I couldn’t imagine texting some dude....click to expand
Posted by TimonPosted by GOATActionWell if it comes from your heart it's never wrong. Only future will tell if she deserved it or not. Hope she values it.Posted by TimonPosted by Jade_AlexanderI'm with you on this. I would never ask an acquaintance for money. I don't even want to ask friends and family. They only time I've seen libras do it is if their intentions aren't the best. When they are selfish and thinking about themselves. The fact that she didn't insist on paying you back when she got the chance makes me think she's just using you. Sorry. Hope I'm wrong.
If you can spare it and you don’t care then it doesn’t matter.
I have had to ask for money before and it was humiliating. I couldn’t imagine texting some dude....
She did say that she'd pay me back. I was the one who said "don't worry about it."
Doing this first and foremost out of my heart. I gave her my word I'd always be there for her, so I don't break my word or duty easily until I see it necessary to do so.click to expand
Posted by FantamRoosterI like to own my shittiness. LolPosted by nikkistarI'm trying to pick my jaw up off the floor. That is quite the confession!
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.click to expand
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Hi I am almost overdue for flea prevention treatment. Can you chip in? I haz Venmo and PayPal. Thanks in advance!
Posted by GOATActionAlways, really? How many $ 200 hand outs will always really be?Posted by TimonPosted by Jade_AlexanderI'm with you on this. I would never ask an acquaintance for money. I don't even want to ask friends and family. They only time I've seen libras do it is if their intentions aren't the best. When they are selfish and thinking about themselves. The fact that she didn't insist on paying you back when she got the chance makes me think she's just using you. Sorry. Hope I'm wrong.
If you can spare it and you don’t care then it doesn’t matter.
I have had to ask for money before and it was humiliating. I couldn’t imagine texting some dude....
She did say that she'd pay me back. I was the one who said "don't worry about it."
Doing this first and foremost out of my heart. I gave her my word I'd always be there for her, so I don't break my word or duty easily until I see it necessary to do so.click to expand
Posted by stillstillwater
@GoatAction bottom line though is that you're a good guy with upstanding character. Hard to find these days! I'm glad you did what you felt was the right thing.
Posted by JanMayMarry
Can you send me $ 1000? I know you're a good person with a good heart.
Please...
Posted by PervertYou're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.Posted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.click to expand
Posted by PervertLOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertYou're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.Posted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.click to expand
Posted by PervertPoor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertYou're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.Posted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.click to expand
Posted by PervertLOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPoor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertYou're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.Posted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.click to expand
Posted by GOATActionWhat kinda romantic history? Did you meet her at the strip club/backpage? Seeking arrangements? Have you given her money in the past? Once a trick, always a trick...js.
This is my Libra female my age I have a little of romantic history with. She texts me out of the blue at 9am, saying literally that she's messaging me out of the blue, and that she needs $ 200.
Posted by PervertI take crypto money now. But you will have to send it to Dave over in Nigeria for me, I am looking to finally get that inheritance from the Prince that's been emailing me!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPoor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertYou're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.Posted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.
LMAO
Damn you are gooood. I am totally sold to wire the money anywhere you like.click to expand
Posted by PervertHow about I give you a pineapple pizza instead? It's about the same worth as your ego.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertI take crypto money now. But you will have to send it to Dave over in Nigeria for me, I am looking to finally get that inheritance from the Prince that's been emailing me!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPoor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertYou're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.Posted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.
LMAO
Damn you are gooood. I am totally sold to wire the money anywhere you like.
All you have to do in return is stroke my ego just like you did above. And all my money is yours.click to expand
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertHow about I give you a pineapple pizza instead? It's about the same worth as your ego.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertI take crypto money now. But you will have to send it to Dave over in Nigeria for me, I am looking to finally get that inheritance from the Prince that's been emailing me!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPoor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertYou're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.Posted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.
LMAO
Damn you are gooood. I am totally sold to wire the money anywhere you like.
All you have to do in return is stroke my ego just like you did above. And all my money is yours.
Just write 'I am the best among all males in the world' and we have a deal.click to expand
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertHow about I give you a pineapple pizza instead? It's about the same worth as your ego.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertI take crypto money now. But you will have to send it to Dave over in Nigeria for me, I am looking to finally get that inheritance from the Prince that's been emailing me!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPoor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertYou're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.Posted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.
LMAO
Damn you are gooood. I am totally sold to wire the money anywhere you like.
All you have to do in return is stroke my ego just like you did above. And all my money is yours.
Just write 'I am the best among all males in the world' and we have a deal.
Admit it honey. I am a great negotiator.click to expand
Posted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPosted by nikkistarPosted by PervertHow about I give you a pineapple pizza instead? It's about the same worth as your ego.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertI take crypto money now. But you will have to send it to Dave over in Nigeria for me, I am looking to finally get that inheritance from the Prince that's been emailing me!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL, totally worked out, didn't it. You're single, instead of being in a relationship that could have potentially been a great thing. But nothing like a little bit of a bruised ego, because "GASP!" how dare a women, reject you! I mean YOU, are such a prime piece of male finery!Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertPoor little boy, doesn't even know what a piece of shit he really is.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertLOL Yup. Cause your wittle bitty ego just couldn't take a wittle bitty girl saying no.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PervertYou're definition of evil, is a mancel's definition. There are assholes like me in this world, that deserve shit, but that Cap? Nah, you just a bitch.Posted by nikkistar
I'm going to fully admit my fucked up antics, simply so the OP has information.
I could blame it on my hades moon. I could blame it on whatever pseudo hurtful event that happened in my life. But at the end of the day, I was just an asshole who subconsciously hated all men up until maybe 3 years ago.
I learned at a pretty young age that there is a sector of men, that I could and would actively easily manipulate for my own benefit. The right words, the right acting, and they would bend over backwards. At the height of my manipulation, I had one guy wiring anywhere from a few hundred to a couple thousand once a month. All using the "meek" routine I had refined.
And yes, I even did this while I was married and separated. They all knew too. I likely punished them for what my exhusband did to me. And yes, I said them, because there was more than one I did this too. I'd also like to say I had remorse in doing it, but I don't. I'm sure if karma exists, I will have something happen to me eventually.
I now know i actively have to make the choice not to be that asshole, but that I am capable of it at any given moment. That I am making the choice to be a better person. That the easy way out, impacts people outside of myself. And above all else, not to be self centric in my wants.
But women can and will use those that are good. Be careful of it. Don't keep falling for the same trap. Don't let assholes like me, change you, or use you.
And never loan out money you NEED back.
Just my 2 cents.
And I am the bad guy for breaking the heart of an evil Capricorn woman.
Lol how funny. So you are the judge now.
Lemme call the wahhhhbulance for you.
Lol as I said she came back to me all in love. Haha. Where is the NO here?
Your humor ain't pissing me off. Do something more nasty.
Lol from where I am looking seems like I am in the power seat. It's like I gave the cap the taste of her own medicine. I am sure it worked.
LMAO
Damn you are gooood. I am totally sold to wire the money anywhere you like.
All you have to do in return is stroke my ego just like you did above. And all my money is yours.
Just write 'I am the best among all males in the world' and we have a deal.
Admit it honey. I am a great negotiator.
You know you want me.click to expand
Posted by Pervert
We should cut the chase and just directly get under the sheets.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GOATActionWhat kinda romantic history? Did you meet her at the strip club/backpage? Seeking arrangements? Have you given her money in the past? Once a trick, always a trick...js.
This is my Libra female my age I have a little of romantic history with. She texts me out of the blue at 9am, saying literally that she's messaging me out of the blue, and that she needs $ 200.click to expand
Posted by GOATActionI wouldn’t trip then. See if she only reaches out to ask you for something. Otherwise no worries.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GOATActionWhat kinda romantic history? Did you meet her at the strip club/backpage? Seeking arrangements? Have you given her money in the past? Once a trick, always a trick...js.
This is my Libra female my age I have a little of romantic history with. She texts me out of the blue at 9am, saying literally that she's messaging me out of the blue, and that she needs $ 200.
We dated, got close. Never given her money. Bought her a gift on X-mas.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GOATActionI wouldn’t trip then. See if she only reaches out to ask you for something. Otherwise no worries.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GOATActionWhat kinda romantic history? Did you meet her at the strip club/backpage? Seeking arrangements? Have you given her money in the past? Once a trick, always a trick...js.
This is my Libra female my age I have a little of romantic history with. She texts me out of the blue at 9am, saying literally that she's messaging me out of the blue, and that she needs $ 200.
We dated, got close. Never given her money. Bought her a gift on X-mas.click to expand
Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by MhmmmThis is what you would think from astrological descriptions, but the Caps I know IRL are actually extremely charitable to their loved ones. I was just talking to one of my best friends (a Cap) this weekend about how she's tired of helping a family member financially.
Cap suns are generally stingy.. That was 100% your moon handing out that money. My husband is a Virgo moon and has helped out exes similarly in the past. It’s that sense of duty. I get it but in all honesty she is probably taking advantage of your good nature.click to expand
Posted by Anomalous
She said "I Kno you are a good person" with "and you always have my back". Both sound like manipulating tactical advances.
If she and you kno these things, why does she have to reinstall it during the text. She should have kept it at she has a medical emergency and needs to borrow 200 units.
Posted by GOATActionYou are a food man! I don’t see why everyone here are bent over $ 200 that you were willing to give without a struggle...Posted by RooSagicorn
Either she’s really desperate or knows she can walk on you. Just saying.
We'll see. I do care about her. Feel like I got a duty to hold, after saying I'd always be there for her.
One time occurrence is an incident, two-time occurrence is a pattern. I'll assume the former until all the evidence points to the latter, but I have no real reason to doubt her yet. But women and Libras can be manipulative...only time will tell.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by GOATActionYou are a food man! I don’t see why everyone here are bent over $ 200 that you were willing to give without a struggle...Posted by RooSagicorn
Either she’s really desperate or knows she can walk on you. Just saying.
We'll see. I do care about her. Feel like I got a duty to hold, after saying I'd always be there for her.
One time occurrence is an incident, two-time occurrence is a pattern. I'll assume the former until all the evidence points to the latter, but I have no real reason to doubt her yet. But women and Libras can be manipulative...only time will tell.
Don’t listen to anybody!
If she never asked and she needed it now - God bless your heart. You don’t seem like you going to feed her again and again. You care about her - you helped her in time of needs...that’s not a subject for huge butthurt discussion!
One thing is I don’t really get is why did you make a thread about it? HERE? Out of all places...
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